#much positivity. i love it

[dumpster-fire-sapphic-failgirl]

If Aabria has 1 million fans, I am one of them

If Aabria has 1 thousand fans, I am one of them

If Aabria has 1 hundred fans, I am one of them

If Aabria has 1 fan, it is Brennan Lee Mulligan and I have been killed, please avenge me

#dimension 20 #aabria iyengar #y’all best not be coming for her about system choice or cinematic descriptions or shit like that #because i will fight you #but also that red headed dollop of sunshine and positivity and union solidarity loves and respects tf out of her #and i respect that #burrow's end #burrow’s end is gonna make me cry so goddamn much i bet

[knifearo]

this year my challenge for everyone is to unlearn the association between love and morality. love is not something that is inherently morally good, and the absence of love is not something that is inherently bad. sex without love isn't morally bankrupt, it's just an action. people without love aren't less kind or less good, they're just people. when we can get past this false (and often unnoticed) dichotomy of good love/evil lovelessness then i think we are going to be able to take leaps and bounds in sex positivity, aro advocacy, certain discussions of mental health...

#and also. not the direct focus. but love doesn't make things good. you can be in love and do terrible terrible things. #people do bad things in the name of love and in despite of love all the time. #but!! imagine a world where people could exist as people and not be demonized. #sex positivity means being cool about All sex. reexamine your internal systems of moral judgement. #this goes for sex workers. for aroallo people. especially aroallo men. for aro people in general who might enjoy sex. #and frankly i think it can easily bleed into discussions about mental health disorders around 'not feeling' certain things #especially demonizing ppl who don't feel as much empathy. i think there's definitely a correlation between that and the emphasis on love. #our support needs to go out to Everybody and i think these things are all structured together in one way or another!! #it might not be immediately obvious but when i tell you it all leads back to amatonormativity..... little bit wild.... large bit wild.... #anyway. horror movie psychopath 'oh he can't feel emotions or love' damn alright. well. let's take a closer look at that. #silly that there's an association between lack of love and Murdering. feel like that might affect some stuff. #love is just an emotion/a feeling it doesn't mean anything about you one way or another #same with empathy. you can feel it all you want but it doesn't inherently change the actions you choose to take #anyway. thesis statement. there is a socially constructed link between love and morality. unlearn that. #kiss kiss (<— lovelessly) #aromantic #aromanticism #arospec #talking #aroace #aspec #sex positivity

[sam-violet]

chillin in the hot springs 🌱

+ a closeup

#ok so after drawing this i realized a major anatomical error that i compeltely overlooked and its bothering me so much that i cant unsee it #but i like how the drawing turned out so im not gonna change it #its bc if theyre both sitting down in the pool. there is no room for nemesis. but i hope you all can imagine that the pool is very deep and #they are actually standing #ok please imagine that for my sanity thank you #in my og sketch they were at the right edge of the pool and they would both have room to sit in this position but i moved them #cause i thought it would look better compositionally #and just didnt realize that the anatomy wouldnt make sense that way lmfao #anyway hope yall can still enjoy this melnem fanart #melnem #hades 2 #hades ii #melinoe #nemesis #fanart #my artwork #illustration #i need these two to kiss kiss fall in love asap #oh my god also i love the little detail of their painted nails on their in game artwork #so cute #melinoe has green nails and nemesis has red nails #im love them

[fella-lovin-fella]

hey i just wanted to give a shout out to people with personality disorders real quick. your disorder doesn't make you evil, it doesnt make you an abuser, and it doesnt make you unlovable. you're just as deserving of respect, care, and support as people without personality disorders. stay safe, i love you and i hope you have a happy holiday season. we're in this together <3

#also i hope you remember it's not your fault #i love you so much muah #bpd #borderline personality disorder #npd #narcissistic personality disorder #schizophrenia #aspd #histrionic pd #ocd #bpd positivity #npd positivity #ocd positivity #personality disorder #mental health #mental health awareness #mental health positivity #mental illness positivity #not mlm #dantes talking again

[07170]

TRANSSEXUALITY IS A GIFT FROM GOD | 2022

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#truisms #t4t #i love this one so fucking much. #ftm #trans positivity #trans joy #my work #series #mtf

[somethingcorenotsure]

I think it's so adorable that early humans took wild gourds - a tiny fruit that hollows out as it dries, making it float - and decided to make something out of it

they thought the tiny fruit was so good that they bred it for thousands of years, making it larger to form into bowls and cups, and different shapes to become bottles and spoons

and musical instruments

And then, people took the hollow gourds they farmed, and they turned them into houses for birds. We adapted them into the perfect houses for birds, and now there are specific breeds of birdhouse gourd just for making into birdhouses

And humans dedicated gardening space and time and thousands of years of breeding to make the gourds so absolutely perfect for birds, that there is a species of bird that lives almost exclusively in them

#yes I KNOW i posted about this the other day but *crying* i just love plant domestication and the history of agriculture #and humanity's positive affect on the ecosystems we live in #mine #image IDs in alt text #hmm. I'm gonna tag this #permaculture #just to pspsps @ that community to look at how cool gourds are please everyone grow birdhouse gourds and give cavity nesters places to live #i don't think mine will become fully ripe before i get my first frost :( next year i need to start gourds indoors #i didn't want to grow them before because i didn't have much garden space but now i do and i need to grow all of them #i might be. a little obsessed with gourds. but also i saw a pair of purple martins flying by the road last year #and i had never seen one before then! and i need to see more of them #i have a few hundred barn swallows but i need more birds flying around my house. more!! #and also i have a ton of invasive cavity nesting species around here. house sparrows and starlings. #gotta make up for those things competing with native birds for nest dites #*sites #the invasive birds very often win :/ #that's why they're invasive #i really do need to start trapping them....

[firefangs]

i am on this earth for a reason, i must be, i am right where i need to be

#art #tiger #my art #traditional art #sketchbook #doodle #markers #tigers #orange #oranges #positivity #love #lovecore #more self acceptance + self indulgent art weeee #i draw art for myself now! how cool! it is so much more fulfilling #ignore the circle where i drew an orange in the wrong place and tried to go over it in white posca . #shhhhh .

[arofulboyfriend]

I feel like sometimes, aro/ace/aroace positivity posts can accidentally exclude us non gold star holders, so reminder:

if you are ace and have had consensual sex in the past but don't want it anymore, you are still ace

if you are aro and have had a romantic relationship in the past but don't want one anymore, you are still aro

yes, even if the "past" was last week, yes, even if these things happened while you were already identifying as ace/aro/aroace, yes, even if you enjoyed them, yes, even if you didn't, yes, even if you're neutral, yes, even if you'd be willing to try again. (and of course, aces/aros/aroaces who still do those things/have those relationships are just as ace/aro/aroace as the rest of us)

and especially

yes, even if you are sex and/or romance repulsed now

#aromantic #asexual #aroace #aspec #arospec #aroacespec #aromantic positivity #asexual positivity #aroace positivity #seren yaps #im not a gold star holder and have had sex and romantic relationships but im sex repulsed and romance neutral now #and sometimes i feel very much like a faker because of it #gold star rhetoric is hurtful and dangerous #so this is as much a positivity post for me as it is for all yall #i love u (platonically) #i appreciate you (for the loveless among us)

[poorlittleyaoyao]

from this poll

#closeness has nothing to do with depth of affection!!! don't come at me about the Nie Bros.!! #they love each other SO MUCH but boy oh boy do they misunderstand each other until it's too late! #meanwhile (not unlike NMJ) WQ has posited herself so firmly in the position of WN's protector that he can't fully know her #I debated the entire day about the placements for the Wen sibs + Lan sibs + Nie sibs #but went with these bc LXC and LWJ are at least fully aware of each other's close personal relationships #whereas WN has no idea about WQ and the comb (and very possibly no idea about how WRH uses him to keep WQ in line) #and NHS and NMJ keep hella secrets from each other even after their heart-to-heart in Fatal Journey #(in case it wasn't obvious: this is for CQL canon specifically do NOT bring novel canon into my home at this time)

[witch--btch]

Sleeping positions…

Official Art by Satoru Nii

#Sugishita I beg you please you will suffocate #Kiryu hugging his body pillow though is so cute #wtf #why is it that Sakura sleeping in a fetal position kind of make me want to cry #suo is not fucking human #what do you mean he sleeps like Snow White #like a dead person even #help him #Kaji also cracks me up for some reason #Hiragi just looks grumpy as hell #but I love his hair down so much #wind breaker #windbre #windbreaker #wind breaker (satoru nii) #wind breaker art #sakura hakura #hayato suo #nirei akihiko #kyotaro sugishita #taiga tsugeura #kiryu mitsuki #hajime umemiya #ren kaji #hiragi toma

[buckevantommy]

i'm so glad they brought back tommy for buck. they could've brought back eli. they could've brought back the openly gay firefighter. they could've introduced someone new. but instead they brought back tommy: the guy who was stuck in the old boys' club, as well as figuring himself out around the same age as buck. the guy who wasn't warm or welcoming to chim or hen when they first arrived but who clearly struggled with doing so, and then who came to appreciate them and have their backs and enjoy their friendship. the guy who was there to see how bobby made a real difference to the 118, made it like a family before he left. the guy who was there for bobby's introduction of 'family dinners'. the guy who left the 118 so that buck could take his place there. the guy with the tk initials. the guy who shares a name with 2 other poignant tommys in the narrative for buck. the guy who chim called not once but twice for help and he answered. the guy who was saved by chimney and who will (hopefully) get to return the favour. the guy who made such pivitol personal growth in his time at the 118 thanks to chim and hen and bobby. they brought back the guy who proves that it's never too late to change, to grow, to be open and soft and caring. that it's never too late to learn about yourself, to figure out who you are as well as the person you want to be. that it's never too late to become a better version of yourself.

#tommy kinard #i love him So Much More now that i've seen his s2 eps - he grows so much over those 3 eps!!! he went from tommy 1.0 #to tommy 2.0 to 3.0 to now 4.0. he's grown like buck has grown and it's just- *chef's kiss!* #for some reason tumblr decided to put ant* tommy posts on my for you page and they were bitching #about bringing back tommy (1.0/2.0) like he was a concrete idea incapable of growth. i just shook my head. #bc obviously these people have missed one of the main points of the show: that people are capable of positive change. #you know what that is? growth. 🌱 #.txt #911 abc

[aboveweirdest]

Watching tristamp: oh vash has mommy issues

Watching trigun 98: oh vash has MOMMY ISSUES

Reading Trimax: Actually Vash went through an extremely traumatising event at a young age and had to face the realities of humans. Rem was there, as the twins' mother figure, to represent the good. Reconciling humanity's differences is what made him how he is, and he projects that onto Rem. In this essay I will-

#trigun #vash the stampede #wolfwood #vash #trigun stampede #nicholas d. wolfwood #trigun maximum #trimax #tristamp #trigun 98 #tri98 #i guess it still kinda counts as mommy issues if he projects #i just don't think any other media does this background justice #is so much more complicated than “Well Rem said-” #he's not human but he is a person #it's HARD to keep going after lossing faith in humanity #it's HARD to see what he did and forgive them #and goddammit it's HARD to forgive them again and again and again #and stay POSITIVE (outwardly) the whole time #sorry for this novel in the tags #trigun spoiler #trimax spoiler #i just fucking love him #okay????

[kimtaegis]

LILACS BY THE SEA a music collection curated for @cordiallyfuturedwight Lilacs (Kayla) Playlist • Sea (Seokjin) Playlist song notes

cr. mahoneysuga, rawpixel, bts-trans, Diana Zviedrienė

#btsgif #btsedit #btsgfx #bangtan #bts #kim seokjin #usergif #gfx #tuserandi #usersan #userines #userkelli #usersky #tuseral #underbetelgeuse #usersevn #userzaynab #*sj #*gfx #*gifs #one day late :( #again - happy belated birthday my darling angel baby kayla #I really wish you nothing but happiness and joy and health and great memories and many smiles and of course LOVE LOVE LOVE #you're irreplaceable darling and I hope we all were able to show you how immensely appreciated admired and adored you are (triple a!) #this set here wouldn't have been created without 15 wonderful people (you can see who by clicking the 'song notes' link) #who love you so dearly and sent me songs for this little music collection #we all know what music means to you so this just felt Right. this is you! this is your essence! #I hope that when you listen to the two playlists you will be reminded of how many people you positively impact on the daily #we love you so much

[cordiallyfuturedwight]

kim line boys with luv for @aprylynn (cr. 0613data)

#userbangtan #usersky #annietrack #heyryen #useremmeline #usermaggie #userkelli #trackofthesoul #dailybts #mine! #btsedit #kim seokjin #kim namjoon #kim taehyung #tuserandi #usersolis #merry early christmas apryl my darling <333333333 love you so much hope you enjoy the season with your family! #lemme also be sappy for a second and just make sure to highlight how positive your prescence is #and how lovely it was to share time with you back in may i really hold it closely to my heart <3 #annie i already had this one planned so it feels kinda like cheating to put it in your xmas game but don’t worry i have more 😇 #let’s get this love fest started alright #I have must post gif disease this week

[topnotchquark]

Nico saying that Lewis gives his daughters boxes of presents every Christmas just got caught in my mind.

Imagine you were a mixed race boy born in Hertfordshire, different from everyone else around you. Bullied in school, being raised by your father to compete in a sport where money is very much of essence and you and your family do not have a lot of it. And then you meet this other boy who comes from the kind of life you dream to live one day. You're friends and fierce competitors. You find solace in each other. You visit Monaco for the first time with your friend, dreaming up the life you will have when you make it, when you beat out of the mould that the world thought it could capture you in.

And then you two grow through the ranks and you're at the pinnacle of your sport and you have what it takes to win and the world recognises that you can win. And you win. You win with your friend and fiercest competitor by your side fighting with you for those wins, and this fighting ruins something something that was valuable to both of you when you were still innocent and unsullied by life.

But despite everything that went into the doing and undoing of this relationship, you still realise that this person you once called a friend has a life and family beyond your bitter dynamic. He has children, and children need love and affection and good memories. And you're a better man now so you understand that. So you make sure the kids get gifts on Christmas. And you make sure of it every year. Afterall, if you met someone you loved deeply when you were both kids, wouldn't you feel a pang of nostalgia when they had kids. Wouldn't you try to extend the warmth that you couldn't find for your friend to his children. Afterall, whatever happens during childhood basically remains with you forever.

#and nico's perspective of the same is just #being bullied as a child and being profoundly lonely till you find this friend who is in many ways the yardstick for performance #and even when you go through all this rancidity and the love has almost evaporated down to bare bones politeness #you know there is something that remains deep down #and so he gets your kids Christmas gifts each year #both their childhoods were sites of pain and both of them found something with each other #and lewis honours that by being a positive presence in nico's childrens' lives #albeit from a distance #and of course we're no strangers to how much Nico loves his kids #you can bet if Lewis had kids Nico would do that same #sorry this caught in my heart a little #I knew he had been giving presents for a while and I always thought of that as very beautiful but seeing it on the tl made me remember #man #love haunts you in such peculiar ways forever #brocedes #lewis hamiton #nico rosberg #f1 #formula 1

[mintjeru]

rough day?

open for better quality | no reposts

#kaveh #alhaitham #kavetham #genshin impact #genshin #fanart #myart #doodle #i'm fine!! probably. i just wanted to draw alhaitham being comforted #while it is funny that he became acting grand sage despite not liking leadership positions- #i do feel bad for him just bc those positions often entail much more stress and work #kaveh gives him hug hugs and patpats and chu chus to help him feel better! and they will talk about whatever's bothering him #while i would love to wish for alhaitham this coming update i think we all know my priorities lie with a certain adeptus #i will have him eventually though #for kvthm reasons and personal reasons #unrelated but i also got k.hadein b.yleth in feh this morning. if anyone plays #snagged two 4 stars early into pity and decided that was a sign to stop #it's good though i have feathers so he's a merged 5 star now #didn't even have to whale 😌 #'whale' meaning i spend the 2k orbs i've been saving since forever