#You’re both wrong how about that!!

[righteousruin]

Oh Christ,

Steadfast belief in restorative justice is psychosis, Grant??

#Like don’t get me wrong I DO agree that Batman’s refusal to kill is intimately linked to that moment in his life! #I DO believe part of him will always be stuck in that alley! #But Batman’s commitment to giving people a chance to do better isn't psychosis??? #It’s his decision to be kind despite the alternative making his life a MILLION times easier that makes him a hero #It’s not a compulsion you fuckwit it’s a radical act of compassion and proof of his determination and self-control #You were so close to being good at your job shame on me for having hope for one second #Ooc #negativity cw #You’re both wrong how about that!! #It’s an essential element to him being a super rich white dude in a place of privilege trying to lead by example for a better world #Real shock that two of the most prominent white voices in comic entertainment don’t want to talk about that tho color me been knew

[hella1975]

basically threw away £20 on my nails today so was already getting weird bc i apparently cannot be normal about money and then my paycheck came through just for my manager to have knocked off 11 hours worth of pay. so naturally i am crying in a dark room about it

#this is such a girl moment wdym you’re crying about your fucking nails. couldn’t explain it to you if i tried #im just an utter FREAK about money and then for my payslip to get fucked as well. whyyyyy would you do that #im not built for the working world truly idk how sensitive people do it bc i am NOT im tough as shit 99% of the time and i STILL can’t deal #just give me my fucking money it’s not fair 😭😭😭 i worked hard 😭😭😭 #and the dumbest brattiest part of this is that the thing that tipped me over the edge is that my mum didn’t offer to pay for my nails #like how ridiculous and spoiled is that but still i was so so angry at myself about fucking them up and it’s £25 to get them done tomorrow #and I’ve worked so hard for her this summer and both days I’ve been in town I’ve got her things #like nothing spenny but I’ve just thought of her and got her things I know she’d like just to be nice #and £25 is NOTHING TO HER AND SHE DIDNT EVEN OFFER 😭😭 she even joked it off #she was like ‘your dad would offer to pay if he was here but I believe in lessons’ GIRL FUCK YOUR LESSONS I WANT MY NAILS DONE 😭😭😭 #why am i actually in tears over this. this is so silly. now all my money is fucked and im going to be the skint one when we go to dublin #AS USUAL. even though i worked hard and clocked the hours it still got fucked bc im fucking. cursed #im aware im being dramatic and this isn’t even about the amount of money i have atm i promise this isn’t some desperate bankruptcy claim #like for once im actually fine money wise it’s just all been FUCKED and my dates are now FUCKED bc i have to wait for next paycheck now #and it’s so unfair bc usually things go wrong for me bc im DUMB and mess it up LIKE MY NAIL APPOINTMENT #but for work and dublin i literally planned it perfectly and did the hours and it still didn’t work #like what is WRONG with me. i hate being an adult i need a sugar daddy ive had enough #the message I sent my manager…. scathing…. ik his scared of confrontation ass is panicking. give me my fucking MONEY #hella goes home

[puppyeared]

footnotes arent enough I need you to talk to me like im fucking Amelia Bedelia

#this isn’t about anything in particular btw. I just have to add a lot of memos when I’m doing things because some things are done a certain #way and it isn’t explained well in the instructions. like my mom has instructions on her baking recipes right #but when it says stuff like add dry ingredients to wet ingredients it also means you don’t dump it in one go you add it slowly by portion #this is probably why I find videos and demonstrations the most helpful when I learn something. like I almost always ask someone to show me #how they do it because there could be something they do that’s already second nature and wouldn’t really be considered in an explanation yk #I don’t think I’m an exception either. when the rice is done cooking I divide it into 4 quarters to bless it #but there are a million ways to divide rice and it makes me think that one persons way of doing it or not doing it all is just as valid #theres also technically no wrong way to divide rice afaik. this means either all ways of dividing rice is safe or valid until we find some #universally terrible way of dividing rice. until that happens nobody really thinks about specifying HOW you divide the rice #source: I have anxiety starting and doing things for the first time because I got way too many people yell at me NONONO WHAT ARE YOU DOING #THATS WRONG while I’m in the middle of doing the thing. I would rather have people think I’m either very stupid or overly specific #than go thru the panic inducing fear of ‘YOURE DOING THIS WRONG OMG WHY DIDNT YOU ASK AHEAD OF TIME THIS WILL BE FUCKED UP FOREVER’ 🧍 #nothing wrong if you don’t give something a second thought because you’re so used to it. but I can and will ask about it and I don’t think I #really should feel bad about it if I don’t know enough to dispute it. idk #the other way around I try to be as specific as possible and word things in a way that people who might not get where I’m coming from will #understand. but the problem with that is my explanations tend to be lengthy and I lose them either way 🗿 #Im. trying to work on that using examples and stuff because they seem to work the best #but if I could write everything down on a word doc and beam it into your melon that would save both of us time and embarassment #im rambling the short version is I have adhd #yapping

[simcardiac-arrested]

once again sorry to everyone for bringing this to your dashboards. but some of you are like, genuinely delirious. not even in a funny way. & i hope you die. i hope we both die. hand in unlovable hand etc etc

#Just so fucking bizarre to me how people can be Like This. there has to be something so wrong with your brain on a fundamental level #i can’t even laugh about this or anything because i genuinely feel pity for these people. it’s so sad to me how you’re gonna be like 20 #and then go in a niche tumblr community and create drama over Nothing. over Thin Fucking Air #like do you not have a life? do you not have college? or a job? doesn’t it get tiring? don’t you ever feel ashamed about all this #and the fact that they go and complain about the shipping and the ‘fandombrained’ people as well…. oh my god #how are you going to be TWENTY. and DO THAT. are you seriously sick. ? do you need help #just say you are homophobic and that you hate kids and go. it’ll save everyone a bunch of time for sure #anyways. as someone who has been a rain world fan since 2018. i love you embracing canon. i love you changing canon. i love you disregarding #canon entirely. i love you ships that make sense in canon & that make absolutely zero sense at all. i love you fancharacters that don’t #follow canon rules. i love you ‘cringe’ fancharacters and self inserts. i love you self shipping. i love you oc x canon shipping. #and i love you taking inspiration from designs. i love you community & i love you artists & i love you art #i love you borrowing elements and being inspired and referencing something because you liked it. #are fandoms perfect? GOOD GOD no. is every Fan perfect? no. am i also sometimes annoyed or irrationally pissed off over a ship that #i think is stupid and is illogical. Yes! i’m only human! but i can still love and appreciate the whole CREATIVITY of it all. and the whole #Fun that people are having. i love you having fun. if i don’t like it or if anyone else doesn’t like it they can just Cope #instead of hateposting about it on main and indirectly bullying people who are most likely children. or lgbt. or both #anyways. please continue doing whatever you want. The world is your oyster and you only live on earth once #everyone else can fuck off

[taviokapudding]

Seeing everyone else discuss their names for Scaramouche/Wanderer is making me realize I put too much thought into it

I’m going with “Fujin Ahana” because it’s got layers

Fujin (風神)because duh, the god of wind is connected to Raijin or Raiden. I feel like that’s a pretty self explanatory last name consider how connected the Inazuma lore is to the Shinto pantheon. Honestly if you didn’t know that reference by now and why that’s the main reason they’re anemo, you gotta be living under a rock.

Aahana or Ahana (亜華/天花) is a name that can mean immortal, morning glory, heaven, sky, or flower depending on the language you’re referencing and it’s also a common last name for those of Chinese descent born overseas. I’m going with the Japanese spelling, Wanderer is going to wake up as a reborn person in a new nation that is full of Sanskrit based names, & it’s typically a female name which kinda pokes at Scaramouche’s initial purpose without blatantly calling them a puppet. Most people assume they’re trans, I suspect the same- at least non-binary so I rather play into that without making it too obvious. Also their redesigned hat & Hindu referencing accessories reminds people of the Aranara & being in the dendro nation, it just makes sense to go with a flower based name.

Other names I considered but I figured not too because they might be used as a Sumeru npc name or be associated with someone else & I rather not clarify every time I’m asked are Caelus, Anila, Enlil, Samir, Azure, & Shu. I also went down a list of flower names and saying “fuu-jin ah-hah-nah” & “ah-hah-nah fuu-jin” outloud felt super natural to me.

Btw there’s a rumor their birthday is Jan 3 & I like the idea of naming them Carnation but do you know how silly that would be in terms of the symbolism? They’re learning how to love but he’s not THAT committed. I considered Carna for short but that’s the name of the goddess who protects internal organs and they’re missing a heart 💀

Like go off if you want to name them Scara or Balladeeznutsinyourmouth to each their own but man, I do feel a bit silly spending a few hours looking at baby names now.

#mun post #Genshin Impact #the wanderer #wanderer #scaramouche #oh yeah so also Fujin or Futen tend to be used as last names so yes I’m doing the thing where it’s last than first #but for the en speakers it’d be ahana fujin which also just feels right when you say it out loud #there’s something phonetically pleasing about the combo working both ways #which rarely happens like try saying Kazuha Kadehara or Miku Hatsune out #loud it doesn’t feel right or comfy at all #because phonetically it’s got all the vowels in the wrong places for English #also Ahana is just a nice name to say outloud in Spanish #because you’re really going ah-jah-na #anyways good luck with the names everyone #Tbh I chose not to go with Scara because that’s the name of a real life robot so I was like “man that’s kinda messed up” #also for those wondering the scara bot is the Selective Compliance Articulated Robot Arm #like google it - it’s literally the scara bot #also like Ahana/Wanderer/Scaramouche is sorta immortal in a similar way to Albedo and it makes me wonder how Khaenri’ah tech and alchemy #works so I also considered science based names but since we don’t know what he’s made of exactly I kinda gave up #Albedo = Chalk Sucrose = she experiments on sweet flowers Scaramouche = ?¿metal¿? #there’s a lot of iron ore everywhere but calling Scaramouche Iron Man is fucking funny #on a side note I think my interest in names comes from the fact I got a ridiculous irl name that’s super long and translates to #wise rock of a fort protected by Christ amongst the green valleys #I’m not fucking joking my name is a whole long title to say ‘your name is rock’ #if I ever get a name change I’m just going to name myself rock to make it easier

[purplecatghostposts]

This particular part of ‘In My Room’ By ICP reminds me of Alex/Hoody!Brian and I can’t get it out of my head

Just like. He’s haunting Alex. Alex still loves him and maybe there are moments, in the dead of night, where Brian knows that even with the chance to kill him, he can’t bring himself to do that to Alex. So he stops kidding himself and for one night, they pretend like it’s 2006 and everything is okay and nothing hurts. Or alternatively they’re still angry with each other but they kiss about it because the feelings are so so complicated.

And in the morning Alex wakes up alone, as if it never happened at all and Brian pretends nothing changed and it’s complicated. It’s a mess, but then again, what isn’t?

#marble hornets #do you see my vision?? I don’t know if I explained it right #but just. Brilex Enemies AND Lovers #both. for flavor. #how do you stop loving someone like that #how do you stop loving someone who is so clearly in the wrong but they’re so genuine about thinking they’re right #and you know they care. and you hate them but maybe you still love them too #maybe he needs help. maybe he needs to be put down. but you’re in no position to do either #so you love him and you hate him and you do both so deeply #you feel me? #Brilex #SB Speaks

[tsukihigui]

deleted my twitter app (not account) bc i really can’t handle the intense no-nuance high-stakes takes right now. not that here is all that much better but it’s definitely less of a time sink

#i just. #ok. #i just think if ur gonna go scorched earth on prioritizing high minded ideals over outcomes ur not actually as morally pure as u think u r #and I also think if ur gonna do that u gotta say with ur CHEST the collateral damage you’ll sign onto #both by abstaining from concrete action now and by destroying infrastructure in the name of a brighter future #im not even gonna tell you ur wrong. but i want you to say who u think is worth sacrificing #i have awful news for you the folks who don’t make it thru the revolution are very rarely the rich and healthy and connected #it’s gonna be folks who are desperate enough to fight and folks who can’t handle more instability. #poor folks. sick folks. disabled folks. disenfranchised folks. unhoused folks. #you think you can build a functioning mutual aid network from scratch during a revolution serving tens of millions? #i know it’s a nice thought that the failures of US welfare programs are Just Capitalism. and that’s a huge chunk #but it’s also because IT IS DIFFICULT. and that’s WITH billions of dollars and a chokehold on the global supply chain #im not saying any of the options are good. but when u call for revolution u gotta acknowledge ur stealing from today for tomorrow #and look hard at the folks who stand to lose the most. say you’re fine with martyring them - whether or not they agree #I’ve got myself all worked up now and i wanna post about it. to maybe share some god damn perspective. #things are bad! things are not good. unsustainable trends abound. but wow for all ur whining online #about how everyone needs to know EVERYTHING about ALL ISSUES in EVERY CONFLICT or else you are EVIL #ur missing the forest for the trees my dude. takes are easy - policy is hard #get fucked. don’t get people killed.

[jackmischief]

Where’s that meme with the buff Shiba Inu and the wimpy one and the buff one is Steve mentoring Wanda and the wimp is Tony mentoring Peter??? That shit’s the best

#Fuck tony stark in the MCU especially. Yeah yeah he saved the universe good redemption after the war profiteering and whatever but #I’m talking about how he handled Peter Parker. Baby spidey. #and basically all he did was get angry at a literal child for a) trying to help #b) dealing with more of HIS MESS without his help #and then proceeded to #a) not explain himself or ACTUALLY LISTEN and then revoke a piece of a child’s identity #bc he has trauma from making all those mistakes himself but cannot talk to a smart boy (like himself 🙄) like a human being #he did a bad job mentoring Peter and i resent the mcu for connecting them the way they did #they did both characters dirty actually and in the process continued to make EVERY OTHER SUPER’S STORY ABOUT TONY FUCKING STARK #and half of the bad shit in the mcu was his direct fault. #i want to stress that nobody is wrong for liking mcu tony stark. or comic Tony stark. multiversal stark #i am very attached to spider-man and you’re lying to yourself if you can’t admit Tony dominated too much of the mcu bc hes the ‘godfather’ #also ffs Peter Parker worshipping a FUCKING BILLIONAIRE is downright insulting

[reigningmax]

Today truly fucking sucked lmao

#like the situation was so ridiculous #but I feel so fucking horrible #at being targeted like that like. #if you had good intentions and you seriously thought something I said #was fundamentally wrong #how do you instead of coming to me #go to so many of my friends and copy paste a message #asking why they aren’t calling me out #then getting pressed when you’re corrected about something you’re saying #then comparing me to Pierre ? #then going around making it seem like I’m a predator #and at no point did you have the guts to come talk to me #it was never about something being wrong #it was literally just watching like a hawk #trying to find something I do or say to latch onto #and again I ask where did I ever say anything so bad abojt teenage max #and again I ask where is the outrage about fics where 28 year old Daniel #is fucking 18 year old max lol? #how do you compare fiction - both fics and headcanons #tk literal predatory behavior and power imbalance #I also only took out ONE tag that was half aseterisks #and could’ve been literally any hundred of combos of 3 and 4 letter words #why would you go to so many people to do this lmao #what the fuck is wrong with you????? #I hope you never have a good night sleep ever #but I also hope you find people who are good friends to you #and give you the love you so clearly need #since you are so unbelievably sad that your try to put this on someone #saying something clearly not how you’re making it seem #and the fact that I didn’t lose a single follower despite everyone who got asked about it being my mutual? lmao

[lucielovekj]

People (especially online) are way too obsessed with other peoples sex lives

#like on both sides lmao #between ‘no kink at pride’ and the implication that anything vaguely suggestive in public is Bad and Evil #and post after post claiming that it’s Weird and Wrong to not be interested in sex as if it says literally anything about a person #‘virgin’ actually being used as an insult in 2022 SOMETIMES TO ACTUAL CHILDREN #like its genuinely exhausting how obsessed people are with whether or not others are having sex #it’s literally up to you. it’s up to you what you’re comfortable with seeing and doing and discussing #it’s up to you whether it even matters to you there’s no universal human relationship towards sex #people forgetting it’s made complicated by millions of contributing factors for everyone #we’ve just circled back to policing peoples bodies and it’s being done by like…everyone lmao

[sanasanakun]

I think the weirdest phenomenon that always happens when you can pick the gender of the protagonist is when people are like “X protagonist is better! If you play Y protagonist you’re doing it wrong!” Or “Y protagonist works so much better narratively than X protagonist!” And then people get into legitimate arguments about it. Like …just play the game guys…pick who you like lol it’s not that deep😭

#i especially hate this when people bash and pit the VAs against other #saw this a lot concerning fem v and male v while looking for guides #like so unnecessarily rude #I think both did a good job and have high highs and some low lows #not a big deal #also see this ALOT with fem byleth and male byleth #like who carrrreesssss lol #I pick based on how hot they are hahahaha #cyberpunk 2077 #fire emblem #dragon age #fallout #those are the main fandoms guilty of this ngl haha #oh !! and also really weird when people get super weird about the ships #like if you ship edelgard with male byleth you’re like a pariah even though she’s canonically bi hahaha #even though I prefer fen byleth and edelgard it’s like ….idk it rubs me wrong when people get super weird about this shit #like grow up and have fun lol

[toomanylizzes]

The true villain of The Parent Trap is the absolute batshit family court judge that let them go through with that sociopathic custody order.

#this is not how you co-parent #the parent trap #deep thoughts about disney movies #disney #it’s like the judgement of Solomon #but completely wrong #you’re fine with both taking a kid? #and not seeing the other until she’s grown #test to see if you’re an unfit parent

[tariah23]

This floor mod at my job is trying to get back in the good graces of our bosses because she got chewed out about not pulling her own weight last week by the both of them (hilarious. She’s annoying as shit and never helps anymore. She had completely changed once she got promoted from a simple concierge to Floor Mod and she treats her position like she’s like, the legit boss of the entire place and no one really cares too much for her anymore) but today, I was talking amongst my coworkers about shady things going on at the job and we weren’t being too loud at all and she came in trying to linger around a bit and of course, we stopped talking once she came around (kiss ass type.) but anyway, after our afternoon huddle, (just a simple meeting amongst coworkers and the boss giving us updates about how different departments are doing and them bragging about how much money our company has made and them fake caring about us as employees while getting fake emotional) and so, after the afternoon huddle, my boss was all like “omg, Tariah, could I see you in my office after huddle-“ and I was like “yeah, sure.” And once went into her office, she started asking me about how I’m feeling and that Selena (the annoying floor mod) mentioned something about how someone isn’t being supported/ not stood up for,” and I was a bit confused since I was having a slightly private convo with other coworkers about the shit that’s been going on at the job and I felt as if she’d eavesdropped and wanted to get some “dirt,” on me or to start something since she knows that myself and many of my coworkers don’t particularly care for her and wanted to use this opportunity to look good for the bosses. I really want to confront her about this tomorrow tbh because I felt like it wasn’t really her place to say anything about what I was complaining about with my fellow coworkers who I get along with and like, to the boss at all like it’s weird to me. Like it was none of your business and I don’t really care for you at all like.

#gonna be respectful as usual but girl #they just fired the employee of the month at my job a few days ago because of other employees harassing her btw but the racist white girl #who keeps on calling black coworkers kids monkeys and shit #is still here man #like that’s the kinda company I work at #i mentioned that the secondary boss could’ve stood up for Cece (employee of the month) (literal sweetheart) more since she’d originally #approached them literally 2-3 weeks ago about the new male concierge making her feel uncomfortable and how the other concierge tried to #fight her in front of guests because of the male concierge gossiping like bitch and lying about her etc etc #he’s a bitter bitch #so they fired her talking about some damn sales going down when she was the victim in the whole situation #and my secondary boss was there when the other girl tried to fight her and all that but she pulled the #‘you both are wrong’ thing which is shit and I guess the floor mod heard a little bit of that and went to go run and tell the boss about it #like a weirdo when she had nothing to do with this like girl you’re on your last legs anyway #rambling #really annoyed

[rosicheeks]

What's like one big goal you're hoping to accomplish this year?

(PS I hope you don't get COVID! Even a "mild" case sucks, my sense of taste has yet to fully recover months later!)

Oh BOY that’s a complicated question hahahah. To try and put it simplistic as possible - figure out what I want to do with my life. Or like what path to take?

#first of all thank you! I really hope I don’t get it either. I mean I’m not super worried about me cause I know it’ll suck but I’ll be fine #but now that I live with my parents I’m scared that I’ll accidentally give it to them and both of them aren’t doing the best physically #but there’s nothing I can do now…. tbh I’ve been slacking with masks and being cautious so I should probably go back to that #masks are just expensive and I’m broke #need to either find my disposable or buy new ones #I hope your taste comes back soon!!! that sounds awful 😔 #anywayyy to your question #right now I just kinda feel lost in life #I need to feel like I’m going somewhere again #cause right now I just feel like I’m in limbo???? #obviously would love to figure out my mental bullshit but idk how realistic that is #honestly would just love to figure out everything that’s wrong with me so I can start to feel idk normal? #idk this is probably more loaded than you were expecting haha #but especially ever since the move I’ve been so fucking lost and I want to figure out my life but idk where to even start ya know #but yeah I guess that’s my goal #on a smaller scale I would love love love to get more traffic and sales on my Etsy #I just really want to make my Etsy shop a way to be creative and make money at the same time #cause paint and art shit is expensive 😭 #and when you’re already broke it’s hard to justify buying paint or canvases ya know #buuuuut if I get more sales and a bigger profit then maybe it’ll be worth it??? #also I LOVE seeing my paintings somewhere else its just so bittersweet #cause I love my paintings so much so it’s hard to let go of them #but the thought of someone else hanging them up and seeing them everyday???? #it’s so heartwarming 🥺 #like I could help warm up your space???? with color and some love 🥰💖 #I just love it so much #thanks for the question lovely 🥰🥰🥰 #ask #lovely mutuals

[goldensunset]

finally we’ve got the full (promotional) squad assembled. i so dearly love all the other characters we get later but also the specific dynamic between these four is so stupidly funny

#also love how we picked a fight with the DRS here. just bc we were both trying to recruit nagi?? #are we jousting for the lady’s hand in marriage or something? dude what if she didn’t care about either of us #also. rindo misogyny arc #i mean i guess he’s kinda sour towards everyone at first but dang his attitude towards nagi is so weirdly bitter #like he’s just totally in the wrong here i know he’s supposed to be Anxiety Man but c’mon dude you’re being irrational #if you thought she was gonna be dangerous to you that’s one thing but why are you so worked up about her potentially being useless #one slightly crazy girl is not a bad asset to your team dude you can’t rely on minamimoto for everything #a golden ntwewy replay

[whorenerdking]

me: is sick and feels bad

mom: stop being a fucking little bitch about it, I’m not trying to be mean to you I’m just telling the truth

#I am #frustrated #literally just found out we both have covid #and whenever either one of us gets sick I always feel it 1000x more than she does #and she KNOWS this #‘stop acting like you’re incapacitated I have the same thing you do’ #and then she goes on a rant about everything wrong I’m doing with my life #she does this shit all the fucking time #also starts comparing me to my dad which fucking great thank you mother #that’s EXACTLY what I wanted to hear #while currently in a horrific mental AND physical state #some might say that the mental state is SIGNIFICANTLY WORSE #than everything else #considering how scarred up my thighs are #and that my meds are working anymore #so my depression is getting worse and worse but I’ve surpressed it so much that I can’t tell #so like #yeah #I guess #maybe I do wanna kill myself fuck