Do you want me to get dressed/take the collar off/put the crop away?
Do you want to talk about it?
I’m here
You’re not a bad person
Top drop/dom drop usually comes from shock, guilt or insecurity about the way you have just treated someone whose well-being you care about very much. Like sub drop, it is usually accompanied by a fall in endorphins and general energy levels. Especially for aces (who I find have a greater need to be in the right mindset/’zone’ for play and intimacy), a ‘snap’ moment where you break out of play mode can throw you emotionally, and the end of play causes a similar reassessment or double-take at what happened during the scene.
Dominants in drop require the same kind of care as subs, but a different kind of reassurance.
Nice early delivery this morning in Nuneaton, now parked up for 36 hours before starting the week all over again - Loading in London and running flat out to Holland 🤘
Good day today, 5 mile hike up the valley, following the river up towards the mountains. Love the sound of water and nature, so peaceful. Of course had to refresh myself with a beer when I got home 😉 Cymru am byth 🏴❤️ (at Amman Valley) https://www.instagram.com/p/CpjAh6-I3vR/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
Today was a good day, nice little 5 mile Hike through the valley, following the river up towards the mountains. Then back to the warmth of the house to chill with a beer.
Trying to gain confidence in sharing more on here.