#motherless daughters

[spnexploration]

Bluey's Dragon got me 😭😭

Other women in my Motherless Daughters group had warned me, so at least I was expecting it. But man, right in the feels 😭

#Bluey #Bluey dragon #motherless daughters #motherless daughters Australia

[forever-tiffany]

Missing my Mom always and forever

#motherless daughters #grief #metastatic breast cancer #i miss you

[catchawishing-star]

The woman who lost her mother sends me a message. She says that life growing is not the same as forgetting and she sent me a picture to prove it. A little girl in the arms of a mother who lost her mother. Her middle name is my mother's first, she tells me.

jesseisjolly (tiktok)

#poetry #poems #quotes #grief #loss #love #motherless daughters #mothers

[kristipetersenschoonover]

A Motherless Daughter’s Gratitude on Mother��s Day

A Motherless Daughter’s Gratitude on Mother’s Day

For those out there missing their moms, I thought—as a woman who no longer has hers—I’d share a little of my own journey with you in the hopes it’ll bring some of you comfort, or perhaps give you a new perspective. And if you’ve not read the book Motherless Daughters, definitely pick that up. You’ll find in its pages voices who feel just like you, and that’s comforting, too. Also, all the photos…

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#coping with mother loss #Grief #honoring your mother #Mother Loss #Mother&039;s Day #Motherless Daughters #what to do if you miss your mom on Mother’s Day

[angelunderheaven]

motherless daughters searching for a mother figure in every middle aged woman they meet

photographed by hannah starkey, untitled, october 1998

#mother figure #mother! #mother daughter relationship #white oleander #astrid magnussen #just girly things #girly problems #sad girl #lizzy grant #lana del rey #ultraviolence #the female experience #female hysteria #lost little girl #female manipulator #female madness #girl interrupted #lisa rowe #motherless behavior #Motherless daughter

[opens-up-4-nobody]

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#sorry im thinking abt death again #because it's weird to think that ive been in the room. maybe a meter away from someone as they died #that someone being my mom. its just weird. the time in the hospital feels like it happened in some dark little pocket universe detached from #time. a calm room and then the soft blips of a monitor then the nurse rushing in to say she'd passed #i dont kno y ppl use that phrase: passed on. i mean i do. it softens the topic. makes it sound peaceful. ive yet to use it. i just say she #died bc thats what happened. is that insensitive? i dunno. when i was home i realized that i come off as much stranger than i think. the way #my family see me doesnt fit how i see myself. i dont kno what to do with that. i dunno. theyre all together today #for an early easter. and im halfway across the country again. nose so stuffy ive had to mouth breathe for the last 3 days #and again. everything feels the same as it did before but also profoundly different. sometimes i cry in the mornings. or when i think abt #future vacations she wont be there for. bc in the end she quickly slipped away in a way that couldn't be described as peaceful until her #last half a day. and all i can think about in that tiny room is how scary it would be to lose control like that #and how its not fair and she didnt deserve to die only halfway through a lifetime. but its not about fair and its not about deserving. #sometimes bad things just happen. that's life. and now i own a book called motherless daughters. and now im standing with the countless #others who've lost their moms too early. ive already become aware of 3 ppl in my daily life who are in the same club #i keep thinking about this moment that happened between my parents at the hospital. apparently my dad was helping her get cleaned up and her #stomach was so bloated she looked like she had a bby in there. which my dad said. and my mom apparently said: but it's a baby no one want. i #dont kno y that upsets me so much. all the things i heard abt her being in the hospital before i got there upset me. and the rest of my #family was there to see it. so i have the least traumatic version of the story. and i got almost 27 years with her. except my sisters #probably got more time with her bc i spent so much time away. or maybe not. i dunno. #i dunno. im just sad that shes gone and sad that it was drawn out even a little bit. 6 days isnt long but im sure it felt like an eternity. #again not fair. nothings fair. 53 years of unfairness culminating in a tragedy. she would hate me characterizing it like that. she lived a #full life as they say. full with an asterisk on account of length #unrelated

[velcryons]

once again thinking about how shaera let both her brother and her husband die in order to make sure that d.aenerys ascended the throne

#ooc ; #team t.argaryen or bust!!! #i also think part of it is bc shaera's youngest daughter is only a year older than d.any #and shaera has a tendency to look at motherless children and go 'is anyone gonna adopt that?' and not wait for an answer

[lilgynt]

my mom just learned my dad beat me as a kid girl did you think i was just like that for fun

#personal #also i say learned like i didn’t tell her when i was younger #it is what it is and we have a good conversation about like #my work her work life dad other dumb stuff #it just happened to come up in conversation #also so funny she recommended something called like #motherless daughters and was explaining yeah it’s not about literal motherless girls but women with mean moms #and then said like example im a very mean mom - not even an abusive say the truth but menacingly #but just frankly i’m a very mean mother #if nothing else i can give her props for being so frank and non emotional about some subjects #like some times really bad sometimes just makes things a bit faster #she also apologized that i went through that so. that was actually really nice to hear

[adenial-a]

Lovek is so pathetic in that he puts this exterior that's like as brittle and thin as a hollow chocolate rabbit, if he's given any amount of warmth that makes him feel like he matters it starts to melt and underneath u can see he's just a desperately lonely guy with such a low sense of self worth that he will become puddy in the hands of anyone who gives him the slightest bit of attention.

#it really sucks cuz you know that they deserve better but theyve been so deprived of most good forms of love that theyll take any kind #it wasnt as though lovek wasnt loved as a child he very much was ... hes just... #well his grandparents despised him and thats the home he went to every night of evrry day #and he never made a single peep about it to abyone who might have been able to help him #because he was convinced that he was lucky even to be alive in the first place thanks to his fathers desertion #so he should take all the neglect and abuse on the chin and that he is definutely worth less than the rest of his family #because hes the daughter of a deserter / a bastard / motherless and any amount of attention he gets #should be seen as nothing short of a miracle because there is hardly anything he could offer of worth to anyone #:)

[invincible-selfxmade-punk]

It's almost Mother's Day and you cannot get away from the advertisements.

To All the Girls who grew up without mothers, I see you.

To all the girls who have abusive mothers, I see you.

To all the girls who are currently not speaking to their mother, I see you.

To All the Girls whose mothers have died, I see you.

To All the Girls who are abandoned or neglected by their mothers only to have them come back into their lives I see you.

To all the girls whose mother figure was not actually their mother, I see you.

To all the girls who grew up in foster care, I see you.

To all the girls who are adopted, I see you.

From the age of 13 Mother's Day has made me Furious. From the days I worked in a mall and had to watch all the fawning mothers and daughters every single season, laughing and holding hands and being so happy together, well inside I raged and fumed and was miserable. And all the time thinking what made you so special that you got to have your mother and I did not?

I hold you all in my heart and I know how hard it is.

#motherless #mother's day #daughters #orphans #fosters #for you

[disasterpost]

A few days ago I looked through my mothers pictures when she was young and I came across one where she was probably 20-22 years old. She was leaning back on her very first car and smiling big, incredibly proud of herself because she bought this car with her own money.

As I looked at this picture fondly remembering my mother and her laugh I recalled how she always said she hated her smile, that it looked ugly and she didn't like smiling in public. I always told her it was nonsense and how making my mom smile was my favorite thing to do in the world

I also remembered how I stopped smiling in my own pictures. Most of them just have me looking at the camera with very contained emotions. I didn't want to smile those big smiles because I didn't like how I looked. Giving the same reasons as my mother.

As I thought about my own smile I looked at this picture of my 20 year old mother and I realized she has given me her smile

Every time I felt joy I didn't know how to express I would smile this big smile that I hated on me but loved on my mother

Ever since she died I missed her smile, her laugh, her jokes not realizing that she has passed on her smile and laugh onto me.

She has been gone for over a year now but lately I have started to like my smile a lot more

#personal #grief #motherless daughter

[whimsidollie]

Finding the in between of "Not intimidating enough to where people my age wont come up to compliment me" and "Dressed up enough to where older people and judgmental parents will shake their heads and the more bolder ones will actually say something" has been a very fun process

#dollmaker speaks #The more bolder ones instantly get chewed tf out by my mom tho lmao #THEY most likely dont approve but I never leave the house without her approval on an outfit so she takes it as personal offense lmao #For a 4 foot 11 woman my mom can be absolutely terrifying when it comes down to it #ESPECIALLY since im her youngest and her daughter #Also bc she used to dress the way i dress and she id actually the one that has pushed me to go more out there in terms of dress #Tho i do find it funny when the more shitty kids my age go likr Ohhh fatherless motherless behavior when nine times outa ten #My mom and my dad both compliment my outfits #Like yeah i may not have a good relationshop with my father but my dad is a fuckin champ and i adore him #The mans has literally helped me find good steel toed boots before among other things he 100% approves #Id like to see YOUR parents compliment you if you start dressing like me

[unsent-letters-to-heaven]

unsent letters 0205

Dear Mama,

I wish I had given you the things you wanted to have. I wish I had spent more time with you so I was able to give you a simple treat that would make you happy.

Going to malls makes me sadder nowadays.

Always misses you,

Your princess

#unsent letters #life #healing #motherless daughter #mom #love

[dragonseeded]

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#i want to talk about viserra's dynamics with her family so bad hgrhrhrn. #the sheer HATRED and yet love and possessiveness she feels for her half-siblings. #especially when she was young; and the twin girls were just born #motherless; fatherless; and now without even the title of 'only child' to her name; not even 'only daughter'. #she improved her relationship as she got older and thus internally accepted being a bastard ( read : being revolted at being alive ). #she used to pinch rhaena and baela as babies to purposefully make them cry; #and would belittle them for not being 'as true a valyrian as i' for not being dragonriders; while she rode the large cannibal. #she would later try to force herself to mend this relationship by offering to let them ride cannibal with her. #her relationships with aegon and viserys were much more outwardly doting from the get-go; since she was like what. 15? when they were born. #HGFHFHJ THOUGHTS.

[son1c]

cream and cheese from my sonic prime au :]

originally, the two of them called deepfreeze domain "home." but that changed when g.u.n. came knocking on their door.

see, g.u.n. keeps tabs on anyone who forms a bond with a particularly strong wisp... for recruitment purposes, of course! and power is one such wisp--as it grants its partner temporary invulnerability. it's kind of like a super form, but without the chaos energy.

and so, seeing the potential in the young duo, g.u.n. demanded that they join the wisp races. but star's mom--this shatterspace's version of vanilla--didn't want her daughter involved in such a dangerous race, and she refused.

the thing about g.u.n., though, is that they don't really take "no" for an answer. so, they "disposed" of her... leaving star motherless, and very, very upset.

thankfully, syzygy heard the commotion and was able to rescue star and her wisp before they were snatched by the military. now, the three of them traverse space together, looking for a way to restore the planet to how it was before it broke in half, and before the wisp races ever existed.

#sonic #sonic the hedgehog #sth #cream the rabbit #sonic prime #sonic au #scribbles #10verse #there's a doodle page i started of her but i'll finish that later #i think her outfit is swag. she's so sad and emo. but it could be worse! #she could've gotten abducted by the military! #remember that <3

[opens-up-4-nobody]

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#tis i! tragic daughter one of three! #motherless at age 26 #the last wake was today and this was more fun than the 1st. more casual. my moms childhood friends were there #ans it was fun to catch up with my uncle and his side of the family #i feel so weird tho. bc ppl r asking how we r and like genuinely i feel fine most of the time #like my sister is like: i sacrificed so much for my mom and i saw her downslide into death #and im like yea i fucked off to [redacted state] and showed uo after the horrible part was over #and bc im finally on medication i really feel better than i have possibly ever. so its just weird #weird to br at my mother's wake and think: god ive wasted so much fucking time being miserable. i dont want to do that anymore #and i feel like thats an option now. i mean ill always be frustrated by the same things. the difficulty reading and focusing #and the lack of social ease. but it feels like less of a big deal now #i say that now before im entrenched in school again. but idk. its just weird #but idk i love my mom but there was distance there and i have weird insect brain which i think makes it hurt less #i dunno. maybr ill feel it more later. when im on my own again #its just that i never reached out to her. i didnt realy on her and she didnt reach out to me so now things won't change much #i dunno. well see #unrelated