One of the things that makes arguing with men so much more draining than arguing with women is the unequal distribution of credibility and contribution.
Somehow, whenever I argue with men, it always falls upon me to both prove my own claims, and to disprove his, while he does neither; his only obligation seemingly to dole out whatever ungrounded assertions he conjures up on the spot. Somehow, it is always wordlessly established that anything I say is false until proven true, while anything he says is true until proven false.
This same dynamic happened again over on tiktok, when a man claimed women are just as violent as men. Automatically, almost as if by muscle memory, I offered up the usual statistics on male depravity: men constituting 99% of rapists, 99% of mass shooters, 98% of killers, 95% of serious domestic abusers. And his only response was to say those statistics were wrong. No elaboration; wrong simply because he said so.
I already knew how the entire conversation would pan out: I’d give him my source, he’d find a reason to discredit the source, then I’d scour the internet to find a source that suited his standards, which he’d inevitably find a reason to discredit too.
So instead I simply said, “Prove the statistics are wrong.” And that was the only thing I responded with henceforth: prove it, prove I’m wrong, prove you’re right. Thus reversing the dynamics and positing that anything I said was true unless he demonstrated otherwise; unduly putting all the onus on him while I did nothing other than decide whether he was convincing me of claims thoroughly enough—and if he wasn’t, it just meant I was winning, of course.
He blocked me, and so far so have all the other men I’ve used this approach on. I don’t know whether it’s because they couldn’t actually disprove my claims or because they couldn’t stand to be treated the same way they treat women in debates. But I think more women should do this. Stop wasting energy proving your points to men, and start making them prove theirs to you.
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i want female only sports, including chess. i also want female only book clubs and female only karaoke nights and female only whatever women want to enjoy without the threat of men breathing down their necks. it's not about physical or mental superiority and more about me just wanting one place where i don't have to deal with sexists and chauvinists, especially when im doing something i love.
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Men can nuke humanity to extinction but women who choose not to have children are the ones men fear the most to kill their bloodlines. Men develop weapons that can kill tens of millions of humans at once but it's women who need to be controlled so we don't bring nations to their knees. Humanity can be destroyed by men committing mass murder on an apocalyptic scale or humanity can be destroyed by women refusing to give birth.
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the look all the blue haired communist give you when they try their “i’m a non-abled intersex trans woman suffering from a plethora of diseases” excuse to get out of labour :
Why are these people, those who do no or refuse hard or meaningful labour, the face of these economic revolutionary parties?
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How is this a confusing or unexpected result?
Trans "men" are female. Lesbians are female homosexuals. Why is this fucked up?
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The "sexual revolution" has expanded the range of sexual activities that women are expected to perform to please men. Female sexual pleasure is disdained, female sexual performance is praised. We are encouraged to ignore our comfort and dignity. Wanting to be treated with respect and affection is a sign that you are sexually repressed. The greatest victory of male depravity.
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an adult man who sexually assaulted two+ teenage girls, one he met when she was 11 at his job as a school resource officer, finally shot himself right outside where i live after he killed his ex wife who was attempting to protect and help the 17 year old girl he sexually assaulted and impregnated who was living with him.
rest in peace amber rodriguez and angelica santos, and i hope all men rot in eternity for allowing this to happen
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When I was on anonymous venting sites, I came across a homosexual guy and a homosexual girl who had both been sexually abused as children, and who both had female perpetrators.
Both of them discussed a deep sense of shame regarding their homosexuality, and how they were mortified of the idea that others would attribute their homosexuality to the fact that they were child sexual abuse victims.
It was the first time I really noticed that homosexuals can never simply be recognized as victims of sexual abuse in the same, uncomplicated way that heterosexuals are. For homosexual people, it seems that whether their abuser was of the sex they're attracted to, or the sex they're not attracted to, the sexual abuse will always be blamed for either making them gain or lose attraction to the sex of their abuser.
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P0rn addicted moid can't accept the truth.
Thankfully,people in the comments were siding with the therapist.
Even when confronted with multiple people sharing good advice,men won't question their own views...
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There are SO many stories with this outcome.. i don’t think it’s worth to make your “desired” genitalia, just to experience severe pain and dilation for the rest of your life
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Suggestion for a poll
"what peaked you?" And then list various things that could make someone peak
With questions so open-ended, I really prefer if you give me the options already! I've tried to include most of what I've seen on radblr but I'm probably forgetting a lot of important stuff too
Thanks for the suggestion!
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