bpdminds

[bpdminds]

if you can’t handle me at my worst then we have something in common because neither can i

#me #queue me in

[bpdminds]

“wow you must’ve had to grow up so fast”

actually, my trauma stunted my emotional growth and now i’m a 20 something with the emotional intelligence of a 17 year old and trying to figure out how the fuck to be an adult but thanks for asking

#trauma #ptsd tag #queue me in

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me @ myself: please find a sense of identity that isn’t from hoarding like 1000 names

#I hoard names too #but like #baby names #queue me in

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Brain: You’re a horrible, worthless, garbage person, and your life is going nowhere but to hell.

Me: I don’t know what the fuck you expect me to do about that at 11PM, my dude.

#negative// #queue me in

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Curse abusive fathers

#fuck you #abuse tw #ptsd tag #queue me in

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VALENTINE'S DAY | ASK SPECIAL

1: Do you have a crush at the moment?

2: Have you ever been deeply in love?

3: Longest relationship you've ever been in?

4: Have you ever changed for someone?

5: How is your relationship with your ex?

6: Have you ever been cheated on?

7: Have you ever cheated?

8: Would you date someone who's well known for cheating?

9: What's the most important part of a relationship?

10: Do you like to be in serious relationships or just flings?

11: When you are dating someone do you believe in going on "breaks"?

12: How many people have you ever hooked up with?

13: What's one thing you regret saying/doing in a previous relationship?

14: What age do you think is appropriate for kids to start having sex?

15: Do you believe in the phrase "age is just a number"?

16: Do you believe in "love at first sight"?

17: Do you believe it's possible to fall in love on the internet?

18: What do you consider a deal breaker?

19: How do you know it's time to end a relationship?

20: Are you currently in a relationship?

21: Do you think people who have dated can stay friends?

22: Do you think people should date their friends?

23: How many relationships have you had?

24: Do you think love can last forever?

25: Do you believe love can conquer all things?

26: Would you break up with someone your parents didn't approve of?

27: If you could go back in time and give yourself one piece of advice about dating what would it be?

28: Do you think long distance relationships can work?

29: What do you notice first about another person?

30: Are you straight, bi, gay or pansexual?

31: Would it bother you if your partner suffered from any mental illness?

32: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship?

33: Do you want to get married one day?

34: What do you think about getting your partner's name tattooed?

35: Could you be in a relationship without sex?

36: Are you still a virgin?

37: What's more important: Looks or personality?

38: Do you enjoy love films?

39: Have you ever given anyone/received roses?

40: Have you ever had a valentine?

41: What's your imagination of a "perfect date"?

42: Have you ever read "Romeo & Juliet"?

43: What's more important: Your partner or your friends?

44: Would you consider yourself "romantic"?

45: Could you imagine to date one of your current friends?

46: Have you ever been "friendzoned"?

47: Which "famous couple" is your favorite?

48: What's your favorite love song?

49: Have you ever broken someone's heart?

50: If you're single, why do you think you are?

51: Would you rather date someone who's rich but a douchebag or someone who's poor but a nice guy?

52: Are you good at giving other people advices regarding dating/ relationships?

53: Are you jealous of couples when you're single?

54: How important is it to make a relationship official (p.e. on facebook)?

55: Would you consider yourself "clingy", "overly attached" or "jealous"?

56: Have you ever "destroyed" a relationship?

57: Do you think it's silly to consider suicide because of a broken heart?

58: Are you the "dominant" or the "submissive" part in a relationship?

59: Have you ever forgotten important dates like your partner's birthday or your anniversary?

60: What's your opinion on open relationships?

61: Who's more important: Your partner or your family?

62: How do you define "cheating"?

63: Is watching porn while being in a relationship inappropriate?

64: Do you think Valentine's Day is overrated?

65: Would you consider yourself a "cuddler"?

#sex tw #suicide ment #ask to tag

[bpdminds]

You can be a kind person and still say no.

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[bpdminds]

me : im gonna be productive today ! I’m gonna get some work done and clean up , maybe go out-

my brain :

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Can my mood stay stable for like, an hour? Just one hour?

#or even a minute lol #bpd tag #queue me in

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#negative// #death wish tw #queue me in

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*goes from depressed to overwhelmingly anxious to affectionate to angry to suicidal to neutral in a grand total of 0.2 seconds* life is beautiful

#suicide tw #bpd tag #queue me in

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Having BPD like...

me:  like hello yes i’d like one stable personality and some stable emotions please.

#bpd tag #queue me in

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it doesn’t matter how good you’re doing, those sad nights will creep up on you from time to time and that’s ok. doesn’t mean all your progress is gone

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for my fellow trauma survivors, 

you aren’t faking

I believe you

#trauma #positive #queue me in

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me: stutters out fifteen sentence fragments that no-one can make sense of not even me me: you know?

#yeah #stpd tag

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someone: you talk about your bpd way too much

me: it’s almost as if it’s a personality disorder, that defines everything that i am

#auhdwyidjdjd #me #(bpd doesn’t always define u tho) #bpd tag #queue me in

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#positive #medication tw #queue me in