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justythewriter · 6 months

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I decided to finally write about some of the struggles I face as an independent artist. Tumblr has always been an incredible space for me to introduce my music to new listeners. So withy get if you come across this check out the links and enjoy the words ❤️

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An open love letter to music.

Why is music feeling like watching every kid in the school yard get picked up before me.

My mind flashes back to that feeling seven year old me embraced knowing I would sit on the cold after school lunch tables until the final call. A late evening met with an early morning every day.

But music was supposed to be safe. When I found room to be above mediocre I clung to it for dear life. Remembering the words of the first teacher who saw me, truly saw me, and how she believed in my own lyricism even at its earliest stage.

I was so hungry when I was young. Staten Island could never offer the hug a queer black kid needed, but music could.

Home didn’t understand the sadness underneath budding teenage frustration, but music could.

I met music on a first date with no expectations but in queer fashion, maybe I fell too fast.

She took up my days. Multifaceted and engaging.

She became home and a safe space. She brought out the best in me. Introducing me to all of her friends and favorite places, putting me in rooms with people I’d be invisible to until I opened my mouth, hit the mic.

Maybe in my bliss I never stopped to consider this to be unrequited love.

We never needed all of affirmations when we first fell and yet now I find myself watching the single digit counts of comments or lack thereof.

I wonder if anyone is listening as I go to share another piece of myself to no avail.

Maybe I was sharper when I met her, yet now I watch as seemingly everyone around me makes it to those places I told her I’d take her- and even worse, I ration with if I never will.

There’s guilt as I see 29 stretching out to me, how lucky am I to meet another year of life- luck not offered to my cousin, yet how terrifying to know the projection the industry throws at me.

Even as I dodge, I become scorned thinking of how easy it seems for everyone else. The virality and colossal rise. Their talent not mine, their shine not mine, their wins not mine.

When will it be my time?

Will it ever be my time?

My days are spent helping future leaders secure their future, and yet I write and erase Plan B on what used to be my “anything is possible” journal.

Still, there is that hopeless romantic in me.

Wondering if maybe it wasn’t the right time, but the time may simply be on the way.

I know time waits for no one, but as I keep throwing my heart at the wall, I wonder where I will stick.

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11oh1 · 2 months

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the-sappho-of-lesbos · 1 year

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Source: Coming To Power: Writings On Lesbian S/M - Edited by members of SAMOIS

Note - This book contains very problematic and triggering content and I would not recommend it

#lesbian fashion #lesbian history #women in suits #butch fashion #gnc fashion #tomboy fashion #dapper lesbian #dapper women #image #lgbt #lesbian art #lesbian #art #fashion #bisexual #lgbt history #personal

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welldonna · 6 months

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If y'all are wondering what kind of women I like:

Syd. Kehlani. Ambre. Victoria Monet and Teyana Taylor when they do the tomboy thing. Janelle Monae.

#personal #😍#🥲#😮‍💨#i like dapper women #and tomboys #help me #god bless you all #victoria monet #janelle monae #ambre #syd #kehlani #teyana taylor #jesus #bisexual #most of these women are bi+#syd & kehlani are lesbians

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carltonlassie · 1 year

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Back in my autostraddle and qwear era looking for the gayest possible wedding outfit

#i think its so funny how i used to go on websites that included the words dapper tomboy somewhere

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elenlioncourt · 2 years

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Updating my tumblr it was a week plenty of work. I'll retake soon my sketches and my art work.

#dapper lesbian #lesbianism #girls love #lesbian #lgbtq #krisbian #tomboy #styleblogger #tomboy looks #tomboy lesbian #girls who like girls #beauty #love #loveislove #good vides

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ghost-likes-drawing · 18 days

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Guys I'm trying to figure out who's bed is whose and I only can't locate three because they wear their shit to bed or keep it near their head

Leo- hat stays near by like a true tomboy (I love my genderfluid queen)

Tallulah: wears her current hat to bed

Ramon: mustache, need I explain?

Under the line may come across as me being nitpicky but I'm genuinely curious at to the reasoning so I'm leaving it in:

I'm also trying to find a logic and I'm failing

Pepito and Richas: siblings, great

Empenada- alone? Okay I guess that's-

Wait- Who's next to ChunSik?

Why are 5 beds crammed next to eachother????

Why is Pomme alone????

I tried to narrow it down by checking who ChunSik is close to and all three people it could be have beds I could locate

If u had to take a guess I'm going with Leo next to Sunny and Tallulah Between Sunny and Chayanne.

Leaving Ramon next ChunSik

but why not just put him next to Empenada? That's his chosen sister.

Is it because this is based off of Federation perspective? But if so shouldn't Dapper still be next to Pomme because the federation found their beds next to eachother.

And if this is feeeration perspective why is ChunSik next to anyone at all???

Were the spots assigned at random?

Idk very curious for the next time we see this weird egg vault to find out who is where for real

#qsmp #qsmp eggs #qsmp event #april 4th 2024

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justythewriter · 3 months

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It sounds silly but it was only about a year ago when I truly realized how fragile life is. From that point forwars I promised myself to take in all of my experiences no matter how tough things get or have been. I am so grateful for my journey and another trip around the sun.

Ps all I want for my bday is someone new or returning to discover some more Justy music

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11oh1 · 2 months

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#postsss #fotosss #lighter #vintage #vintage photography #black and white photography #product photography #lifestyle #daily life #smoker #streetwear #streetart #street style #street fashion #fashion #menswear #men’s fashion #tomboy #dapper tomboy

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wikiblair · 3 months

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🐇🐸🦋 + bonus 📸 if you want

I start with 📸: I don´t have a smartphone.. I am still very loyal to my button nokia :D.

🦋 - Describe yourself in three words: Phew.. Okay... Stubborn, choleric aaand I don´t know.. Sad maybe? Or depressed is better choice of words... Or tired.

🐸- Describe your aesthetic: I don´t know if I understand this correctly but I try :-). As far as my clothing style goes, I am tomboy as fuck. I hate skirts and dresses as far as I remember. I prefer comfy clothes like jeans, flannels shirts, sweatpants at home etc.. But I recetly fell in love with ties, so any time the occasion ask for it I will gladly put one of ties from my collection and feeling dapper as hell :-). I don´t put make-up on my face. EVER! I had to have make-up once on my face and I was traumatized (and still am to be honest). But I think my vibe is kinda hostile towards other people. I am huge introvert, plus I had problems with meeting with people face to face in general (yes, I am taking meds for that, but there are not allmighty) so I am trying to dissuade everyone to not even try to talk to me :-). In am a bit better in online space :-). I love winter and long nights. I am definitely a night owl. So, I guess that´s it? Let me know if I forget something and you want to know :-).

🐰- What do you think says the most about a person?- Phew, not an easy question to answer.. But I think it´s their action and opinion.. Oh and since I am sapiosexual, it´s about people inteligence.. You don´t have to have IQ 175 but I really appreciate general outlook. I have to admit I hate fools (f.e. Joey Tribian is the best example of bad kind of idiot that comes to my mind right now). It´s really hard to tell. You need to let people show you your true collors (to quote Cindy Lauper) and then decide if you want them in your life or not... looks can be deceiving, your character mostly not. Unless you met pathological liar who can decieve as easy as they breathe.. Anyway.. I hope I made myself clear :-).

#Question game #Simauita #Ask wikiblair

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mysterycharacterbracket · 11 months

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Round L1, Poll #22

Remember, the winner of this poll will move on, and the loser will be revealed!

Character 155: A caring tomboy that got kidnapped by aliens and saw a lot of her family die

Character 74: Slightly unhinged dapper looking chap with a pacman for a head, plays in what is basically a game of dodgeball.

#mystery character bracket #round L1 #batch L1.2

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willowaudreykeyes · 2 years

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Imma be a bridesmaid/bridesmate!! Both of the peeps are good friends of mine but I still didn't really see it coming 😅

They haven't set dates or anything yet, but they did ask if I could wear a dress for the ceremony and the first round of pictures. The groom-to-be has OCD and would like all the bridesmaids in dresses for when he looks back on the day.

But after the first round of pics? I can change into a dapper as fuck suit 😎

I dislike dresses greatly (it looks like my chest stands out too much) but for them? I can survive an hour. Even if I'll be the tallest bridesmate and stand out and have people staring and my chest will stand out because binders give me anxiety attacks...

Plus, I wanna see the look on people's faces at seeing "Super Tomboy Enby Remy" in a dress 😆

I'm trying to see the positives despite the negatives!!!!

#plus they'll owe me huge afterwards so i can live ^-^#just wanted to share the big news #its... weird but nice #remy chats #tw swearing

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yohgar · 2 months

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Check out this listing I just added to my Poshmark closet: Tomboy Toes Men Brown Shoes Sz 9.5 The Downtown Dappers 10 Inches.

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dappertomboy · 2 years

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