thought the thomas shelby-peaky blinders haircut was an exaggeration/old timey thing. but no actually i went to a concert of british bands and they Actually Do That?
so. my fish died the other day. but I still have a snail so I keep the day/night light cycle and the filter/heater running and i’ve even sprinkled a bit of fish food in there just bc i’m worried he doesn’t have enough to eat and it’s like....on one hand it’s helping me cope by keeping the routine i had with my fish but on the other, every time i become aware of the light being on or hear the filter and i glance over looking for my fish to be peeking through the leaves only to remember a second later that he’s never going to be there again.
so like....that’s bittersweet baby
i miss him so much and i know he had a nice life (esp compared to how a lot of bettas live) and was taken care of and there was literally nothing i could do to prevent his death but fuck man. i still feel like a lousy fish parent because i was fucking asleep when he died. i knew he was struggling and probably wouldn’t live through the night but i still went to sleep. and i was crying too hard in the morning to even say any goodbyes to his body. i know he wasn’t there (and even if he was, he’s a fish that doesn’t understand words) but it’s just....god. death sucks.
i’m sorry to all younger siblings that have to deal with the ‘oh are you related to *older sibling*?’ because i’m sure that’s annoying but as an older sibling, hearing that people remember me is phenominal.
my brother comes home and is like ‘mr. smith says hi’ and i make him talk me through exactly what happened for like fifteen minutes.
who wants to be friends and also explain everything that’s ever happened in the dream smp server bc i want to get into the storyline but i’m so fucking lost it’s like starting a tv series but you’re starting in the middle of a random episode from season four without any clue as to what the show is and there’s no ‘previously on...’ aHHH
but i saw a tiktok (that i didn’t get to like before my fyp refreshed) of ethan on stream leaning off camera and then when he came back there was smoke and he kinda like shushed the camera
and i just think it was the best shit so if anyone can find that video (not necessarily the tiktok) i will owe you my life. it has to exist somewhere but google is fruitless
my snake is currently in the process of having his first clean shed (he has it all bunched down around his tail now) and words cannot describe the pride i feel. my little baby boy. all grown up. oh how i love him.
(psa i know that complete sheds are not a sign of snakes growing or learning because getting rid of that skin is instinctual, but he’s finally utilizing the humid hide i always provide so in that way it can be seen as him learning the best/easiest way to go about it)
this made me realize that i’d been subtly bullied my entire childhood. i’ve been asked by several people if i was ever bullied and i’ve always said no because no one ever pushed me into lockers or threw my books around so i genuinely thought i never had. and while that does unfortunately happen, i feel like this is a more common form of bullying that isn’t talked about as much.
cannot believe i can’t just skip to the fifteenth therapy session where the therapist already knows my trauma and we just talk about my day and she just goes “oh that’s because of your issues with your dad!” and i’m like “oh sweet i figured, here’s a tik tok”
Reminder to donate here to the Quileutes to help them move to higher ground away from the tsunami zone. Don’t buy Smeyer’s racist book and aid the people she stole from. If you want to read Midnight Sun like a lot of us, there’s gonna be PDFs circling online so you don’t have to waste your money on her book.