#they needed to Actually Cancel people

[lameotello]

I hate that we've gone from "don't like, don't read" and not caring about what fucked up shit is depicted in fan media as a standard to hypervigilance and having to mind your every word so the group you've found yourself in doesn't know you ship the Not HOA Approved Ship

#like what the fuck #tello talks #proship #I just can't get over it fr #I have a platonic side acc and the fact I have to be afraid some stupid internet person will find out I ship tcest #and tell all their insane little friends who might or might not harrass me #is LITERALLY insane #I have fight daydreams sometimes. as you do. yknow the type of daydream where you're in a talkshow only this is an internet fight #and I try to think of ways to maneuver around a potential ''are you proship?'' situation by saying Yes Fuck You but in a way that explains #what proship IS not what /they/ have made it to be #and that it was the internet standard until like 2016 when some weirdo decided ship wars weren't enough #they needed to Actually Cancel people #but there's literally no way to win because they would /not/ listen #and that's is Insane and I don't feel I'm exaggerating here #anyway rant over #sorry #lol #long tags

[pixlokita]

Me: wow im feeling so much better today

-leaves the house-

-gets so overwhelmed by everything suddenly I have to run out of the car and hide behind a fountain-

Me:

Me: I am doing so great rn

#pix habla #auagajsysuhs #too noisy my head was going to explode #and I didn’t want to be mad at people in the car either 💀 #maybe I just need to start using the noise cancelling headphones outside the house actually #Eugh that was not #a good feeling #I don’t have Myla either so that made it worse #anyway the fountain spot was really nice I just sat in front of it and it was raining a little #vent #I think #my brain feels weird

[cum-villain]

the flaws of the phrase "are you normal about" being used for "are you rational and kind about" really becomes clear when someone says "sure, you're punk, but are you normal about [x group]?"

like. the point of being punk is not being normal by societal standards you walnut. say what you mean.

#braincell posting #saw a post like this and took psychic damage #we need to retire the phrases 'normal about' and 'punk' until people online actually use them correctly #like i know what the person meant but. maybe this is my ''they changed what 'it' was'' grampa simpsons moment #wait a second was i just able to use a comma in tags #WHAT THE FUCK #i can use commas in tags now #post cancelled im going insane over commas in tags now #ok so apparently i can only use it at the end of tags #thats useless #anyways

[straw-outofthecontext]

Me when I hear a loud sound without warning

#house md #james wilson #i think i need noise cancellers o something #the people look at me like a weird but dude sTOP THROWING THINGS!!! #actually autistic

[moomeecore]

i found a book abt the anti lawn movement at the library & decided to sit out in my yard & read it. but ironically there was a neverending barage of power tool noises making it difficult to focus. so i walked to a nature park near me in order to escape the dreaded sounds. almost stopped at the mowed picnic table area bc i hate walking but fortunately pushed forward and made myself walk up an annoying hill to an area that is a preservation of a native oak savanna & sat down against a tree near the edge of the path & did my reading there. and honest to god that was a 100/10 experience. there was something so powerful abt being in a preserve for a locally native habitat while reading abt the impacts homeowners can have on native plant preservation! it powered up my energy towards my life mission (evangelize abt enviormentally sustainable gardening to every single person who comes within a 10 ft radius of me) by like. 15 points. also a deer walked up to me and that was super cool

#i was there for like 3 hours and i wanted to stay longer #but the sun was setting and i was hungry and had to pee super bad #gonna try to do this tommorow as well. bc ik winter is gonna hit soon #and then its not gonna be plausibe #i still heard Industrial Noises up there but i used my noise cancelling headphones #& that blocked most of it out #ive finallt started progressing on writing persuasive essay on this subject #previously id focoused my efforts mostly on reaserching the practical side of like. how to covert ur yard #+ what plants to use. etc #but now im looping background writing abt the actual reasoning behind it #which like. i feel like i needed zero actual persuasion to get on board w this. which is why i didnt #dedicate to much time to reaserching the 'why' #but i do a whole lot of promoting this subject to people i meet so i might as well read up & #try & create a more comprehensive & detailed resource to send to ppl #after i give them my Rip Up Your Lawn talk #i mean i give them the gardening advice resources. but i think some ppl need extra convincing & thats what this is for #LAWN LAWN RIP UP UR LAWN. KILL UR LAWN PLANT REAL PLANTS <3

[softpng]

I'm gonna get cancelled for saying it but god stop shaming people for not revolving their lives around the latest horror in the world. sure people should do what they can in terms of putting pressure on politicians they have access to, donating if they're able and so forth, but no the apathy isn't dystopian - it's actually a very normal response if people had the emotional responses you want every time something horrible happens they'd be broken people - which would do nothing to fix the problems in any way whatsoever. jesus some of you really.

#cancel me or whatever but no actually people who can't do anything about the genocide against children don't need to be miserable #homeless anger and sadness that cant be turned to action will just ruin a person over time u idiots

[zhongrin]

I assume you got hate for that L&D ask? I'm sorry that was done. Feel better soon. Maybe say less next time.

i appreciate your kind words, thank you. however, while i'm sure you had the best intention with this, i don't think i will 'say less'. this is my blog, my space, and as long as i'm not actually causing harm to anyone or anything along that line, i think i'm allowed to have some degree of freedom regarding saying what i like/dislike and setting my boundaries. i'm sorry, but i'm not an influencer, nor a public figure who has the responsibility to spread positivity and be a role model to you all. i try as much as i can, of course, but that's not the purpose of this blog. i'm just a human being who needed an outlet for writing and wanted to connect with like-minded people.

what part was not 'right'? that i expressed, in my own blog, how i didn't want to try out a game because one of the reasons is i find the graphics of the fictional characters off-putting, when asked? that i likened a fictional game art style to a different franchise and objects you see all the time in adult site ads? that i never said anything about the people who do like the game and told them "i'm happy you found a game you like"? that i never, not even once, went to other people's posts or blog who posted that game's content to ruin their fun like a bastard? that i actively chose to use tumblr's filter instead? that even if the filter didn't work, i chose to scroll and ignore instead of bitching about it?

pray tell, what did i do wrong? why should i say less? since when am i not allowed to dislike things?

and a public psa ー i'm sorry, but bluntly speaking, if you take an affront when I expressed MY own opinion, WHEN PROMPTED, WITHIN MY OWN SPACE (and god forbid you retaliate like that anon(s?) by spamming me to shut the fuck up and kill myself), then that's really not my problem. it's an art direction, for god's sake. i adore zhongli, who gets memed and made fun of as a cockroach all the time; you don't see me screaming at people to stop.

learn that people may not like the things you like. learn to agree to disagree. learn to treat others as fellow human beings with likes and dislikes. learn to separate fiction from reality.

and seriously, if you're annoyed with my rambles or 'babblings' or the interactions with my friends, tumblr has a filter and block function. it's just a simple google away. give some peace to your own mind.

#minors dni #rin answers #rin is having tea with: daydreams-and-wonder #and to clarify. i'm not mad at you daydreams-and-wonder!! #i truly appreciate the well wishes #but i had to get this out of my system because it's just so ridiculous that this is happening imo #cw vent in following tags #then again #excluding my actual friends. out of 8.5k of people following me i wonder if even one percent of you actually think of me as a human being #and not just a blob in your phone who churns out somewhat decent content every now and then #or some sentient hybrid between a journal or twitter you could just go anytime to feed your need for validation and attention one sidedly #or an entertaining monkey you put on a stage to watch just for the fun of it only to 'cancel' the moment i 'slip up' #maybe it's my pms. maybe i'm just stressed rn. or maybe it's long time coming #but i'm not just tired anymore. i'm getting disgusted of this treatment

[queeraliensposts]

I can't believe I live in a reality where a white woman who was falsely accused of rape can sell BLM merch, keep the money, and be praised by tik tok, but a queer musician that everyone thinks is "cringe" gets canceled and accused "profiting from a child's death" by talking about Nex Benedict in a tik tok he earned $0 from, where all he said was "this is why I make the music that I do".

#tx2 #melanie martinez #nex benedict #double standards #This once again proves that false rape allegations don't actually ruin lives #In many cases a false rape allegation is a get out of jail free card #Also people who engage in cringe culture are really funny #Cause when you criticize them they'll tell you to touch grass but then they'll prove that they're the ones that need to touch grass #People are honestly just DESPERATE to find a reason to cancel TX2 just cause they think he's cringe #I'm not mad about that #What I AM mad about is the fact that people are pretending to care about trans people like me in order to do it #This is one of the many fucking reasons I really really hate cis people #And there's trans people that are fucking falling for it it's annoying as fuck #Anyway cringe culture is fucking dead #lgbtqia

[the-jam-to-the-unicorn]

Nooo! THE divorce happened! I can't believe it! 😭😭😭 The love is dead! 😭😭😭

#this is obviously sarcasm everyone #and with everyone i mean the people who will need to touch grass #im still laughing over the fact that putler thought this is worth telling the press #he really thinks he did something there #bro buddy putler #thats not the flex or story to make you look you think it is #on another note #who would have thought at the beginning of the year that scholz and macron are actually going to be good political boyfriends #and nauseda would appear as the new number 1 support political boyfriend #and that duda is cancelled #it was a wild year #btw so far i only saw good stuff about tusk SO I AM READY FOR ZESK OKAY #or vosk? #or tuze? #tuvo? #we need a name

[icewindandboringhorror]

sometimes looking at like Self Help Strategies lists for the symptoms I'm having is always just like:

thing that I already do

thing I have tried 10 times

thing I already do

thing that I don't have the money to do

thing I already do

thing I've been doing since I was 10yrs old to no avail

thing that is impossible given my situation

thing that doesn't apply to me

thing that I already do

thing I have already tried

hrmm, oh wait, maybe finally- OH, yeah.. okay. thing that I already do but it was just phrased slightly differently

thing I have already done

#I think maybe productivity tips help less if the reason you're unproductive is partially like.. physcial health and other extenral things #out of your control. rather than just like having trouble paying attention or spending too much time on tiktok or whatever #all the strategic to do lists in the world are not going to somehow prevent me from waking up with a debilitating migraine or whatever #or having external stressors or lacking resources and connections or other Productivity Essentials etc. #especially many tips involve stuff like 'cut off from social media' since thats the modern day time waster for so many poeple #and it's like.. lol.. i can hardly even maintain a blog even thuogh i actively WANT TO DO SO. 'shut off your smart phone!' already #done babey i fucking hate smart phones i shall never use an app unless i am forced to. 'delete tiktok' yep. already covered. tiktok and #all of those thinsg are my enemies. 'save money by cancelling some of your services' cool. already ahead of you. #who the fuck is out here paying for like 10 different subscription services. pirated videos uploaded to google drive and youtube to mp3 #my beloved. etc. etc. and so on. 'socialize less' .........LOL.. if only you knew.. mr.writer of the article. i can barely muster #talking to friends more than once a month and even less if I'm actively sick (often occurence) etc. etc. ... hewoo #I think maybe instead of generic productivity tips I need more like.. how to refocus and be productive anyway even if you have a headache #or are nauseous or etc. Not that those are always things to ignore. and of course you should let your body rest and etc. But plenty of peop #e have mild physical symptoms and just work through them. Ithink something about the way my body/mind is SOO hyper attuned to all #sensory information just makes it like... constantly 'GRR well I cant focus on WRITING right now because my lef #t ear feels weird and my socks are too itchy and my back has a strange pressure and I'm vaguely warm and my eye feels some ssort of #way it doesnt normally feel and I'm hyperaware of my breathing and also nauseous for no reason' and like half of those things I #think '''normal''' people wouldnt even notice or at least would be able to just live through. but for me it's like.. nealry impossible to i #gnore and soooo distracting always. like 'wahh.. nooo we can't draw or get anything done.. my legs feel slightly heavy or something!!' #like............. ok......... who cares. thats not even a PAIN sensation it's just something weird. but it's just like.. NO. constant #mental alerts about the 'heaviness' of your legs be upon ye. Though Imean like.. yes.. 70% of the time I am in genuine pain #or having some sort of actual ailment with trackable physical symptoms. but sometimes it's just like... we could totally be working right #now and ignoring this silly thing but my brain is fixated on it for no reason uncontrollably. etc. etc. I guess it's the same way that like #most people can go to a grocery store without the whole experience being so overwhelming and so much stuff going on at once #that they have to rest afterwards but like.. in my own HOME doing NOTHING i feel like I should be able to not get overwhelmed lol. ANYWAY #Rolling my bastard little rock up a dumbass hill and so on and so forth

[perenlop]

sorry to harp on this but i think long video essays have become this thing that people decide that they don't like personally, and like that's alright, but for some reason they have to justify that dislike by making it a moral discussion rather than something that just comes down to preference and not all of those videos being well made. like you can't just say "i don't like quinton reviews or hbomberguy cause their vids are too long and that's just not for me" you gotta say "quinton reviews and hbomberguy are DISGUSTING people for forcing their audience to watch HALF ASSED CONTENT and oh they just want your MONEY and they're not ARTISTS they don't CARE about you and they're scammers and-"

#like one thing ill agree on is that these would do well with transcripts if people want to get in on them but dont want to watch #which i totally agree on. like i dont like audiobooks or ebooks i prefer to read physical copies cause i process them better #but you dont see me waging war on audiobooks cause i have a hard time processing spoken words with no visual over written ones #because thats a me thing and its the opposite for plenty of people #sorry actually we have to cancel every podcast ever made because they have no visuals and i cant listen for that long #im passionate abt this cause people will harass these creators and call them disgusting freaks with no talent or substance #and like. its super uncalled for??? like their worst crime is that some of the analysis feels unnecessary #you cant even say quinton reviews is just summary either bc he goes into merch and the climate around the shows #idk like. you dont need an ethical reason to not like something. you can just not like something and leave it at that #echoed voice

[volivolition]

gotta draw more voli and echem being little haters to each other. i know their canon interactions are arguing over temptations vs abstinence and i LOVE that dynamic. unfortunately i am also the world's biggest fucking softie and i go weak in the knees for them working together and being affectionate.

#ECHEM FROM MY BRAIN [Failure] - No no wait let him hold me so I can kiss his face. It'll be so in character I prommy. #like. no little guy. i need a different ship to inflict this on so i dont mischaracterize them lmao. #in my brain they need to work together for harry's happiness. voli says ''i want you to live'' and echem says ''i want you to love living'' #and in order to not be ''living but not happy/might as well be dead'' or ''happy to the point of death'' they have to balance each other. #IN CANON HOWEVER. the girlies are fighting hkjgsk. less ''balancing'' and more ''straight up cancelling each other out'' #ourgh. i want to draw/write them sweet and doting and cutesy AND I CAN but i also should draw more actual dynamic too hkjhg #ive written and planned a whole rivals to friends with benefits to lovers slowburn about them already. so in my brain im like: #''they worked through a lot of shit together and they've both character arc'd and they deserve to be cute and in love!'' #but since its unpublished no one else has the same context as i do so they're technically just very ooc!! AUGH! #this is just a sign for me to actually finish my projects so i can show them off and give people context lmao. #anyway enough about them. thinking about empathy now. :) #chemi chats

[nerdgirlnarrates]

okay I'm gonna be the asshole for a minute: people should feel way less comfortable canceling on their friends. Especially last minute, especially if there are flights involved.

I know stuff comes up, but I am not talking about those instances. I am talking about situations where someone just didn't check their calendar until right before or decided they don't feel like hanging out anymore. It is rude to cancel on someone like that. It's a waste of my time when I could have made other plans, and frankly it's hurtful. Once or twice is fine, but a pattern of flakiness makes me feel like the friendship doesn't matter to the other person.

Honestly I think repeatedly bailing on coffee last minute is bad enough (you should treat your friends better than a first date off tinder), but it's so much worse when it's a trip. Like I have booked flights!!! You can't just "whoops, sorry" your way out of that one! I'm also the planner in most of my friendships, so when a trip or visit is cancelled, I've also wasted a bunch of time and effort planning what we're going to do, making reservations, etc. It's really hurtful to feel like not only does seeing me not matter but my time and effort are also yours to take or waste as you please.

Unless you're truly ill or have some kind of emergency, you should not be canceling on your friends last minute. It's selfish to put your feelings above your friend's feelings and time and effort. Making plans is a commitment, and if you can't commit, you should just say so, e.g., "I'm gonna be post-call that day, so I'm not sure if I'll feel up to it. Can I let you know how I'm feeling day of?" And then they can decide what to do with their time! But constantly flaking is rude.

#I get it people need to cancel sometimes #but at some point you should actually consider that it is hurtful to cancel #especially if you're canceling a lot #I know tumblr is deeply unreceptive to this take though #my content #my text posts

[questioning-pisces]

when are people gonna realize that sometimes it’s a good thing if shows don’t get renewed

#yes it’s sad and bad when companies don’t even tell their employees and they find out online #but when your cast is full of zionist #and you fire the one palestinian in your cast #or you ruin characters development #or kill off without need #or hire people who are NOT representative of the character #ie abled #it comes off badly #or you have white stunt doubles in brown face #make characters racist for no reason #play off stereotypes that are really harmful #it’s okay if they get cancelled #am i talking about ofmd and sab #yes i am #whereas lockwood & co didn’t need to be cancelled #bc it was actually good #and neither did julie and the phantoms #both of those were actually good tv shows that weren’t harmful to communities

[kentopedia]

i was going to watch aot with my friend but she ignored all my messages so it’s okay i’ll watch it alone ! <3 on another note though i’m almost home so i will answer asks soon hehehe

#sorry i am always complaining about my personal life LMAO #it’s just like #my one wish for future rylie is she has people in her life that actually care #it’s just very frustrating bc all my friends have done this to me #& ik their busy but the least you could do is tell me you needed to cancel our plans instead of ignoring my messages for almost two weeks #i’m not even surprised anymore so it’s whatever

[mimbotomy]

I'm sorry to hear that planning has been stressful, but best wishes this Saturday!!! I'm so excited for you and your wedding and your marriage and wish you every happiness 💕.

Thank you! I am very excited too! Mostly because I get to marry the love of my life 🩷🩷🩷 but also because there are only four days left and judging from my track record this last month that means I will probably have to deal with🤞🏼only🤞🏼four more things going wrong! 🎉 And then I’ll be married to my favorite person and the stress will probably be gone! ✨

(Please send good vibes my way it’s been a very weird hectic month 😂)

#if anyone’s interested in all the stuff that’s gone wrong #I’ve had to deal with my venue #my caterer #and my photographer all cancelling last minute #I still might not have a photographer bc I need the venue to sign off on his insurance and he still hasn’t sent it #my fiance asked me to wear a Pakistani dress and the one I ordered came late and was terrible #like who uses BLUE MARKER to mark out where the embroidery is going on PAPER THIN WHITE SILK???? #I got a new dress tho and the tailor should be done by Friday morning #our guest list just keeps growing bc his family doesn’t seem to understand the idea of an RSVP #my fiancé’s family also doesn’t seem to like the idea of specifics 😬 #or understand that we are trying to keep things small #aka his mom invited five more people last week and told me about them today after I already submitted a final guest count #communication has just kinda been terrible all around tbh #my phone keeps trying to commit suicide #we were informed of a serious allergy like two days ago #so now the menu has to change and our caterer is super unhappy about that #my fiance asked me yesterday if I was wearing a veil and then asked me to wear one so now I have to find a veil #I realized on Sunday that I never actually asked my cousins to be my bridesmaids #which isn’t so bad since no bridesmaid dresses but it was embarrassing #and my anxiety caught up with me yesterday and I spent the night stress puking! #it’s been great 👍🏼 #but I’m going to marry the love of my life on Saturday and that’s what matters #even tho it kinda feels like the universe is trying to tell me otherwise