#my gf can confirm all of these I love her I love being neurodivergent around her 😻

[auroras-void]

Reasons I am a catgirl:

- My hair is very soft and I need you to pet it but also if you try to without me giving you permission I will hiss at you.

- I will bite you ❤️ (affectionate)

- Will complain that my food bowl (refrigerator) is empty when it very much is not.

- Neurodivergent

- I will purr if you give me scritches.

- Will curl up in your lap and trap you

- I do not trust you, but once I do I love you and I will not leave your side

- I will meow at you if you show me affection.

- Good night vision

- Always sleepy

- I am beautiful adorable and pretty and I know it

- I will get stunlocked if you throw cheese at me

- You are honored to be graced with my presence

- Climb all the things want be talll, want to lord over my empire

- I'm not in love with you it's just a coincidence I'm always so close to you and always want to be near you what are you talking about

- I will bite you ❤️ (horny)

- socks

- Get yelled at for eating cardboard

- I know what I am doing is not allowed and I am not guilty about it

- headpats good yes giv

- Will fidget with things I should not fidget with, (I have zapped myself licking power cables before)

- Will get the zoomies at 3 am sometimes

- I will bite you ❤️ (annoyed)

- Will mlem if I am feeling particularly neurodivergent sometimes

- What do you mean I had food 3 minutes ago I'm hungy

- knock things over (accident)

- What do you mean I haven't eaten since yesterday I don't need any food

- knock things over (on purpose)

- you can't tell me what to do

- this water has bad vibes I will not drink this

- transfem who knows how to code

- doctor needs to steal my balls (bottom surgery)

- my hair is long and flowing and perfect

- you are soft and I am allowed to and I like you so I am going to fidget with your skin and also bite you ❤️

- responds considerably better to positive reinforcement

- milk is so yummy give me all of it

- I know I shouldn't be awake but night time is freedom

- drink directly from the faucet no one can stop you

- I will bite you ❤️ (felt like it)

- probably more idk

#my gf can confirm all of these I love her I love being neurodivergent around her 😻 #post #trans #adhd #transfem #196 #catgirl #I don't even do these things on purpose I just do them. #I really need to buy some cat ears #meow 🐱 #😻

[aro-culture-is]

okay, so i think i might be somewhat aro??? like im so confused, ive had "crushes" but they were never real and when i got regected in all of them it was more a sigh of relief rather than crying, i have a boyfriend and i feel,,, sonthin about him?? like i like him and think of him but its always prompted or forced, i can naver think of him when im actually doing somthing that would be described as romantic. might be my neurodivergence interfereing with my romance and social ques but ,,, its just,,, i want an answer, i feel like i want to love and feel empty without it, i can imagine myself in a romantic situation and greatly enjoy it, i can want to hug and kiss and all that, but I've never ever had a true crush and when i say that i love somone romantically its just,, kinda empty, like i want romance but i can never actually take it, it might just be my own relationship problems (as all of them have ended the same way) or that im young and neurodivergent, but i just wanted to ask if this could be a sign of being aro (i really hope its not but i just want any confirmation on it either way) im just really scared about it

hi! i’m so sorry it’s taken a while to get to this. i hope you’ll still see this response or that at least it will help someone.

okay, so i think i might be somewhat aro??? like im so confused, ive had "crushes" but they were never real and when i got regected in all of them it was more a sigh of relief rather than crying

that definitely sounds like an aro experience in faking crushes.

i have a boyfriend and i feel,,, sonthin about him?? like i like him and think of him but its always prompted or forced, i can naver think of him when im actually doing somthing that would be described as romantic.

oof, this hits close to home for me. i had a very similar feeling when I was dating my now ex-gf. i liked her as a person! we were close! it felt like... something! i called it alterous attraction at the time, but... it certainly wasn’t romantic. i felt incredibly awkward and like i was following some kind of script each time i tried to do the romantic talk/actions she seemed to like or that others told me was normal.

might be my neurodivergence interfereing with my romance and social ques

oh big mood. i’d love to tell you the neurotypical experience if i was one, but i’m nd and yeah, i struggled with that. however, my gf was also nd and known for having zero skills at social cues, and... it was still instinctive to her, so far as she ever expressed to me.

i feel like i want to love and feel empty without it, i can imagine myself in a romantic situation and greatly enjoy it, i can want to hug and kiss and all that, but I've never ever had a true crush

have you heard of cupioromantic? or romance-positive aros? it is possible to have a relationship as an aro person - some prefer to call them romantic relationships, some qprs, and, though i haven’t seen it in quite a while, the term “soft-romo” relationships was around when i first found the aro community. additionally, depending on your friends, some friends are willing or interested in this kind of stuff. 

i just wanted to ask if this could be a sign of being aro (i really hope its not but i just want any confirmation on it either way) im just really scared about it

first of all, please feel free to take a deep breath. it’s going to be okay. especially if you’re young - you have time. it’s not the end of the world to be aromantic. it can be awkward when you’re in a relationship, i won’t lie. but in the end? i personally learned that accepting myself for who i am has significantly improved my mental health. if i could, i’d give you a hug or whatever expression of compassion and sympathy is okay with you, but please believe me when i say - you’re okay. everything will be okay. even if right now it is scary, you are okay.

i really hope this helps, and please know you are not the only one who’s been in this situation before.

- mod kee

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