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in mesopotamia there were no 'cover letters' or 'curriculum vitaes'. there were just, pots.

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Your parents are not "narcissists". They're typical authoritarian assholes who treat you like their property because society allows them to.

Your ex boyfriend is not a "narcissist". He's a typical misogynistic douchebag who treats women like shit because society allows him to.

Your boss is not a "narcissist". They're a typical classist dipshit who thinks workers' entire purpose in life is to generate profit because society allows them to.

And even if they happen to be a "narcissist", that's not what gave them the power to get away with abuse.

So stop blaming mental illness and start blaming society's normalization of abuse. Stop acting like someone has to have a mental illness in order to do something cruel when ordinary people have been doing atrocious things since forever.

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When People age out of the foster system they are extremely likely to end up homeless, in jail, or abusing substances.

Adoptees are 4 times more likely to commit suicide.

Adoption and foster care need more conversation than abortion, what to do if you’re infertile, or don’t want to give birth to children.

The fact that homelessness is controversial tells you everything you need to know about conservatives.

#adoption #adoptee #foster care

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I'm a bit late, but anyways.

#passover #pesach #jewish holidays #jewish tumblr #jumblr #hag pesach sameach

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Imaging is in for back pain

There is nothing wrong!

#then why does it hurt?? #I’m just crazy I gues

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So cruel of the work that I have to work when I’m just a simple girl who wants to be curled up in bed with her cat

#so sleepy #just want to be comfortable

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PSA

You feel like shit is a website set up to help you get out of that funk/improve things just enough to not feel horrible and miserable all the time.  It’s amazing.

Whether you struggle with mental health problems all the time or whether this is a new/temporary state for you, this guide is an easy and judgement-free self-care tool.

PLEASE TRY IT OUT!  Really!  You just click through the questions to answer and follow simple instructions that in the end, ideally, will help you to feel more comfortable and stable on a daily basis. 

Good luck!  Have fun!

#mental illness #coping #self care #mental health #self-care #resources

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society really lost the war when dressing nice / slutty = “gay” “metrosexual” “is he 💅🏻”. we had decades of men wearing crop tops and short shorts without blinking an eye and now it’s ye ole pilgrim standards and talk of scandal if they show their knees

#I will reblog anything with Chris Pine #i fucking love that man #I want to know him carnally

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Taylor Swift ain’t all that but my college has an account for a squirrel and they just dropped the funniest post for her new album

#the torturered twiggy department #I’m dead #they have the moody music playing over black and white photos of this squirrel #with fake tears rolling down his little face

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Wild calls today!

Someone’s ex stole her vehicle and insurance payments

Another lady lost part of her finger when she had covid last year and needs another surgery

And this last lady was calling from England!

#the girlies are having a day #call center job

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Everything is like “QUEER history” and “List of QUEER young adult books” or “Top 10 QUEER movies” and queer this and queer that and for the love of god please just say LGBT.

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Would be a great day to walk in the park and smoke a blunt, but unfortunately I have to work

#stupid 10-7 #dumbass 8 hour job #at least I get 15 minutes to photosynthosize or some shit #drug mention #drug mention tw #smoking mention

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gritting my teeth. I do not need to be the person my parents want me to be. I am allowed to be my own person. I am allowed to disappoint them. I am allowed to choose not to follow their advice. the world will not end if my parents disagree with me about what is best for me and my life

#recovery

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*places an orange just outside a fairy ring to see what comes out* science is more of an art than a science

#tumblr shenanigans #science? #the fae

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Universal Monsters - art by Shag

#shag #josh agle #universal monsters #universal horror #horror art #halloween art #frankenstein #bride of frankenstein #the mummy #the wolf man

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A woman went viral for being turned down for a next interview for a role, she asks the recruiter what she did wrong, the recruiter tells her they were “concerned about her lack of effort in her appearance.”

She explains she wore a freshly ironed blazer with a collared top. Her nails were painted a professional beige. She got a blowout for her hair, so a professional style. She had on subdued gold earrings.

The only thing she wasn’t wearing was makeup; she states she really doesn’t wear makeup, and only had chapstick on, as her skin is sensitive. Her lawyer mother has already explained she has no legal case against the company for any type of gender-based discrimination.

Just in case anyone wants to ask why feminists still refer to the “pink tax” or rail against more and more elaborate makeup trends being pushed on girls and women.

Women being punished socially for not wearing makeup is still a feminist issue.

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I'm going to send the have a good day body euphoria eat a delicious snack spell at you

it's kinda unavoidable unless you can dispel magic