"Rasulullah bersabda kelak setiap hamba di surga merasa sangat bahagia karena Allah telah hilangkan darinya segala penyakit hati, iri, dengki, hasad bahkan rasa cemburu. "
Jika kita pakai kaidah ini berarti di dunia juga kita bisa merasa bahagia, asalkan hati kita bersih Karena ternyata yg membuat tidak bahagia itu adalah penyakit hati.
Belajar untuk gak melihat titik seseorang berdiri dengan tatapan iri.
Mungkin adanya perbandingan menjadi godaan untuk terus memaksakan diri supaya sesuai dengan standar orang lain.
Seolah-olah kalo tidak sama artinya salah.
Kalo berbeda, artinya kalah.
Padahal mungkin di titikmu dan di titiknya, kalian berdua sama-sama dihadapkan dengan tantangan.
Masalahmu tak jadi lebih sepele hanya karena kamu belum ada di titiknya.
Mungkin belum sampainya di titik yang sedang orang lain pijak bukan karena kamu buruk.
Tapi kamu memang belum layak.
Belum layak karena kamu masih disiapkan banyak bekal.
Diberikan hal-hal lain yang bermakna di posisimu sekarang.
Jangan sampai, kamu kehilangan value.
Kehilangan kesempatan menemukan hal-hal bermakna di tempatmu sekarang hanya karena pandanganmu terlalu fokus ke seberang.
Mari merayakan pencapaian mereka,
Sambil belajar memahami betapa hebatnya mereka dengan segala apa yang dilaluinya untuk sampai di sana.
Sama sepertimu,
Yang hebat untuk sampai di titikmu saat ini 🫰🏻❤️
Maybe Iridium's just in her social butterfly era...Maybe that's why the flabby girl is pushing up against everyone and anyone that she finds attractive.
For any character you feel would fit the question best: 6, 11, 27
Uuooo I didn't actually expect questions!! Thank you Fox!! Let me see....this might be a bit long...
6. Do they consider laws flexible, or immovable?
> Ruth (human, Fallout universe, sniper/medic/commanding officer)
She's a character that was born into a cruel world where her first settlement strove to live outside of any faction's rules, in their own peace. That was ruined by raiders blowing up her life to pieces, after which she decided to join this universe's federal army - the NCR, as a way to be able to bring law and justice and save others from her fate. However, she's not really a soldier at heart, and she'll always choose what she thinks is good for others, not necessarily what the law says. To the extent of ignoring orders of her superiors to save her friends, risk her life to gain information, and be a wild card in the NCR's pocket to get insight into local communities and local wars.
Honestly I don't think I have many characters that wouldn't question the laws a little bit, but I think she's the most interesting to write when it comes to that!
11. How do they cope with confusion (seek clarification, pretend they understand, etc)?
> Ruth
Will ask more questions, professional interrogation way, and will try to intimidate you if polite professional doesn't work (bad cop).
> Iri'thiel (D&D, half-drow, ranger, my main in The Revenants campaign)
Will ask more questions, even if it makes her look stupid, as she got used to not knowing things about this world and its people after having her memory erased. Will try to seem like she's on top of the discussion anyway.
> Laverne (anthro skink/gecko, modern times, bass player and vocalist)
Will seem like she understood and her poker face is so good you won't know she didn't. Might try to ask more questions if it seems interesting enough.
27. What causes them to feel dread?
> Petra (D&D, crystal dragonborn, warlock necromancer, Tyberios campaign)
She sees the world as an adventure and just another step to take before ascending to lichdom some time in the far future, so not much. Aside from her origins. She's the only dragonborn she's seen so far, and people keep asking for her bloodline/family like it's an obvious thing she should know. But Petra was given as a gift to a cult of necromancers when she was still an egg, not knowing where she came from and how. This confuses her and although she browsed many books from end to end, nothing came up so far.
> Iri'thiel
Almost anything, almost all the time :)