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lohvur · 3 years
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What the sex positive movement should be about:
Women’s pleasure matters and should be seen as important in every sexual relationship involving one
Women shouldn’t be shamed or punished for having sex and liking sex
Women shouldn’t be shamed or punished for not having sex and not liking sex
Lesbian relationships shouldn’t serve as voyeuristic material for men to jerk off to
Women should be seen as full human beings and not just a hole to stick a dick into
Women’s bodies should not be turned into products to sell, sex with women should be seen as human interaction and not a right every man on earth has
What the sex positive ended up being about:
Be a slut!!! It’s ok and encouraged to be a slut!!!
Yes, girl suck that dick!! That’s what I call empowerment!
Let’s pretend Sex work is just women getting money for things they’d do for free lol hell yeah get that money from those men who are paying to rape you queen!!
If you don’t like BDSM you’re sexphobic and you hate all sex!!! Let men abuse women if it makes them orgasm!!! Let women be abused by men if they’ve been brainwashed into thinking abuse is good!!!
Here’s 15 tips on how to be more like that pornstar in that violent porn video your bf likes so much!
People who are against the sex industry are jealous because they’re not hot enough to be strippers!!
If you put any kind of control at all over who’s in porn videos posted online you hate every single sex worker who’s ever existed and you want them to die!!
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lohvur · 3 years
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People who cling the most tightly to their identity labels as a means of defining themselves are usually just compensating for being completely uninteresting people.
The fact I’m a woman, a lesbian, a brunette, whatever – these are all beyond my control and actually quite boring on their own. The things that might make those aspects of my identity more interesting is what experiences I may have had because of them. I love these things about myself wholeheartedly, because that’s what self-acceptance is. But I won’t pretend (beyond a few jokes here and there) that they’re what makes me interesting. What I learn, say, do, have lived through, love – they are what defines me.
It’s why I feel sympathy for those in LGBT spaces today, or even idpol heavy ideologies, who cling to micro-identity labels because they don’t know how else to express they have a personality. And when those calling the shots in these ideologies create hierarchies of these micro-identities, of course they feel personally offended when they are deemed not oppressed or privileged enough. They’ve attached every aspect of their being, of their understanding of themselves, to these labels.
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lohvur · 3 years
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lohvur · 3 years
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some of you have ‘identities’ that deserve to be invalidated. some of them are unhealthy, actively hurt disenfranchised groups, or have no basis in material reality. the overbearing identity politics that exists on the internet, this whole postmodernist idea of ‘I say it so I am!’ is completely irrelevant when we’re considering actual oppressions within societies/cultures. it is meaningless.
I saw a post once on here saying ‘some of you deserve to feel less valid’ and I have never seen anything truer. some of you need to get your self-indulgent heads out of your asses too and consider that the entire world doesn’t need to alter itself due to ~your feelings~ and if you think it does, maybe your feelings/identity/whatever are the problem here.
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lohvur · 3 years
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I made a new blog for personal use! I’ve followed most of my friends already so I’ll message you with the url, may also drop it to a few mutual too.
if you want the url please dm me, for privacy reasons ♄
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lohvur · 3 years
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yeah! congratulations to keira and mrs A 💓
Is anyone else anxiously following the Keira Bell case? I’m so glad this is finally being discussed in court.
For those who don’t know, Keira Bell, who was prescribed puberty blockers at age 16 & later detransitioned, is taking the Tavistock clinic, who run the only gender identity development service (GIDS) for kids, to court - effectively saying children can’t consent to puberty blockers & other related medical procedures because they’re too young to be able to appreciate the life-altering consequences. Not to mention that these drugs are experimental with no proper look into long-term effects & that children are too young to be told of certain side effects.
Nail-biting stuff. I have a link to a good thread that’s following the court discussion, if anyone is interested.
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lohvur · 3 years
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You're not a feminist you're a terf. How dare you call yourself a feminist and exclude your trans sisters.
what do you think the f stands for?
Oh wait sorry I misread what you had said. My mistake. 
yeah no. i 100% want transwomen out of feminism. i am the definition of a terf.
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lohvur · 3 years
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& that’s it on that.
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lohvur · 4 years
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Termas de San Joaquin, Coahuila, Mexico
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lohvur · 4 years
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I made a new blog for personal use! I’ve followed most of my friends already so I’ll message you with the url, may also drop it to a few mutual too.
if you want the url please dm me, for privacy reasons ♄
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lohvur · 4 years
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“Who are dressing up for?” The butch lesbian I might randomly see in the shopping center who else?
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lohvur · 4 years
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I’M GONNA PISS
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lohvur · 4 years
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Love being brutally called out by the British Library
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lohvur · 4 years
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lohvur · 4 years
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upon consideration i want all of you to tell me your mitski song. like we love all of them but what's Your Mitski Song. mine is thursday girl.
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lohvur · 4 years
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https://twitter.com/FemalesFighting/status/916980740239253510
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lohvur · 4 years
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#NoWomanEver
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