#yknow losing anonymity by stitching it or even posting the link to the video

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[Video description: The intro to Drake's "Know Yourself" used as audio, with the two captions, "I held him while he cried bc he felt bad for r4p1ng me" ... "I held HIM while HE cried bc he felt bad for R4P1NG ME"]

My original version of this post is well-circulated enough, so I'll vomit my 2023 edit onto it because I'm angry and defeated and embarrassed and hurting: I let this garbage happen to me all over again, all these years later, after I thought I was safe. I will never be safe enough.

#i didn't mean for this post to be this long #i just needed to talk about it without using tiktok because #yknow losing anonymity by stitching it or even posting the link to the video #women's safety #women's issues #women's health #feminism #radical feminism #it's okay to cry #men crying #rape recovery #trauma psychology #trauma recovery #narcissism #male manipulator #gaslighting #red flags #boundaries #relationships #radfem #radfem safe #terf safe #terfs do interact #terfs please interact #terfs please touch #gender critical #gender critical safe #victim blaming