#i deserve validation

[spookietrex]

"It is everyone's business to recognize child abuse. We have to help those that cannot help themselves."

#borderline personality disorder #borderline problems #actually bpd #bpd problems #being borderline #ptsd memes #ptsd recovery #c ptsd #ptsd meme #complex ptsd #ptsd #actually ptsd #post traumatic #post traumatic stress disorder #child abuse #inner child #mandated reporter #i deserve validation #i deserve better

[pokeberry5]

girl experiences gender euphoria and is immediately slammed by grief

for @litttlittt <3. this was supposed to be a portrait of caroline hill, but litta mentioned tim looking like janet when dressed as caroline and identity issues and angst and things spiraled

something about tim not knowing if he's his mother's child or bruce's or neither's.

figuring out the looks:

i wanted janet to have that poofy 70s hair

#tim drake #dc #bruce wayne #janet drake #sart #i'm picturing this as transfemme tim hence “he” and also compounding issues about bruce treating him as a daughter #which is exactly the gender validation tim wants and needs but isnt sure he deserves #but this also definitely works for trans tim #she gets to process that she looks like her mom!! and her mom will never get to know her daughter #would she have wanted to know her daughter? even though she showered tim with love when she was around #she barely knew her son #gender idk he's a girl 👍 hope that helps #i went down a rabbit hole looking up vintage dior necklaces -- hopefully something martha wayne wouldve worn #-- but dior necklaces are COMPLICATED #i almost drew pearls but i think that wouldve been too cruel to bruce lol #(a decent amount of my art--even when it's not femme tim--gets tagged 'gender' and i dont know what im going but im glad 👍)

[mahoutoons]

so i'm not in the atla fandom but i sometimes go on this tag called "katara deserved better"

and tell me why 90% of posts in this tag are about which man katara should've ended up with than about her actual character?

like do you guys care about katara or are you just upset your ship didn't become canon?

#i'm sure there's valid criticisms with how katara was written #but most of what i see here is “waaahhh katara should've ended up with THIS man not THAT man #atla #avatar the last airbender #katara #katara deserved better #rebecca talks

[yangjeongin]

HYUNJIN | 231119 • LALALALA @ INKIGAYO

#hwang hyunjin #hyunjin #stray kids #bystay #createskz #malegroupsnet #dancerachasource #a9gifs #flashing tw #*gif #*ccarly #*hyunjin #*carly:hyunjin #hi i had a nightmare so i'm awake . #here we are....last set of the promos....la4 u deserved longer promos i love u so much #anyways. set kinda mid but so were these fits soi think i'm valid #also is he wearing a kiss belt. is that what that says LKJSDLJSDJKG #that's so funny

[shimmrgloom]

Ah so we’re getting to that stage in fandom. The fans have all played BG3 too much at this point. Now they’re just complaining about what the game isn’t than what it is.

Guys. Final Fantasy 7 comes out in a couple weeks! There are approximately 34 RPGs coming out this year!

If you find yourself typing a complaint about ‘why did they do X when Y is still broken!’ The game doesn’t have an enough depth (it’s over 200 hours long but okay) etc maybe put the game down and play something else. We aren’t BioWare toxic yet but we’re close.

#bg3 #larian studios #baldur's gate 3 #i stand by this #unless you are complaining about lack of Wyll content #that’s valid #he deserves more

[carnivalcarriondiscarded]

when you try to stargaze but all you have is ceiling set lights. and they're not even on. smh

#OOPSIE FUCKING DAISY THIS HAS BEEN IN MY DRAFTS FOR WEEKS #LIKE A MONTH! #theyre hanging out <3 totally not dying (no they are. slowly tho. verryyyy slowly) #years of Goop will do that do a fella #theyre tired and deserve a nap ok. and theyll Get That Nap- #pffff there's a spot on my screen that lines up with the period at the end of frank's first 'okay' #and it makes it go from 'okay.' to 'okay!' #wally: yea we're dying #frank: okay!! 🎉 #scribble salad #welcome home au #wh lights out au #hm this is old enough now that ive Changed and Thought of many things #its still very valid though!!! i just need to puzzle out where it falls on the timeline #before or after poppy wakes... #before i think. if so then certain tiny details in this Scribble are no longer valid...

[moeblob]

I spent 3 hours replying to this anon simply to say "everyone gets a Vaporeon (except Sylvain)".

#dimitri alexandre blaiddyd #bernadetta von varley #marianne von edmund #ferdinand von aegir #sylvain jose gautier #fe three houses #pkmn #long post #i would literally explain why everyone fits with vaporeon (except sylvain) but that would take too much time to draw #however there are super valid reasons i could list for why everyone deserves a vaporeon (except sylvain) #also fun fact - ferdinand would 100% go out of his way to get bernadetta that shiny eevee to be a shiny vaporeon #she deserves a purple helper and friend and he will make sure she gets that #you cannot tell me ferdinand von aegir wouldnt go the extra mile because he absolutely would #also i provided a why so i dont want anyone to argue with these picks because i know im right #and i can provide reasons for everyone (except sylvain) to have a vaporeon #thank you its dinner time bye please appreciate this @ you anon i spent so long on this post

[howcouldtheyletmebeanadult]

THE AUDACITY OF THIS HEDGEHOG!!

So i was rewatching Shattered for a post when i noticed something for the first time.

Usually on that scene where Tails tells Sonic i usually look at Tails becuse he stands out more to me, but for the first time i was looking at Sonic instead, and i noticed he made some sort of expression, but couldn't discern what, so i looked at it again and

this

motherfucker

rolled his eyes at him

He literally just forgave you after you ignored his warnings and fell for Eggman's trap (whether Tails could have explained himself better is not relevant, he felt ignored and you apologized), and literally the same day, he tells you to be careful and you roll your eyes at him. No wonder he was so upset at you ignoring him, no wonder he was so dismissive about your apology. You probably ignore him all the time, he knew you were just going to do whatever you wanted, of course he didn't take you seriously.

#to be clear this isn't me hating on sonic #if anything is an apology to Tails. baby you were completely valid in feeling ignored #and not telling him how you feel. i wouldn't have either #not that i thought you were in the wrong mind you i just didn't know HOW valid you were #is it weird that i love this? like it just makes the character development feel more satisfying #god i love this show #and i love prime sonic #but he definitely deserved get his ass kicked by shadow #sonic prime #sonic the hedgehog #miles tails prower #sonic #mine

[kaladinkholins]

yeah taimizu IS toxic and off putting actually ‼️‼️🗣️🗣️🗣️

EDIT: TO BE CLEAR THIS IS A POST IN FAVOUR OF TAIMIZU!!! I AM A DIRTY TAIMIZU SHIPPER!!!!!

#it's funny because that was my FIRST thought about them but then i realised wait this is scratching some itch in my brain #people are all very correct about this btw and their discomfort and dislike of the ship is valid #but it's so interesting to me and that's why these days I'm leaning further into that toxic aspect of their rship in my art #that whole “strangles you with the red string of fate” drawing i did was meant to capture that as well #like this equal amount of aggression and twisted affection/attraction they have for one another #like it's very fucked up #and people are not wrong to think so but i enjoy it LOL #one of the theses of my fic is literally “theyre fucked up but they make it work” #like i dont want them to be perfectly healed and normal by today's standards #i want them to be crazy and murderous but work through their shit individually AND together and make things work #and have feral nasty sex bcs mizu deserves to be a pillow princess (TO MEEEEE) #i still have a meta drafted that actually goes in depth on their rship and why we “”“should”“” root for them #but my brain is goop rn and cramps are KILLING MEEEEE so have this first instead #taimizu #blue eye samurai #fandom.rtf #shut up haydar #wank.mp3

[spookietrex]

Let's start a "here's what my abuser did to make it look like I don't have symptoms." I'll start.

I would be in my room having meltdowns, feeling completely unsafe because my house was not a safe place (wowee, my intuition was correct!) and my mom didn't like that I was self-harming and journaling so she made me start having to report all my symptoms (ie FLASHBACKS) to her...just so she could dismiss them and deny that they ever happened. Oh, and now I talk my way through flashbacks because I've learned that they're conversation pieces so doctors don't believe my autism or PTSD diagnosis and often tell me I'm making things up (and/or make my medical records make me look like a liar by straight up misdocumenting what I said or just not documenting my symptoms, OR when I'm not having symptoms they choose that moment to test me and clear me despite me telling them I'm not having symptoms).

Not being believed is a trigger, you fucks.

#i deserve validation #fuck you ptsd #c ptsd #complex ptsd #ptsd #ptsd recovery #actually ptsd #tw ptsd #complex post traumatic stress disorder #post traumatic stress disorder #vent post #why do doctors hate me #borderline personality disorder #actually bpd #borderline problems #bpd problems #being borderline #actually borderline #bpd #bpdprobs #actuallymentallyill #bpd feels #actually chronically ill #chronic health issues #chronically ill #chronic illness #chronic pain #chronic fatigue #chronically sick #chronically disabled

[the-kingshound]

Sometimes when I read the comments about Arthur being... not how people wanted/pictured him to be I feel very briefly a bit of doubt. But then I remember the gender euphoria that writing a non traditionally masculine man/husband gives me and I get back to my soft soft king.

#cradling him to my chest #the more straight webtoons i read with arranged marriage tropes the more i think the world deserves my arthur #it makes me so happy writing them💞 #i feel so satisfied so validated #same for very affectionate very adorable saraah

[hoolay-boobs]

“What do you mean there’s still so much biphobia in fan spaces? Bisexuals are like some of the most popular characters!”

Yeah, and they either get treated like this:

Or like this:

“Biphobia isn’t real” neither are your braincells

#bisexuals deserve better #biphobia tw #biphobia #bisexual #bisexuality #listen not to post this rancid post on bi visibility month but part of bi visibility month is venting about biphobia and that’s okay #long tags #bisexual characters are constantly branded as either gay/lesbian or straight because bisexuality is constantly branded as never good enough #yes harlivy are sometimes fetishized by men who want to get off on seeing girls smooch. yes sometimes these men are the writers of dc #no they do not make up 100% of harlivy content. no gross men drooling over harlivy doesn’t immediately make harlivy straight #harlivy have had queer female writers before. a huge portion of their fanbase are queer girls #just because they are occasionally festished doesn’t mean that they aren’t good bi rep #I see where this person is coming from but no. bc REAL BI WOMEN get festishized by men and that won’t make their sexuality any less valid #would you tell these real girls that they’re actually straight since ‘sapphicness isn’t sapphicness once it’s taken advantage of by men’? #glimmer lesbian content makes me sad bc it’s not even like interpreting harlivy or korrasami as lesbians assuming all wlw is solely lesbian #but also erasing her entire romance with bow. degrading it down to comphet and ignoring bow #like I can at least understand mistakening poison ivy for a lesbian but glimmer?? glimmer??! #biphobic #biphobic tw #bisexual hardships #korrasami #harlivy #glimbow #bi #fucking essay in the tags

[miumiumandoodz]

the only correct way to draw them:

Beelzebub has to fit in Gabriel's pockets

Gabriel has to be kaiju sized

Gabriel has to have ultra yaoi hands

Gabriel's head scale to his body is 1:36

#ineffable bureaucracy #good omens #good omens 2 #this is obviously joking btw #I firmly believe everyone can draw them however they want #these are beautiful characters that deserve the kind of respect and love you wanna give them #whatever your headcanon or your style for them is valid don't let people say otherwise #don't gatekeep in fandoms we're all here to have fun

[palettehao]

Now THIS hits hard

#i love Mike Wheeler so much #he deserves to be loved and validated too :(( #i could cry over this #byler #byler tumblr #will byers #mike wheeler #byler season 4

[emotinalsupportturtle]

Blackadder vs Shakespeare

This is THE most satisfying 2 seconds of a comedy sketch

Thank you sincerely Blackadder Sir. Especially because that is the version you have to inevitably suffer through (very much against your will) when you are studying Hamlet

#I actually cheered at that bit #blackadder is my hero #it was well deserved #tbh I would kick him much harder for that #I'm always here to diss that unnecessarily long #and insufferable hamlet movie adaptation #kenneth branagh #hamlet 1996 #shakespeare #shakespeare plays #hamlet #blackadder #rowan atkinson #colin firth #the entire point of this scene is literally to get back at Will Shaky #for all those school years studying his plays in boring classrooms #AND being subjected to that Ken Branagh Hamlet #and that's valid

[momentary-moss]

my younger sibling @cactus-zombie really wanted to see phos have a nice snack and honestly me too

#phosphophillyte #phos hnk #sea leggies phos #houseki no kuni #land of the lustrous #they headcanoned that phos really likes potatoes like esp french fries #and honestly? valid #a diff type of potato for every iteration of phos #i did send them a phos at mcdonalds gif so thats probably where they got the idea but also #food = love so ofc phos deserves a snack!! #anyway i made it transparent for all your taking phos on a picnic with you needs