#anti-bi lesbian

[princessefemmelesbian]

Lesbophobes on this site love to act like lesbians’ identity and attraction is something restrictive, rigid, and stifling, a needless limitation that we subject ourselves to, like us only loving women and not loving men is some sort of rule that we’re aggressively forcing upon ourselves and in doing so denying ourselves the right to freedom, with that “freedom” being fucking men. They love to act like we’re forcing ourselves and other lesbians to stick to the majority agreed-upon rule of “not fucking men” and that if one of us does inevitably “decide” to fuck a man, then we’ll be punished by the lesbian cult sisterhood for “being a lesbian wrong” and forced to give up our Dyke Card and be exiled from the community. They love to say “let lesbians fuck men” as if us not fucking men is something we’re unfairly restricting ourselves and each other from doing, because obviously we all must secretly really want to fuck men, we just thought we couldn’t because then the other mean dykes would come for our heads! Won’t someone help out the poor little lesbians who just wanna fuck a man, just once, pretty please?

When in reality, that couldn’t be further from the truth. Lesbophobes can’t wrap their heads around the fact that not everybody genuinely wants a man in their life, and so lesbians must be depriving ourselves of something out of pressure to conform to pure lesbianism. But in reality, it’s not something we’re forcing ourselves to do. We actually do love women and women alone and sincerely don’t want to sleep with men or feel any attraction towards them. Us not sleeping with men isn’t some sort of self-inflicted punishment, in fact, quite the contrary. We’re happy to not be attracted to men, happy to not sleep with them, happy to not have an identity that includes or centers men and their pleasure.

For us lesbians, it’s actually being with men that would feel like a punishment, like something being forced upon us to conform to the right ideals, like something we don’t want to do but feel like we have no choice but to anyway. And many of us have been in situations like this, where we forced ourselves to like, be with, put up with, or sleep with men. And now that we’re not doing that anymore, we are freer and happier than we’ve ever been! Our “attraction” to men or romantic/sexual involvement with men was the burden, not the lack of it.

Lesbophobes always act like we’re missing out on some great and wonderful thing because who wouldn’t want to like men? Who would deprive ourselves of the joy of having men? But us lesbians would rather not be involved with men in any way, and that’s exactly how we like it. It’s natural for us. Not something we have to do or are forbidden from doing. Nobody’s “enforcing” the rule on us that we can’t like men or else(in fact, it’s quite the opposite, we get the message from everyone else that we have to like men and give them a chance or else, and Tumblr is no different.). We simply don’t desire men, we don’t WANT to desire men, and instead desire other women/non-binary sapphics exclusively, and we’re perfectly happy being that way, thank you very much. 😇

TLDR: Lesbophobes on Tumblr love to act like us lesbians are pressuring ourselves to abide by a rigid, strict set of "rules" that force us to distance ourselves from men and never, ever, sleep with them as much as we "want" to(because obviously all women crave men deep down, even the lesbians!) because they can't comprehend the idea of anyone not seeing men as desirable or centering them in our attraction, and so they think we're shutting ourselves off from men and holding ourselves to impossible standards(as if no one can truly NOT like men, sexuality is fluid y'all!), when in reality lesbians are simply naturally only attracted to women and enjoy not being attracted to men; we find not needing a man to be fulfilled legitimately liberating and relaxing for us, and we certainly don't want to sleep with one, so don't you dare try to tell us otherwise.

Derail and disagree with this and you’ll get hit by a car.

#lesbian #lesbophobia #anti-bi lesbian #anti-mspec lesbian #anti-lesboy #comphet #tw corrective rape #op

[thisismisogynoir]

Bi “lesbians” this is what y’all sound like. 🤡

#lesbian #lesbophobia #anti-bi lesbian #anti-mspec lesbian #bi lesbians dni #mspec lesbians dni #’yes i’m a lesbian yes i like fucking men we exist’ fuck off with that noise #bi lesbians FUCK OFF or you WILL be blocked xoxo

[justanisabelakinnie]

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What the hell...

I'm sorry you had to face those idioot who can't understand what lesbian mean.

You're better off without them, that's for sure.

I would be real freaking angry if someone told me lesbian can be attracted to men

Like no, that's the freaking point, we don't like men!

Imagine being so mysogynist that you can't understand women don't need men to fall in love....

Yeah, they're just stupid

Have a great day !

Exactly. It’s literally just centering men. I’m sick of people trying so hard to force men into an identity that, at its core, doesn’t involve them. And yet here we are. You never see them doing this to gay men lol, literally only women, because you’re allowed to center men in your sexuality but women.

Don’t fucking tell me I’m bi. I’m not. I’m a lesbian.

Bi lesbians do not exist. Get over it.

#lesbian #lesbophobia #biphobia #anti-bi lesbian #anti-mspec lesbian #bi lesbians dni #mspec lesbians dni #touch grass lol #dirus-works

[thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra]

what happened

#max squawks #anti gatekeeping #anti exclusionist #anti exclus #critinclus #anti transmedicalism #anti transmed #anti truscum #bi lesbian #mspec mono

[thebestestdancers]

if you think i am going to care abt mens opinions on lesbianism please consider:

killing yourself is faster and has a more positive effect on society

i have three (3) weed smoking girlfriends to fuck rather than waste time on your essays about how men are oppressed or whatever

yes im a mean nasty bitchy exclusie im sorry that trans men arent magically also lesbians the afab connection is meaningless to me :( sorry for not buying into bioessentialism i guess

if you arent a lesbian you should be embarrassed #skilldiff #gws

in order to comment defending your points in including men in a community of women* who are exclusively attracted to other women* you must first go to my pinned post and open that kofi link and send a minimum of 3 dollars. if u send more than 10 ill even deign to read your essay to make fun of you before blocking and moving on w my day. 😁👍

[hussyknee]

One thing you have to remember is that online queer discourse doesn't make a damn bit of difference to systemic queerphobia irl or LGBT rights. No amount of playing respectability politics by identifying the "real freaks" will ever lead to sexual emancipation or prevent sexual violence. No amount of trying to identify and cast out "oppressors" and "infiltrators" will ever make homophobes and transphobes respect the sanctity of your sexual identity. Not letting people have words and flags and colours is absolutely nothing except a weapon for online harrassment and clout-chasing wielded by white and Western weirdos who've drunk the colonizer Kool-Aid.

#queer discourse #gatekeeping #bi lesbian #pan lesbian #pansexuality #aphobia #arophobia #transandrophobia #mspec lesbian #online harrassment #respectability politics #purity culture #kinkphobia #western leftists #white queers #anti radfem #lgbtqia #knee of huss

[gnometa233]

"The line between butch lesbians and trans men has been transparent" Oh so some of yall are just saying the quiet part out loud huh? Yall really just see butch lesbians as "man lite" and trans men as "not real men".

#literally just saw someone saying this #yall have no respect for butches or trans man #anti male lesbian #anti bi lesbian #anti trans man lesbian #queer discourse #lesbian #trans

[whereserpentswalk]

I'm not lgbt in the sense of "Jesus would have accepted gay people too." I'm queer in the sense of "if God hates faggots then I'm on the side of Satan."

#196 #anti christianity #anti Christian #fuck christianity #christanity #queer community #queer theory #queerness #queer liberation #lgbt #satan #satanic #queer christian #fuck the church #chrsitianity #lgbtqia #lgbtq #gay #lesbians #lesbian #homosexual #homophobia #non bianry #bisexuality #bisexual #bi #enby #trans rights #trans

[faggy--butch]

It's really sad when I see other lesbians share a post from someone that comes off... mmm suspiscious, and then I look into said persons blog (oop) and they got tme in the bio, sharing other posts about how trans men benefit from the patriarchy, and using the term transandrodork. ladies, you can't be a trans ally if you're not an ally to trans men.

#transandrophobia #lesbian #masc lesbian #wlw #sapphic #butch #it was also anti bi lesbian so fuck that

[princessefemmelesbian]

This sad spineless little bitch made this post and then blocked me. Guess they can't handle the truth. 🤣

Love how you assume I'm a terf just because I'm a(true) lesbian. If you went through my blog for even a second you'd know that's not the case. But I'm not surprised that a bi lesbian is throwing that word around and not knowing what it means.

You also don't seem to know what homophobic means either lol. You're not gonna guilt trip actual lesbians into saying we like cis dick. Are those lesbians in the room with us right now?

Anyway go back to your lesbophobic troll cave and die there.

P.S. your boyfriend is a creep. ✌🏿

#lesbian #blocklist #anti-bi lesbian #anti-mspec lesbian #also calling lesbian a LIFESTYLE WOW #also that's not what the one drop rule means #if you're not black then why are you even using that term in this instance shut the fuck up

[thisismisogynoir]

#lesbian #polls #this includes trans/nb lesbians as well as aro/ace lesbians #but it does NOT include mspec/bi/straight/male “lesbians” #shouldn’t have to say this because it should be pretty obvious but there ya go #bi lesbians dni #mspec lesbians dni #anti-bi lesbian #anti-mspec lesbian #comphet

[honeylemony]

Is it important to you to identify with labels that reflect your experience?

Then consider how it is also important to lesbians to be able to have a word that describes our experience- one that is not changed to mean other things or made to include experiences that are directly antithetical to ours.

Lesbian is lesbian. It is not bisexual, it is not pansexual. It is lesbian.

#lesbians #gay #lesbian #lgbt #bi #anti bi lesbian #anti pan lesbian

[thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra]

posting this on it's own

#max squawks #critinclus #mspec mono #mspec lesbian #mspec gay #mspec straight #bi straight #bi gay #bi lesbian #sam #split attraction model #anti exclusionist #anti exclus #anti exclusionism #contrapunk #contradictory labels #heteroromantic homosexual #homoromantic heterosexual

[dyketubbo]

lesbian related discourse tires me out sm. first it was aro/ace lesbians then it was nonbinary lesbians then it was he/him lesbians and it/its lesbians and now its bi/pan/mspec lesbians like when are all of you going to realize that the lesbian experience is extremely diverse and has never been as strict as "women who only identify as women who love exclusively women who only identify as women". like this goes for many identities but lesbians end up at the forefront a lot and it makes me wonder if any of you actually give a shit about queer history because istg lesbian separatism has been reinvented like 50 times in the past decade.

stop convincing each other that the queer experience is nothing but strictly defined boxes and labels that can always be condensed into one sentence. lesbians can experience a lack of sexual attraction and a lack of romantic attraction and lesbians can be nonbinary and lesbians can be gnc and when you actually go into what those last two mean you should realize that yes this means sometimes lesbians are men because genderfluid and bigender and trigender and transmasc and whatever gender lesbians exist and when you actually goes into what THAT means you should realize yes actually people combining labels like mspec and lesbian makes perfect sense because of fucking course orientation and gender and whatever else you consider to be apart of your queer experience is all fluid its all up to personal interpretation

its not shit like bi lesbians or mogai or aroace people or gnc people or "trenders" or it/its users or whatever fucking bonafide weirdos that are ruining the community its the people who want to sort everyone into neat little boxes because they cant handle that sometimes you arent going to understand other peoples experiences. its fine if mspec lesbians dont make sense to you. its fine if it doesnt make sense to you how someone could use it/its, if it doesnt make sense how a lesbian could consider himself transmasc, if it doesnt make sense how someone could seriously mean "my gender feels like a star", if whatever queer experience you run into doesnt make sense.

someone's identity does not have to make sense for you to respect them as a person and realize that exclusionary behavior is nothing but a crabs in a bucket type mentality. not only have "weird" queer people existed since fucking forever, but even if they didnt the human experience is diverse and we still dont know everything about the world and why the fuck would you decide that no actually if it cant be understood it must be bad and you need to find out reasons for it to be bad. focus on the people who are actively hurting others, taking advantage of vulnerable people, dont become one of them. dont become one of the people who scorns anything they dont understand and hurts innocent people in the quest of getting rid of anyone who they deem is abnormal. its fucked up and being any type of exclusionist is fucked up.

bi lesbians, as an overall community, is just a bunch of people who decided that a complicated label fits their complicated attraction and thats Fine. it is literally fine. being a lesbian was never about being strictly a woman who strictly loves other women who are strictly women. its about loving women in a gay/queer way, whatever that means for the individual. if an individual person is using it in a transphobic way, then thats a fault of the person, not the label. but at its core, all the identity is about is about recognizing that attraction is complicated and identity is complicated and not everyone is comfortable putting themself in neat boxes for other people to scrutinize until they Get It.

to any mspec lesbians (and hell, any mspec gays) who are reading this: im proud of you and theres nothing wrong with recognizing that your identity is complicated and maybe even contradictory. its Your experiences and no one has the right to say that youre inherently a bad person simply because they heard some strawman arguments and decided to believe in fallacy over reality. and because its probably obvious why im making this yeah maia arson crimew is literally fine its an absolute legend actually and i hope that its okay. fuck anyone who was a piece of shit to it because they cant handle someone being openly complicated and contradictory and unabashedly "Weird"

#mask mews #bi lesbian #mspec lesbian #lesbian #only putting it on this blog because i want everyone who follows me here to know my stance #before any mcyt antis or whatever bother me i want dream dead and i hate schlatt dont bother me i just like roleplay #a lot of this blog is made up of me criticizing a lot of these creators do not even try me. thx xoxo

[everyponie]

"anti good faith identities" do you know how insane you sound

#lesboy #good faith identity #bi lesbian #lesbian #queer #gay #inclus #exclus #anti lesboy #anti mspec lesbian #mspec lesbian #mspec #turigirl

[gray-ace-space]

#send me glitter text requests #og post #aes #positivity #anti exclus #bi lesbian #bi #lesbian #mspec lesbian #queer #glitter text #bi lesbian positivity #inclusionist #rad inclus #bisexual lesbian #lgbtq #lgbt #lgbtq+ #mogai #gifs