#being cheated on

[inmyperfectworld]

✉️ A message those that have been cheated on after giving a relationship their all✉️:

Don't question yourself and the type of person that you are. Don't even ask yourself or them, "Why her?", "Why him?", "What could I have done to prevent them cheating on me?"

When a person cheats on you, it has NOTHING to do with you or what you did or didn't do. It has everything to do with them and the fact that they haven't dealt with their trauma, insecurities, and/or the fact that they haven't matured.

There's nothing that you can do to prevent anyone from cheating on you. It sucks, but it's the truth. So, when you do decide to go into another relationship, keep this in mind. And when you do experience this and have this mindset, it will also make the process of moving on/healing a little easier too. 🤍

#black tumblr #relationships #heartbreak #cheated on #cheating #cheated #harsh truth #my thoughts #words you need to hear #my words #the truth #facts #emotional words #random thoughts #real life #reality #feelings #being cheated on #relationship #heartache

[kissofthemorningsun]

I wish I would have chosen me instead of fulfilling all your needs.

#codependent #toxic behavior #toxic attraction #toxic relationship #toxic #realisation #choose yourself #be stronger #heartbreak #gaslighters #love bombing #being used #being cheated on #A.

[dez-poetry]

I wish I didn’t remember every moment on the nights with you…

#zach bryan #i remember everything #lyrics #country music #song lyrics #chorus #breakups #relationships #he was everything he promised not to be #being cheated on #being lied to #ladies man #good for him #bad for me

[mental-health-advice]

Hi, i’ve been needing some advice so I download tumbler to see if I could find any here. I am & have been struggling with my mental & emotional health after I was cheated on late last year. I have tired everything to help me heal. I cannot seem to find anything that’s helped. I do not know how to cope with the betrayal in a healthy way at all. I forgave him & decided to give him a second chance. We have been trying to better ourselves & our relationship. But I just can’t move on from what happened. It constantly haunts me & im constantly dealing with many emotions at 1 time. I am still very much hurt & we have talked about the situation a hundred times. I get in my feelings often about it & just don’t know what to do with these feelings when they come up. I feel very little & worthless sometimes. I feel embarrassed because of the things I feel about the other woman. She is constantly on my mind & I am constantly comparing myself to her. I lost any & all self esteem I had because of this & it has made me very insecure. I don’t know how to make my mind stop these thoughts. I love him & I know he has been trying to change, but the betrayal was so deep to me I don’t know if i’ll ever be able to trust him again, even though I want to. I’m not sure what to do anymore. If you have any advice I would be very grateful to hear it.

Hey there,

Being cheated on must have been really hard for you, as it would be on anyone. Consequently, it only makes sense that it has affected both your mental and emotional health!

When someone has cheated on you it can be really hard to mend the damage that has been caused and especially for the one that was cheated on. It sounds like that both you and your partner have been trying so hard to mend this damage that was caused and to strengthen your ties with each other to make a better and more stronger relationship. This is really good work and it shows how much you both love each other and this is also clearly evident in the fact you trying to talk through what happened, how it made you feel and all the emotions that came out from him cheating on you.

With all this being said though, and the fact that you mentioned that you still don’t know if you will be ever able to trust him again, is it worth to keep working on your relationship with him?

You mentioned that the betrayal he inflicted on you was very deep and without me telling you what to do, I am concerned about the reasons why he did cheat on you in the first place and why he so badly wants to fix the relationship with you? For example, does he feel guilty and bad and so consequently doesn’t want to hurt you anymore and so feels if you both work through the betrayal then he won’t hurt you anymore, that in a way he may be able to pretend like he never cheated on you to begin with? No one can ever know the answers to these things but what I do know is that you shouldn’t stay in the relationship if you don’t feel able to trust him, are not happy in the relationship and are feeling so insecure that you keep comparing yourself to the other woman.

In the end, the choice you make, whether you stay in the relationship with him and keep working on fixing things with him or not is completely up to you. Don’t let him influence your decision though, this is about you, not him, try to take him out of the equation and focus on you and what would make you happy again.

I know that this isn’t a clear-cut answer for what you should do but I do hope it has raised some points for you to think about to help decide what would be best for you to do and please do let us know if we can help to support you in any other way!

I’m thinking of you and hope that you are going well!

Take care,

Lauren

#mha-lauren #advice #advice blog #mental health advice #anonymous #being cheated on #relationship #trust #feeling in secure

[brood-mother]

i legalised gay marriage in ck3 and this absolute #girlboss married herself, truly iconic behaviour 

#lads is being an adulterous athletic flagellating bisexual poet literal queen behaviour? #crusader kings 3 #she's adulterous bc she cheated on herself :(

[ghostqiu]

mammon in the whb style 😈

#quick doodle bc i gotta make up for all my cheating 🙏 #imagine being sandwiched between both om mammon and whb mammon…. #obey me #obey me shall we date #omswd #mammon #omswd mammon #mammon x mc #whb #what in hell is bad

[lunarin64art]

Day 6: AU

Scott Pilgrim if it was good

Anyway, I find it really cute how protective Wallace is over Scott when it comes to Envy. He'd definitely want to rub it in her face if he ever ended up dating Scott in the future.

#scott pilgrims precious little life #scott pilgrim vs the world #scott pilgrim #wallace wells #envy adams #scollace #scollace week 2023 #I'm specifically basing this on the ver of Envy who matured after being cheated on by Todd #so like vol6 or after #Envy would just say she's happy for them #leaving both Scott and Wallace confused #to which she'd tell them to grow up lol

[blitheringbongus]

Personally I think they’d be cute

#BEEN shipping them for over a year I thinkkk?? #gods I wish the bachelors were polyamourous so I could marry both Harvey and Shane without it being immoral #I care a LOT about the feelings if these fictional pixel men I could NEVER cheat on either #my art #queued #sdv #stardew valley #sdv fanart #stardew fanart #stardew #stardew vally #sdv harvey #stardew harvey #sdv shane #stardew shane #sdv harvey fanart #sdv shane fanart #stardew harvey fanart #stardew shane fanart #shane x harvey #harvey x shane #sharvey #hane #??? I don’t think these guys even have ship names- #oh well #they’re in LOVE in my HEART #pickled peppers #dr pepper

[ew-selfish-art]

DpxDc AU - If his parents are going to treat him like a punk, he might as well lean into it. 

Danny is getting seriously worn down by his parents constantly asking him to explain why he’s gone all the time and why his grades have slipped so far. I mean, sure, it took them months to notice, but now that they have, they’re alluding to the fact that he’s turned into some kind of punk and that he’s not taking life as seriously as he should be. This is what makes Danny kind of snap. 

He cuts his hair, gets Sam to pierce his ears in a few places (which sucked but was nice to catch up with her since Team Phantom didn’t get out much anymore), learns how to skateboard and gets Tuck to help him mask his identity on the internet as he begins online protesting the unethical treatment of ghosts. He makes picket signs that he leaves outside of Fentonworks and it takes days before his parents see them because they’re down in the lab. They go back up immediately after his parents take them down, and he begins tagging buildings with protest sayings and art all over amity park.

No matter how they ground him, the Drs Fenton are at a loss as to what to do to control Danny. Jazz says it’s not her place to interfere and is cheering her little brother on for being passionate about a new hobby. 

Danny’s honestly really vibing with the changes. He always understood why Sam wanted control over her own look, but he’s really leaning into the whole shebang. Ember and Johnny13 have never bonded over anything more than they have the punk transformation of their King. He’s really representing them fr fr- she taught him how to play the bass. 

With enough protests about the Anti-Ecto acts, the JL step in and begin their efforts to lobby change within the US government. Constantine is up to date on the new King being from Earth and thinks they might be able to weasel out a non-apocalyptic scenario if they reach out sooner than later. A letter gets sent through the infinite realms (No way in fuck was John going to try and summon a fucking King excuse you Bats)- Danny gets the letter and decides to let them sweat a bit, sending back his own letter that just says “K.” cause he’s learned that adults/authority figures all suck ass until proven otherwise. After a few days, a portal opens up in the middle of their meeting. 

Ghost King Phantom is rolling in on a skateboard, with the Ring of rage dangling from one of his ear piercings and ice crown floating above his head. He’s drinking an off brand smoothie, wearing a leather jacket that has medieval chainmail on it over his now distressed hazmat suit and his boots steel toed.

“...Sup. Y’all want to do something about this whole situation? I’m an all or nothing kind of guy.” Danny greets them. He means that he’s willing to be diligent in his efforts to disbar the Acts. It gets interpreted as him threatening to end the world, ofc, but that’s an issue he has to deal with later. 

“King Phantom we have been working daily to-” 

“Uh huh. Look, didn’t you guys have like a teenage group? I want to work with them, they’ll probably actually help me get shit done while you fuck around with paper work.” 

#the most punk thing you can do is protest #dcxdp #dpxdc #dp x dc #dc x dp #dc crossover #dp crossover #danny phantom #dc universe #young justice crossover #danny doesnt want to work with the authorities but is willing to work with YJ #Tim drake gets a new skateboarding buddy #danny's skateboard is kind of cheating tho cause he and it can float #kon is always down to take down a government sponsored org that does unethical research #cassie just wants to fight for him and fix his fashion choices #bart recognizes him from the speedforce and they bond over time being a fake ass bitch #i just wanted the funny visual of danny skateboarding into a meeting on the watchtower

[batfamhyperfixation]

Jason: the Batfam member I see most as my brother is Tim

Dick: What!!! That's no fair, I should be your brotherly-ist brother!

Dick: No offense Timmy.

Dick, turning back to Jason: But I am the one who has been your brother longest, I helped you kill that druglord, I even gave you some of my cookie dough last week!

Bruce: uhhh, back to the druglord thing-

Steph: You shared your cookie dough with him!

Jason: Sorry Dick, but there is one thing that makes you brothers more than anything else, not blood, or time, but...

Jason and Tim at the same time: Contempt

Jason: I have contempt for Tim, like all siblings should. Really the only thing I love more than hating Tim is shit talking other people with Tim. That form of contempt is how siblings bond and I will just say, surprisingly I love bonding with Tim even more than I love terrorizing Tim

Tim: aww, I didn't know we were that close

Jason, panicking cause he doesn't wanna ruin their dynamic: *punches Tim in the gut and runs out*

Tim, shouting after him: You can't take it back now, you ass

Jason: *turns around while running to give Tim the middle finger*

#dick really wants to bond with jason by shittalking people but jason refuses to let that happen #dick starts showing up wherever Jason is to start shit talking people with him so jason is just quiet until he looks over at dick and goes #'I cant wait to tell Tim about this' and dick is just like 'NO DONT SHIT TALK ABOUT ME TO TIM' #cause like half of shit talking other people with siblings is just shit talking about another family member #one time Dick walks in on Tim and Jason shit talking someone and it's like those scenes in soap operas where the person was just cheated on #dick just sees being the 'most brother-like brother' to his brothers as being the favorite and he really wants to be the favorite #but he is trying too hard so the others are just like nah its something that is just spontaneously formed you can't force it #tim drake #jason todd #dick grayson #bruce wayne #incorrect batfamily quotes #batkids #batfam #bat family #stephanie brown

[ghostvibesonly]

THERE ARE OTHER WAYS DID NOT GO WHERE I WAS EXPECTING IT TO OH MY GOD /POS

PENELOPE’S THEME AND INSTRUMENT?? ODYSSEUS BEING QUITE LITERALLY BACKED INTO A CORNER AND HAVING SEEMINGLY NO OTHER WAY TO SAVE HIS MEN BUT STILL NOT BEING ABLE TO BRING HIMSELF TO GO THROUGH WITH THE ACT (EVEN THO IT WOULDN’T BE A TRUE ACT OF BETRAYAL BECAUSE THERE’S NO ACTUAL CONSENT ON HIS SIDE AND IT WAS SOMETHING HE WAS ABOUT TO BE COERCED INTO)??? CIRCE BEING TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF BEFORE AND BELIEVING THAT “BECOMING THE PUPPETEER” IS THE ONLY WAY TO KEEP HERSELF AND HER NYMPHS SAFE SO SHE OFFERS THIS “ACT OF PASSION” TO STILL HAVE A FORM OF CONTROL, AND THEN SEEING ODYSSEUS IS NOT LIKE THOSE BEFORE BECAUSE HE’S SO IN LOVE WITH PENELOPE (WHO HE HASN’T SEEN IN 12 YEARS) THAT HE REFUSES HER OFFER AND PLEADS BECAUSE IT’S NOT WORTH IT EVEN THO THATS THE ONLY OPTION HE’S BEEN GIVEN??? HIM CALLING HIMSELF A PUPPET MAKING HER REALIZE THAT THIS CYCLE OF ABUSE AND CONTROL ISN’T WORTH IT ONLY TO COME TO A MUTUAL UNDERSTANDING BECAUSE SHE KNOWS WHAT IT’S LIKE TO BE TRULY IN LOVE AND TO BE HURT, SO SHE OFFERS HIM AN ACT OF KINDNESS INSTEAD???

“Maybe showing one act of kindness leads to kinder souls down the road”

#JAY I AM IN YOUR WALLS #jorge rivera herrans #epic the musical #epic the circe saga #epic circe saga #epic odysseus #epic penelope #epic circe #circe #not to mention the vocal performances of everyone #GOD THE ACTING AND THE WRITING AND THE SINGING AND THE INSTRUMENTALS ARE SO *EATS IT CHOMP CHOMP* #i’m so relieved it didn’t go the way i expected from the demo #my worst fears were either odysseus being coerced or him cheating (ie a say no to this situation where they both fully consented) #i now understand why the Valentine’s release date #it’s not because of circe #it’s because of odysseus’s love for penelope #things odysseus will do for his wife: kill a child #things odyssus will NOT do for his wife: sleep with another woman #priorities #i respect it

[cyanastrologist]

❌ Ned Fulmer was fired for cheating

✔️ Ned Fulmer was fired for tarnishing his own brand, and becoming a liability to the company.

#hannah.txt #try guys #ned fulmer #try guys drama #it wasnt the cheating itself that got ned fired #he got fired for having a workplace relationship with a subordinate #which opens the company up to lawsuits about favoritism and unfair treatment #ibr this is what you get for monetizing your relationships #do yall really think ned would be facing this much backlash if he hadn't based his entire persona around being The Wife Guy(tm) #i mean he'd still get some hate for sure but this man literally built his whole brand around loving his wife #like literally worshipping the ground she walked on #only to be caught cheating on said wife. not a good look my dude #i have no sympathy for ned and alex they both suck

[kissofthemorningsun]

Too often I went on like nothing happened while all my insides were screaming to get out.

#codependent #love #toxic relationship #toxic #toxic attraction #being cheated on #narcissismawareness #narc abuse #alone #broken #need to get out #A. #text

[rambles-about-minecraft-ocs]

one of my favorite things about zedaph is that on a server full of people that find strange and oft-overlooked minecraft mechanics or rare events and then see just how far they can push them in the name of spectacle or efficiency or world-breaking, zed is over here finding these mechanics in order to do the weirdest things he can think of in as entertaining a manner as possible

like i 100% have faith in zedaph's theoretical ability to be just as efficient or spectacular or world-breaking. if he wanted to do that stuff, i trust that he absolutely could. but thats so far from being his priority. instead, hes going to spend around a week of irl time focused entirely on eventually having the good luck to spawn in something insanely rare so that he can convert it into something even rarer, the result of which being something that 99% of the server reacts with complete and utter shock that it even exists in the first place, just because its zany and funny and he wanted to. and i love that

#zedaph #hermitcraft #genuinely i adore the clucky few project im not even done watching the episode and i had to pause and make this post #i saw impulses video first and went ''that HAS to be some sort of datapack or something-'' #only to immediately go ''no. no it cant be. because this is zed #and its practically a trademark of his to push the limits of the game as far as possible in the direction least expected #not for the purpose of efficiency or spectacle or intimidation or whatever like some players who push limits #but purely for the purpose of making something so funny you cant help but laugh at whats going on #and maybe being a bit impressed that he ever thought of it in the first place'' #at which point i went ''holy shit. since its zed doing this. somehow he ACTUALLY got a villager on a chicken. with no cheats. thats INSANE' #i was relieved when i checked my subscriptions to see what the next video i had to watch was and saw he would be next in line #bc if i had to sit through 19 other hermits videos before i could watch his and find out what the fuck he was doing i would have been so sa #sidenote but i feel like a zed video where he interacts with this many other people all in the same video is so rare #idk i didnt watch season 9 and i know he started collabing a lot more w/ other hermits then #so maybe its not nearly as rare these days #but like the last one that *i* saw where he interacted with this many people at once was towards the end of season 8 #when all the people he experimented on earlier in the season came back to experiment on him #and like i would like zeds videos with or without the collabs. but its a lot of fun to see him interact with people #so its very cool to me when he does it with a lot of people all in the same video

[continuouscurriculum]

#tpot #tpot team8s #team8s #bfb #bfdi #tpot two #tpot gaty #tpot coiny #tpot pin #tpot donut #tpot needle #tpot barf bag #my artwork #my prediction is the whole pin being angry at cheating is gonna come back with gaty being two’s favourite #and then getting her team favouritism #osc art #osc

[bidisasterevankinard]

Tommy becomes regular and when show ends with bucktommy canon we have one of the last episodes as Tommy Begins where he was looking for family and love and had hard way to admit he's queer and then episode ends with him proposing to Buck

You see my vision, right?

#people can speculate about cheating buck #i can speculate about Tommy being afraid to be himself but still looking for love and. family and finding it in Buck #evan buckley #911 #evan buck buckley #911 abc #tommy kinard #bucktommy #tevan #kinkley #tuck #911 on abc #my 911 thoughts