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selectivechaos · 6 months

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thoughts on support and the meaning of coping.

if hotlines don’t have a text service, i can’t access them. if support groups and drop-in centres ask you to email and introduce yourself first, i get anxious.

just because support is available, doesn’t mean it is accessible.

then again, sometimes when you’ve been in an area or institution with no support services, you just assume that, when you move elsewhere, there won’t be any available. don’t assume that; always look for help.

“support is available” and “i’m here if you need to talk” are Not empty phrases made to comfort you; they are true.

if you’re like me, you may get the feeling of “it’s not bad enough; i’m not actually struggling; i can’t articulate it so there must be nothing wrong; making a big deal out of nothing” kind of panicked thoughts right before accessing support. don’t listen! you deserve help, there is no ‘bad enough’. if it hurts you, then you deserve help because you don’t deserve to be in pain.

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recently someone supporting me told me that i should seek help for a specific problem i have with studying in classroom settings (im a uni student), related to my social anxiety. i never had support in school, so it shocked me because classroom settings are everything and just the accepted organisational status quo in schools; they are seen as the brick and mortar of ‘teaching and learning’. i knew there was more freedom and flexibility in university, and that ‘support is available’. but i had always thought of ‘support’ in an individualised, neoliberal, medical-model way (ie. “we’re gonna fix you to fit with the system, and, if we can’t do that, we’ll just support you through crises as you’re tormented by something not made for you”). but actually the way this person phrased it was in terms of ‘Fairness’ and a ‘Level playing field’. they said “it’s not right for you to be feeling anxious and frozen in those learning spaces because it harms your studies, when everyone else is feeling comfortable and able to learn better”. i always considered it with the gaze of internalised ableism (ie “this is my problem; this is my flaw; i’m too sensitive is why i’m anxious”) and i focused so much on treatments for my anxiety as a prerequisite for fixing the problem of falling behind others in academia. but actually i needed support not only to get better, but to get accommodations in the meantime.

coping isn’t settling for an environment that bulldozes through your illness, ignoring it and (intentionally or unintentionally) triggering you. coping is not an individualised repression of symptoms until you burn out. coping is the act of doing things while having an illness that you could not do without support. bad definition but im tired. 🌹🌹

#madpunk #neuropunk #actually mentally ill #social anxiety disorder #coping strategies #mental health support #coping mechanisms #academic support #tw for mentions of therapy in tags ⚠️⚠️⚠️#might be getting therapy again. nervous because it was bad last time

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nothingkillsyoulikeyourmind105 · 11 months

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Master List

A/N- do apologize in advance if I offended anyone. I will do my best in the future to try to look up the names of the artists and credit them. I did find the artist on here for the artwork I’ve used and credit them.

Requests are Open 😊😊

Betrayal Series

Finished series

-Hope you enjoy. Feel free to comment and reblog.

Warning: Mentions of Death, Violence,Depression, Suicide, Breaking Up, Miscarriage, Self Harm.

Bucky Barnes x Fem! Character

Eddie Brock x Fem! Character

Betrayed by the one she loved. Will things ever be the same for our lovers.

Audrey Winters had gone through a lot before settling down. But everything was gonna change. Losing everything she held dear to her. Will everything eventually change for the good or worse.

One Shots

Karaoke Night

König x fem!(y/n)

TW-Fluff

Past Lives

Konig x fem! (y/n)

TW- Angsty

“Haven’t I Given Enough”

König x Fem! (y/n)

TW- Super Angsty

“The one that got away”

König x Fem! (y/n)

TW-Angsty

“Painted Black”

König x Fem! o/c

TW- Mentions Blood

“Falling In Love With You”

König x Fem! (y/n)

TW- Death Of Main Character, Depression, Mentions Blood, Angsty, Maybe A Happy Ending.

“It made me think of you”

TW-None

König x Gender Neutral (y/n)

You’re His Wife

TW- None

“Watching you slip away”

TW-Angsty

More One Shots To Come

Slow Updates

Chaos Was Her Name

Pairing- Konig x reader *call sign (phantom)*

Summary- König has been going to therapy for his depression and self isolation. That lands him in the therapists office when one mission goes wrong. But his whole world is gonna be turned upside down. Recently joining the 141 Task Force he keeps to himself. But things are gonna change.

TW-Mentions Blood, Death, Unprotected P in V Sex, Size Kink, Fluff, Pining, Some Angst, Lack of Sleep, Comforting, Praising Kink. Obsessive! König!

Chapter One

Chapter Two

Chapter Three

🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤

TW- Slow Burn Series

Mentions- Explicit Content. Chapters will be label.🔞🔞🚫🚫MDNI

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Here with Me

Sneak Peek to Chapter 2

Chapter 2

Chapter 3 part one

Chapter 3 part two

Chapter 4

Chapter 5

“Crossing Oceans of Time”

Konig x (Vampire Reader)

reader dialect and her tone of speaking is all olde English. But she will start speaking more modern later in the Fic.

TW: Mentions Blood, Witch-hunt, Lynching, Fire, TW If You're Sensitive About The Salem Witchtrials Please Do Not Interact. This Fanfic does mentions what happened to the men women. This is an all fictional scenario.

Will label each Chapter.

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Comments are appreciated.

Chapter One "Awakening In Modern Era"

Chapter Two "Sharing Her Tale Of Woe"

“I Won,The Battle of Love”

Ghost x fem!(y/n)

TW-Angsty

Haunted By The Ghost Of Us

Ghost x Fem!(y/n)

Tw-Angsty, Maybe a happy ending

“The Night We Met”

Ghost x Fem!(y/n)

TW- Angsty

“I’m with you till the end”

Ghost x Fem! (y/n)

TW-Angsty, Maybe a happy ending, brief smut.

“Her”

TW-Angsty, Breaking Up, Infidelities. Stalking

Ghost x Fem! (y/n) & König x Fem! (y/n)

“I’ve got my eyes on you”

TW-Pining

Ghost x Fem! (Y/N)

More One Shots To Come

Slow Updates

“I’m Scared”

TW-Angsty, happy ending, protective Keegan

The Other Woman

TW-Super Angsty, Infidelity, Lies, Breaking Up.

Goodbye Sunflower Part One

Goodbye Sunflower Part Two

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