Long but relatively unserious vent/rant below the cut (sorry I added this in bc I realized how long this post is oops)
Being at the center of some kind of internet witchhunt (which ik is kind of buzzwordy but) is literally my biggest fear ohhh my god. Even a small scale one… I think I would Die. Maybe it’s because I had a similar thing happen with my friend group in high school where one of them convinced the others I was like evil and spread all these rumors about me… 😭 He was splitting on me but still. That’s an explanation, not an excuse. And it basically confirmed all of my intrusive thoughts about myself, and my personality completely self-destructed and changed, and I haven’t interacted with any of those people the same way since. I isolated from them for MONTHS and just loathed myself. Bleh
The reason it’s on my mind is bc I’ve seen this happen to friends and mutuals and even just people I’ve followed in small fandoms, where the whole fandom hates them bc of this little drama and like. I KNOW that fandom drama is not the end of the world, but truly I think that would destroy me for months. And I would never be able to set foot in those spaces again :’) Getting a handful of rude comments about a fucking transfem hc I had at like 14 made me stop writing fanfic for YEARS 😭😭😭 sigh. Just bc they said it was ‘out of character for him to want to be a girl’ 🙄 (<- character who canonically felt confident when dressed as a woman btw. initially for a disguise but then she grew to love it. BUT I DIGRESS KNSHFJW)
All this to say I think that’s why I tiptoe around everything I say online… I am SO scared of ruffling feathers, but I know that fandoms are places for like! Having fun! And it’s not a big deal! And it doesn’t affect my real life! But like idk.. I just hate the idea of being hated by anyone. I’m sure that I ANNOY some people, and that’s whatever; I talk a lot and make overly personal posts sometimes (like this lol) but I don’t wanna be HATED yk? And idek if it’s better to be hated and ostracized publicly or resented in secret by people who still interact with you… :( Agh. If you ever have an issue with me, please DM me instead of letting it build up into something worse!
ANYWAY LIKE.. with fandom stuff. Idk. I want to have fun! I want to write and post things on Tumblr and AO3 etc but I am just very scared of peoples’ opinions, especially now that I have a decently popular/well-liked longfic in DnDads. For some reason I have convinced myself that writing bad or self-indulgent NSFW will make everyone hate me lmao. Like girl the POINT of fanfic is to be self-indulgent……….. sigh I need to get out more
^ light-hearted… but also kinda true haha. I stay at home a lot just bc I don’t have many reasons to go out atm and only a handful of close friends to go out with. Hopefully that will change when I move next semester lol. And whenever I get interests, they’re VERY strong and long-lasting, and fanfic writing is one of my main hobbies, so I get REALLY into online communities. And rn that is kind of my little niche fandom Tumblr bubble… which is embarrassing and probably unhealthy but whatever. I just inevitably get a lot of anxiety about things that are important/fun to me (bc OCD), especially bc I’ve never really had mutuals/‘friends’ in a fandom before this, excluding my irls
Anyway this got longer and more vent-y than I intended so I will tag accordingly, and sorry to whoever is reading this lol; I just wanted to get my thoughts written down in a public forum bc idk… Makes me feel less insane when ik other people can see it, too. Helps me not take it too seriously and spiral lol.
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Hi! Tarrlok anon just checking in.
I'm alive! I'm hoping to get some writing done this weekend--and watch an episode of two of LOK and Monster High (for a different anon) if I can swing it.
(Recently, I've just been posting my buffer chapters for the one fic I have actual buffer in that's not half a dozen bits of scenes I'm not actively working on, so it'll be nice to have a chance to actually write a little bit again as opposed to just the bit of writing that comes with editing, and I've a few three sentence fic requests in my inbox I need to do.)
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Day 4 of vacation!
Slept in today, as I had no tickets until the afternoon.
Had a Chicago style hot dog for lunch at a gimmicky restaurant called Devil Dogs. It was tasty, and a good mix of crisp veggies and soft hotdog. (I picked the peppers off because I don't like spicy food.)
Then it was off to the Shedd Aquarium!
I didn't get pictures of the Pacific white sides dolphins, but it was a wonderful show. Not very long, but the presenter explained dolphins while the dolphins jumped and tail walked and such.
I did get a pic of one of the belugas, only like 5 feet from me!
They have a starfish touch tank, and I let a few starfish. Most of the starfish were on the far side of the tank, and the docent said the starfish are smart enough to know that means they won't get poked as much.
The Amazon wing is nice, and has alligators and parrots and an anaconda in addition to the fish.
And the Mata Mata turtle, as seen on the center pic.
The downstairs coral reef is very nice, with lots of live coral and pretty fish and eight foot long sharks and giant models of coral polyps.
I just had to share with you the best shrimp species name. You go, sexy shrimp.
The sturgeon touch tank is very fascinating. Sturgeon live in fresh water, live for decades, and basically haven't evolved in several million years. I got to feel the bony spine of one.
After the Shedd I went to Luke's for an Italian beef sandwich (structurally similar to a French dip, but the kitchen dips it for you.) It was delicious and greasy and the place wasn't crowded at all, even at 6 on a Saturday.
I saw The Bean (aka cloud gate). Top photo is underneath the arch of the bean, the curved mirror is very fun.
I did some sunset architecture appreciation at the Chicago Tribune, an intricately carved 1920's building that originally housed a newspaper.
Also the Tribune building has random rocks and bricks from other places stuck in it. Off the top of head it has pieces of Lincoln 's tomb, Chimney Rock, the Parthenon, the Forbidden City in Beijing, the Sydney Opera House, Notre Dame, the original World Trade Center, and a few dozen others. No, I don't know why.
The wings are by a Mexican artist and are traveling to different cities to be displayed, as a statement of welcome to immigrants. A lot of people were taking pics in them, but I think the wings look cool empty.
Watched a busker who passionately played a violin while playing recorded piano music from a speaker, which I think is a great way to accompany songs.
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