#Mental conflicts

[safe-haven-safe-place]

#mental health #relationship advice #conflict resolution #healthy relationships #repair #apologizing

[loveydive]

The Tragedy of Hayakawa Aki - chainsaw man, tatsuki fujimoto

grief lessons: four plays by euripides, anne carson // chainsaw man, tatsuki fujimoto // deathless, catherynne m. valente // “untitled,” 2016, ink on paper, kara walker // james, clementine von radics // slide tackle, japanese breakfast // how to cure a ghost, fariha róisín // red glove, holly black // the letter, richard paul evans // interview with james hall, richard siken // ptolemaea, ethel cain // iq84, haruki murakami // the godfather, mario puzo // god's silence, franz wright // crush, richard siken // tumblr user ojibwe // when i was done dying, dan deacon

#csm #chainsaw man #hayakawa aki #aki hayakawa #webweaving #you know your girl is mentally unwell when she makes a webweaving post abt an anime character #web weaving #okay gonna spam every variataion fo teh spoilers tag now LOL #chainsaw man spoilers #csm spoilers #csm manga spoilers #chainsaw man manga spoilers #spoilers #hopefully that was enough #ANW #thinking about him SOOOO MUCHHH #man doomed by the narrative *twirls hair* #his character IS tragedy but i am still conflicted on which tragedy it is #was it inevitable? or was it preventable? #what is the hamartia in this story #is it a character flaw or his circumstances that were out of his control? #honestly think it can be viewed both ways #if he hadnt been so intent on revenge he wouldnt have ended up like this. but it was also circumstance bc makima is basically a god #but god gODD that last quote got me so good bc i was liek THATS LITERALLY IT #TAHTS AKI #anw after volume 9 i cried so many times after during the day and now im rotating him in my mind #my edit #EDIT: JUST READ A POST THAT SAID THAT GOOD TRAGEDY IS WHEN YOU CANT TELL WHETHER IT WAS CIRCUMSTANCE OR FLAW... #DROPPING TO MY KNEES.... #thats it thats exactly it

[desultory-suggestions]

Try not to take other peoples reactions personally. You never know what a person is experiencing that changes their perception. Their apathy, disinterest, nit picking, etc. is more about them than it is you. Take a deep breathe and try to move past it.

#suggestions #suggestion blog #relationships #stress #arguments #relationship stress #friendships #insecurities #family #family conflict #communication #assume best intentions #recovery #text #positivity #self love #mental health #ed recovery #self care

[staruie]

an eternity left behind

#satosugu #jjk fanart #gojo satoru #geto suguru #jujutsu kaisen #stsg #fanart #my art #im very sad #about season 2 #i love gege’s panelling in this scene so much gkkgkhkh its so everything💗 #subtle hand gestures that shed light into gojo’s internal conflict and mental state ahh…… #could talk about this forever #my artwork

[liquidstar]

but for real i love adventure time bc in the face of shitty family members that are also space war criminals, most kids show protags would be all "guys lets not fight... we're family! we can be friends! peace and love!" but finn is like "im going to personally rip off my dads arm because i hate him"

#not that its healthy and im glad he didnt actually do it (for the sake of his own mental state) #the choice to not rip his dads arm off is abt his own mental health not any sort of greater good or whatever #but im also glad the shitty parent conflict wasnt resolved by everything just being pushed under the rug #it sort of just ended with. okay fine. i cant change you so just be out of my life forever now #tho it is also tragic bc martin wasnt always a bad guy... hes sort of a victim of circumstance too #but that doesnt really matter as far as finn's journey is concerned #adventure time

[padawansuggest]

Obi-Wan: Cody. Oh sweet sweet, good man Cody. I just don’t think we could be together.

Cody: Oh. Um. Is it because I’m a clone?

Obi-Wan: *trying not to admit that he would literally go insane and either try and steal the whole army, or kill the chancellor if he admitted to his feelings* Well. It’s… a conflict of interests.

Cody: *well versed in Kenobi speak, which is why he knows that doesn’t add up* What?

Anakin: *taking out his headphones ten feet away* He said you guys have conflicting mental illnesses.

Cody: That’s not-

Obi-Wan: No no, that fits the situation pretty well, actually.

#star wars #obi wan kenobi #incorrect star wars quotes #anakin skywalker #clone wars #incorrect clone wars quotes #commander cody #codywan #five minutes later they’re found making out in a closet lol #Obi’s sorry to say he’s just gonna have to steal an army and kill the chancellor #the phrase ‘conflicting mental illnesses’ came to me after I read an ao3 tag that revulsed me so much #it was ‘time travel but not fix it… time travel make it worse actually’ #and I have never read something that disgusted me more #how dare you offend me the only person with correct opinions #but my first thought was ‘oh we seem to be showing signs of conflicting mental illnesses’ #and to this day (like maybe three hours later if that) it’s the best phrase I’ve ever come up with

[nehoteika]

it's strange, knowing now who it was this whole time...

#stranger things #stranger things art #will byers #will byers fanart #byler #< target audience #obv <3 #my art #are we ready to talk about how reeeeealy creepy vecna/henry is targeting kids or has this been discussed already... #or huge ramifications him possessing and controlling will has had on will's mental health #i'm still pissed about the fact that duffers started to explore more about will's internal conflict at the beginning of the 3rd season #(him not being able to move on and grow up) #and then they JUST DROPPED IT LIKE WHAT THE FUCK #AND THEN THEY JUST oh the conflict is resolved everything is cool now :))) #thank god we have fanfics otherwise this show is unwatchable

[wolfpoets]

Waiting for This Story to End Before I Begin Another by Jan Heller Levi

#when your trauma directly conflicts with and is totally opposite from each other. delicious. mentally devastating. #our flag means death

[uncanny-tranny]

So much love and recognition to the people who don't know how they feel about recovering. To the people whose scars are fading away, and there's a sinking feeling, despite knowing that it's a good thing. To the people who miss when they were "worse," when they felt "broken." To the people who mourn losing their coping mechanisms, even the ones that were destructive, scary, or unpleasant. To those who feel guilty they're healing because their past self wasn't ready.

Whatever it is, there is nothing wrong with any of those feelings. It's a natural reaction, something you don't have ultimate control over. There is nothing shameful about yourself, and I admire the strength it takes to recognize how you feel, even the parts that do feel like the "wrong" reaction to a Good Thing.

#mental health #self harm tw #self harm mention tw #sh tw #mental health recovery #mental health support #i love you i love you i love you #i admire you and empathize with you and want to be your fellow man. i want to share this wold *with* you #and that includes sharing a world that you aren't sure you deserve or are ready for #the world can wait. humans have been here for hundreds of thousands of years. it can wait #when i think about all this what makes me feel better is remembering how many billions of people have lived #and it makes me feel better to know that there has never been a problem too big to have - to uniquely awful #i have my own conflicted feelings about this because objectively i am healing #but it feels like i have boarded on land after surviving the worst trip to sea ever... #...a trip that was plagued with my ship being flung through hurricanes and lightnight and i'm only manning a sailboat... #...and i have found land and that land is good... #...but my legs feel like they will give out underneath me because this is solid land that i have never stood on... #...and you get used to the constant seasickness and sealegs and wondering *how* you'll make it out - If you will... #...the peace feels like a ruse at times because all you've known was chaos. but it's a good ruse and a comfortable one #and so you learn i guess to sink into the comfort like a spft feather pillow

[thepeacefulgarden]

#communication #fighting fairly #relationships #constructive anger #kindness #mental health #healthy relationships #conflict resolution

[cult-of-the-eye]

Ok listen, Gwen being killed off would be interesting because the rest of the OIAR would have to grapple with the grief and the underlying feeling of suspicion in the way she died. Like she'd be a warning that would be ignored and I think it would switch up the dynamics in a really cool way.

#alice would be wildly conflicted with grief and probably unable to handle it #sam has probably dealt with grief before so is a bit calmer #but also conflicted cause he didnt know her for that long #celia has no fucking idea how to act cause everyones suddenly changed demeanor and she didnt even know gwen #so like if she acts sad they'll think its not genuine #but itll be weird if she acts like everythings normal as well #lena would be like offering alice a mental health leave which she would firmly deny #colin would probably spiral deeper into his madness #but maybe also get closer to sam in the process #while this splits sam and alice #cause Sam's going deeper down the rabbit hole #and alice is intent in burying her head in the sand #tmagp #the magnus protocol #tmagp theories #gwen bouchard #alice dyer #sam khalid #lena kelley #celia ripley #colin becher

[nostalgia-tblr]

"are people not into that?" i ask, after posting my weird niche shit to the internet, despite knowing it to be weird niche shit.

#jsyk sylkius or anything adjacent to it does not “Do Numbers” in any way and i observed this some time ago #i assume that's the “rival ships” element at work but who knows really #that sort of thing is like femslash in that everyone approves of it but nobody actually reads or writes it #but who would have thought sylvie beating loki with a stick would not bring in droves of readers???! shocking twist there! #& i don't consider sifki a rarepair but my rarepair standards are VERY strict like if there's >5 fics a pairing is basically mainstream #chasing popularity would annoy me though & i just don't have the mental spoons to try writing stuff i wouldn't personally read #yeah i *could* put my blorbos to work in a coffee shop but what cost to my own enjoyment levels? AT WHAT COST FANGELA??? #you can't please everyone so you may as well just please yourself and if anyone else likes it you've found some fellow freaks so yay #i don't mean please yourself in a wanking sense. though feel free to do that too it probably counts as a cardio workout idk. #BUT ANYWAY #fic related #ps i am v glad there's the “warning: loki” tag because i think/hope it acts as a filter for 'he did nothing wrong in his life ever' types #who are Valid & etc obviously but i write my morally grey characters to be morally grey and the tag might help avoid conflict #though tbh i write almost every character to be morally grey in some way so i can't claim to have left my comfort zone here #(i'm not joking when i say the 1987-89 run of Dr Who shaped my entire future fannish life from a young and apparently v impressionable age)

[haemosexuality]

why are so many adventure time fans just straight up stupid. about how stories work. and i dont even mean kids i mean like adult fans just with the absolutely dumbest takes

#i was watching a streamer react to f&c which ok i admit i brought this upon myself #but oh my godddddd #''i think farmworld finn's wife was pb'' even ignoring that one of his kids looks exactly like human huntress wizard WHAT #WHY IN THE HELL WOULD THAT BE TRUE. AFTER THEYVE SPENT S I X S E A S O N S SHOWING WHY PBXFINN COULD NEVER BE A THING #LITERALLY SEVERAL SEASONS SHOWING 1-PB WILK NEVER LIKE FINN BACK THEY ARE INCOMPATIBLE 2-FINN HAS MOVED ON HE HAS ACCEPTED THAT AND GOTTEN #OVER HIS CHILDHOOD LOVE ON HER AND ONLY AFTER THAT THEY WERE ABLE TO FORM A FRIENDSHIP #THATS LIKE ONE OF THE MAIN THINGS OF THE SHOW #WHY THE FUCK WOULD THEY TAKE THAT BACK AND MAKE HIM HAVE FUCKING KIDS WITH HER IN AN ALTERNATE UNIVERSE????????? #''did prismo just die in the end of episode 4??? oh no what a mystery'' oh yeah dude they totally killed off one of the most important #characters in like 5 seconds with almost no ceremony. without even acknowledging it. thats totally how character deaths work #this is totally plausible #''what the fuck im gonna get so mad of simon actually becomes ice king again'' ARE YOU STUPIDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD #HAVE YOU NEVER HEARD OF ''CREATING A CONFLICT AND THEN RESOLVING IT'' #HOLY FUCKING SHIT #sorry this is making me go insane a little bit. #adventure time #fionna and cake #every time i see some guy mention pbxfinn and a thing that could have happened i fly into a rage. you are so fucking stupid. you have the #mental capabilities of a child. never open your mouth again. #as a thing* that could have happened

[desultory-suggestions]

You can outgrow that behaviors from your past that you regret. You can change, you can go to therapy, work on yourself, and surround yourself with people who choose kindness and compassion. You can learn to express yourself through new means, instead of yelling or physical violence, you can learn to respond with thoughtful words and action. You are allowed to have space to change and become a new person. Don’t let your shame hold you back.

#self forgiveness #growing #change #maturing #self care #mental health #mental illness #anger issues #mentalheathawareness #anxiety #yelling #fighting #relationship issues #family abuse #familial abuse #family conflict

[askblueandviolet]

Do you think the Lady Bone Demon would still be proud of you now? You have fallen for a traitor. You’re no longer her champion

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#lego monkie kid #lego monkie kid fanart #monkie kid #monkie kid fanart #lmk #lmk fanart #lmk mayor #monkie kid mayor #blue and violet #they are very upset #very conflicted on whether or not they want to constantly remember the memory of her at the cost of their own mentality- #or if they want to try to distract themselves from acknowledging her absence but at the same time being disrespectful to her name #they do not know what to do with themselves #all they know is that they are a disappointment #the champion LBD deserved better from

[thenixkat]

but also wild that Kabru 'murder is ok' of Utaya thought that Laios and Falin were bad people b/c they [checks notes] are disinterested in people and didn't notice that they were getting conned by an ex-coworker they thought had become disabled and needed help

(and also b/c Laios wouldn't give him the time of day every time Kabru tried to initiate a conversation with him on the surface)

#nix meows #dungeon meshi #kabru of utaya #touden siblings #like that's a very concerning mentality for someone who thinks murder is a good option to solve conflicts to have