#almost30

[lemkalemka]

16 November yang ke 29 (ditahun 2023)

Let's begin the journey of finding yourself, gitu ceritanya.

Biasa nulisnya dimalam hari, tapi kali ini memutuskan untuk spend time sendirian. Ngopi disiang hari~~~

Tahun ini tahun yang luar biasa, sangat luar biasa.

Wait, ini beneran 29 tahun? Hahaha maka mari kuucapakan Alhamdulillah, subhanallah. Allah memberiku banyak berkah di kehidupan ini.

Belajar berdamai pada diri sendiri,

Belajar menjadi manusia yang biasa,

Belajar bekerhidupan normal,

Belajar bertahan.

Dan masih dan terus belajar.

Saat ini banyak hal yang sudah kulakukan sesuai rencana dan belum sesuai rencana, tapi saatnya untuk bilang cukup, sudah cukup untuk hari-hari ini.

Mari mempersiapkan hal yang lebih besar versi diri sendiri, want to be 30 tahun and almost 30 tahun. Aku hebat, aku keren, aku awesome.

Mari merangkai mimpi kembali untuk membangun, kejutan hidup yang lebih berwarna.

Percayalah backingan hidupku adalah pemilik semesta. Jangan takut, tetap percaya dan berdoa serta berharap kepadaNya.

Terimakasih Allah kesempatan berharga ini, terimakasih.

#almost30

[williamrayshine-jr]

I'm curious to know something.

Q&A: How Do You Like Your Salad? With Or Without Meat??.

@kweerjaayyyi8

#hi #hello #hello hello #helloworld #tumblrposy #posttumblrpost #tumblrfeedpost #goodevening #evening question #lbgtq #gay #gayboy #gayblkman #gayyoungblkman #youngbottomblkman #almost30

[goodreasons]

Sem muita esperança de que alguma coisa mude dentro de alguns anos, mas, ao mesmo tempo, esperando desesperadamente que nesses anos alguma coisa aconteça e me faça mudar de ideia. Sigo, pela primeira vez, por um motivo altruísta.

- Lis, 1997.

#almost30 #adulthood sucks #real life

[diaryofabug]

Howdy pardner <3

Last night @masonamadeus and I were in bed, all snuggled up for sleep, and I mentioned that I really wanted to have what we’d eaten for dinner again for breakfast, it’s a dish that he makes so well and introduced me to, and I CRAVE it y’all. 

It’s so good. 

I realized as I said it that if we wanted to have it for breakfast he would need to soak the rice now. And I immediately felt panicked. All of the anxiety and terror from past relationships compounded onto my brain even as he said, “Oh yeah, I should soak the rice now.”

And I tried to take it all back as he climbed over me to go to the kitchen and get the rice soaking. I was so filled with dread and regret at inadvertently asking him to do something nice for me. I had unconsciously inconvenienced him. 

Obviously he kissed me on the forehead, told me to stop being dumb, and happily soaked the rice. 

And I laid there, on the verge of tears, wondering how the heck we got here. 

As a former people pleaser who has historically attracted narcissists, as a woman who dates men, as just a person in this world-

It’s so easy to pretend like the things that happen to and around you don’t affect you. That they don’t leave a mark on your psyche, and even your soul. That you’re simply better now and everything that you ever endured is in your past. For me it’s also a coping mechanism, If I don’t identify and admit they way that I’ve been treated in the past has been bad, or not nice, or even just hurt my feelings, then I’m still in control. It’s not something that someone did or did not do for me, it’s not a way that someone treated me-

It’s a way I let myself be treated. 

And now, that’s just no good. I know that, seeing it written out it’s easy to identify how that kind of language, how that thought pattern doesn’t serve me. 

As I laid in the bed last night, the dread and anxiety easily banished by the reassurance and forehead kisses of my partner, my thoughts swirled around these ideas. Finally seeing the past for what it was, and getting another step closer towards letting this coping mechanism go for good. 

I’d like to thank her for her service, because she helped to protect me when I was in unsafe living situations, unsatisfying relationships, and unhealthy friendships. She was there to help me navigate my twenties, and to learn what kind of relationships I want to give energy to and to foster growth in. 

But now I’m almost 30, and I’m really trying to lean into practicing what I preach. 

I am worthy of a partner who will do things just for me.  Who enjoys building a life with me and who wants to grow with me. Who never wants to cut me down in order to avoid facing something about himself, who sees me to my core and isn’t with me because of the things I do for him, or make his life easier. But because we’re both fully formed individuals, trying to build something that can be even greater than the sum of it’s parts. 

A partner who will get out of bed to soak the rice. 

It’s day whatever of being a human in this hellscape, and things are still hard. But I am so happy to be where I am. 

-Bug

#romance #rice #relationships #trauma #healing #growingup #anxiety #peoplepleaser #coping mechanism #almost30 #twenties

[xxjessabugxx]

For real does it hurt to be 30 ?? #funny #almost30 #dirty30 https://www.instagram.com/p/Cm3OJPYuqlU/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#funny #almost30 #dirty30

[thereispurposeforallofthis]

#Kaeli #29 #almost30 #dirtythirty #3moremonths #virgo #christian #spirituality #spiritualkaedream #spiritual #kaedream #kaelishenecrabtree #cupcakie2512 #kaelicrabtree27 #kaedarling29 #kaelidaydreamer #kaelishenecrabtree28 #dreamer #daydreamer #viral #foryoupage https://www.instagram.com/p/CfGfkAouk7H/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#kaeli #29 #almost30 #dirtythirty #3moremonths #virgo #christian #spirituality #spiritualkaedream #spiritual #kaedream #kaelishenecrabtree #cupcakie2512 #kaelicrabtree27 #kaedarling29 #kaelidaydreamer #kaelishenecrabtree28 #dreamer #daydreamer #viral #foryoupage

[pretty-odd-sloth]

friendships r hard.. #growingup #mid20s #almost30 #30s #lifehappens #takecareurself #1995 #fyp #xyz

[jasmine-is-awesome]

It’s the Freakin Weekend! #fridaynightin #zobagglyfestyle💰💰 #zobaggordontbrag #supporthehomie #oneofthesedaysimagetanewshowercurtainlol #makeupispoppin #dangimcute #bdaycountdown #almost30 #geminiseason 🤩💃🏾💕💜♊️🌻🧿✨ (at Houston, Texas) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cdzu34EODUv/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#fridaynightin #zobagglyfestyle💰💰 #zobaggordontbrag #supporthehomie #oneofthesedaysimagetanewshowercurtainlol #makeupispoppin #dangimcute #bdaycountdown #almost30 #geminiseason

[aussie-brat]

My drunk night was fun im soo keen for my birthday next month #90baby #almost30 #aussie #aussiebrat #glow #messy (at Cairns, Queensland, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/CbIE6mQPgZq/?utm_medium=tumblr

#90baby #almost30 #aussie #aussiebrat #glow #messy

[thenostalgicatheist]

The Nostalgia of Religion

I'm almost 30.

This is one of the weirdest things I've had to tell myself this year. As the year 30 looms, I find that more and more things in media are being brought back for the nostalgia of it. The Powerpuff Girls is getting a live action show on CW. Paramount is releasing a brand new CG Rugrats show. The revival of Animaniacs on Hulu. Even the Flintstones, a much older show, is getting a live action sequel show.

More and more, I see things from my childhood brought back to life in one way or another, for better or worse. And I start feeling nostalgic for my childhood. When things seemed simpler.

But there's one part of the nostalgia that I'm feel conflicted about.

Religious media.

You see, for all of my childhood and the beginnings of my early adulthood, I believed in Christianity. I've only been an atheist for 5 out of those 30 years. So, a lot of things that bring on that nostalgic feeling happen to be religious, and I'm conflicted about it. Then it hit me.

Perhaps I'm fond for these things I no longer agree with....because of that nostalgia factor. You see, nostalgia is usually connected to happy memories. But because of the religious aspect, those memories are tarnished. So it got me wondering.

What can I do to help deal with these strange feelings of the things from the past?

Revisit it and take it apart, of course!

So, that's what this blog will be focused on. I'm going to take a look back at music, movies, tv shows, books, anything Christian media related. Typically, they'll have been released between 1990-2010. (Though I won't mind reviewing things from earlier or later than those dates.)

So join me in this journey of breaking down things of the past. Things that are influential to young minds. That keep them in a cycle of never questioning, blindly following.

I hope that maybe myself, and anyone else who reads this, will learn a little something along the way.

Thanks for reading.

#nostalgia #media #atheism #review #almost30 #will anyone even see this #who knows #i hope so

[anxxiousleo]

What's it like to be not married?

#random #marriage #almost30

[okmcintyre]

I only have three days left of my 20s.

#THREE! #oh my goodness #how is this happening?? #almost30 #oct 1 #twenty-something problems #tumblrkt #birthday #jeepers #(and t100 is over in 2 days!!) #Stay tuned y'all! I have 2 days of t100 queued up and then come Thursday it's 10000 posts of all my fave scenes edits ect #can't wait #but also AH!

[lolamkelly]

18 Questions to Ask Yourself

So every once in while, you might get the feeling that you’re stuck in a rut, monotony, a cycle of doom, or whatever else you might call it. It’s important to really check in with yourself, mentally and emotionally, so that you can figure out a way to move forward in life. If you’re finding it a bit difficult to get the ball rolling, it’s helpful to have a list of questions to ask yourself, to…

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#30-something #adventure #almost30 #anxiety #balance #be happy #commitment #confusion #daily #depression #divine #divine beings #doubt #dream come true #dreams #empath #explore #faith #familylife #female poets #freedom #frustration #goalgetter #gratitude #happiness #healthy #heart #heartbreak #imagination #independence

[abygurl]

Ahh it’s my birthday today the big 29 grateful to be here in the crazy world 🥰🎉🎂 #happybirthday #happybirthdaytome #itsmybirthday #29yearsold #29 #almost30 #omg #imgettingold #cakecakecake #birthdaygirl #bdaygirl https://www.instagram.com/p/CLenBsbHyDN/?igshid=77b1w0yb31x7

#happybirthday #happybirthdaytome #itsmybirthday #29yearsold #29 #almost30 #omg #imgettingold #cakecakecake #birthdaygirl #bdaygirl

[xxjessabugxx]

The struggle is real lol 😂 I may not look like it #almost30 #dirty30 https://www.instagram.com/p/CmsRH0POyaS/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#almost30 #dirty30

[lostliv09]

• Adjusting to a substantial promotion

• Interviewing/hiring several people and learning how to be a supervisor

• Planning a huge work move and expansion as well as several new operating systems

• Going through a major breakup with the man I love deeply and was SURE I would make my husband

• Still living with said man

• In the process of buying my own house for myself and my dog Herbert

• Adjusting to being single & solo (he won our friends in the breakup)

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• Actively trying not to lose my shit

#lifechange #single #solo #adulting #almost30 #wtfamidoing #helpme #changes #see what happens