#about the dudes around him sometimes

[measuringbliss]

People are acting so weird and possessive of Markiplier for the whole OnlyFans situation. He's an adult. He's an adult who's been a celebrity for years. He knows people thirst on him. That's why he had this idea in the first place. He's not some naive kid you must protect. He's not some innocent soul that the evil sluts of Tumblr and Twitter will corrupt. He knows the Internet, he knows his fans and he knows his job.

He's an adult and he can make his own choices.

#Markiplier #I've seen quite a few comments expressing discomfort and like. You can just. Not subscribe to his OF???? #That's a possibility. You can block people too. #I think some of you really need to learn about parasocial relationships and reflect on it #He's not your dad #He's not your friend #He's just a dude #A dude who has a job and it just so happens that his job revolves around appearing personable #Don't forget that you don't truly know him and MORE IMPORTANTLY he doesn't know YOU #He probably has various ideas on xho his fans are as subgroups but he doesn't know you personally #Actually it reminds me of Maisee Williams in GoT s8 #People had seen her (the character and the actress) grow up over the years and when she decided she wanted to do a nude scene #A lot of people said they were uncomfortable #In both cases. They're adults. They can do whatever they want. #I guess that was a rant but sometimes I find the fandom really off-putting #Deactivated reblogs because the RBs were getting boring and a pain

[archduke-enver-gortash]

mmm essay about sally and kid gort in the tags (cw for child abuse, mentions of suicide, animal cruelty and a murder attempt. i always hope i don’t have to say this but just in case: i don’t excuse or condone any of her or gort’s behaviour at all.) this is literally not even touching upon everything i have to say because i hit the fucking tag limit lmao. NOBODY READ IT’S BAD BRAINSTORMING I JUST NEEDED TO GET IT OUT SOMEHOW

#thinkin too much about gortie side characters again. #sally this time and why she specifically talks about him the way she does #like dravo is obviously still shitty but to me he was. ‘just ‘neglectful #while sally actively hated and even felt terrorised by her own child #like. it’s not like i don’t understand her at all. #imagine you and your love don’t have much besides each other and your shop and you get pregnant and ready to raise a child #only for it to not be a child he didn’t and doesn’t cry ever and he learns everything so much sooner than most but then he never calls you #his parents and it’s not just a petty thing kids do sometimes you feel that he doesn’t see you as family and the worst part is that you #agree deep down #and as he gets older he doesn’t have any friends and actively rejects the notion of the entire concept #but then as time passes you hear about how he has entire groups of children following him and then several of them commit suicide #and that thing coming to sit with you and dravo at the dinner table says that he did what you did last week when the axe to chop wood broke #and you discarded it and got a new one #and he has these habits of ripping out flowers and making sure that they don’t regrow #and then you hear rumours about a friend’s daughter’s cat disappearing and think nothing of it #until you visit his tree house a month later and find a declawed cat and birds with clipped wings and crushed bugs that he keeps fondly #and then you see him with other children and they don’t know and his face is different and body language is entirely different #and were it not for the fact that you know better you would never see anything but a normal child #and you know that you are one who painstakingly brought this thing that should not be into the world and so you decide to end it all one da #and go to him as he’s asleep with the knife shaking in your hand #but he cries when you’re above him! screams at the top of his lungs! #so you beg for forgiveness even though you don’t deserve it through tears but as soon as the knife is put away you see the act drop and fee #his clever fingers having twisted your brain inside and out and you know that you can do nothing #and so the opportunity arises to at least remove him out of your life if not everyone’s lives and you take it immediately. #but you heard him talk. how he will close his fist around the world one day. and you know that it is not a matter of if but when. #like. imagine that. jesus dude. #like i hc her as someone that is messy and does not know a lot about life and she certainly wouldn’t have been a good mother but the love #or at least desire to love is there somewhere. and believing that having a child is really the only somewhat meaningful thing she can do #with her life. she’s not some hero or rich or anything of note. so there’s a lot obligation and not genuine desire for family here. #but she never really got the chance to be an actual mother in the first place so. who knows what that might have looked like

[bougiebutchbitch]

house is my babygirl

buggy is my specialest little subby guy

gojo is my bitch

I hope this makes sense to everyone

#buggy and gojo are also both babygirl but in subtly different ways #house is the ultimate brat #gojo is bratty but also a total princess #buggy ....isn't quite as bratty???? he's just a little dude trying to survive #and sometimes you gotta suck a dick to survive #and he'll have great fun while he's down there!! #good for him!!!!! good for him! #I headcanon that he legit wants mushy romantic vanilla stuff + lots of kissies with shanks #but shoots himself in the foot at every opportunity #and will let shanks fuck him but only in a rough kinky way in the hopes he won't have to acknowledge the depth of his romantic feelings :3 #all while denying that he likes shanks at all and claiming he's just using him for his own enjoyment #ugh he's such a fucked up little guy. my fucked up little guy. #then angrily spends the rest of the night smacking his head off the wall when shanks is gone because #ughhhh he wanted to snog him so baddddddddddd forever #meanwhile shanks thinks buggy just wants 0 strings casual sex and he's disappointed and miserable and going along with it #only because it's a chance to be near him but is seriously thinking about calling a halt because it's Too Much Emotionally #like he's used to being a pump & dump kinda dude who's freewheeling around the grand line #but for the first time he kinda wants something more but buggy obviously DOESN't #right??? RIGHT?????????? #:bites them and shakes them vigorously: RAHHHHHH

[pinkyjulien]

I can't believe I captured your heart Oh, I can't believe I captured your heart

Valentin & Mitch | 603/?? 🧡

#Cyberpunk 2077 #Mitch Anderson #Valentin Da Silva #Aldecaldos #OTP: High Voltage #MLM #Screenshot #Virtual Photography #nsft #flagging this just to be safe hgfhgf #Something ABOUT... Mitch gfhgh sometimes thinking of how 'lucky he is' #because yeah I HC that he's... y'know he's just a dude he doesn't think of himself as 'loveable' as in- not self hate but just #he's a war vet he got a lot of scars he's old- he lived his life yknow #I HC him as Demi and that his soulmate was Scorpion before he died #they weren't officially together and never talked about their feelings- they mightve fucked around there and there #but it never became something fullon- they slept together post war because they knew how to ease each others nightmares and demons #it became an habit and all - BUT YEAH ENOUGH ABOUT THAT #so when Scorp was gone Mitch thought it was Over that he'd never felt like that again to love someone so much #he love his family he loves every vets he loves Panam but not like he loved Scorp yknow- he realized too late it mightve been Love Love #< again only my headcanons here #Val and Mitch is a sloooow burn- Valentin being the first to catch romantic feeling #then- with the help of Panam- Mitch realize that his caring and feeling for Val might be love too #but NEITHER OF THEM make the first move until it Might Be Too Late tm during mikoshi where Val kisses him #and then everything goes well yadda yadda they both survives the Horrors TM #and they've known each others for months and been through a lot saved each others asses a lot of time #it feels natural and he don't want to waste those feelings again just like he did with Scorp #this time he'll let himself love someone he cares for deeply #and let Val takes care of him too and be tender and all #Q uQ ahgjfh dont mind me over there ouughh ough ough OUUGGHH ough oguh #Mitch deserves all the love and so much more GOd

[dutybcrne]

Kaeya wasn’t one to really get angry as a kid, but the very few times when he genuinely did, it was extremely obvious to everyone, in the way he carried himself.

#hc; kaeya #//Dude had/has like #//Mom type anger bfbfb #//Where his bad mood would just absolutely Contaminate the very room he was in and make the atmosphere utterly Suffocating #//He wouldn’t be confrontational about it either; just be absolutely Frigid; enough that it leaks through his politeness #//Which most of the time was at Luc (after antics gone too far or him pressing Kae abt himself/his past too much) #//Or maids who mouthed off and gossiped a bit too much; esp abt Addie. Which was the most frequent cause #//Only TWICE at Crepus; 1) directly when he tried to pry once; 2) from afar the day he died when Kae saw the Delusion on him #//And ONCE at Addie after Luc left & she tried to lessen the blame Kae heaped upon himself; in reasoning Luc could have; too #//He regrets that one most #//He’s not even overt with it; not usually. But still v palpable to those it’s directed at #//It’sa subtle storminess in his eye; a particular tension in his body.ACertain Tone in his voice; like an air of finality w each sentence #//It was far more obvious as a kid than present day; bc later on he got better at hiding it as smth else #//& as a bab; it was far more jarring to see him acting that way after being used to him being so warm and shy #//For Diluc esp; it was prolly a mad stressful affair each time it happened; no matter how infrequent #//One minute yer bro is jokin around & chilling; then he’s suddenly put what feels like leagues between you & kicked you off Dragonspine #//Tended to show up sometimes during their knight days at the others & ESP in his first few months as Cavalry Captain #//Except he was deffo far more willing to resort to confrontations over insubordination & challenges of his capability in latter #//Before he mellowed out again bc of Jean & Varka and really started picking up the silver tongue’n sly approach more #//It was more efficient seeing people fall apart seemingly from their own doings than do it himself & deal with the troublesome aftermaths #//Nowadays; his Vision acting up if anything is is main tell to if he’s angry or not #//Unless the person knows him REALLY well; or he genuinely can’t hold it back #//But that one is v extreme cases

[horrorwebs]

why are men literally the fucking worst

#theres a guy in one of my uni friend groups who has a crush on my friend also from the friend group #and she feels so so uncomfortable plus she hasnt done ANYTHING thatd give a hint that she likes him back. bc she doesnt #and now she doesnt feel ok around because hes so attached to her and so so needy and its like. well. way to fuck it up dude. fuck you #he has been acting so strange lately and not in a good way. strange awkward and needy and like. possesive. #her and i also have another friendgroup where frankly i feel much better with and she does too. and its like. well the guy is always like #butting in but now really being part of anything? like its not like he comes over to the grouo to be with all of us hes just sort of . there #talking only to her or sometimes me but its like not nice its weird and annoying #ALSO HES SO PATRONIZING TOWARDS HER ITS AWFUL #AND hes like. a bit older.... where its not like. the weirdest age gap i dont think so. but it IS a bit weird considering some of the things #he has said. like the other day he made a comment about how my friend 'well shes so young like people her age sometimes dont get [x]' like? #if you think she is SOOO young and SOOO out of touch with people your age well why the fuck are you asking others if you have a chance w her #get away from her really #sidenote: today she was telling me and a different friend about this problem and my other friend said it was really uncomfortable and bad + #that he used to think the guy had a thing for ME BEFORE??? and i dont know if he also thought -i- had a thing for him but please god no. #even the hypothetical made me feel super uncomfortable. also i used to feel like that a bit like he might like me and it was bad and gross #so i dropped a comment that let him believe i was a lesbian i think? also got much colder towards him . like. thats what you get fucker #about the lesbian thing i meant that he told me about a friend of his that had it hard coming out as a lesbian and i said like oh yeah being #like that was hard for me also. finding out i was not straight was tough etc . #dont remember if i said the word lesbian i dont think so but i did say i like girls and i didnt mention boys at all so i hoped itd be enough #also people dont really -get- what being asexuas means + didnt want to tell him im ace + techically i Can like boys bc romantic attraction #is undefined to me but i was definetely not going to tell him that bc 1. im much more prone to like a girl and 2. not trying to get his hope #up. #so anyway it was gross to realize other people saw it too so i mightve actually not been insane to think he had a crush on me but it was bad #and also. i really need for my friend to be comfortable in class so i might have to kill him who knows. well see #spikeposting #personal

[mibkid]

Listen through and through i like vld , Yes i know shocker!(it isn't, though i have only posted ONCE about it on here w art..but anyways)

So if there was anything about voltron it was that the show had some bomb ass edits made and put on youtube.

That fandom thrived on those. i swear.

I also swear there was this whole "everything black" edit that i watched over and over.... i can't find it now BUT THERE WAS and the transitions were good too.

#rambles #voltron #vld #i should post more voltron stuff... #i should draw more voltron stuff #dudes i still cosplay voltron #i cosplay both pidge and keith #My pidge is my fave right now! #It's a summer version #w a turtleneck and cuban bowler shirt that i made! #oh also i made a rover #...i forget that i don't talk much about cosplay on here except only a little #Keith was my first cosplay tho like ever #and that one has changed through time #i mostly cosplay a casual version of him nowadays #BECAUSE GOING AROUND IN FLANNEL AND RIPPED SKINNY JEANS IS FUN AS KEITH #Bc he is a cowboy emo basically #that boy is so texan there is no way he isn't #i should redo his jacket sometime

[designernishiki]

aight im just gonna say it. some folks really gotta stop treating nishikiryu like they’re actually related and considering anyone who’s so much as Okay with them as a pairing of being incest apologists. like. that’s a legitimately fucked up and serious thing to accuse someone of just because of your view of two factually unrelated fictional characters.

#like. i really don’t like yumi being a love interest for kiryu and think she’d be best as a sister figure to him #a dynamic which could’ve formed while growing up alongside him at sunflower. that absolutely does not mean I would start blocking #and shittalking people for being ‘incest shippers’ as if I have the mora high ground and self righteousness to do so #it is really not different. only difference is the use of the word kyodai. which is an honorary title and not inherently synonymous with #viewing someone as your Actual Literal Sibling. #like just. chill the fuck out. #throwing that kinda accusation around is honestly no better than someone throwing around terms like ‘abuser’ or ‘gaslighting’ #over subjective and unserious situations #no one is asking you to change your view of them. no one’s asking you to like them as a pairing. just say you don’t see it that way and move #on. not everything is a moral issue where someone needs to be condemned for something. #tldr: don’t be an asshole #this reminds me of the post that’s like. hey sometimes it’s okay to just say you don’t like someone/something without trying to prove #that disliking it is the Morally Correct thing to do. #like for real dude. #anyway might delete this later or simplify it becuase I have honestly been scared to say anything about this for a long time #due to seemingly the majority of people considering this a highly controversial hot button issue #also sure blocking people is an option but. if you like someone/most of someone’s content and just don’t like a certain pairing or topic or #whatever that they’ll reblog on occasion you can also just. block the tag. unless they don’t tag their shit then it’s more understandable #but i most certainly do and I appreciate when other people do the same because I have one major pairing tag in this fandom blocked because #of how much i don’t like it and plenty of people I follow post this pairing occasionally and shockingly it does not bother me. because #of the ability to filter via tags. it’s really not hard #anyway yeah sorry. let’s see how fast I delete this cause boy am I scared of getting eaten alive for this Apparently Hot Take #rambling #edit: also just wanna note that this isn’t even my main/favorite pairing or anything. im not a diehard nishikiryu guy #im a diehard kazumaji guy though for sure. but I have a strong opinion on the topic because. like I said. the gravity of people’s #accusations is beyond Not Okay

[deus-ex-mona]

when the realisation ✨finally✨ dawns on you but it’s wayyyy too late

#so. to preface. i’m an idiot who often misses the point and stuff. #like it took me about 10 years to realise that i was being actively excluded from a group of girls #in which they went out of their ways to talk about all kinds of fun tall tales that all of them but me were involved in #(but i completely missed that they were trying to exclude me bc i was more interested in listening to their stories lmfaooo) #but anyways! a few weeks back my brother’s gf mentioned in passing that my bro told her that i went on the trip to look for bl manga #at first i was like ‘hahaha yeahhh i kinda read ‘em sometimes but not all the time yk’ but then i just realised that… #…he must’ve assumed that i was buying bl manga back when i bought vol 4 of idol sengen. fml #tbf!!!! there was a huge display of bl manga in the girls manga section of the store my family followed me into #so i guess i can see how he thought that i was buying bl manga? esp since i refused to let my fam see the cover of the book i bought? #but still… man. most of the bl manga on display there had v e r y spicy covers… lord knows which one he assumed i had bought… #there’s no way in heck i’m gonna correct him thought. nope. i don’t need him to go poking around in this fandom too #i’d d i e fr if he found this blog. so ig letting him continue with his assumptions is the lesser of two evils… #anyways. um. how was your wednesday~~~~? #it is suiyoubi my dudes

[cuideag]

deeply annoyed at the grip dragon's dogma 2 has on me. is this what i have been missing this whole time. how are there so many goblins everywhere. where are the kissable men.

#talking to myself #i've been doing the elder scrolls thing where i am just doing sidequests and stuff #but i genuinely am curious about the main story... #also i love just snooping around everywhere. there is fog of war on my map and i wanna snoop!!! #i also kind of love how dumb the 'romance' system is??? #my arisen (homosexual) extremely bewildered at how quickly these two women in particular have been coming on to him #there is one kind of cute elf guy that comes around sometimes and blushes whenever he talks to him #and so does his main pawn he he he #zoning out on the ox carts thinking about the ethics of kissing a man who might be compelled to just. let you. uh oh! #also i've been enjoying exploring a lot especially after recruiting a new pawn cause sometimes they'll be like yoooo you missed this cave #and it will have junk in it but it is still fun and feels cool adding new markers to the map #anyway it is dumb in ways i am enjoying and maybe sometimes soon i will beat it #also getting repeatedly called out on recruiting dudes and a pawn being like yo is the arisen...........? will never stop being funny to me #especially with how defensive my main pawn gets about it LMAO

[justagaycryptid]

Haven’t finished Hannibal yet, on episode 4 of season 3, but I fucking hate how Hannibal is just... good at everything. 

Like the bitch doesn’t just play music he composes his own music too. He’s an excellent artist. He’s a gourmet chef. He’s a talented surgeon. A master of words. Somehow just knows fuckin everything. He even swims for gods sake. 

I want to see him be bad at something. 

Like I want to see him put on a pair of skates and then immediately eat shit. 

#shouting into the void #or like put him on a snowboard because I also think that would be funny #I am rotating him around in my mind like a microwave #bitch (affectionate+derogatory) #god hes such a mary sue #and also a flaming homosexual that man is down BAD for will #I don't think gay sex would fix either of them but I think they should have it anyways #I also saw this blooper thing where Mads Mikkelsen said 'shut up bitch' on an outtake #and its literally so funny #Hannibal should be allowed to say bitch #actually now that I think about it does Hannibal even swear #Hannibal the type of guy to say that swearing makes you look uneducated or some bullshit #and will would be like 'no you need to use the right word in the right context and sometimes that word is fuck' #friend and I were also joking that Hannibal would be the type of guy to be like 'weve been dating in my head for a month now <3' #up there in his stupid fucking mind palace #dudes being all angsty and bitchy because he had a fight with his boyfriend #Hannibal the type of guy to trick someone (will) into signing marriage documents #then he'd look over with that expression he has and go 'hmm technically were married now' #though oh my god I liked a single hannibal post on instagram and now my entire feed is mads mikkelsen #like not even hannibal specifically but mads mikkelsen #like yeah I know a lot of people think hes a dilf but oh my god I am not that interested in the guy #he does a fantastic job as hannibal but I do not need to see him everywhere I promise

[hoshiyoshis]

i need more men like mark nct in the world i need more silly men who are smart but also a lil bit dumb sometimes

#daisy.txt #mark is legit so like. insightful and smart!! but also he can be a liiil dumb sometimes #and i love this about him <3 #hes like. such a mood tbh. without looking at his devotion to his career #he feels like a dude they just saw in the park following ducks around. man who feels like he would have been on the vine -> youtube route i #another life tbh. idk how else to describe him he just has That Vibe

[haneys]

okay call me a pussy or a coward or whatever but when I make my blorbos trans transphobia doesn't exist to me like it's not a thing. respect to everyone who makes their characters face realistic obstacles but I'm not strong enough this couldn't be me. i'm not gonna make a trans hc for my fail guy just to have him go thru 1606449 horrors okay 😭 enough of that irl my little hcs exist in a bubble godspeed

#patxt #MOST of the time. there are exceptions sometimes but yeah if I were to make my guys face transphobia I'd actually explode STOP DAT. #ollie came our as a kid and everyone went oh okay 👍 he started transitioning then and there and that was it love and light #none of the horrors are related to gim being trans hes just in a torture maze ^_^ idk like. he gets to talk about being trans or joke about #it and people around r at most like surprised bc they didn't know but now that they know they're like cool 👍 do you get me #bad guys too idc if he's fighting a dude who's about to blow uo the earth or something I'm not gonna make him get misgendered coughs blood

[ahalliance]

i don’t get how people can complain about the writing “doing Martha dirty” when that same writing gives her an ending that addresses her treatement over the course of the season, allows her to finally put her to foot down, to establish her self-worth as an individual and to air out her grievances, and gives her the most respectful and satisfying exit from the TARDIS we’d yet seen in the show . like it’s one thing to dislike the direction the writing team took with her arc and to criticise it (perfectly fine) and another to somehow miss it entirely lmao . the ‘martha feels out of place, second best, and like a rebound’ is an intentional piece of writing that gets resolved by the end of the season . like that wasn’t smth they threw in for shits and giggles, it had in-story repercussions

#and if u don’t think those repercussions were Enough then that’s totally cool and smth to start a discussion over #but . don’t act as if they didn’t happen lmao?? #i just . yells #like i have my own criticisms about the writing (giving the ‘i feel second best to this dude’s past love interest’ to the first POC #companion was . probably not the best of choices let’s be real #though there’s some leeway there as im assuming the character was written before audtions . but still . could have been reconsidered #idk i totally understand why people aren’t fans of the storyline itself (outside of how coherent the writing is) but i think it’s a shame #that many others just kinda seem to miss the point because it’s such a unique and interesting arc to give to a companion #i like fresh ideas!! i like the doctor Actually being portrayed at someone who is clumsy with relationships and emotional intimacy!! #i like it when his trauma spills over in ugly and complex ways like we see in season 3 in regards to his friendship with martha #and i like it even better when his accidentally cruel actions and mistakes get brought up and criticised by the narrative!! like it does in #the end of s3!! it’s so good!! #i enjoy 10 because he’s my favourite wet cat but also because he is allowed to fill up room like a real traumatised individual would #it’s like . okay i enjoy ‘ooo the doctor is the oncoming storm ooo he’s hurt and killed so many people ooo’ #but it’s also good to See the actual ramifications of that shit you know . hearing about his legend status is always fun but damn man #is it satisfying from a character analysis POV to see him hurt the people around him . to see him treat his friends poorly on accident #because of his own character flaws . like that’s GOOD #and it just sorta irks me sometimes bc people will have this smug attitude of ‘well MY blorbo isn’t a rude piece of shit and is actually a #paragon of morality’ and like girl i don’t give a shit . that’s fine in small doses but it’s not what’s compelling #people tend to like interacting with ‘angsty traumatised edgy characters’ if their edginess is contained in a nice little box that doesn’t #overspill . fuck no give me the characters that are loud and ugly and unpleasant about their trauma THAT’S THE REAL SHIT #jay rambles #dw.txt #10.txt #marthaj.txt #sometimes u wanna treat the blorbo from your show like a real person sure but sometimes it is better to remember that they are fictional #and there to be considered as part of a bigger story and as an item to analyse . case in poiny #point #maybe i shouldn’t be surprised by this though since people still get hung up over rose quartz

[rhythmelia]

screaming into the void

But I really really REALLY need my fellow non-Black folks of color around the world to just. Sit down and hush about the use of the n-word.

Yes, I believe in a growth mindset, that we are all imperfect humans who have fucked up and will fuck up in the future, and life is a process of unlearning a lot of shit and learning to recognize things like dogwhistles and micro aggressions and macro aggressions and learning how to not perpetuate shit. Making amends for past wrongs and doing better next time.

I'm also aware that our society (thanks, legacy of slavery and colonialism!) is awash in so much anti-Blackness, like it is Baked. In. To so many structural things, and pervades so many cultural things around the world.

So I just. Really really want to call in my fellow non-Black folks of color - like, it is not helping to go harass Black fans about their opinions when our/your faves do something shitty! Black folks are not a monolith, and are allowed to have complicated feelings about what they're willing to tolerate or not when being a fan, given, again how pervasive anti-Blackness and cultural appropriation of Blackness is in pop culture, among other things!!

In my perspective, the n-word is not ours to reclaim, if we're not Black! Plain and simple. The legacy of centuries of slavery, and pain, and ongoing racism and harm today....whyyyyy do you want so bad to be able to use this one word, hmm? Or for our/your faves to be able to use it with no consequences, hmmmmm? Please reflect.

Idk how to end this, this is just a rant and I want to send solidarity and support and positive energy to Black fans dealing with some bullshit.

#my stuff #vague posting #The evergreen #fandom racism #I see you fandom #kpop critical #BTS critical #I love the guys I'm army but I wish there were better spaces to have these conversations #Since antis will only criticize to stoke fan wars without actually caring about Black folks #and a lot of armys are trying to rationalize things away when dude these guys are human #and sometimes will do shitty things and we as fans are allowed to be like 'hey that was not cool' #without getting shouted down as if we were not also fans - who want them to do better as human beings #anti-Blackness #racism #lateral bigotry #But auuuugh ppj's comment that Tae unthinkingly being cool with singing/mouthing words on *live broadcast* #Implying a certain amount of casualness about saying that off-camera #and for me that either nobody around him was calling him in like 'hey that is not cool' or someone was and he was not listening or learning #either way is not great #I'm not going to cancel anybody but that sure does get added to my overall thoughts and feelings about the band I'm a fan of for sure #In terms of paying attention to how they grow (or not) over time given the messages they have in their music and interviews and charity wor #About accepting ourselves and others #Regardless of gender identity - nationality- race - age - religion etc #critical thinking #thinky thoughts #We gotta have these conversations about race and racism and various intersections and confront this shit in our communities #Fandom reflects wider society and this shit cycles over and over -_-

[pumpking64]

just spent some weeks with a guy from the us and we were talking about ticks and their diseases and i always had trouble trying to remember what the english terms were but i know people talk a lot about lyme’s being bad so when he asked if we had lyme’s here i told him i didn’t think so because we only have the mild of the two diseases of the country at that spot. fast forward to two weeks later when i look it up and find out that no, lyme’s is actually the common disease you get from ticks in this country and the one possible to get at that spot, that is the mild one. oooops….. well i diiid tell him it was dangerous though and to check himself daily and stuff. but yeah

#own post #ppl always talk so wildly about lyme’s I had assumed it was TBE #but nope. it’s borrelia. it’s the one we’re not that concerned about because at least you can treat it #i was also VERY chocked at him walking around in sandals sometimes. like dude. that’s dangerous. you are 100% gonna get bitten several times #and i told him. many times. to cover up for his own safety because that disease is not nice. #buuut yeah. it’s The Guy (you know the one I’ve been ranting about) so I don’t know what I should’ve expected