#just say that

[femme-dor]

The older I get the less patience I have for friends who don’t care for contact. I get if you have a demanding life or schedule, but “Sorry I didn’t answer a week after you sent that, I have (X mental illness)” despite their phone glued to their hands 24/7 gets less charming especially in adulthood. My time is my time. See a therapist for what you got, I’m moving on to someone who doesn’t struggle to reply “yes” or “no” to a lunch invite I sent 8 days ago.

#if it ALWAYS takes you more than 72hrs to respond #we ain’t friends (anymore) #just say that #it’s always the people who have their phones on them too #taking 5-7 business days to respond to your message #they ignored like an annoying notification #that’s fine #by the time they come around #I already got someone who could #respect my time #respect my boundaries #time management #friends #friendship #my personal thoughts #rant #high maintenance #queue are so beautiful to me #my thoughts

[babycloudcakes]

people will be so proud of what you can create until they're no longer on your side, now you're a busy body

#if you can only ever do less #just say that #personal

[freckledsweetpea]

I genuinely am enraged by the normalization of wishing for a time when women gave up everything to their husbands.

Absolutely the fuck not. That's your choice if you want to do that in your life. But that doesn't not speak to your womanhood. You're a grade A downright fucking moron if you think it does.

I will happily, with a grin, rot to my grave alone if that's my only choice in society. You can take my ability (in a capitalistic society) to earn a living and buy a house outside of a marriage from my cold dead FEMININE grasp.

And fuck you for trying to romanticize your stupidity.

#like okay if you're brainrotted enough to need a keeper #just say that #that man doesn't love you #he loves your ability to give him some weird status in life #and give him the ability to say he has kids without parenting #he has his incubator for that

[scientologisabethmoss]

“poor straight women, they don’t have good erotica and they don’t even realize it :(“ homie i assure you that millions of straight women with b&n memberships, kindle unlimited subscriptions, and working vibrators would disagree with you on that. women are consuming written smut by women, for women, about the most toxic hetero relationships you can imagine, and they are loving it! i can quibble all day about the quality of the dialogue and sentence structure with many of these books, but at the end of the day, the tropes/kinks/whatever-the-fuck-you-wanna-call-it being portrayed are exactly what millions of straight women want. whether you like it or not. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

#if you have an issue with straight women finding certain kinks to be appealing #just say that #rather than purporting to be concerned #and just sounding super condescending and ignorant

[withbellzon]

“Just Say That” x Duke Deuce & GloRilla samples “Warsaw Concerto” x Richard Addinsell

#sample of the day #duke deuce #glorilla #richard addinsell #just say that #warsaw concerto #memphis #hip hop #rap #classical music #live performance #samples #tennessee #withbellzon

[weirdo09]

“why don’t you- *look of disgust* go get a plate so you *another look of disgust* don’t get crumbs everywhere?” “WHY are YOU EATING like that?!” so crazy how y’all have the nerve to say that but then get mad when i seem ‘mad’ like would you like someone gettin mad at you for not usin a goddamn plate? like you act like i’m some of animal then you be like “you was here all morning, why are you acting like you haven’t ate all day?” because i haven’t, i can’t even eat in front of y’all without some nasty comment. i’m too scared to eat because of y’all, wherever i’m eatin and y’all come in the dinin room, i stop. but surely that’s nothing weird right? you suddenly care about my feelings? cut the bullshit and just say you hate that i needa eat n how i do it, you insensitive bitches.

#cade’s things #cade’s thoughts 💭 #cade vents #tw vent #personal vent #you acted weird when i eat #but then you suddenly care when i don’t #STOP BEIN FUCKIN FAKE #you don’t care #you don’t give a fuck #just say that #you get mad at me when i ‘eat everything up’ #and then you get mad/worried if i don’t #LIKE LEAVE ME THE FUCK ALONE #you fuckers the reason i hate eatin in front of people #can’t even have a snack without y’all bein like “that has a lot of calories.” #so what? y’all be the same ones talkin bout how i should be a kid and not to worry about things #i still do and you get mad at me for that #just say you hate me and don’t want me livin w you #simple as that #i knew there was smth up w my momma suddenly buyin stuff for me #she hates spendin money on me #unless she has to #i hate these bitches #that’s what my momma n stepdad are #mean ass bitches #and prolly proud of it too #you almost made me wanna run away #not until i’m financially stable tho

[hunsa-jars]

Before anybody asks, yes it was the poll

#and yes please stop throwing the word trauma around like this #just say really scared #that's what you meant #just say THAT

[saetoru]

i love when people copy my themes like 3 times and think no one realizes they’re copying

#𑁍 — tee talks. #like baby #if ur not creative to come up with your own shit #just say that #we all see the uncanny similarities #u can’t outdo the doer babe

[highcicada]

He gifted this to me to put in my dragon den..

I've wanted this since the first day I saw it, but he expressed its sentiment and that his gma brought it over to them from Romania. I never dared to ask,, but now it's m i n e. ⚔️

#personal #i will protect this with my life #dragonkin #benji #if you want me to have your children #just say that

[koobiie]

shoutout to everyone who wants to infodump but cant string together coherent thoughts to form sentences and instead just look at you like this

#and by 'everyone' i mean me. im just hoping other people relate lmao #someone asks me about a thing i like and im just like h.................. #been thinking about The Character for a solid 6 months+ and let me tell you. expldoeing soon #this is about ffxv btw . how am i supposed to say how much it lives in my brain . i cant think #text #1k #5k #10k #15k #20k #great googly moogly #30k #40k #50k #60k #boooy what da heeel #70k #80k #90k #will this be my first ever post to hit 100k... it remains to be seen

[kochei0]

I turn to Ares.

Thanks to Tyler Miles Lockett who allowed me to draw inspiration from his ARES piece for page 2! Look at his etsy page it's SICK

⚔️ If you want to read some queer retelling of arturian legends have a look at my webtoon

#greek mythology #ares #athena #greek gods #dont get me wrong it aint athena slander but it sure is ares praise #on some level at least #man justly accused of bad things deserves some mid praise more at 11 #thank you romi for helping me with words though i duly noted you insisted on ares not being cautious rather than him not being careful #romi be like “i want him to care” and honestly good you should say it #also EPIC led to this and i just..... i want to draw some animatics man i just need infinite time now #my long lost love for greek myths just will never stop coming and they dont stop coming and they dont stop coming #i want some vulture design in here for ares but not sure about this one #kochei doodles

[butchfalin]

the funniest meltdown ive ever had was in college when i got so overstimulated that i could Not speak, including over text. one of my friends was trying to talk me through it but i was solely using emojis because they were easier than trying to come up with words so he started using primarily emojis as well just to make things feel balanced. this was not the Most effective strategy... until. he tried to ask me "you okay?" but the way he chose to do that was by sending "👉🏼👌🏼❓" and i was so shocked by suddenly being asked if i was dtf that i was like WHAT???? WHAT DID YOU JUST SAY TO ME?????????? and thus was verbal again

#yeehaw #1k #5k #10k #posts that got cursed. blasted. im making these tag updates after... 19 hours? #also i have been told it should say speech loss bc nonverbal specifically refers to the permanent state. did not know that! #unfortunately i fear it is so far past containment that even if i edited it now it would do very little. but noted for future reference #edit 2: nvm enough ppl have come to rb it from me directly that i changed the wording a bit. hopefully this makes sense #also. in case anyone is curious. though i doubt anyone who is commenting these things will check the original tags #1) my friend did not do this on purpose in any way. it was not intended to distract me or to hit on me. im a lesbian hes a gay man. cmon now #he felt very bad about it afterwards. i thought it was hilarious but it was very embarrassed and apologetic #2) “why didn't he use 🫵🏼?” didn't exist yet. “why didn't he use 🆗?” dunno! we'd been using a lot of hand emojis. 👌🏼 is an ok sign #like it makes sense. it was just a silly mixup. also No i did not invent 👉🏼👌🏼 as a gesture meaning sex. do you live under a rock #3) nonspeaking episodes are a recurring thing in my life and have been since i was born. this is not a quirky one-time thing #it is a pervasive issue that is very frustrating to both myself and the people i am trying to communicate with. in which trying to speak is #extremely distressing and causes very genuine anguish. this post is not me making light of it it's just a funny thing that happened once #it's no different than if i post about a funny thing that happened in conjunction w a physical disability. it's just me talking abt my life #i don't mind character tags tho. those can be entertaining. i don't know what any of you are talking about #Except the ppl who have said this is pego/ryu or wang/xian. those people i understand and respect #if you use it as a writing prompt that's fine but send it to me. i want to see it #aaaand i think that's it. everyday im tempted to turn off rbs on it. it hasn't even been a week

[fagtainsparklez]

i was cuddling with my boyfriend last night when his shoulder started tensing up (like he was readjusting or gently pushing me off) and when i asked him if he was okay or needed me to move or something he went “no you’re fine, i was just imagining myself pulling a large rope. i didn’t even realize my shoulder was doing that lmao” then refused to elaborate and i have never been as attracted to him as i was in that moment.

#icarus speaks #apollo cameo #okay i’m lying a bit #he DID elaborate and say the rope was large in the sense that it was long #not just an overly thick rope #but other than that? nothing. the inner workings of their mind are so beautiful

[thelaurenshippen]

watching bridgerton and obviously there were a lot of things wrong with the way socializing has worked in the past, but honestly the idea of a "calling hour" is so appealing. office hours for friendship. you can show up unannounced at my home between 1 and 3pm. you must leave by 3pm. I may give you a pastry. lets bring that back

#bridgerton #lauren says things #i know the calling hour is for romantic prospects #(at least in bridgerton) #but there IS something to be said for having social rules! I like it to an extent! #no I don't have a panic disorder rooted in social anxiety why are you asking me that #and tbf one CAN just do this! #but working out social contracts with friends is hard and scary lol

[qrowpilled]

hate when you find a character whose so infuriatingly Your Type that its embarrassing like yeahg no one is gonna be surprised when i announce this is my new Guy Of The Month

#shush jesse #EDIT from future me: this post was about astarion but im fully a galegirl (gendy neutch) now so idk what that says #he's also my type for what its worth #this post abt astarion #hes just so painfully on brand for me #i know so little about him though is the thing but i still feel insane #but i cant play the game and i dont want to watch anyone play it and i dont want spoilers #so like.....secondhand blorbo right now

[happyheidi]

𝖠𝗋𝗍 𝖻𝗒 𝖠𝗇𝗇𝖺-𝖫𝖺𝗎𝗋𝖺 𝖲𝗎𝗅𝗅𝗂𝗏𝖺𝗇 | 𝖨𝖦: 𝖺𝗇𝗇𝖺𝗅𝖺𝗎𝗋𝖺_𝖺𝗋𝗍

#this has to be one of my favorite little comic ever cus YEEEES #I love me a good rain lighting thunder trio <3 #ESP while laying in bed with a good book #had to share #cottagecore #comics #art #cute #drawing #rain aesthetic #cozycore #cosycore #reading #comfycore #wholesome #we had MASSIVE rain here today and some lovely lightning & thunder . so this was basically my just switch night to say and bed to couch