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cowboy-butch-blues · 10 months

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hi I'm Jerome! (he/him)

about me:

I am a 22 year old disabled autistic polyam butch dyke.

I express my gender through punk, cowboys and my love for the southwest.

I love sex/gender theory and I plan on becoming a sex educator/sex therapist

my femme is @unfortunate-teller and she is a cutie

I am butch4all and a big flirt feel free to DM me anytime (no unsolicited nudes or freaky shit without my consent obvi)

freaks, fags, dykes, and trans people please interact

BYF YOU MUST HAVE YOUR AGE IN BIO

This blog is dedicated to sex education, sex theory, sex positivity, kink, disability advocacy, anti racism, anticolonialism, antifatphobia and anticapitalism through the lense of a butch lesbian. This means my blog is 18+ ONLY. Please double check that your age is in your bio before you interact or I will block you. no exceptions.

I reserve the right to block anyone

you can follow my personal blog here: @l4dybugb0y

you can follow my art blog here:

@sunboycreations

you can follow my nsfw blog (must be 20+): @puppy-dog-butch

tags I use:

dyke posting - stuff I relate to and/or agree with

my darling - posts for my femme

femmes✨- talking about femmes

butches✨- talking about butches

kink talk - nsfw posts about kink

sex ed - sex ed ofc

sex - stuff about sex

resources - posts with links to articles, petitions, zines, etc.

cowboy thoughts - yeah I like cowboys so cowboy tag

cripplepunk - posts about disability and advocating for accessibility

I also occasionally tag things based off the topic if I think it's important

minors, cishets and TERFs do not interact

#butch lesbian #butch pride #lgbt #queer #dyke #dyke posting #kink talk #butch4all #butch4butch #butch4stud #butch4femme

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catnpc · 9 months

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Being mad that people put in the effort to become healthier and masking ur jealousy and insecurity under the guise of antifatphobia and leftism. People want to share before and after pics because it is genuinely hard in the same way if you learned how to knit very well or something like that you may want to show a progression of you from the beginning and where you have improved to. What if someone said you shouldn’t show that because it is celebrating able-bodies. Like there is a lot to criticize about fitness culture online but people simply posting their progress is not one of those things

>implies being skinny/muscular is "healthier" >thinks i should congratulate people on something just because it's "hard" no matter what ?? yeah im not taking this ask seriously. Send them to the dungeons

#🚏inbox #ridiculous ask #fatphobia

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crazgreenenvy · 2 years

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Fat People Exist

The problem with existing on both Twitter and Tumblr is sometimes you see some shit on twitter that you’re like ‘aw hell no Tumblr would throw hands’ but you can’t just like.... call out your tumblr mutuals to come an fix a problem. Case in point the fatphobia vs antifatphobia trending discussion on twitter. Some of the shit being said over there was just horrible - it was conflating eating disorders with LGBTQ rights, LGBTQ rights with fat rights and just making a horrible show of the worst of three sects of ideas.

Something that was said many a time during the whole debate is that being deathly afraid of becoming fat can be a symptom of your eating disorder, but making fat people feel like shit simply for existing as fat people is fatphobia and is just you being a bad person. Your internalized fatphobia, like internalized transphobia, internalized misogyny, etc, are not hurting anyone else but yourself. That’s a psychological issue that you can work out by learning to love yourself and see past what soicety has pushed out for decadeds; however the moment you start using those things to fuck with other peopl- nah fam. That ain’t ok.

Issues like this bother me for a number of reasons. I’ve always been fat, but I didn’t always describe myself as such. I used to have words to dance around the subject like ‘curvy’ and ‘plump’ and ‘big girl’ etc, etc. But recently, when I started my own journey of healing and self love (which make me want to barf to even type let alone say out loud) I realized that most of my issues with skirting around the word ‘fat’ came from the fatphobia of my parents and of society. I hated myself because I felt unworthy to live in a world of ‘nomal’ people when I was ‘not normal’. Seem familiar? Here’s the overlap between LGBTQ issues and fat issues. We face similar stigmas for not ‘blending in with conventional society’. We’re also discriminated against for looking different, whether it is outwardly Queer or outwardly fat, and a lot of times we all just desperately want to pass- at least until we start accepting ourselves.

SO LET’S TALK ABOUT ACCEPTANCE.

What we don’t talk about is how very few people choose to be fat. Like I said, I have ALWAYS been fat. We sidestep the issue when talking about children by saying they’re ‘carrying around their baby fat’ but let’s be real- the baby fat is gone by age 10. After that it’s genetics and lemme tell you! Genetics are a BITCH. They don’t care what society has to say about your body. They are gonna cause you to grown the way they are programmed. So when I hit 10 and was constantly told I’m ‘overweight’ what do you think the solution was? Was it to monitor my food and come up with a plan to limit excess intake and create a healthy weight gain trend (again I was a child so I need to be gaining weight)? Of course not! My parents with all of their fatphobia put me on super restrictive diets to the point of starving me. Should 10 year olds who are ‘overweight’ due to genetics be forced to lose weight? I don’t think so. I think there’s something to be said about healthy eating habits and recognizing the nourishing value of certain foods over others- but that’s not what our society is about. Our society punishes those who fall outside the norm. Bam suddenly I’m on a 20 year journey of self-hatred and restrictive dieting that sees me losing 20lbs in 2 weeks only to gain back 40. Over...and over... and over. And that is the thing fatphobes won’t tell you. It’s not about your health- they don’t care about you living to be 100 or running a marathon- it’s about making you feel bad about shit you don’t control. When the statistics tell you that people who lose weight overwhelmingly gain it back, plus some extra, fatphobes will say ‘they gained it back because they’re lazy’. When modern medicine tells us that people who live their lives dieting and going through weight swings are more prone to heart problems than those who just stay fat and don’t diet, fatphobes will be silent. It’s not about health. It’s about punishment, guilt, and control. And fuck that.

And don’t even get me started on fatphobia in medicine, the interplay between fatness and Blackness, or fatness and Queerness, it’s just a goddamn can or worms. A rabbit hole of absolute shit. Fatphobia is shit. Fatphobes are shit.

I’m fat. Periodt. I’ve always been fat. I’ll always be fat. And I can catch dick and puss whenever I want. Why? Because I am more than a number on a scale, my dudes. And so are you. I can’t talk about eating disorders more than my personal experience with them, but they change how you see yourself, much like depression and anxiety. It’s an issue of mental health- when those issues take root outside the personal and start affecting the interpersonal they become more than just destructive. If you find yourself struggling with internalized fatphobia and unhealthy eating I encourage you to seek help! Because you are worthy of love and acceptance.

I can’t talk much more about interactions with fatphobes because since the day I realized I will NEVER be happy if I cater to a society that doesn’t appreciate me and tries to change me to the detriment of my healthy and my psyche, I make it clear in my very presence that my fatness is my business. Not yours. I take up space (*sometimes apologetically), I eat food that I like. I drink and I party and I live my goddamn life because I am ALIVE and if I was skinny, buff, round or square I will die and be buried one day, so my fat and my body are gonna LIVE goddammit.

Where was I going with this.

If a person says they are a fatphobe (and let’s be honest they won’t, but they’ll give it away somehow even if they don’t just come out and say it Twitter style) make it clear where you stand. That you don’t care what they have to say about you. Maybe you want to be thin and you’ve always been fat- THAT’S OKAY. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to craft your ideal body so long as you do it in a healthy manner. People don’t go chopping their tits off with butcher knives, so don’t start starving yourself to lose 10lbs before a wedding. It’s dangerous and creates bad habits that are very hard to break. Always seek weight loss or gain advice from a medical professional. And make sure they’re not a fatphobe. Anyone who congratulates you when you lose weight- without asking first if that’s what you wanted- is harboring some internal fatphobia. Talk about it. Fat people aren’t going anywhere. We here, y’all. We are the descendants of the peasants who ran from the invaders and learned to get as much nourishment as possible out of one grain of wheat- beware us.

Also, stop buying clothes with the intent to fit into them ‘one day’. That’s just a poor investment. Clothes you can’t wear don’t make you happy. Food you can’t eat won’t make you happy. Games you can’t play won’t make you happy. People who can’t accept you will not make you happy.

Ok I think I’m done.

#fatandhappy #fatphobes #fuck fatphobia #fatphobia in medicine #disordered eating TW #fatness #get over it #don't come for me #also I may be fat but I'll fuckin wreck you dude like don't try to step to me gonna catch these fatass hands #also let dudes be fat #not just for women #fatandfree #twitter discourse #I rant here because if I rant on twitter my colleagues will see

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quashstigma · 3 years

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I think “recovery burnout” is real. I think it’s important to be kind to yourself if your feeling it. Use that self kindness tool kit. Recovery doesn’t always look like massive changes everyday. Often it’s boring, but for the days it’s not boring and you’re fighting to be in recovery it’s important to put the work in. Acknowledging it’s boring, tiring is ok. #hypothalamicamenorrhearecovery #hypothalamicamenorrhea #eatingdisorderrecovery #edrecovery #edwarriors #anorexianervosarecovery #anorexiafighter #anorexiarecovery #bulimiarecovery #bulimierecovery #fuckdietculture #fuckdiet #antifatphobia #fuckeatingdisorders #fuckana #fuckbulimia #fuckanorexianervosa #atypicalanorexia #atypicalanorexiarecovery #atypicalanorexianervosa #bingeeatingrecovery #bingeeatingdisorderrecovery #healthateverysizemovement #haes, #burnoutrecovery #edrecoveryburnout, #selfkindnessmatters #selfkindness #selfcompassionjourney https://www.instagram.com/p/COEWUW_pI69/?igshid=1ixft69vjmm2w

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sweatysewerrat · 4 years

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#rabies #antifatphobia #rabiesisvalid

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anarchofeedism · 2 years

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fat-future utopia thing (?)

"it's your big day," someone coos, "very big..."

you're turning 21. you've been waiting for this day for years, ever since you were accepted into the university fattening program, where your mind and body labored for years through nutrition theory and entire nutella jars eaten in study sessions, writing essays over plates and plates of creme-filled eclairs, cracking open textbooks as much as popping buttons off your tightening pants. youre thesising on the history of antifatphobia laws: a weird, strange concept that was helpful when they were needed, but feel like an archaic remnant of the past. A past when fat was undesirable, grounds for prejudice.

now, as your program attests, fat is no longer seen as a blemish, but a marker of beautiful, natural diversity.

Of course, accepting this "natural" diversity meant people stopped caring about their waistlines over time, and many who had been fighting diets all their lives let their body reach their set points: sometimes, hundreds of pounds heavier than when they started. they dont seem to mind.

you're a fatty, you always have been, with a childhood pudginess you cant escape. but your college fattening program was taking the deep-dive: for those who wanted to get fatter to extreme extents or at extreme rates.

it was incredible: although you know you always envied the professional fatties— people so big they earn a living off modelling or acting, with teams of several overvigilant assistants fetching huge Starbucks drinks, ordering fast food, and massaging/washing/oiling their master's quaking rolls of flesh—you decided it was your destiny to join their ranks.

majoring in fattening means you need to gain at least 10 lbs per semester to stay in the program: in other words, graduating a minimum of 80 pounds heavier than when you entered. And thats not counting the piece de resistance of your studies: a chance in the fattening machine.

The fattening machine is a pod, like an upright tanning booth. you're strapped inside and it calculates the amount of rapid weight-gain shake and medication can be administered in the selected unit of time. Depending on the user's metabolism, the machine can add ten to thirty pounds onto the user's frame. you get 24 hours inside, at whatever pace you choose, but only once.

you have looked forward to this: fattening school graduates proudly flaunt not only the thick chub theyve gained passively over the years, but the notorious "pod paunch"— the final whallop of anywhere from a 75 to 450 pounds.

some professors regarded it as cheating, but it was only for senior who were mostly done with the program anyways: looking to increase their employment opportunities by getting as heavy as possible. stretch marks, too, were a bonus, the coveted tiger stripes that show how fast you got fat.

and you could choose where the fat goes: you calculated it: you want an additional 250 lbs, and you input the commands to administer this weight in your thighs (25 lbs), arms (25 lbs), ass (50 lbs) and belly (150 lbs). but you took your time scrolling through all the simulations, all the fatter versions of yourself: one with a huge pear shape body with thundering thighs, another with soft, hairless chub all over you, another-- if you slide the poundage for belly all the way up to 250-- gives you a red error message and suggests you would immediately become bedbound when incumbered with a gut of that size.

you enter the machine as it closes behind you and straps you in. you feel the pinch of body fat calibers on your upper arm and you start thinking about how much more it'll be able to grab onto in 24 hours. A tube descends from the pod's ceiling and lowers itself to be in line with your mouth. you reach out to it with your mouth and tongue, start suckling on it, and drift to sleep as you enter its mindlessly-suckling, fattening suspended animation that you know youll only wake up from when youre 250 lbs heavier with a 150-lb gut...

#text #johnny talks #johnny.txt #johnny writes #bhm wg #weight gain kink #a fatter future #aff

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fat-cat-cathy · 3 years

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This woman unlocked the secret to gaining 140 pounds

Cathy had decided to stop pretending she was ever meant to be thin. She quit starving herself with fear-dieting, and was on the brink of fat-saturated implants and Brazilian butt boosts when she found a natural way to gain weight...

#adbusting #antifatphobia #fantasy #newme #openlyBBW #fatpositivity #sizePride

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findlgbtqfriends · 5 years

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Hey, I'm potato mom !

Okay so firstly hi ! Here are a few things about me :

I'm siriusly a potterhead, or in general, a nerd

I'm currently writing a huge story with my lil sis

I'M A GAY POTATO

They/she pronouns, rarely he

Not comfortable talking to cisgender boys sorry guys ><

I'm currently 18

I'm from France, the south exactly

I'm vegatarian, an intersectional feminist, queer, antiracist, antifatphobia, etc, just against any type of discriminations.

Sorry for my english btw ><

I think that's all, have lots of fun folks !

Oh, you can reach me either on instagram (mama_is_positive) or here, on tumblr t-j-r-j.

Love uuuu

#Pen-pals #Friends in your city #17 to 19 #Lesbian #Queer #submission

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quashstigma · 3 years

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When we are in the throes of an eating disorder, the inner critic can be so unkind, tearing us to shreds for what we have/ haven’t eaten bla bla. One sentence I find really helpful at times where the ED voice/ inner critic has room to start: “THE END” I use this sentence to help me go about my day, to tell the voice it has no place here. Example: I just ate chocolate. “THE END”. I rested today. THE END I ate more than I planned. THE END. There does not need to be any further judgement/ questioning. If I’m struggling using this sentence can help me move forward. THE END. #edrecovery #eatingdisorderrecovery #livedexperience #eatingdisorderecovery #anorexiafighter #anorexianervosarecovery #atypicalanorexiarecovery #bingeatingrecovery #bulimiarecovery #bulimiafighter #orthorexiarecovery #osfedrecovery #ednosrecovery #mentalhealthrecovery #ditchdietculture #hypothalamicamenorrhearecovery #fuckanorexia #fuckanorexianervosa #fuckeatingdisorders #antifatphobia #antidietproject #antidietculture https://www.instagram.com/p/CS2pZ3Ph1O0/?utm_medium=tumblr

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