does anyone have any suggestions for queer forums/apps that are a bit unknown of, where you can get to know others & just vibe? would love to make some new connections!
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when youre tired on public transit and start thinking "let me rest my eyes a bit" thats the devil talking
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me waiting for my thesis to finish itself
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masturbation is normal
In one of my previous posts, I talked about shame around the vagina. Well, that shame is also heavily placed on vaginal masturbation.
When you think of masturbation, what words come to mind?
For me, it's 'jacking off.' That is the term I learned in middle school for masturbation, but I only knew that boys could do it. I did not know what I was doing when I touched myself, only that it felt good, but I was extremely guilty about it. I thought it was wrong.
It is not.
There are actually many benefits to vaginal masturbation, one being that it increases dopamine. An increase in dopamine is a feeling of great pleasure and satisfaction, a euphoric feeling, even.
Another benefit: practice makes perfect. If partnered sex does not feel good to you, then maybe you should try masturbating. Getting to know your vagina in such an intimate way lets you correlate your vagina with pleasure rather than shame. It also helps you find what kind of stimulation you like, which you can then tell your partner.
A little fun fact: you may even sleep better after orgasming!
Check out this article about the health benefits of masturbation!
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my advice for the youth of today is go to bed at 10pm. literally nothing else matters
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okay so being in your twenties is basically learning to love taylor swift?
I accept that
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One important thing to remember in life: Do not coddle men. Do not do their work for them. Do not perform uncredited labor for them, including intellectual labor. Do not bend over backwards to help them. Do not tell them they are good at things they are bad at. Do not smile at them when you don’t want to. Do not laugh at their terrible jokes or stroke their egos or let them think they are better than you when odds are good that they are almost definitely not. Do not even deal with men whose presence bothers you when you can get away from them/when you aren’t regularly forced to be near them for things like work. Do not include men in your life who don’t deserve to be in it any time that you can avoid it at all.
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