thinking about the time this young 19 y/o guy i used to work with was talking to me about a bunch of random stuff and I said something about how he shouldnt worry about something this girl said on a dating app because he was just overthinking it and snowballing over nothing.
He paused a minute and said, "I guess you probably have more experience with women than me, huh?" I thought a second, but it was true. I'm not some kind of relationship guru and I fuck up a lot, but I do know more about dating and maintaining a relationship than a 19 y/o wannabe bodybuilder that watches Andrew Tate and has terminal virgin energy.
I said "I guess so, yeah'" and he visibly deflated. Like it was such a blow to his ego. I think maybe he was tethering his sense of masculinity to some weird sexual marketplace virility bullshit and felt emasculated?
im like a weird limp-wristed lesbian with a flamerboy 2003 fashion designer voice. I wear mens and womens clothes as I feel and often just have frizzy hair idgaf about because i'm not a public-facing employee most of the time anyways. if you spend more than a few hours around me it's probably pretty easy to see im a tranny no matter how hard i deny it and im honestly just kinda goofy and do silly shit for my own amusement. normies seem to like me alright and say im fun to be around but also think im a weirdo and I guess that's okay because I have some friends and a wife and I don't need external validation like that (or at least not desperately lmao).
but he seemed genuinely hurt and threatened by the possibility that I've been more successful with women than him and that just feels so weird to me. like why do you feel bad? It's not a competition and even if it was the women you like wouldnt like me and the women that like me wouldnt like you? Maybe stop talking about right wing bodybuilders and acting macho at work because those girls you like think you're an annoying closet case?
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A friend called and something he said is nagging at the self-hating part of my mind....
I just...when im working i always use the excuse of 'im too busy to date' and when im unemployed im always too ashamed and depressed/worthless to date. That doesnt leave any moments TO date?
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new arthur photos oh my goddddd i wasn’t sure how my feelings were towards the second movie but seeing him him himhimhimhiiiiiiiiiimmmmm new photos oh my oh my
I feel like I'm totally alone in my non-enthusiasm for the sequel😂
but yeeeees seeing him againnnnnnn🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹 it's been so long but but but he's still here, he's coming back!!!!💗💗💗💗💗💗 i remember how we used to collectively CRAVE more arthur pics😭💔 and once again, we're well fed!!!
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i saw a ‘wh/ump’ blog in my recommended and out of morbid curiousity decided to check it out, maybe see if i could get some good hurt/comfort ideas, and oh my god....
this is when i truly realized ‘hurt/comfort’ and ‘wh/ump’ are not interchangable terms and wh/ump is more on a level of torture porn trying to be cutesy/romantic omg
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i love how i had just checked the page for the izayoi also bc it said on the uniform section of the NOL page that “tsubaki is allowed to wear the izayoi while on duty, despite it not being part of the standard uniform”, which led me to believe oh, maybe the izayoi is her WHOLE OUTFIT that would make sense as to why it looks like ayames
......come to find out no, they did just mean the hat. so like help girl are we ignoring tsubaki’s flagrant nigh uncharacteristic disregard for uniform rules for the sake of?? historical accuracy/homage to one of her ancestors? which is honestly sorta on brand for her
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I've been under a lot of stress for a very long time and I finally snapped and I'm trying in my own way to get back from that and find a little joy so I can start leaving my bed and I don't appreciate you judging me for my methods or for the fact that my mental breakdowns have been an established pattern for years now
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