#he didn’t expect her but he needed her

[boltgunkiller-archive]

i find it damn near impossible to get mad at santana’s behavior in 3x06 and 3x07 because i genuinely do think she had the right to be lashing out at everybody. sue me idk

#idgaf if she was mean to kurt and blaine when they were “trying to help” in IKAG #they were the first performance & santana was put under the spotlight by the guy who fully outed her to the ENTIRE STATE OF OHIO & now she #-was expected to be just happy and jolly about some bullshit lady music week to celebrate women as if that has anything to do with wtf just #-happened to her by finn’s hands & of course she was upset because she was only back in the new directions because finn basically #-blackmailed her into rejoining like hello!!! so of course she was snippy with them… and tbh i don’t even think she was being that mean. #i think she’d have reason to be even MEANER actually. that reaction of hers was completely reasonable. and honestly it must’ve hurt seeing #-two people who are meant to Get what it’s like.. participate in that? especially when the last thing she wants is her sexuality that she’s #-still very insecure with Being broadcasted. to the whole damn club. it’s already about to be shown to all of ohio with names addresses #-details about her whole personal life etc like she really didn’t need that spotlight right then she needed to have space and love and #-support… none of which she got. #also the glee writers tend to make a character do a bad thing and then have another character do an INFINITELY WORSE THING #and then they’re like “oh but. the first character was being so mean. this absolutely deplorable and wayyyy too far reaction is definitely #-justified now because that was just so mean of the first character ugh!” and basically spins what happened into showing the first characte #-as the most evil person alive??? as if that’s even remotely true.??? and yes this is about santana cause they do this w her #and quinn. a LOTTTT. like a LOT. rn i’m talking ab santana though so i won’t cover quinn sorry fabrayers… one day! #like yes santana was being mean sure whatever. but finn didn’t have an excuse IDGAF what the hell anybody says about the body shaming stuff #it was mean. yes that’s true. but i don’t think you understand how different those two things are #they’re both bad but the outing is infinitely more despicable and personal and filled with malice and it’s so much more endangering in a wa #-that can’t even be compared to the dangers of body shaming you know. like they’re completely different and the outing thing is just too #-personal and Wrong like. idk. just get that through ur head they’re both so different and finn went way too far and personal. he could’ve #-just mocked her looks if he really wanted to get back at her. mocked ANYTHING else. but he chose the worst thing you could do to somebody #who is scared and in the closet and hurting #also yes santana’s written to be rude a lot of the time but her degree of rudeness in those episodes was Overplayed and def not in characte #like it didn’t feel much like santana’s brand of meanness it was 100% the writers trying to justify finn more because they continued to #-paint finn as the good guy who chose the high road… when that couldn’t be further from the truth thanks. he didn’t choose the high road he #-completely blackmailed santana and used her to make him look good basically. so you can’t change my mind on that Def being a writer issue #and just them Hating Women. especially santana. thanks. #also this is all coming from somebody who loves finn. so. 🤣 #i fuckingggg hate seeing people say santana was mean and had no right to be doing all of that in those eps.. BITCH YES SHE DID #like in other eps sure (<- nuanced topic/take) but this one? No. she was justified IDGAF. should’ve been meaner

[pepprs]

my mom isn’t letting my dad go back to his office bc him being out of the house stresses her out and makes her have a flare up and it’s like kind of insane. like i understand why the idea of him doing that would make her panicky and angry as someone who also struggles w separation anxiety and abandonment shit / has physical symptoms from that kind of stress (though not to the same degree ofc) but also he is a grown man. he should be allowed to go to his office and not have to shape his entire life around her needs. and she keeps guilt tripping him out of it and it’s impacting his quality of life a lot and the whole thing is kind of… hm

#purrs #delete later #also she’s guilt tripping me into coming to the stupid fucking potluck on sunday bc she needs the extra help and it’s like… what are you #gonna do when i move out. like i am a grown woman and i should be able to choose how i spend my two precious weekend days. and my dad is a #grown man and he should be able to choose where he works. like is that not a little bit insane. i get it but also….. i do think it s kind of #fucked ip that it’s her way or the highway and her needs take priority over all of ours and she’s asking us to bend to what she wants when #she wants it. like i get it bc she’s sick but it’s not fair for her to expect that from my dad especially. particularly when me and my #brother are back at work / school in more high risk environments than my dad who would be in a private office alll day. and the thing is no #one is brave enough to all her on it bc if we did it would be the END of the world. she even threw a fit on my dads bday and complained bc #the things he wanted to do were things she didn’t want to do like all the man wanted to do was go mini golfing and when that wasn’t good #enough he just wanted to go on a walk and my mom complained the whole time and also scoffed the movie he wanted to watch and said it was #boring and it’s like… wtf it’s HIS birthday??? but what do you expect from the woman who (and in fairness her friends got her these as gifts #but still) has TWO kitchen items that say some variation of ‘a marriage is when one is always right and the other is always the husband’ 💀 #i look at that little plaque every night bc it’s in front of the sink when im doing dishes and it makes me so fucking angry. like my dad is #a whole fucking person and he can be right too and he deserves to make choices and be happy and not have his wife put him down all the time. #idk. and she puts down his family all the time too and complains when he wants to do the most reasonable things for his own enjoyment that #don’t align with hers and criticizes his interests all the time and it just sucks to see. he never shows hurt or anything so idk how he #feels about it but it makes me so angry and sad and when i tell her to stop she just lashes out at me so. 🤪. like how do we get her to stop #making her needs more important than everyone else’s bc… she may be our mom / his wife / whateger but that doesn’t make her queen. no one is #(andalso this has only gotten worse bc of covid / her being sick. like this has been a lifelong thing it’s just it’s a lot worse now bc the #circumstances gave her room / forced her to have to take up more space. and it’s just so frustrating. i get it. but none of us are pawns or #dolls or subordinates or anything. there’s 5 adults here and we should all be able to make choices and not be guilt tripped by her. lol #)

[justmeinatree]

yall i had the most fucked up dream last night

#i was at the bathroom to change a pad and realized i didn’t have anymore on me #then randomly this girl bursts into the stall (i mean like picks up the door and takes it right off the hinges) #and she just rips my pad right outta my underwear and takes off 🤨 #so i’m stuck there on the toilet with no door asking people for a pad and naturally nobody has one #my mum shows up (which is weird cuz this was happening in my old highschool) so i tell her to call my friend because #he was holding onto one for me from a few weeks ago #but he had gotten rid of it so my mum asks me what kind i want and she was going to run to the store to get me some #BUT SHE COMES BACK WITH TAMPONS 😩 #(random tmi sidenote : i haven’t been able to wear internal period products for years my body just rejects them) #so i flip out like wtf this is not what i sent you i need pads #and my mum goes ohh i have something you can use !! and i shit you not she whips out a fkn sub bread 😳 #cuts it in half lengthwise and expects me to use a mothafkn bread piece as a pad 🫣 #anyways dont do drugs kids 😅

[theamazingannie]

I’m a sucker for musical parallels and referencing an old song in a new song but I feel like this TTPD lead up is not just a “this is how I used to feel and now I’m using those themes to show how I feel now” and more of a “those feelings were never real and actually those love songs that were so beautiful before are actually about a bad relationship and full of red flags” cuz it’s honestly ruining my feelings on those old songs. Like Taylor’s whole thing is letting us interrupt the songs and apply them to our own lives and now it’s like even she is encouraging us to only see them through the lens of her most recent breakup and it really sucks tbh

#like when it was just fans being swifties I could ignore it and keep believing they were good love songs #but now that those Apple Music playlists came out and these songs are being sorted through different lenses #it feels like she wants us to look at those beautiful love songs differently and I hate it #taylor swift #ttpd #like I’d make jokes and talk about her personal life #and look at her songs and be like hmmm maybe that’s what she meant by this #but mostly her songs were always separate from her real life relationships #(otherwise I wouldn’t be able to love the speak now era love songs lmao) #I apply her songs to my characters #sweet nothing was the perfect song for one of my ocs who got famous and felt like he couldn’t be himself anymore #expect when he was with his bf who didn’t see him that way #and now I listen to it and I hear all those tweets saying ‘omg he didn’t love her and didn’t care about her and THATS what she was saying’ #and having lover being one of the top wedding songs of the 2020s #and the ‘at every table I’ll save you a seat’ now going from ‘I want you by my side always’ #to ‘I have to save it but you don’t show up cuz you’re never there for me’ #and lavender haze going from ‘we don’t need to be married to be in love and I just want to be with you #and I wish people would stay out of my private life’ #now being ‘I actually did want to get married and this was me just being in denial’ #it SUCKS #things were much easier when I was just playing my thoughts here rather than following fan pages on Twitter #I’ve met a lot of great people and learned some fun stuff but this is exhausting #I just want to listen to my favorite artist without analyzing every line to figure out if she really meant it like that #I love her for her ability to tel stories I can relate my characters to #that’s all I really want to do with her songs #makes me want to leave the fandom and just listen alone #but also doing that before made me miss album announcements and vault puzzles and other news #idk I’ll probably stay but it just really sours the whole experience for me #and I wish it didn’t

[avatardoggo]

soooo i was right 🫠😐🫥 the Friend like likes me and it seems e v e r y o n e around me has known sINCE FEBRUARY

#SO 👏🏾 let’s just let it be known that i’m an Obviously Silly Clown so no one needs to tel me that ik already so i already told y’all how he #said he needed to Talk to me and i was planning on avoiding him but my friends said not to bc it’s not the Adult Thing To Do and he is my #friend and i care about him so it wouldn’t be nice so i didn’t me and my roommate went to dairy queen with him after i finished braiding her #hair so we were getting out the car to go get ready for bible study at church but then he’s all like ‘VK i need to talk to you can you pleas #stay?’ and i was like KAJDJDJFJFJJD NO but on the outside i was such a Normal Girl and was like sure :)) so we’re in the parking lot and i l #left the door open bc i didn’t want to feel claustrophobic but i lied 🤥 and said it was hot so he starts out all like sorry i made you anxio #us by prolonging this talk and i was like lol no it’s fine i was busy with exams and stuff and he just kinda gets quiet and he was like sooo #i like you and i’m like #🤔😃🫠😶🫥😧 processing #and then i was like ok elaborate and he’s like i have feelings for you so i’m SHOOK BC WOWIE ppl aren’t cowards like me cause i could never #and i say well thanks for telling me and i think you’re really brave for that but i’m sorry i don’t feel the same way but i still want to be #friends but if you need space then it’s fine as well and he’s like ya i didn’t expect anything from you i just didn’t want to regret not #saying anything so i was ABOUT TO CRY BC I HAD TO REJECT HIM BC I REALLY DONT HAVE THOSE FEELJNGS FOR HIM so i left and went home and my <3 #almost exploded from my chest i was on the verge of a panic attack and i told my roommate and she was LAUGHING BC SHES SUSPECTED HES LIKED #ME SINCE FEBRUARY when he paid for my pizza and aPpArEnTlY hOw He LoOkS aT mE 🙄 WHATEVER #AND THEN I TOLD MY SECOND ROOMMATE AND SHES LIKE O YA IM NOT SURPRISED #so i’m just an oblivious silly goose who doesn’t USE HER BRAIN like kajdjdjhddjd and and now i’m thinking of the things i’ve done that made #him think i like him too like i baker him a pie for his birthday and i just feel silly and need advice if anyone has any but if not it’s fin #just an update on my life if you’re interested #vk overshares in the tags

[littlebirdy0301]

I am newly single and already have caught feelings for someone, debating if that’s a bit awful or not lmao

#To be fair I’ve known things with the then-boyf weren’t going well for a Very Long Time #We love each other so much but just aren’t compatible as a couple anymore #So I think I started grieving our relationship a long time ago #And dealt with the heartbreak a little at a time over a long period of time #Honestly the biggest things that made me want to keep trying were the family & beautiful future that we talked about having together- #And the fear of losing him as a friend because I have a hard time staying close with friends #But over time I’ve let go of the potential future we would’ve had. And now I can officially confirm that we’ll stay best friends #The last giant chunk of our relationship was already just a very strong platonic friendship #So all that’s changing is the label and any romantic expectations that weren’t matching up #Our needs and wants were too far apart for either of us to be happy or comfortable meeting in the middle #So yeah I knew the relationship was ending long before I accepted it #And in the last few weeks I recognized I was getting feelings for a very charming classmate in our costuming class #I just didn’t know if it was genuine feelings or me missing having romantic aspects in my relationship & projecting those feelings #But now I do think I’m into him #He’s just so darn charming #The thing that really pushed it was when another classmate was sad about the guy she was talking to ghosting her- #And we were all comforting her saying she deserved better & all that #And he had a response that was just so kindhearted and genuine #At the time it just felt on the same level of when I have a crush on a fictional character #Like “oh I just think they’re neat :)” and not meaning anything irl #I’m a cereal monogamist. I would never ever think about anything happening while in a relationship #But now I’m not in a relationship and that admiration for him are still there #And his smile can light a gosh darn room I swear #We smile at each other whenever we pass by & make eye contact n when he smiled and waved at me I thought “fuck I do like him huh” #So yeah that was today #But it feels way too soon after literally just getting out of a 3 year relationship #But I would love to platonically hang out with him and get to know each other #I feel like I’m supposed to be single for awhile #Even though I’ve mentally done all my mourning of that relationship #But it didn’t actually end until very recently

[meovelous]

Malear's va is really bringing the 'waiter at olive garden coming up to take an order only to get dragged into a family argument of 1000 yrs worth of self esteem and resentment to be a neutral 3rd party/therapist' energy

#'the somniel fell but didn’t know the bracelet loose. must be frustrating' was so fucking flat #he is so funny #fell xenologue spoilers #the storys kinda flat tbh #makes sense since its pretty short and they decided to focus the plot on 2 new chara instead of our evil friends #but the weird obsession on cramming a twist towards the end makes it so much more convoluted for no reason #like they're all dead twist was pretty good and evil nil was pretty obvi but the crammed in nil is actually rafal who took real nils place #and the mind control thing was just uneeded #like does the whole nil rafal rlly matter? especially if all the writers wanted was to have an inferiority complex plotline #real nil and nel are twins but rafal whos another non twin brother who just rlly looks like nil who had his own twin #like tell me that's not unnecessarily complicated #the mind manipulation is also not needed since again #the inferiority complex would've done the conflict on its own #nel also doesn’t need to know everything #like her knowing the everyone's corrupted twist is understandable but her knowing it was rafal all along just lessens the drama #and you cannot convince me mr 'i cant be expected to know the names of all my kids' sombron knew about the rafal switch #nel knowing mightve been unnecessary but understandable #but SOMBRON knowing?? #sorry for the long ass essay in the tags but i have a lot of thoughts #it wasn't rlly bad but i def liked the main story better esp when the best parts were about our evil friends giving hints on what their #world was like in a only a few lines in the chap they appeared in and special battle dialogue #honestly if the xenologue was gonna be that length it prob would've been better to have the new char as supporting ones #and not be the main plot #or just cut down on the twists have the nil/rafal or the mind manipulation not both #fire emblem engage spoilers #fire emblem engage art #my art #fe alear #fe nil #fe rafal

[lilgynt]

#personal #how’s my birthday going? stayed up all night cleaning and fixing old furniture #and then a two hour interval of driving aimlessly and listening to so much for star dust while screaming #anyway so sleeping btw still sick and my mom calls me bc she needs something driven to her right at that moment in order to get my dad back #so i’m pretty pissed but not at anyone but she’s like aware #anyway i pull up and my mom hugs me and keeps apologizing about my birthday #and then after i’m like it’s no one’s fault it just is what it is she’s like #i don’t say this often but i expect too much of you because i’m comparing you to myself #and in all honesty? ur a great daughter and a decent human being #then corrected herself and said im the best daughter bc i could have told them all to fuck off #anyway we got my dad back and i spent the whole car ride following my folks while crying bc he’s just as bad #i heard my mom mutter this is a mistake #the place was over drugging him so we really didn’t have a choice but also hm. retreating into my mind forever #and i’m so bad even my moms telling me i have to eat at some point

[oglegoggle]

It bothers me when folks insist that there are literally no good reasons to surrender pets because it destroys their hearts. Like…. My dude…. That evil fuckin cat that slashed my literal eyeball should be surrendered. I found new homes for my three cats because I couldn’t take having multiple panic attacks triggered every single fucking day because they’ve got claws and I’ve got a new dose of fresh PTSD caused by that demon slashing my eye. I still can’t sleep well because of the nightmares about it. The pain and the blood and the temp blindness in that eye and the extreme fear. It’s been months. My life was fucking destroyed and my love of cats ripped from my soul. But I’m the villain? No. Needs drastically change sometimes and it sucks for everyone involved. It wasn’t good for me having cats around. It wasn’t good for my cats to have their only human destabilized and constantly rejecting their affection. They’ve got a new home where all three miraculously got to stay together and are dearly loved again as they deserve to be.

#this is goggles #he didn’t want to surrender her because nobody will adopt a black cat with hardcore behavioral issues that put someone in the ER #and she would likely be put down #yanno the way humans have been dealing with and selectively breeding their domestic animals for literal millennia #but he’s an asshole with behavioral issues himself and doesn’t give a flying fuck about others #lmfao one of his friends told me they think he should honestly be institutionalized for his myriad of out of control behavioral issues #he needs a parent more than a partner but he still continues to date and expect those he dates to baby him #but then is upset when people don’t want to deal with him because he acts like a literal spoiled child #his friends are growing fed up with his shit after seeing how he treated me and that’s so fucking funny to me #good honestly I hope he drives off everyone around him and is left with just himself #in his nasty piss and shit filled dirty laundry nest he calls a home #he reminds me so much of a guy I used to play D&D with who did the exact same shit and was mooching off his dad well into his 60s #and would throw pissbaby fits whenever he wasn’t the center of attention or if anyone told him off for acting like a child #still complains about how awful his two years of marriage 30 years prior were because his ex-wife would constantly nag him to clean up #I was so patient with my ex because I saw a lot of the ways my own behavior was influenced by AuDHD and fucked up and I actually fixed them #I fixed those flaws and now I live in a BH&G levels of clean home I’m on track for a good career #my life transformed while I was with him but his did not and now that I ain’t dealing with him the boons of my work are clear as day #and he’s mad he’s in his parents basement working his $12/hr weed job and getting nagged for being irresponsible and filthy #lmfao moron

[msfcatlover]

Working my way through these comics, and I gotta say…

…at the very least, I’ll be able to throw all this canon out with insufferably smug authority by the time I’m through.

#my life #dc comics #mine #// #The NTT 1st Starfire wedding had me frothing at the mouth with rage though #Everyone out here acting like Dick walking away after being repeatedly told to sit down & shut up by everyone in Kory’s family #(INCLUDING HER) when she was clearly miserable but refusing to advocate for herself (OOC WTF) after speaking up so often & aggressively on #her behalf at one point he was accused of trying to PICK A FIGHT WITH THE ROYAL FAMILY. Like he somehow needs to PROVE himself after risking #his neck for her happiness repeatedly for weeks. Like he’s abandoning her by saying ‘’Hey just a heads up but if you really don’t want to #marry that guy than I’m gonna need some support here. Also you should know I’m not just going to be your side piece back on Earth #so if this wedding goes ahead do not expect us to be more than friends going forwards.’’ #Dick says he’s respecting her choice & her bro’s like ‘’If you do not fight for her you will lose her’’ #SIR YOU WERE ACCUSING HIM OF PICKING FIGHTS WITH YOU NOT THREE DAYS AGO! #’’Why didn’t Dick say anything to stop this?!’’ #BITCH WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN HE HAS SAID & DONE NOTHING BUT TRY TO STOP THIS SINCE THE SECOND HE FOUND OUT?!?! #Everyone out here acting like he needs to pull a Graduate to ‘’prove himself’’ or something like relationships aren’t a two way street! #and then #after disaster & the wedding & everything #her mom finds out the rescue team also picked Dick up out of the fucking prison Kory’s new hubby was rotting in while they were there #and she’s like ‘’How dare that earthling come here! Does he not realize he’s only hurting her worse?!’’ #MA’AM. LADY. DO YOU THINK HE’S FLYING THE RESCUE SHIP? DO YOU THINK HE HAS ANY SAY IN WHAT’S HAPPENING RIGHT NOW? #WHAT WAS HE SUPPOSED TO JUST SIT THERE AND WAIT FOR BLACKFIRE TO PUBLICLY EXECUTE HIM?! #He gets there. Kory walks straight past him to reprocess her dedication to her husband. Not even acknowledging Dick. #He walks away rather than explode at anyone and she’s like ‘’He didn’t even say hello!’’ NEITHER DID YOU! #WHY IS EVERYONE ACTING LIKE THIS IS HIS FAULT #MY MAN DID EVERYTHING RIGHT #(And then just to prove the writer hates Dick they throw in ‘’Oh yeah. Then his birthday passed while waiting for pickup back to Earth.’’ #Bruce is insensitive to the point of cruelty about it. And Donna also acts like this is allDick’s fault.) #… #I read that arc months ago

[domesticateddog]

spending the night :)

quick update: he got hired for a full time job bc they don’t have any part time available and i’m conflicted. i don’t think it’s a good idea to dive headfirst into a full time job right now especially as he’s going through withdraws while currently switching antipsychotics. but at the same time i know eventually he’ll have to. it’s just too much too soon but nobody else agrees with me but him. i guess he can just quit if it takes too much out of him but i don’t want the stress to provoke yet another episode ya know? but his dad is of the opinion all he needs to do is work and he’ll be fixed so whatever. we’ll see what happens.

also despite the nausea withdrawals he has been so affectionate today. i was so worried he started hating me again while i’ve been away at my own house the last couple days but no, i guess i just have ptsd or something. he knows my trust is broken right now but it’ll just take time as i’ve said several times already. i know i can’t blame him and he is in the process of getting stable but it still hurts. im not angry at him at all but it’s still a heavy burden to bear to go through all that. i will heal and god help me so will he. we’ll get through this. today he was the most normal i think he’s been in a long time (despite the withdrawals), and i don’t want to jinx it but im so glad he’s coming back to normal and he still loves me. i know it’s the disorder talking when he does that but it still hurts when it’s happening and im so thankful and glad that when he’s in the right frame of mind that he loves me. i know that sounds like such a low bar but for all the shit we’ve been through with this disorder, it’s what gives me hope that we can overcome this.

#not a fan of abilify but i can’t wait for the lithium. again i was HOPING AND PRAYING for seroquel and lamictal but psychs love to ignore #stuff like that. bet she was payed by big abilify lol……. he told her but she just ignored him and did her own thing bc he didn’t explain to #stuff like that. bet she was payed by big abilify lol…… he told her he wanted those meds but she ignored him and did her own thing bc i #instead of telling her how manic and fucking IRRITABLE and MOODY he’s been instead he told her he had suicidal thoughts so she put him on #abilify inatead 😑 bro… i wish to god i could’ve been in the appt to tell her how he actually was bc he has no idea. same thing with my uncle #too like other doctors need an outsiders perspective if they want to accurately diagnose and treat ppl. like how can they expect psychotic/ #delusional people to know that their behavior are? they are not aware of the extent of their issues so the docs only get a sliver of #what’s actually going on. UGH! that’s an even longer rant for another day though lol

[nuoc7mia]

i finished the new chapter like it was my first meal in days.

#moon talks #it went in a totally different direction but i’m glad she deviated from my expectations bc i did not want him to explode #and tbh shima isn’t the type of person to have a massive outburst anyway? i was prob just projecting on him 💀 i think it’s sweet how #perceptive mitsumi can be even if she isn’t culturally super savvy / like i was abt yo cry a bit when she said those kind words to shima #i will say tho this cleaned itself up a lot neater than i expected? i don’t feel like this is entirely over until shima is able to address #his feelings avt the roles he plays in ppl’s lives (and while mitsumi helps him realize that there is a reality where he doesn’t have to fit #a role i think it ultimately has to be him that changes smthing / also i feel like egashira wojld help him acknowledge it? since they always #felt like opposite sides of the same coin to me + their prev dynamic) #shima’s just like me tho fr #i do not have the words rn bc my midterm is tmrw but i love how he is characterized bc he’s allowed to be complicated and contradictory #edit: waitt i just read a theory abt him being jealous and i lowkey kind of agree! just for different reasons :3 i think this scene would #solidify a desire on shima’s end to hold onto mitsumi as the first person who liked him without pretences and bc his act doesn’t work anymor #the insecurities sprout faster + combine that w her other growing friendship w the vice pres and you could *potentially* get smthing uglier #not saying that i’m wishing for him to be vindictive or want jealousy in regards to romance i just think thaf it’s a v normal response esp #for someone like shima who grounds a lot of his self worth in how he can appease others #and smthing this manga does RLY well is establish the fact that bad/negative behaviors and emotions do not go away easily—that it takes time #adn effort to be able to change for the better #ppl here on tumblr are so big brained sometimes LOL i didn’t rlly think abt jealousy arc until i saw the post / just that there needs to be #a bigger catalyst for things yo change bc this isn’t rlly new w mitsumi

[wwerewwolves]

the fact that I am living out my ex girlfriends DREAM with her ex boyfriend is soooooo funny. Get fucked

#like literally. he lets me smoke responsibly bc I’m not a pothead. he agreed to a full monogamous relationship and CONTINUES to uphold it #he hangs out with me out of the house and does fun dates #like she was so resentful and nasty to him ALL THE TIME #and expected him to read her mind #meanwhile I’m just mouthy and demanding so he knows my needs #captain’s log #she would lie and go behind his back to do things that I just… ask #like he sets boundaries and I simply just. ask! I talk to him #anyways I loooove living the dream. #he called me his forever boy to some of his friends and I was like oof. ouch. my heart… #breaking up with her isn’t enough I hope she kills herself #literally she knew he didn’t want a partner who was into drugs. so she’d smoke behind his back. she didn’t want a poly partner but wouldn’t #ask him to be monogamous and kept letting him get another partner. then she would throw a fucking fit and drive them away

[hafwen]

Timmy has never been food motivated and when my mom was in the hospital he was stressed and definitely lost some weight. But we have been giving him extra wet food and he feels pretty close previous weight if not all the way back

#I thing he looked skinnier #then I picked him up and it didn’t hurt #he is supposed to be above my comfortable weight to pick up #that’s how I know he’s getting back #he hurts to pick up again #he’s always been skinny but he got extra skinny with her gone #now if she leaves to go out he won’t eat until she comes back #hoping in the next month or so he gets over that #but if not we’ll just keep feeding him extra #he loves his wet food #he just gets sad or stressed and stops eating much #it’s sad and worrisome #we may need to give him some extra weight #my mom will need surgery in the next few months with an overnight stay at the very least #I don’t expect his eating to be good then either #don’t want him to get underweight #Timmy #so i have cats and a dog #personal