#treat yourself ig

[dilfosaur]

normalize zapping your ocs with the labray

(my neopets are already perfect so i refuse to actually change em but i got an ice hissi morphing potion from the faerie festival capsules and the thought of ice fonts.... i felt inspired)

#neopets #scoot_mckool #destielconfession #derek_kale #fonts_ #aoi_zaizen #doodle #this is all i have to provide for the past month #treat yourself ig

[alpacacare-archive]

some body positivity from wingdings for this valentines day <33

(trust him, He’s a doctor!!)

#gaster #deltarune #this is a redraw of an ooold doodle i posted to ig in 2019 #i improved at drawing this goof of a man sm #i was reminded that its valentines day by a post complaining about couples #and like #yeah ok #but valentines isnt just for romantic love #at least to me #love your friends love your family love your pets love your movies and your shows love yourself #anyways #if youre reading this have a wonderful day #remember to take care of yourself #drink your water take your meds take a break #and treat yourself to something nice today #have a good one <3333 #ilyyyyyy<33333

[iamtiredofyourhorror]

Btw ive been unfollowing a lot of people recently, if we were moots and i unfollowed it isnt personal ive just been a little more touchy about stuff recently so im being more selective abt who i follow

#had to unfollow some long-time mutuals sorry guys #im not treating this like tiktok or twitter so if you only followed me because we were mutuals unfollow me yourself im not doing that whole #softblock thing #thats not a thing thats Normal on tumblr #just in my experience as a long time tumblr user #but ik lots of people have migrated here from other platforms so #thats why im even making this post #its kind of scary people get so upset over breaking mutuals if you havent actually established a true connection #small rant ig

[spider-man-2o99]

(spider-man 2099 v1 #17, 1994)

ppl have GOT to understand that just because miguel isn’t particularly quippy as spider-man it doesn’t mean that he’s not funny. he’s fuckign hilarious u guys r just mean

#spider-man 2099 #spiderman 2099 #miguel o'hara #conchata o'hara #marvel #comics #comic panels #spiderverse #spider-man #general warning just for how conchata Treats mig in general ig #anyways this is one of my favorite scenes in the whole run so of course im going 2 include most of it lol #there's a flashback to show Why mig has been tied up by an angry mob between the first page i showed here and the second one #but tbh i still assert that it's better if u just read through the run urself you'll have more fun coming to conclusions yourself-- #--than seeing the ones that i've made and refined over many many years myself. you can only experience smthn for the first time once!

[onewingedangels]

we found this bakery that was 40 min away, then waited for almost an hour in line only for the pastries and breads to turn out to be absolute mid....

#personal #like it was okaaaaaay ig #and wasn't that expensive #but my tummy is not taking all that well methinks... #we weren't really planning to go there but then we told mom and she wanted to check it out #also it's my sister's bday tomorrow so like.... treat yourself <3?

[atsu-i]

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#ik this is early but..i hope this month..you get the love you deserve and want from ppl you hold dear #and mostly....i hope you find it in yourself to give it back to the most impt of all...which is yourself #it's not easy but even for a bit..hopefully you can #so yeah #happy valentines in advance 🖤 #may this month treat you all well #not just with love but with everything good #that's all #have a great day/night if you read this #stay safe and tc yea? 🖤 #goodnight as well lol #later ig

[dragonballwish]

Send send send

#plan is to work on commissions and have these as little treats between #wishpost #dublah coolors color palette challenge ask game #what a mouthful #feel free to rb and do yourself ig #I got this from elsewhere anyways #wishartstuff

[dualitysdownfall]

who's gonna tell youtube cover singers they don't have to label their videos with "female version" "male cover" like you can just say you sang the song

#idk why it's such a pet peeve of mine? #but like. you still sang the song. maybe it's in a different octave because you're a soprano or whatever #but it's still the song? you don't have to undercut yourself like that #it's not different you just sang it in your octave/key #idk it just bugs me ig i dont like when the music becomes gendered #like i like singing alto but i dont like when the music treats me like a woman #so calling it like 'female key' as some karaoke tracks do feels yucky to me #harper babbles

[daz4i]

yosano and ranpo are like donna and tom to me. i need them to make the office chaotic

#kunikida is both leslie and ben to me tbh. but ig the treat yourself scene specifically can also be atsushi instead #do you see my vision here.

[benetnvsch]

genuinely baffling to me how much of a victim complex some skk shippers have

YEAH yeah aouhghh-

like,, its one thing if people were actively harassing/bothering them but there is no reason for Those Types of skk-ers to be So Upset about other ships just existing (and to just,,doing the same things that they do in terms of relating/redrawing other ships moments to theirs)

I mean come on,, just look the other way,, no need to cry cuz someone chose to make Dazai to kiss different colored pile of pixels today

#the hypocrisy again just really gets me like- WHY ARE U SO upset abt other shippers relating their ship to ur ship's quotes/scenes #when you guys MANY TIMES have done those exact things yourself :'') like yeah im sure it's annoying for both sides but glass houses y know #idk I just ?? it's just wild to me. #they dominate the fandom in such a WILD way I've never seen for how much content they have in proportion to other ships KFJHKF #and it would be fine if they were like... just normal about it but why do so many treat it like it's an entire fucking war KFHFK #u don't need to comment 'I don't ship this cuz I ship x but its cute too ig' on every post u see wth a non x ship just IGNORE IT #u don't see any other ship doing that with their ship regularly like they do (at all personally but don't wonna say it never has happened) #and before anyone gets upset and is like 'oh kite but aren't u actively doing that rn?' #no cuz i only complain abt them when they're actively harassing/bothering other shippers for NO REASON </3 if I was doing the same thing I- #-would want people to call me out too but im not cuz idc who u ship characters with if i don't like it'll ill just block/mute and move on - #cuz im a big fucking kid with grown up feelings and adult levels of empathy and know how to Not invade their spaces just cuz I ship someth

[vzajemnik]

ough truly that movie was just like a piece of dark chocolate on a cold fall evening..........it was bittersweet is what im getting at. truly every metaphor that comes to mind sounds so silly when i put it into words but just saying bittersweet doesnt do it justice. i missed feeling like this about movies....

#🗞️ #i still have feelings for movies despite watching a shitton of them now and treating it more like a chore than sth exciting to spice up my #week with!!!!!!!!!! but it just turns out none of the movies were really my cup of tea. some of them were so good but they werent just #for me ig?although i enjoyed watching them and they were thought provoking and controversial and all those things i appreciate abt movies #but in the end i just love coming of age movies. sorry. sorry for being this way but feeling lost about your life and then kind of finding #yourself but not really but youre just in a different and kind of better setting hits me like nothing else. sorry for just being the most #basic movie enjoyer ever. i love crying and i love when ppl suffer from 20something disorder

[monsterhugger]

i love how self-care is just a completely meaningless phrase now. good job everyone we all tried

#first it was like 'self care is doing things that are good for your mental health' #and then nt ppl discovered it and it basically meant the same thing as 'treat yourself' #and then specific annoying twitter ppl discovered it and used it to mean 'do all the things your mental illness makes difficult for you' #and also corporations discovered it and are using it to mean 'give us money. you know. for yourself :)' #self care means whatever makes your internet hot take sound good ig.

[llycaons]

I know I’m beating a dead horse but fics that recognize that jyl is chronically ill or disabled and take that into account and treat her with respect/as a person are always so much better than the shallow ‘how dare you look down on me I can take care of myself’ content that implies that she’s worthy of respect only because she's physically powerful and can fight. I love women who fight I do but it’s so ugly to act like her canon self is inferior or worthless just because she doesn’t fight or cultivate and try to ~improve~ her by making her able-bodied

#fics where jyl has fibromyalgia and/or uses a wheelchair >>>>>>>>>>> 'how dare you treat me as a weak woman I have a sword' #in canon the explanation is a bit weak but she WAS frail and tired easily and she didn't cultivate #and these aren't flaws my god #there are huge issues with how all versions of canon treat the women but jyl's character and personality just need development #she doesn;t need to be physically strong to be a valuable character #and making her a fighter wouldn't make her a feminist character #ive come to hate the phrase 'take care of myself' ig that its about agency and retaining control of yourself #and defying patriarchal infantilization and overprotectiveness #but its so isolating and predictable. PLEASE get better material #ficblogging

[lethbians]

trying to give myself a break in regards to my stupid feelings and just let myself Feel Them but in order to do that i have to Feel My Feelings which is what im FUCKING avoiding

#my therapist is like u cant be mad at yourself for feeling #TOO LATE #I ALREADY AM #ill just keep having circular arguments in my head ig #getting mad again that after 3 yrs of knowing **** they still couldnt just fucking talk to me #its so annoying bc im like #surely they respect me and love me and care right bc its been 3 years #so on some level they must even as a friend #except no friend of mine would treat me like this haha #hahha!!!!!! #BUT I CARE ABOUT THEM OS FUCK ME #my brain like: just cut them off if they dont care abt u at the level u deserve #my heart: but :((((((( #everyone ignore me i havent had a restful sleep in like a week

[italiantea]

honestly the reason online friendships work is because we dont do things together enough for you to find me annoying or incompetent and i dont know you well enough to be mean to you

#the perfect distance #i dont mean this in a demeaning way btw #like my friends who just hang out and chill with me have no reason to care about most of my worst traits. it doesn't affect them #and i can be pretty mean to my friends but with the added layer of online anonymity i dont even know enough about you guys to roast you #truly the perfect civil distance #we are just some guys who hang out in the same trash dump #the ho rambles #i have been thinking about this btw. #how being loved and loving yourself are really two separate things #like i might feel terrible about myself because of my abysmal time management skills and chronic apathy and hilariously bad decisions #but my friends like me. for idk. being funny? helpful? #feeling like you're being a piece of shit really doesn't negate people caring for you huh #my friend probably doesn't know or care that the primary reason i help him edit his writing is because i like to feel useful #and the only reason i did it at 6am instead of going to bed was because i was avoiding doing my own schoolwork #all he perceives is a helpful friend pulling time out to help him. at ungodly hours of the morning. and i suppose that is what i did. #people will always have a different perception of you than you do of yourself #and that doesnt negate either pov ig #anyway it's 8am i havent slept i get a lil ramble #as a treat

[skrunksthatwunk]

ive been led to believe that every (afab, generally) dyke goes through some kind of harrowing toxic possessive jealous overly dramatic vaguely homoerotic girl-girl friendship in their life before they figure out they're dykes and everyone always paints this as a middle/high school phenomenon but i need you guys to know that mine happened when i was 8 years old with a literal karen (in name only). ridiculous

#anyway i hope she's doing well because i still think about her sometimes yknow #didnt always treat me that well (apparently?? which i didnt realize until my mom told me but apparently she used to do the 'ill stop being #friends with you if you do x inconsequential thing' and it upset me but i dont remember that sooo idk) but she had a lot going on and i #don't think she was a bad kid yknow? yeah. anyway #feeling sentimental about it is all #actually now that i think about it two of the only characters i remember associated with her are rainbow dash and sonic which is cute #ig she liked it when blue dudes went fast lol #also she should NOT have had unrestricted internet access but that's a whole other thing #anyway karen if you're somehow reading this i think it would be really funny if you were also gay and like. take care of yourself 🤘 #OH also lemme explain the afab note: the friendship thing is smth i saw a few times on sapphic tiktok years ago and they tend to be Really #Really Really focused on like Only afab people to a really disquieting extent but. yeah #i assume it's harder if you're not perceived as a girlchild to have that particular dynamic but im 100% sure it happened a bunch anyway