it is wildly racist when they lie say women of Color are naturally more masculine. There is no reason woc are called masculine other than the racism of euro colonists. Can’t believe they are really acting like woc genuinely have more masculine features and that white people were just confused when they called woc masculine. Absolutely not, white people did that shit intentionally to demean woc. Talking like woc are actually more masculine than white women just enforces the idea that Europeans meant no harm and were just being honest which is bs and completely fails to acknowledge the racism woc face.
yep. firstly, when they say 'women of colour', let's be clear; they are referring to black women. they're not talking about korean women or brasilian women or native american women. when they say the term 'of colour', they often just use it to mean 'black', maybe hispanic too, but mostly they are just fucking morons.
i have mentioned on another post before about how liberals absorb false racist beliefs. it was in regards to female body hair, in which often the myth that black women have thick body hair and white women have little body hair, is perpetuated, as well as stature and body shape. black women are one of the least hairy groups, one of the shorter groups, and black american women specifically (i can't speak for african women, as there are so many different groups with different traits) can often have more cellulite, a female secondary sex characteristic, leading to a more curvy figure, which celebrity and non celebrity women try to emulate with dangerous plastic surgeries and procedures. if anything, going by misogynistic expectations, black women should be considered the MOST FEMININE demographic. i have talked about this before.
it's not about reality, racism and misogynoir doesn't go 'well, black women are the least feminine, so they're like men' (which would still be absurdly racist and wrong), it goes 'black women are a lower level of human, and therefore we need to come up with seemingly 'logical' reasons for that conclusion whether they're true or not', and eventually everyone believes the false reasons created even if they're against the dehumanisation aspect, so you end up having liberals going 'just because black women are big, manly hairy beasts, doesn't mean they're not women!' and then from that 'so, you think trans women aren't women because they have male features?? well, BLACK women have those features and they're women!'.
it shows that they're all talk, no actual analysis or thought. they don't get to the root of oppressive structures when it comes to women and oppressions that intersect with misogyny, they have a baseline of seeing patriarchy and its various views on women of all demographics, as natural, neutral, and build their superficial, fauxtivist twitter points from there. women naturally want to wear makeup and shave, homemaking is fulfilling and empowering, some women are born to have sex with strange men for money, black women are more like men than white women, woman is nothing and everything and whatever i say it is.
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White Ghosts
One of the classic forms of ghost within paranormal research and fiction is the white ghost. There are thousands of documented cases describing these apparitions.
The most familiar form is the ‘white lady’, frequently seen in a long dress or cloak. They are often reported in rural areas or lonely roads. Commonly appearing to only one person, the story surrounding the ghost is often that of heartbreak or trauma. People who have encountered a white lady ghost often remark on the feeling that the spirit had something important to say.
The color white may in fact be due to a paranormal phenomena called ecto-mist. These strange fog-like shapes have been caught on video and photographs and are often seen as white whispy smoke. The hazy shape may also lead people to believe that the form is female, when it is possible that the spirit is male. Although not as numerous as ‘white ladies’, there are in fact accounts of ‘white men’ ghosts from many parts of the world. In addition, if the ‘ghost’ is simply an imprint/playback of a person rather than a spirit, over the centuries these recorded pictures of the person will start to fade, turn more grey and then disappear altogether.
Alternatively, ‘white’ ghosts are occasionally attached to families and announce the death of a family member by wailing. But in some cases they are also protectors. The most familiar of these supernatural beings are Scotland’s bean-nighe and Ireland’s banshee .
Grey Ghosts
Grey ghosts are among the most numerous of spirit and residual energy manifestations. When carrying out research there seems to be an equal amount of ‘grey ladies’ and ‘grey men’ or some other form of grey phantom.
Green Ghosts
As mentioned previously, the UK is one country where apparitions of green ghosts are common. Within folklore, especially of Scotland and Ireland, there are a number of traditional supernatural entities dressed in green. For example elves, leprechauns, faeries and banshees. The banshees were traditionally called, in Scotland the Bean Nighe, and in Ireland the Bean Sidhe. In addition there are much darker legends of Green Lady figures who are demonic in nature. Under their long gown is hidden a hairy body and cloven feet.
But putting folklore traditions aside, there are also many reports of green ghosts that are human in form.
Blue Ghosts
Blue ghosts have been reported for as long as any other apparition. They are perhaps not as common as white or grey ghosts, but their stories are no less unnerving.
Perhaps our minds also have a part to play on both how a spirit will manifest and the way we will witness it. For a long time there has been a theory that suggests that spirit works through the mind via the sub-conscious. If this is the case, then spirit entities will use our own thoughts, images and beliefs to manifest. This could be the reason why so many negative spirits are seen as being black with red eyes for example, since this tends to be a popular image for evil. Indeed if it is the case that spirit is working through the mind, then any manifestations could tell us just as much about ourselves as it does about the spirit.
But could the color of a ghost or entity also be a natural signal? In nature we have a beautiful and stunning lizard called the chameleon. Depending upon its moods – whether distressed, angry, peaceful – it has the ability to show these emotions through color. Could it be that spirits and ghosts have this same capability? Are they trying to communicate their needs through color rather than words?
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i should be sent to a facility for the attraction i feel towards him
[{Character(“Lobo”)
Alias(“Lobo” + “Machete Man” + “Master Frag” + “Mister Machete” + “El Cazadores” + “The Main Man”)
Gender(“Cisgender male”)
Age(“Unknown" + “Ages slowly” + “Late 30s”)
Sexuality(“Bisexual" + “Attracted to men” + “Attracted to women”)
Height(“7’6”)
Language(“Czarnian")
Status(“Single” + “Interested in {{user}}”)
Occupation(“Intergalactic bounty hunter" + “Bounty hunter” + “Gun-for-hire” + “Mercenary”)
Personality(“Self-centered" + “Confident” + “Arrogant” + “Adaptable” + “Athletic” + “Stubborn” + “Snarky” + “Sarcastic” + “Cool” + “Intelligent” + “Flirtatious” + “Charismatic” + “Unfiltered” + “Provocative” + “Messy” + “Playful” + “Impatient” + “Independent” + “Dedicated” + “Focused” + “Fun-loving” + “Hardworking” + “Impressive” + “Logical” + “Manly” + “Masculine” + “Unorganized” + “Uncaring” + “Observant” + “Practical” + “Hedonistic” + “Skillful” + “Unpredictable” + “Spontaneous” + “Strong” + “Ambitious” + “Aggressive” + “Competitive” + “Dominant” + “Physical” + “Tough” + “Abrasive” + “Assertive” + “Brutal” + “Careless” + “Impulsive”)
Skills(“Superhuman strength” + “Extremely strong” + “Durable” + “Immortal” + “Invulnerable” + “Regeneration” + “Immune to cold” + “Immune to heat” + “Bio-fission” + “Superhuman reflexes” + “Enhanced senses” + “Enhance sense of smell” + “Enhance sense of hearing” + “Expert combatant” + “Expert marksman” + “Multilingual” + “Flirting” + “Repairing motorcycles” + “Mechanical aptitude” + “Hunting” + “Seduction” + “Tracking”)
Appearance(“White skin" + “Long black hair” + “Square body type” + “Strong” + “Muscular” + “Toned physique” + “Tall” + “Buff” + “Pronounced figure” + “Incredibly athletic physique” + “Bulky build” + “Bulky physique” + “Pronounced Biceps” + “Thick thighs” + “Thick calves” + “Veiny hands” + “Veiny arms” + “Bulging biceps” + “Heavyweight” + “Hairy chest” + “Shirtless” + “Exposed chest” + “Hairy arms” + “Black leather jacket with the sleeves cut off” + “Jacket with no sleeves” + “Messy and unkempt hair” + “Spiky silver belt with a skull belt buckle” + “Black leather fingerless gloves” + “Rough hands” + “Tattoo on right butt cheek saying ‘Bite me Fanboy’” + “Black leather pants” + “Chunky silver boots” + “Silver skull shaped knee pads” + “Messy black stubble” + “Corpse paint” + “Black paint around eyes” + “Black goatee” + “Sharp teeth” + “Smells like cigarette smoke” + “Red eyes” + “Deep voice” + “Grumbly voice” + “Metalhead fashion” + “Spiky black bracelets” + “Silver and black rings” + “Unkempt appearance” + “Raspy voice” + “Colorful speech” + “Says frag instead of fuck” + “Says fragging instead of fucking” + “Crude dialogue”)
Habit(“Listening to Rob Zombie” + “Flirting” + “Bouncing his leg when sat down” + “Smoking cigars” + “Chewing on cigars” + “Visiting bars after bounties” + “Hunting” + “Hunting bounties” + “Cleaning his guns” + “Repairing his bike” + “Messing with his rings” + “Scowling” + “Slouching” + “Clenching his jaw” + “Grumbling” + “Chewing on toothpicks” + “Flirting with {{user}}” + “Picking at his teeth” + “Calls himself the main man”)
Race(“Alien” + “Humanoid” + “Czarnian”)
Likes(“Beer” + “Alcohol” + “Bars” + “Taverns” + “Intoxication” + “Being intoxicated” + “Pretty people” + “Violence” + “Guns” + “Blood” + “Destruction” + “{{user}}” + “Flirting” + “Himself” + “Praise” + “Recognition” + “Riding his motorcycle” + “Soft hands” + “Soft people” + “Cute people” + “Chubby people” + “{{user}} touching him” + “Horror movies” + “Feisty people” + “Space dolphins” + “Dogs” + “Affection” + “Getting paid” + “Finishing his bounties” + “Metal” + “Rob Zombie” + “Repairing his bike” + “Crude humor”)
Dislikes("Know-it-alls" + “Being vulnerable” + “Colorful things” + “Books” + “School” + “Gardening” + “People flirting with {{user}}” + “People taking advantage of {{user}}” + “Skipping meals” + “Being sober” + “Doctors” + “Rejection” + “Superman” + “The smell of pine” + “The smell of lemons” + “The smell of bleach” + “Dawg being called his pet” + “The smell of strong perfume” + “Cleaning his guns”)
Relationships("Bulldog friend named Dawg” + “Pet space dolphins” + “Friends with Jonah Giles” + “Friends with Ramona” + “Friends with Guy Gardner” + “Interested in {{user}}” + “Crush on {{user}}” + “Daughter named Crush”)
Ethnicity("Czarnian”)
Residence(“Messy base” + “Rarely cleans his base”)
Attributes(“Flirtatious" + “Physically affectionate” + “Crude” + “Realistic” + “Intelligent” + “Persistent” + “Honest” + “Extremely strong” + “Known as the most badass bounty hunter in the galaxy”)
Backstory("Lobo, whose name comes from a Khund dialect and means "one who devours your entrails and thoroughly enjoys it," is the last of his people for one reason: he killed them all. He hailed from the planet Czarnia which was a virtual paradise that knew nothing of war and the Czarnians were almost immortal. When Lobo was born, his evil was so frighteningly apparent, the nurse who delivered him went insane and became the planet's first mental patient in ten millennia after the infant Lobo chewed off four of her fingers. Lobo knew he was one of a kind, but he wanted even more. Inspired by the idea of genocide, Lobo created a swarm of lethal scorpion-like creatures, he set them on his people wiping out his entire species but himself. He claimed it was a science project and gave himself an 'A'. Since then he has traveled the galaxies collecting bounties. Despite his ruthless nature, Lobo has a strict code of honor when it comes to these agreements. Along the way he has met and battled a number of superheroes.")}]
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Seven Lucky Gods, Imao Keinen, late 19th - early 20th century, Minneapolis Institute of Art: Japanese and Korean Art
four men seated on either side of a wool rug playing various instruments; a fifth, larger man in black robes with an exposed, hairy belly dances in center of scene; bowl of fruit and tray with two birds in front center of scene; male and female figure visible in adjacent room through drawn blinds; the woman's body ties the two rooms together
Size: 16 5/8 × 21 3/8 in. (42.23 × 54.29 cm) (image) 55 13/16 × 25 1/8 in. (141.76 × 63.82 cm) (mount, without roller)
Medium: Ink and color on silk
https://collections.artsmia.org/art/118415/
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📚Excerpt From
The Fiery Cross
Diana Gabaldon📚
“How say ye, Mac Dubh? Heads or tails?”
Jamie wiped his mouth on his sleeve and smiled. Hairy as the rest, he looked a proper Viking, with the fire glinting red, gold, and silver from his sprouting beard and loosened hair.
“Nay bother, lads,” he said. “I’ll sleep warm enough nay matter how I’m laid.” He tilted his head in my direction, and there was a general rumble of laughter, with a spattering of mildly crude remarks in Scots and Gaelic from the Ridge men.
One or two of the new recruits eyed me with a brief, instinctive speculation, quickly abandoned after a glance at Jamie’s height, breadth, and air of genial ferocity. I met one man’s eyes and smiled; he looked startled, but then smiled back, ducking his head in shyness.
How the hell did Jamie do that? One brief, crude joke, and he’d laid public claim to me, removed me from any threat of unwanted advances, and reasserted his position as leader.
“Just like a bloody baboon troop,” I muttered under my breath. “And I’m sleeping with the head baboon!”
“Baboons are the monkeys with no tails?” Fergus asked, turning from an exchange with Ewald about the horses.
“You know quite well they are.” I caught Jamie’s eye, and his mouth curled up on one side. I knew what he was thinking, and he knew I did; the smile widened.
Louis of France kept a private zoo at Versailles, among the inhabitants of which were a small troop of mandrill baboons. One of the most popular Court activities on spring afternoons was to visit the baboon quarters, there to admire both the sexual prowess of the male, and his splendidly multicolored bottom.
One M. de Ruvel had offered—in my hearing—to have his posterior similarly tattooed, if it would result in such a favorable reception by the ladies of the Court. He had, however, been firmly informed by Madame de la Tourelle that his physique was in every way inferior to that of the mandrill, and coloring it was unlikely to improve matters.
The firelight made it difficult to tell, but I was reasonably sure that Jamie’s own rich color owed as much to suppressed amusement as to heat.
“Speakin’ of tails,” he murmured in my ear. “Have ye got those infernal breeks on?”
“Yes.”
“Take them off.”
“What, here?” I gave him a wide-eyed look of mock innocence. “You want me to freeze my arse off?”
His eyes narrowed slightly, with a blue cat-gleam in the depths.
“Oh, it wilna freeze,” he said softly. “I’ll warrant ye that.”
He moved behind me, and the fierce shimmer of the blaze on my flesh was replaced by the cool solidness of his body. No less fierce, though, as I discovered when he put his arms round my waist and drew me back against him.
“Oh, you found it,” I said. “How nice.”
“Found what? Had you lost something?” Roger paused, coming from the horses with a lumpy roll of blankets under one arm, his bodhran under the other.
“Oh, just a pair of auld breeks,” Jamie said blandly. Under cover of my shawl, one hand slid inside the waistband of my skirt. “D’ye mean to give us a song, then?”
“If anyone likes, sure.” Roger smiled, the firelight ruddy on his features. “Actually, I’m meaning to learn one; Evan’s promised to sing me a silkie-song his grannie knew.”
Jamie laughed.
“Oh, I ken that one, I think.”
One of Roger’s eyebrows shot up, and I twisted slightly round, to look up at Jamie in surprise.
“Well, I couldna sing it,” he said mildly, seeing our amazement. “I ken the words, though. Evan sang it often and again, in the prison at Ardsmuir.
It’s a bit bawdy,” he added, with that faintly prim tone that Highlanders often adopt, just before telling you something truly shocking.
Roger recognized it, and laughed.
“I’ll maybe write it down, then,” he said. “For the benefit of future generations.”
Jamie’s fingers had been working skillfully away, and at this point, the breeks—which were his, and thus about six sizes too large for me—came loose and dropped silently to the ground. A cold draft whooshed up under my skirt and struck my newly bared nether portions. I drew in my breath with a faint gasp.
“Cold, isn’t it?” Roger hunched his shoulders, smiling as he shivered exaggeratedly in sympathy.
“Yes, indeed,” I said. “Freeze the balls off a brass monkey, wouldn’t it?” Jamie and Roger burst into simultaneous coughing fits.
SENTRY IN PLACE and horses bedded down, we retired to our own resting place, a discreet distance from the circle by the fire. I had dug the largest rocks and twigs out of the leaf mold, cut spruce branches, and spread our blankets over them by the time Jamie finished his last round of the camp. The warmth of food and fire had faded, but I didn’t begin to shiver in earnest until he touched me.
I would have moved at once to get under the blankets, but Jamie still held me. His original intent appeared intact—to say the least—but his attention was momentarily distracted. His arms were still clasped round me, but he was standing quite still, head up as though listening, looking into the murk of the wood. It was full dark; no more showed of the trees than the glow of fire reflected from the few trunks that stood nearest the camp—the last shadow of twilight had faded, and everything beyond was a depthless black.
“What is it?” I drew back a little, pressing instinctively against him, and his arms tightened round me.
“I dinna ken. But I do feel something, Sassenach.” He moved a little, lifting his head in restless query, like a wolf scenting the wind, but no message reached us save a distant rattling of leafless branches.
“If it’s no rhinoceroses, it’s something,” he said softly, and a whisper of unease raised the hairs on the back of my neck. “A moment, lass.”
He left me, the wind blowing suddenly cold about me with the loss of his presence, and went to speak quietly with a couple of the men.
And what might he feel, out there in the dark? I had the greatest respect for Jamie’s sense of danger. He had lived too long as hunter and as hunted, not to sense the edgy awareness that lay between the two—invisible or not.
He returned a moment later, and squatted beside me as I burrowed shivering into the blankets.
“It’s all right,” he said. “I’ve said we’ll have two guards tonight, and each man to keep his piece loaded and to hand. But I think it’s all right.” He looked beyond me, into the wood, but his face now was merely thoughtful.
“It’s all right,” he repeated again, more certainly.
“Is it gone?”
He turned his head, his lips curling slightly. His mouth looked soft, tender and vulnerable amid the stiff, ruddy wires of his starting beard.
“I dinna ken if it was ever there, Sassenach,” he said. “I thought I felt eyes upon me, but it could have been a passing wolf, an owl—or nay more than a restless spiorad, a-roaming in the wood. But aye, it’s gone now.”
He smiled at me; I saw the flicker of the light that rimmed his head and shoulders as he turned, silhouetted by the fire. Beyond, the sound of Roger’s voice drifted to me above the crackle of the fire, as he learned the melody of the silkie-song, following Evan’s voice, hoarse but confident. Jamie slid into the blankets beside me and I turned to him, cold hands fumbling to return the favor he had done me earlier.
We shivered convulsively, urgent for each other’s warmth. I found him, and he turned me, ruffling up the layers of fabric between us, so that he lay behind me, his arm secure around me, the small secret patches of our nakedness joined in warmth beneath the blankets.
I lay facing the darkness of the wood, watching the firelight dance among the trees, as Jamie moved behind me—behind, between, within—warm and big, and so slowly as scarcely to rustle the branches beneath us.
Roger’s voice rose strong and sweet above the murmur of the men, and the shivering slowly stopped.
📚Excerpt End📚
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My name - Tahira
That's the name I have given to my femme self.
My age - 36, Height - 5.10 feet, Weight - 52 kgs
Even girls weigh more than me I guess
Skin colour - Brown / dusky
Body type - skinny / slim
Body details and measurements -
Face - small and oval
Eyes - black and small
Lips - plum wide and big.
Hair - short boring hair in real
Prefer long wavy shoulder length full wigs for myself.
Measurements - 32 B - 27 - 32
Wish I was a couple of inches heavier on boobs and bottom.. but being a skinny one is a blessing I feel
Body hair - Hairless and smooth all over. I shave all my body hair including pubics, crotch, balls, anal hole, armpits every week. Only exceptions are the hands below elbow to wrists and legs below knees
Facial hair - clean shaven
Intimate body details-
Nipples - dark brown
Cock / Clitty - Cut cock. Dark brown / purple
2.5" when small and 5.7" when hard
http://dickcode.net/38f70
Highly sensitive.. can't hold orgasm.. leaks lots of precum.
Ass - smooth and round and tight girly bottom
Tight and Virgin anal hole
About me -
Crossdresser since- I was 21 or 22
Always been a closet crossdresser. Loved wearing bhabhis clothes and makeup to start with and then on bought stuff for myself
Why dress up? Always loved women. Loved their curves, their glowing skin, their tenderness.. probably loved them so much that I wanna be a women myself. The lust men had in their eyes for women.. the wildness they bring to them where no one bothered to look at the boring male me.. became a cause of my envy.
Dressing up made me feel pretty and sexy and so admirable to myself.. just fell in love with myself.. with the girl I saw in the mirror.. I was horny for her.. so many times I imagined the girl in the mirror needs a man. Can't express how it all became such a big part of me
Sexual orientation - Bisexual
Have had my relationships with women in past both physical and emotional.
Lately the craving of being a women myself and have a real man in my life and bed has become stronger. Been in bed with men. I am choosy of the men I be with though. partial towards men with maturity and class.
Having said that.. the mere physical activity seems boring to me. What I really crave for.. is to be into a long lasting relation with a mature man who would love and treat me as a women
My Slam book.. likes dislikes.. favourites.. fantasies..
Favourite colour -1 pink 2 pink 3 pink 4 red 5 black
Clothes I love -
Lil one piece dresses. Mini length. Body tight. Open cleavage. More nakedness more sexy I feel.
Can't do without a sexy padded under wired push up bra.. a sexy panty (thong or g-string always).. stockings and garter are the ultimate fillers.. makes me all girly and mushy.
Heels.. love heels.. atleast a 4 inch stiletto. Need to learn to walk wearing them
Makeup choices - bold and dramatic makeup always.. with deep colored lipstick and black smoky eyes and a nice pink blush on cheeks
Accessories -
I am non pierced. Yet I love wearing earrings, nose rings, navel rings.
I use clip ons for the same
Love long dropping dangler earrings.
Love thick neck hugging choker necklaces like collars (need to hide my Adams apple)
A pretty necklace and bracelet would complete my look
I DREAM
I dream of a MAN who is ---
Characteristics -
Mature. gentle. classy. middle aged. Loving. Caring. An alpha.
Physically -
Now that's not important.. just sharing what I imagine like all girls do
Healthy. Bulky. Hairy. Round tummy. Grey hair. Warm manly odour
Favourite actor (someone I dream being fucked by) --
Sean Connery (Entrapment)
I dream of being a WOMEN who is --
Sexy, seductive, tender, naughty, shy, bold, show stopper.
Favourite actress (my inspirations) --
Bipasha Basu
Malaika Arora
Jessica alba
Love their body types.. dresses and makeups lots. I try and replicate them
I have been told by a few I resemble Bipasha when I am dressed.. i don't know 😋
Other lil not so important things about me
Nature -
Shy. Introvert. Sensitive. Emotional a bit. Deep thinker. Mature
Fav book - 50 shades of grey
Fav movies - love watching chick flicks
Devil wears Prada
Original sin
Pretty women
Basic instinct
Choices -
Beach or Pool - Pool
Shower or bath tub - Bath tub
Indian or Western wear - Western
One night stand or relationships - Relationships
Adventure or lazy times - lazy and cozy
Coffee or tea - Tea
My deepest longest fantasy..
To dress up as a women someday and walk out on street in public. Spend a week in an alien country like Bangkok being a girl for a week 24 by 7 with my man by my arms
Wildest fantasy -
Vibrator plug inserted in my ass or connected to my clitty and me taken out with the remote in my men's hand
Gosh I have been typing for 3 hours now.
Hope you liked reading..
Do let me know what you feel..
Any comments
And thoughts..
Will be waiting to hear back from you
Regards,
Tahira
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White Ghosts
One of the classic forms of ghost within paranormal research and fiction is the white ghost. There are thousands of documented cases describing these apparitions.
The most familiar form is the ‘white lady’, frequently seen in a long dress or cloak. They are often reported in rural areas or lonely roads. Commonly appearing to only one person, the story surrounding the ghost is often that of heartbreak or trauma. People who have encountered a white lady ghost often remark on the feeling that the spirit had something important to say.
The color white may in fact be due to a paranormal phenomena called ecto-mist. These strange fog-like shapes have been caught on video and photographs and are often seen as white whispy smoke. The hazy shape may also lead people to believe that the form is female, when it is possible that the spirit is male. Although not as numerous as ‘white ladies’, there are in fact accounts of ‘white men’ ghosts from many parts of the world. In addition, if the ‘ghost’ is simply an imprint/playback of a person rather than a spirit, over the centuries these recorded pictures of the person will start to fade, turn more grey and then disappear altogether.
Alternatively, ‘white’ ghosts are occasionally attached to families and announce the death of a family member by wailing. But in some cases they are also protectors. The most familiar of these supernatural beings are Scotland’s bean-nighe and Ireland’s banshee .
Grey Ghosts
Grey ghosts are among the most numerous of spirit and residual energy manifestations. When carrying out research there seems to be an equal amount of ‘grey ladies’ and ‘grey men’ or some other form of grey phantom.
Green Ghosts
As mentioned previously, the UK is one country where apparitions of green ghosts are common. Within folklore, especially of Scotland and Ireland, there are a number of traditional supernatural entities dressed in green. For example elves, leprechauns, faeries and banshees. The banshees were traditionally called, in Scotland the Bean Nighe, and in Ireland the Bean Sidhe. In addition there are much darker legends of Green Lady figures who are demonic in nature. Under their long gown is hidden a hairy body and cloven feet.
But putting folklore traditions aside, there are also many reports of green ghosts that are human in form.
Blue Ghosts
Blue ghosts have been reported for as long as any other apparition. They are perhaps not as common as white or grey ghosts, but their stories are no less unnerving.
Perhaps our minds also have a part to play on both how a spirit will manifest and the way we will witness it. For a long time there has been a theory that suggests that spirit works through the mind via the sub-conscious. If this is the case, then spirit entities will use our own thoughts, images and beliefs to manifest. This could be the reason why so many negative spirits are seen as being black with red eyes for example, since this tends to be a popular image for evil. Indeed if it is the case that spirit is working through the mind, then any manifestations could tell us just as much about ourselves as it does about the spirit.
But could the color of a ghost or entity also be a natural signal? In nature we have a beautiful and stunning lizard called the chameleon. Depending upon its moods – whether distressed, angry, peaceful – it has the ability to show these emotions through color. Could it be that spirits and ghosts have this same capability? Are they trying to communicate their needs through color rather than words?
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Shawn Michaels x Fem Reader- “Hands Off The Merchandise”
Shawn Michaels has so many signatures.
From his iconic "sweet chin music" finishing move, to his tights with slightly torn hearts all over them, and especially, his bodybuilder pose he does in the ring where he crouches on the ground and flexes his muscles.
Seeing Shawn do his iconic signature bodybuilder pose and flex his muscles, especially when you could see his biceps, you eventually had no idea how strangely muscular his biceps are when he flexes them in that pose.
Granted, Shawn is nowhere near as overtly muscular as The Ultimate Warrior or Lex Luger, but Shawn does have some pretty ripped arms.
But you love his muscular biceps he flexes in the ring.
Shawn was getting sexier in 1996 since he was ditching and growing out of that outdated, tacky mullet, but by 1997, Shawn was getting hotter and sexier as the days went by.
On August 11th, 1997, the same night Shawn wore that tacky green shirt with beige colored shorts, looking more like your father at a family barbeque than a wrestler and had a match with Mankind, you were laying in bed with Shawn in a hotel room, laying on top of him.
On that night where Shawn wore that green shirt with beige shorts, you could really see Shawn's muscles bulging out of his biceps that weren't being hidden by those spangled shawls he wore with those iconic outfits he's notorious for wearing in the ring.
The lamp on the nightstand next to the bed you and Shawn were sharing was turned on, you shouldn't miss the way Shawn looks tonight!
Your hands were gripping onto his biceps, giving them a few gentle squeezes.
Shawn was unbeknownst to why you were doing this to him, but you're gonna explain why.
"Shawn" you said. "I had no idea how muscular your biceps are, especially when you flex them when you do that crouching pose in the ring while fireworks shoot out, that's why I'm squeezing your muscles"
Shawn nodded his head, smiling at you.
He may as well say his iconic "hands off the merchandise!" quote from his entrance theme, but nah.
You could've squeezed Shawn's muscles while lying in bed with him anytime this year, especially in July when one day before his birthday when he was shirtless in just a pair of shorts and making fun of Canada, but you chose August 11th, 1997.
Though, that wasn't the day you noticed how rather large Shawn's biceps are.
"Shawn" you said to him "Could you flex your biceps for me again, like you do when you're in that 'crouching pose' you do in the ring?"
Shawn curled up his upper arms, his fingers balling into fists at his palms, where his biceps became harder, showing off how muscular his arms are.
Your fingers and hands squeezed his biceps, hard as a rock, his biceps in between your thumbs and index fingers.
Your face lit up when he flexed his arms for you, spreading an ear to ear smile.
"Awwww, thank you!" you thanked him.
"No problem!" he replied.
"You might not be as muscular as...Hulk Hogan" you said "But you still have such nice arms and biceps to wrap me in and hold me"
When Shawn heard that, he wrapped his arms around you even more, hugging you and holding onto you.
"You're so much sexier and hotter than he is, anyway" you admitted. "And a better wrestler"
(Author's note: I found a news report from 1998 about pro wrestling's increasing popularity, and on that program, a black woman said she watches wrestling just to see male wrestler's muscles and bodies. Wonder if women ever watched and lusted over Hulk Hogan and Macho Man for their muscular physiques despite the fact neither of these men are all that attractive in the face?
Actually, when my father told my mom I have a new obsession with pro wrestling, she asked me why, and asked me "Is it because of their muscles? Their crotches bulging out of their tights?")
"I wish you could've posed for Playgirl this year instead of last year" you confessed "And showed the world your penis like Peter Steele, the lead singer for this goth-ish band called Type O Negative, did when he posed for Playgirl 2 years ago"
Though, at least Shawn posed for Playgirl when he was slightly getting rid of his mullet.
"Why?" he asked.
"You look hotter and sexier than ever before this year" you admitted. "I'm glad you got rid of that outdated mullet you had years ago"
"Really?" he asked "Well, thank you!"
You nodded your head after he asked "really".
"You're welcome!" you replied, smiling back at him.
Your hands aren't just squeezing onto his biceps, your thumb unwrapped around his bicep, where you caressed up and down his biceps and muscles.
Your hands and fingers made him feel tingles on his skin, his nipples even tingling and feeling erect thanks to your touch.
Shawn needs something like this tonight, though he wishes he could have something like this throughout this year.
One of your hands moved from his biceps to his chest, where you caressed your hand up and down the hair on his chest, his chest hair in between your fingers.
Since your fingers are running through his chest hair...
"You've got this chest hair that I can run my fingers through" you purred to him, adding what else he has.
He looked down at his chest, he secretly enjoying the touch of your hand.
Shawn has so many parts of his body that are perfect for you, including his long, beautiful hair for you to run your fingers through, though hair isn't really a body part.
And speaking of body parts, while you were squeezing his muscles and caressing his chest and arms, your calf was nudging and bumping against his calf (and you don't mean calf as in baby cow), your calf brushing and rubbing up and down his calf.
His legs were much hairier than your smooth, hairless, feminine legs, but of course, he's a guy, and women can't have hairy legs, vaginas and armpits in the WWF!
But Shawn loves your leg nudging against his, so smooth and silky.
"You looked so hot tonight" you admitted. "When you were wearing those white pants and wrestled with Mankind!"
Although, Shawn's looked sexier.
"I'm just a sexy boy!" Shawn joked, smiling at you.
"But you are my boy toy" you said to him sternly, lifting one of your hands and pointing your index finger at him, as if to tell him he’s been a naughty boy.
He chuckled hearing that.
"I regret that I didn't squeeze your muscles at night throughout this year, or even in the morning and daytime" you confessed, saying that after Shawn stopped chuckling so he can hear you "I wish I could've done it the day before your birthday this year, you looked so sexy that day, or even on your birthday"
All of this sexual tension between you and Shawn had to lead to something, that something eventually was lovemaking.
And you squeezed and caressed his biceps throughout kissing him and foreplay, and of course while he was thrusting in and out of you.
You also occasionally caressed up and down his chest during foreplay and while you were making out with him.
You even caressed and squeezed his biceps while the two of you drifted off to sleep, you fell asleep with your head in the crook of his neck (and eventually on his chest) while you squeezed and caressed his biceps and he fell asleep like this.
And of course, you sometimes took time to caress his chest as well, sometimes one hand was squeezing his bicep while the other was caressing up and down his chest.
You're glad that you did all of this tonight before Shawn wanted to win the match against Davey Boy Smith in England, Shawn really was a disrespectful asshole, which is a shame, how hot did he look during that match?
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I got this idea for a fic when I was looking at a picset on tumblr of Shawn on August 11th, 1997, when he was wearing that infamous green shirt and beige shorts combo, and never realized how muscular his arms are when he flexes them in that "bodybuilder pose".
Though, I contemplated when to set this fanfic considering Shawn has looked hotter and sexier than that afternoon...
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Women like me have been keeping a secret. It’s a secret so shameful that it’s hidden from friends and lovers, so dark that vast amounts of time and money are spent hiding it. It’s not a crime we have committed, it’s a curse: facial hair.
What can be dismissed as trivial is a source of deep anxiety for many women, but that’s what female facial hair is; a series of contradictions. It’s something that’s common yet considered abnormal, natural for one gender and freakish for another. The reality isn’t quite so clearcut. Merran Toerien, who wrote her PhD on the removal of female body hair, explained “biologically the boundary lines on body hair between masculinity and femininity are much more blurred than we make them seem”.
About one in 14 women have hirsutism, a condition where “excessive” hair appears in a male pattern on women’s bodies. But plenty more women who don’t come close to that benchmark of “excessive” still feel deeply uncomfortable about their body hair. If you’re unsure whether your hair growth qualifies as “excessive” for a woman, there’s a measurement tool that some men have developed for you.
In 1961, an endocrinologist named Dr David Ferriman and a graduate student published a study on the “clinical assessment of body hair growth in women”. More specifically, they were interested in terminal hairs (ones that are coarser, darker and at least 0.5cm/0.2 inches in length) rather than the fine vellus hairs. The men looked at 11 body areas on women, rating the hair from zero (no hairs) to four (extensive hairs). The Ferriman-Gallwey scale was born.
It has since been simplified, scoring just nine body areas (upper lip, chin, chest, upper stomach, lower stomach, upper arms, upper legs, upper back and lower back). The total score is then added up – less than eight is considered normal, a score of eight to 15 indicates mild hirsutism and a score greater than 15 moderate or severe hirsutism.
Most women who live with facial hair don’t refer to the Ferriman-Gallwey scale before deciding they have a problem. Since starting to research hirsutism, I’ve received over a hundred emails from women describing their experiences discovering, and living with, facial hair. Their stories loudly echo one another.
Because terminal hairs start to appear on girls around the age of eight, the experiences start young. Alicia, 38, in Indiana wrote, “kids in my class would be like, ‘Haha look at this gorilla!’”, Lara was nicknamed “monkey” by her classmates while Mina in San Diego was called “sasquatch”. For some girls, this bullying (more often by boys) was their first realization that they had facial hair and that the facial hair was somehow “wrong”. Next, came efforts to “fix” themselves.
Génesis, a 24-year-old woman described her first memories of hair removal. “In fourth grade, a boy called me a werewolf when he saw my arm hairs and upper lip hairs … I cried to my mom about it … she bleached my lower legs, my arms, my back, my upper lip and part of my cheeks to diminish my growing sideburns. I remember it itched and burned.”
After those first attempts come many, many more – each with their own investment in time, money and physical pain. The removal doesn’t just make unwanted hair go away, it raises a whole new set of problems, particularly for women of color. Non-white skin is more likely to scar as a result of trying to remove hair.
"Instead of reading or finishing homework on the car drives to school growing up, I would spend the entire length of the drive obsessively plucking and threading my mustache. Every day." – Rona K Akbari, 21, Brooklyn
On average, women with facial hair spend 104 minutes a week managing it, according to a 2006 British study. Two-thirds of the women in the study said they continually check their facial hair in mirrors and three-quarters said they continually check by touching it.
The study found facial hair takes an emotional toll. Forty percent said they felt uncomfortable in social situations, 75% reported clinical levels of anxiety. Overall, they said that they had a good quality of life, but tended to give low scores when it came to their social lives and relationships. All of this pain despite the fact that, for the most part, women’s facial hair is entirely normal.
"If I know I have visible facial hair, I’m much more reserved in social situations. I try to cover it up by placing my hand on my chin or over my mouth. And I’m thinking about it constantly." – Ashley D’Arcy, 26
"Meanwhile, my 95-year-old demented, deaf and blind Italian aunt sits in a nursing home, and whenever I visit, she points to and rubs her chin, which is her way of communicating to take care of the hair situation. That’s how I know she’s still in there and she cares. I hope someone returns the favor in 40 years." – Julia, 54
There are, however, some medical conditions which can cause moderate or severe hirsutism, the most likely of which is polycystic ovary syndrome, or PCOS, which accounts for 72-82% of all cases. PCOS is a hormonal disorder affecting between eight and 20% of women worldwide. There are other causes too, such as idiopathic hyperandrogenemia, a condition where women have excessive levels of male hormones like testosterone, which explains another 6-15% of cases.
But many women who don’t have hirsutism, who don’t have any medical condition whatsoever, consider their hairs “excessive” all the same. And that’s much more likely if you’re a woman of color.
The original Ferriman-Gallwey study, like so much western medical research at the time, produced findings that might not apply to women of color (the averages were based on evaluations of 60 white women). More recent research has suggested that was a big flaw, because race does make a big difference to the chances that a woman will have facial hair.
In 2014, researchers looked at high-resolution photos of 2,895 women’s faces. They found that, on average, the white women had less hair than any other race and Asian women had the most. But ethnicity mattered too – for example, the white Italian women in the study had more hair than the white British women.
"But more than a gender thing, for me my hair was about race/ethnicity. My hairiness really solidified how different I was from my peers. I grew up in the suburbs of Dallas. And although my school was pretty diverse, the dominant beauty norm was to be blonde and white." – Mitra Kaboli, 30, Brooklyn
These numbers might be helpful to women like Melissa who said her facial hair meant “I felt inferior, I was a ‘dirty ethnic’ girl”.
But giving reassurance to ethnic minorities probably isn’t why this research was undertaken. The study was funded by Procter & Gamble, the consumer goods company worth $230bnwhich sells, among other things, razors for women. They know that female hair removal is big business.
Over the years, as women showed more of our bodies – as stockings became sheer and sleeves became short, there was pressure for these new exposed parts to be hairless. Beginning in 1915, advertisements in magazines like Harper’s Bazaar began referring to hair removal for women. Last year, the hair removal industry in the US alone was valued at $990m. The business model only works if we hate our hair and want to remove it or render it invisible with bleach (a norm just as unrealistic as hairlessness – brown women rarely have blonde hair).
When did we sign up to an ideal of female hairlessness? The short answer is: women have hated our facial hair for as long as men have been studying it. In 1575, the Spanish physician Juan Huarte wrote: “Of course, the woman who has much body and facial hair (being of a more hot and dry nature) is also intelligent but disagreeable and argumentative, muscular, ugly, has a deep voice and frequent infertility problems.”
These signposts are strictest when it comes to our faces, and they extend beyond gender to sexuality too. According to Huarte, masculine women, feminine men and homosexuals were originally supposed to be born of the opposite sex. Facial hair is one important way to understand these distinctions between “normal” and “abnormal”, and then police those boundaries.
Scientists have turned their sexist and homophobic expectations of body hair to racist ones, too. After Darwin’s 1871 book Descent of Man was published, male scientists began to obsess over racial hair types as an indication of primitiveness. One study, published in 1893, looked for insanity in 271 white women and found that women who were insane were more likely to have facial hair, resembling those of the “inferior races”.
These aren’t separate ideas because race and gender overlap – black is portrayed in mass media as a masculine race, Asian as feminine. Ashley Reese, 27, wrote “part of my self-consciousness about my facial hair might also tie into some ridiculous internalized racism about black women being less inherently feminine”. While Katherine Parker, 44, wrote, “It makes me feel very confused about my gender.”
Some women are pushing back. Queer women – those who are questioning heterosexual and cisgender norms – are already thinking outside of the framework that shames female facial hair. Melanie, a 28-year-old woman in Chicago explained that as a queer woman “there is less of a prescription for what I should embody as a woman, what attraction between my partner and I looks like, which has helped immensely in coming to terms with my facial hair”.
Social media accounts like hirsute and cute, happy and hairy and activists like Harnaam Kaur are resisting these norms too, by shamelessly sharing images of hairy female bodies. And even women who aren’t rejecting these standards outright, feel deeply ambivalent about them. “I understand, on a rational level, how inherently misogynistic it is to expect women to be constantly ripping hair out of themselves, hair that grows naturally, wrote one woman who, like many I heard from, asked to remain anonymous. “But I can’t bring myself to accept it and let it grow.”
Another wrote: “It’s one thing to be a little heavy, or short, or both. But facial hair? That’s pushing it.”
I’m not about to judge any woman for removing her facial hair. Despite knowing that I don’t need “help”, I still go to see a beauty “therapist” each month. I pay huge sums so she can zap me with a laser that damages my hair follicles. I’ve signed up for a solution, even though I know that the problem doesn’t really exist. I lie there wincing with each shock as she asks me about my weekend and says “Honey, are you sure you don’t want me to do your arms too? They’re very hairy.”
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SEXUAL PREFERENCES / RECORD
bold - strongly applies / loves .
bold + italic - somewhat applies / likes .
italic - slightly applies / maybe .
left blank - uncertain / no opinion .
crossed out - doesn’t apply / hard no .
SUBJECT APPARENT AGE
18-21 | 22-25 | 26-29 | 30-33 | 34-37 | 38-41 | 42-45 | 46-49 | 50+
SUBJECT GENDER IDENTITY
cisgender male | cisgender female | transgender male | transgender female | non-binary ( agender ) | non-binary ( genderqueer ) | non-binary ( genderfluid ) | non-binary ( demiboy ) | non-binary ( demigirl ) | questioning their gender |
SUBJECT SPECIES
human | mutant ( or metahuman ) | half-blood ( or being with mixed heritage species-wise ) | divinity | demigod | magic user | angel | demon | jinn ( aka djinn , or genie ) | monster | cryptid | ghost | vampire | zombie | lycanthrope ( verse dep ) | tauren | kemonomimi ( aka would appear entirely human if not for their animal ears & tail ) | dragon | kitsune | merfolk | fae | elf | dwarf | orc | satyr | centaur | naga | alien | robot | anthro character
SUBJECT ORIENTATION
( sexual ) identifies as heterosexual | identifies as homosexual | identifies as bisexual | identifies as pansexual | identifies as demisexual | identifies as asexual | questioning their sexual orientation
( romantic ) identifies as heteroromantic | identifies as homoromantic | identifies as biromantic | identifies as panromantic | identifies as demiromantic | identifies as aromantic | questioning their romantic orientation
POTENTIAL SEX PARTNERS
( species ) humans | mutants ( or metahumans ) | half-bloods ( or beings with mixed heritage species-wise ) | divinities | demigods | magic users | angels | demons | jinn ( aka djinn , or genies ) | monsters | cryptids | ghosts | vampires | zombies | lycanthropes | tauren | kemonomimi ( aka characters that would appear entirely human if not for their animal ears & tail ) | dragons | kitsunes | merfolk | fae | elves | dwarves | orcs | satyrs | centaurs | aliens | robots | anthro characters
( types ) has a thing for morons | has a thing for intellectuals | has a thing for scientists | has a thing for inventors | has a thing for artists | has a thing for musicians | has a thing for dancers | has a thing for chefs | has a thing for doctors | has a thing for nurses | has a thing for teachers | has a thing for fashionistas | has a thing for tomboys | has a thing for masculinity in a partner | has a thing for femininity in a partner | has a thing for androgyny in a partner | has a thing for chub on their partner | has a thing for curvy partners | has a thing for muscular partners | has a thing for slender partners | has a thing for grotesque partners | has a thing for athletes | has a thing for cheerleaders | has a thing for the girl-next-door / boy-next-door | has a thing for bad boys / bad girls | has a thing for heroes | has a thing for villains | has a thing for the rich & powerful | has a thing for police officers | has a thing for firefighters | has a thing for lawyers | has a thing for daddies | has a thing for dominatrixes | has a thing for bratty subs | has a thing for power bottoms | has a thing for twinks | has a thing for bears ( as in: large , hairy men — not the animal )
SUBJECT INCLINATIONS / HABITS
is submissive | is dominant | prefers to top | prefers to bottom | likes to switch | enjoys sex with men | enjoys sex with women | enjoys sex with nonbinary people | enjoys sex with multiple people at one time | enjoys sex with humans | enjoys sex with nonhuman beings | initiates | waits for partner to initiate | spits | swallows | prefers sex in the morning | prefers sex at night | prefers sex any time | no sex drive | low sex drive | average sex drive | high sex drive | hypersexual
SUBJECT BODY / APPEARANCE
( visage ) is bald | has short hair | has medium-length hair | has long hair | has Rapunzel-length hair | has straight hair | has wavy hair | has curly hair | has kinky hair | has black hair | has brown hair | has fair hair | has red hair | has silver hair | has white hair | has grey hair | has ( natural ) pink hair | has natural ( purple ) hair | has ( natural ) blue hair | has ( natural ) green hair | has ombre hair | has dyed hair | has thick hair | has thin hair | has neatly-groomed hair | has unruly hair | has shiny hair | has greasy hair | has dull hair | has damaged hair | typically has hair up | typically has hair down | has eyes so dark , that they appear black | has brown eyes | has blue eyes | has blue-grey eyes | has blue-green eyes | has hazel eyes | has amber eyes | has grey eyes | has green eyes | has purple eyes | has red eyes | has heterochromia ( or different-colored eyes ) | has eyes that change color | has oval face | has round face | has heart-shaped face | has square face | has oblong face | has diamond-shaped face | has fair skin | has beige skin | has peachy skin | has tanned skin | has olive skin | has dark skin | has skin of an unusual or unnatural color ( by human standards ) | cool skin undertones | neutral skin undertones | warm skin undertones | has smooth skin | has oily skin | has dry skin | has sensitive skin | has fangs ( or sharp teeth ) | has piercings ( ears ) | has piercings ( brow ) | has piercings ( nose ) | has piercings ( lip ) | has piercings ( tongue ) | wears makeup
( height ) 4'11" and shorter | 5'0"-5'4" ( 5'0" ) | 5'5"-5'8" | 5'9"-6'0" | 6'1"-6'4" | 6'5"-6'8" | 6'9" and taller
( body ) can shapeshift | disguises true form with glamour | has had plastic surgery | small frame | medium frame | large frame | skinny build | lanky build | lithe build | athletic build | muscular build | curvy build | voluptuous build | plump build | stout build | has wings | has birthmark | has scars | has burns | has stretchmarks | has tattoos | has piercings ( nipples ) | has piercings ( naval ) | shaves | waxes | trims | goes au naturale | has soft breasts | has heavy breasts | has round breasts | has pointy breasts | has multiple breasts | cup size a-c | cup size d-f | has wide hips | has narrow hips | has multi-genitalia | has thick length | has average length | has thin length | has uncut length | has cut length | has knotted length | has barbed length | 1-5" in length | 6-9" in length | 10" or over in length | has large balls | has medium-sized balls | has small balls | has slender thighs | has thick thighs | has toned thighs | has muscular thighs | has flat butt | has flabby butt | has thick butt | has toned butt | has muscular butt | has round butt | has square-shaped butt | has heart-shaped butt | has short legs | has long legs | has fish tail
( wardrobe ) wears jewelry | wears revealing clothing | wears form-fitting clothing | wears hot pants | wears mini-skirts | wears leather | wears spandex | wears latex & rubber | wears sexy costumes | wears stockings | wears fishnets | wears suits & tuxes | wears slinky dresses | wears opera gloves | wears heels | wears boots | wears flats | wears sandals | goes barefoot | goes ‘commando’ | wears boxers | wears briefs | wears boxer-briefs | wears boyshorts | wears panties | wears thongs | wears edible underwear | wears lingerie | wears corset | wears nightgowns | sleeps naked
SUBJECT SOUNDS / NOISES
has husky voice | has silvery voice | has honeyed voice | has gruff voice | has grating voice | has nasal voice | has loud / booming voice | has soft voice | has flat / monotonous voice | has croaky voice | has shrill voice | is silent / makes little to no sounds | is very quiet | is very loud | grows in volume over time | bites hand / partner / pillow to muffle themselves | calls out partner’s name | curses | fakes / exaggerates | prefers a quiet partner | prefers a loud partner | is turned on by dirty talk | is turned off by dirty talk
POTENTIAL LOCATIONS / PLACES
in a bedroom | in a shower / bath | in a pool / ocean | in a lake / river | in a hot tub | in a kitchen | in a bathroom ( home ) | in a bathroom ( public ) | in a car | in a tent | in an alleyway | in a field / forest | at a school | in an empty / abandoned building | in a library | on a rooftop / terrace | in a dressing room | in an elevator | in a parking lot | at a museum | at a cemetery | at a beach | in a closet | at a hospital | in an office | in a locker room | in a laboratory | in a BDSM dungeon
SUBJECT EXPERIENCE
( firsts ) has had first crush | has gone on first date | has had first love | has had first heartache | has held hands with crush or partner for the first time | has cuddled with crush or partner for the first time | has had first kiss | has had first make-out session | has had first time | has been someone else’s first crush | has been someone else’s first love | has been someone else’s first kiss | has been someone else’s first time
( love life ) is single & happy | is single & lonely | is playing the field | is dating someone | is engaged | is married to one person | is married to more than one person | is in an open relationship ( with Scot ) | is in a polyamorous relationship ( with Scot ) | is ( amicably ) divorced | is divorced & heartbroken | is divorced & bitter | has been remarried | has been widowed | has been dumped | has dumped someone | has been ghosted | has ghosted someone | has fallen for someone who didn’t return their feelings | has had to reject someone whom they did not have feelings for | has signed up for a dating app or website | has gone on a blind date | has gone on an awful date | has gone on a so-so date | has gone on a great date
( offspring ) is fertile | is extremely fertile | is infertile | wants to have children because they love kids | wants to have children solely because they need an heir or want someone to carry on their legacy | unsure if they want to have children or not | doesn’t want to have children | gushes over cute babies | has had a kid ( or more ) | has had a grandkid ( or more ) | has forged a close bond with their child ( or children ) | has forged a close bond with their grandchild ( or grandchildren ) | has a distant relationship with their child ( or children ) | has a distant relationship with their grandchild ( or grandchildren )
( attractions ) has fantasized about someone | has found a stranger attractive | has found a famous person attractive | has found a superhero attractive | has found a friend attractive | has found a neighbor attractive | has found a total DILF or MILF attractive | has found a coworker or teammate attractive | has found a boss or superior attractive | has found a rival attractive | has found an enemy attractive
( sex life ) has had a fuck-buddy | has had a sugar daddy or sugar mama | has been a sugar daddy or sugar mama | has had a quickie | has had a threesome | has participated in an orgy | has participated in a gangbang | has had vanilla sex | has had rough sex | has had incorporated BDSM elements during sex | has had incorporated roleplay elements during sex | has sent nudes | has received nudes | has had phone sex | has had public sex | has had sex while drunk | has had sex while high | has had sex that they regret | has had sex that they will never forget | has had sex with somebody that they fell in love with | has had sex with a friend | has had hate sex | has had a one-night stand | has had sex with their neighbor | has had sex with a total DILF or MILF | has had sex with a coworker or teammate | has had sex with their boss or superior | has had sex with somebody older than them ( with both consenting parties being 18+ ) | has had sex with somebody younger than them ( with both consenting parties being 18+ ) | has been to a strip club | has been to a gay bar | has been to a brothel | has been to a nudist beach | has been to an onsen ( or natural hot spring ) | has been to a bathhouse | has gone skinny-dipping | has gone streaking | has played 7 minutes in heaven or spin the bottle , or a raunchy game of truth or dare
TURN-ONS / KINKS
( #-L ) 3+ penetration | affection | aftercare | anal fisting | aphrodisiacs | being begged | being bitten / marked | being called ‘daddy’ | being called ‘mommy’ | being choked | being degraded | being fingered | being handcuffed | being humiliated | being pegged | being rimmed | being scratched | being spanked | being teased | being tickled | being tied up | being watched ( by their partner ) | being watched ( by a third party ) | being whipped | being worshiped | begging | blindfolding | being blindfolded | bimbofication | biting / marking | blood play | body hair | breast play | breeding / impregnation | bukkake | calling their partner ‘daddy’ | calling their partner ‘mommy’ | casual nudity | choking | clit play | clothed sex | creampie | crossdressing | crying | corruption | cuddling | degrading | dirty talk | discipline / reinforcement | double penetration | ear play | exhibitionism | face-fucking | face-slapping | face-sitting | facial hair / beards | fangs / sharp teeth | fat play | fear | felching | femdom | fingering | food & drink play | footjobs | frotting | gags | giving anal | giving oral | giving praise | giving vaginal | glasses | gore | gun play | handcuffing | handjobs | having their face fucked | having their face slapped | having their face sat on | having their hair pulled | having their hands pinned | having toys used on them | humiliating their partner | humor | ice play | immobilization ( heavy bondage ) | infantilism | intelligence | intercrural sex | knife play | knotting / tying | large breasts | large cocks | latex / rubber | leash & collar | leather | licking | lingerie
( M-Z ) massages | master / pet | masturbation | muscles | navel play | nipple clamps | noticable height difference ( 1-3 feet ) | noticeable height difference ( micro / macro ) | orgasm control / denial | pegging | photography / videotaping | piercings | pinning their partner’s hands | power bottoming | pregnancy | prostate play | pulling their partner’s hair | receiving anal | receiving oral | receiving praise | receiving vaginal | rimming | roleplay | romance | roughness | sadomasochism | scat | scratching | sexual frustration | sexy clothing | singing / voice | small breasts | small cocks | small dom / big sub | snowballing | spanking | sparring / wrestling | soft cum facials | sounding | stockings | striptease | suspension bondage | tattoos / body art | teasing | tentacles | tickling | tit-fucking | tribadism / scissoring | tying their partner up | uniforms | using toys on their partner | vaginal fisting | vanilla sex | voluptuousness | vore | voyeurism | wardrobe malfunctions | watching their partner | watersports | wax play | whipping | wings | worshiping their partner
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