#kink negotiation

[aziraphales-library]

Hello, wonderful people! I love your blog, you helped me discover so many beautiful fics <3

I am looking for some one-shots, where ineffable husbands wanted to have sex with each other but for one reason or another one or both of them changed their mind when it came to the real thing (got scared, realized that it's just not their thing, etc.). I'm in desperate need of fics about negotiating and setting boundaries and talking things through.

O know that my request might be too specific, and I wouldn't say no to longer works, when this situation is only a part of a bigger plot.

Thank you so much for all the hard work you put into this blog!!!

Hi! There are fics here, here, and here that you will be interested in. Those fics are more about sexual and/or romantic orientation and sexual incompatibility. The fics I have for you now are more focused on kink negotiation...

The Human Condition by entanglednow (E)

In which Aziraphale asks Crowley a question, which leads to him sharing a secret that changes everything.

warrior, guardian by artenon (E)

Please. Crowley’s voice echoed in his head. Please what? Please more, please keep going, please make me come… please stop. No, Crowley hadn’t meant that. He hadn’t said that. And yet Aziraphale could hear it, Crowley’s voice a soft whimper, begging him to please stop. -- Aziraphale is significantly stronger than Crowley. Crowley loves it, but Aziraphale's feelings on the matter are more complicated.

he still shatters always on her earth by sosobriquet (E)

Crowley asks to be taken advantage of. Aziraphale obliges. Things get a little sideways at one point but they fix it.

Surrender to Your Love by EdosianOrchids901 (E)

Aziraphale is excited to try handcuffs that block his miracles, but he quickly becomes distressed. Although afraid of disappointing Crowley, he uses his safeword. Crowley soothes him with reassurances and gentle pampering.

a soft place to land by PaintedVanilla (E)

Crowley isn't sure how to ask for something when he doesn’t even know what it is that he wants.

Kinky Angels and Vanilla Demons by ximeria (E)

Kinky Angels and Vanilla Demons - or a supernatural ethereal long journey of exploration. In which an Angel and a Demon treat the whole no fraternization rule with the same casual blasphemy that orangutans show to God. Or in other words, Aziraphale and Crowley embark on a sexual adventure because Crowley has gotten it into his head that should he ever instigate sex or Satan forbid, top the angel, there is no way it will not cause Aziraphale to fall from his grace.

- Mod D

#good omens #ineffable husbands #ineffable wives #adult omens #kink negotiation #communication #mod d

[wangxianficrecs]

my life's journey is far from over by thelastdboy

my life's journey is far from over

by thelastdboy

E, 148k, wangxian

Summary: No one knew that Wei Ying survived the Burial Mounds. No one knew that it was his music that flooded the battlefields of the Sunshot Campaign with corpses. No one knew just how much he had given for his family. Now the war was over and Wei Ying found himself in Yiling once again and after spending years surrounded by nothing but death, he had to learn what it feels like to be alive again. He was dead to the world and for the first time wondered what it would be like to live for his own sake. Or: Wei Ying meets Lan Zhan after the war, both broken and searching for purpose. Wen Qing will do everything to save her little brother. Jiang Yanli learns that not every problem can be solved by soup alone.

Kay's comments: This is Mojo's Rec, but this is my story, so, I'm kind of having a moment right now ;__; This is the main story of a series! The story is told from Wei Wuxian's POV while the other story in the series is a prequel from Lan Wangji's POV.

Excerpt: Lan Zhan knew that he was a demonic cultivator, but this was a whole different calibre of messed up. Wei Ying hated it, he hated it so much. He wished that he could just be young and in love and not in some messed up co-dependant relationship with a sentient mass grave.

canon-divergence, modern setting, with a twist, post-sunshot campaign, madam lan lives, jiang yanli lives, wen qing lives, pov wei wuxian, slow burn, setting: yiling, recovery, hurt/comfort, kink negotiation, eventual smut, somebody lives/not everybody dies, wei wuxian lives, lan wangji/wei wuxian get a happy ending, single parent wei wuxian, burial mounds ensemble as a family, rogue cultivator lan wangji, different first meeting, lan wangji leaves the lan sect, getting to know each other, falling in love, developing relationship, case fic, found family, @thelastdboyy

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(Please REBLOG as a signal boost for this hard-working author if you like – or think others might like – this story.)

#Wangxian Fic Rec #The Untamed #wangxian #MDZS #Mojo's Rec #canon-divergence #modern setting #with a twist #post-sunshot campaign #madam lan lives #jiang yanli lives #wen qing lives #pov wei wuxian #slow burn #setting: yiling #recovery #hurt/comfort #kink negotiation #eventual smut #somebody lives/not everybody dies #wei wuxian lives #lan wangji/wei wuxian get a happy ending #single parent wei wuxian #burial mounds ensemble as a family #rogue cultivator lan wangji #different first meeting #lan wangji leaves the lan sect #getting to know each other #falling in love #developing relationship

[take-taker-taken]

Because sometimes, Taker circa 1998 just needs some head canon… I mean, it *might* make him at least pay rent to be in my head, right?

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You’re minding your business when he comes and stands behind the couch

Lowers a piece of paper in front of your face

“What’s this little girl?”

Your heart stops. It’s that list you found online and printed out.

And then completed it.

You’ve been wanting to tell him for ages about the things you’re wanting to try in the bedroom.

Trouble is, he’s such a perfect gentleman that you know he’d never agree to it.

Slapping, spanking you, name calling and more.

Despite his work persona, that kind of behaviour just isn’t him.

So you’ve kept it as a fantasy.

You turn a deep shade of red as you realise he’ll have read the list.

He sits down on the couch next to you.

“You like this sort of thing, little girl?”

You draw your knees up to your chin - yup, he thinks you’re a pervert.

He nudges you. “Well?”

You mumble into your knees; something about being curious.

“Why didn’t you just come to me?”

“Because you think it’s weird,” you mutter.

He reaches over and takes hold of your chin, forcing you to look at him.

“Did I say that, little girl?”

You shake your head ‘no’ and actually meet his eyes.

He doesn’t look disgusted.

He indicates the list. “You want to try some of this?”

You stare at him.

“Only if you want to. I don’t want you to be weirded out.”

He laughs. Actually laughs.

“Little girl, I’ve been around the block.”

You stare some more and then say what’s bothering you.

“But I don’t want to force you. That kind of stuff… it’s not you.”

He slips his arm around you.

“What makes you think that I wouldn’t enjoy it? Little girl, with your consent I would have zero problem with paddling your ass red and then tying you down to fuck you raw. Among other things.”

Your blush renews fiercely and your stomach flips at his turn of phrase.

“You’ve never said…” You say quietly.

It’s his turn to shift uncomfortably.

“Well, I guess we’re both guilty of keeping secrets. Same as you, little girl - I wouldn’t ever want to make you feel… weird.”

He turns his attention back to the list.

“Using titles, huh?”

You nod and blush some more, burying your face in your drawn-up knees.

His hand shifts from your back and slides into your hair, taking a handful in his fist. Not overly hard, but certainly firm and he uses the hold to lift your head up again.

Hair-pulling is something else that you’d ticked on the list.

“When we do this, you’ll call me ‘sir’”.

His voice is low and serious and that’s when you realise that he’s not kidding - he’s got some experience with this.

Your stomach flips again and you make a tiny noise of assent.

Wait - he said ‘when we do this’!

He lets go of your hair and cuddles you to him, pulling you in close so you can look at the list together.

He points to the section headed, ‘Impact Play’.

“You’ve ticked pretty much everything here, little girl.”

Embarrassed, you turn your head in towards his shoulder.

“Curious,” you mumble again.

“Ohhh, that’ll be fun,” he mutters and curiosity peaked, you look back at the paper but he doesn’t elaborate.

“How much of this have you already done?”

He kisses the top of your head. “I’ve done plenty.”

“Given or received?”

He turns and looks at you. “Which d’you think?”

“OK, silly question.”

#The Undertaker #Undertaker #Undertaker smut #this character lives in my head rent free #quite frankly I should probably be paying THEM at this point #Undertaker headcanon #probably unleashing a monster here #kink list #kink negotiation #Dom!Taker #Dom!Undertaker #Taker X Reader #Undertaker X Reader

[royjamieprompts]

Roy/Jamie prompt: During the off season Jamie wants to try some kink exploration and brings it up with Roy. Roy is hesitant but agrees, but only after they do some extensive research on the different kinks that are out their. Things like mild BDSM and erotic asphyxiation are in but other more extreme things are out. They gain a deeper love connection and trust with each other

Good and healthy kink negotiation! Love that for them!

(But is erotic asphyxiation really mild 🧐?)

#Roy x Jamie #Fanfic Prompts #Kink Negotiation #royjamie

[medievill]

good morning, here’s 3400 words of flirting and kink negotiation, if you even care

first chapter of part 3 in “the harder the pain, honey, the sweeter the song” is up! (it’s tagged for whump but that’ll be the next chapter; this is pretty fluffy tbh.)

#ofmd #our flag means death #innkeeper era #gentlebeard #blackbonnet #kink negotiation #ed x stede #stede x ed #ed my beloved #stede fucking bonnet #ofmd fanfic recs #ofmd fanfic #ofmd fanfiction #ao3 #ofmd ao3

[wh0lemilk0vich]

this is sort of totally random but i just wanna say that i love your blog so so much!! just agreeing on the little things such as a dislike of limited mobility (like, personally that makes me really genuinely upset) or dislike of comparison to animals, and the celebration of all bodies yknow. makes me happy :)

like this is such a nice space genuinely. you don’t post about excessive shit that leads to health issues eg. immobility and u don’t dehumanise. don’t get me started on force feeding that makes me so sad. so many people in this community do do that and it makes me sad bcus i just wanna appreciate a belly sometimes yknow?! without said belly being an issue!! without people being cruel and rude!!

hope this didn’t come across weird ?? i just am so glad i found your blog bcus genuinely it’s really great and makes me feel better about my interests. i think i thought that wg/belly kinks always had to lead to some sort of limited mobility or dehumanising crap which like i mentioned makes me really upset, so finding someone who feels similarly and doesn’t post about it is just awesome and enforces the idea that it’s ok to not feel the same as others in a niche space. as well as being a skinny/midsize person myself i thought that i was a bad dude bcus of such. like i just wanna pat some thick thighs and tummy god damn, i wouldn’t even consider myself a chaser or feeder or whatever

no hate to dudes that like limited mobility or force feeding or that stuff, just totally not for me. no shame !!!!!!

sorry i realise that that was an absolute ramble!! i don’t know how to describe it but i hope you know that you and your blog rock !!!! 🪱‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

Awe wormie 🪱, you're really so sweet!

And I know what you mean, so I'm glad that this dumb gremlin blog is helping you find/solidify your boundaries within the community.

It is incredibly hard, but really satisfying when you find the folks who just seem to get it! Remember that it's all nuanced and you're allowed to feel contradictory too. You're allowed to contain multitudes.

For example, I have a lot of weird and maybe extreme kinks related to this too, and you'll notice I tend not to be to soft or sentimental in the asks I answer. I like power play and bdsm and teasing and humiliation in this kink but I like it in a very different way than the majority, you know? A contradiction, so I have to hold true to my boundaries. I think being compared to animals can be done in a sexy way that doesn't feel dehumanizing, but it has to be done the right way or with a sense of consent on both sides. (Like i actually think cow-boys are so cute ugh). I also like extreme wg/force feeding fantasies which haven't come up all that much in like anons and stuff, but I do love reading like a dream or fantasy sequence with really big growth, or a bdsm scene with force feeding every so often.

Basically this is me saying that maybe there will be things that I like that I post about that may be squicks for you, but I'll try to do my best to tag or give content warnings because I think you can have it all and it still be a safe welcoming place.

But mostly, I think this blog finds like minded people and keeps itself well regulated, if that all makes sense

I just really appreciate you all as well, you're all my gremlins (affectionate) 🥰

#misha speaks #kink negotiation #🪱 anon

[ourdramaqueen]

Wyler Kink Bingo: "Relax. And happy International Women's Day."

"Relax. And happy International Women's Day." by Ourdramaqueen

Rating: Explicit Fandom: Wednesday Pairing: Wednesday Addams/Tyler Galpin Summary: Wednesday and Tyler spend spring break with the Addams Family. While they start making plans for their Hyde research project, Tyler learns a lot of new things about his mate's kooky, spooky family—and about himself. Notes: This is my fill for the "Kink negotiation" square on Card 2 of the Wyler Kink Bingo. @weylerwritingevents It is chapter 3 of the story "A Very Addams Spring Break" which is set in the Sexual Education of Wednesday Addams series, but since I don't have chapters 1 and 2 ready yet, I went ahead and posted this so I'd make it in time for kink bingo. I will add the previous chapters as I get to them.

Read it on AO3

#weyler fic #wyler fic #wednesday x tyler #wednesday addams x tyler galpin #wyler kink bingo #weyler kink bingo #kink negotiation #weyler fanfiction #wyler fanfiction #weyler fan fic #wyler fanfic