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crystalsandbubbletea · 1 month

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SCREW IT!!

MY FELLOW ACESPECS! WE NEED A NEW TAG!

BOTS HAVE TAKEN OVER OUR TAG TO THE POINT IT IS UNUSABLE, SO THEREFORE, I INTRODUCE A NEW TAG:

#Acespec Mafia

(This was the only thing I could come up with- 😭)

#asexual #asexual community #acespec #ace spec #ace spectrum #acespectrum #asexual spec #asexual spectrum #asexualspec #asexualspectrum #acespec mafia #ace #asexuality

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neptune-scythe · 4 months

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Shout-out to all the romance and sex repulsed gays today

I think we should throw a party

Maybe summon a demon from the underworld to help us prank the commoners

Eat lots of garlic bread

Maybe burn a village idk

#aroace #aromantic #asexual #romance repulsed #sex repulsed #apothiromantic #apothisexual #aro #ace #aroacespec #aroace spectrum #arospec #aro spectrum #aromanticspec #aromantic spectrum #acespec #ace spectrum #asexualspec #asexual spectrum

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r0ttingsystem · 5 months

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Not normally a coiner but

Platoromantic

Platoromantic is someone who can't differentiate platonic feelings and romantic feelings, wether that is because of being aromanticspec, because of trauma, delusions, ext! Or someone who's platonic and romantic feelings are the same thing

Platosexual

Platosexual is someone who can't differentiate platonic feelings and sexual feelings, wether that is because of being asexualspec, because of trauma, delusions, ext! Or someone who's platonic and sexual feelings are the same thing

[I JUST REALIZED I WROTE THE SAME THING TWICE. FUCK(fixed it)]

Not really proud of the flags but meh

Update! Terms out the terms has already been coined under a different name x / x , I'll keep this post up because it's moreso sexual/romantic attraction and platonic attraction beiythe same thing for someone

#liom coining #liom term #liom safe #liom #sexuality coining

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wish-ful-thinking513 · 6 years

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crystalsandbubbletea · 1 month

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Self care is reporting all the bots on the asexual tags and blocking them ^^

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crystalsandbubbletea · 1 month

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crystalsandbubbletea · 1 month

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What if we invaded Europe together and formed the AroAce Spec Empire?

One can dream... 😔

(Platonic posting, btw-)

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crystalsandbubbletea · 1 month

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Ah yes, the War on Bots

We stay strong fellas 💪

#asexual #ace #acespec mafia #acespec #ace spec #ace spectrum #asexual spectrum #asexual spec #asexualspec #asexualspectrum #acespectrum #asexuality #ace mafia

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crystalsandbubbletea · 24 days

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Just saw the most sexually explicit shit while reporting bots on the ace tags and I want to puke-

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crystalsandbubbletea · 1 month

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Definitely should reclaim the asexual tag before conquering Europe-

*Ahem*

Yas asexuals slay, ✨slay✨...

SLAAAAAAYYYY THE BOTS!

DEFEND YOUR LAND! TAKE BACK YOUR THRONE! SLAUGHTER YOUR ENEMIES!

GLORY TO THE ACESPEC EMPIRE AND THEIR ALLIES-

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crystalsandbubbletea · 1 month

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Being Demisexual and Demiromantic isn't enough, I need to invade Denmark with my fellow arospecs and acespecs

Scratch that, I need to invade ALL OF EUROPE with my fellow arospecs and acespecs

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neptune-scythe · 5 months

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Some thoughts from an aroace today because why not

So for context I am both apothiromantic and apothisexual, aka romance and sex repulsed

Now the thing is, to me romance and love (the noun not the verb) are not the same thing

They can have similar aspects, and they often intertwine ... But they are not the same

Thus why I am apothiromantic while having been in a relationship

Because it started as a friendship and then evolved to love

Not romantic or platonic love

But a secret third thing ... Something that we like to call

✨ queerplatonic✨ (or if you're into the Greek words for love like I am, it's a nice combination of philia and agape)

I like that word because to me it's a word that fits the individual's definition of it instead of it having a particular definition of its own

And by that I mean its whatever you need it to be. It's a catch all ... A word for when you have no words

Because if I were to say "I'm in love" or "I'm in a relationship" most people would assume it's sexual or romantic ... And my relationship was not either. It had some aspects that are typically associated with a romance, but not romance itself.

In modern society love is synonymous with sex and romance ... And to me, at least, that is not accurate

Love is a deeper form of friendship, it's based on trust and understanding and fondness ... A knowing of the souls rather than of minds

And I would describe romance as infatuation, butterflies in the stomache and giggles. It's kissing and cuddling and holding hands and going on dates.

Romance often can lead to love, but it doesn't always ... And it isn't a required first step to get to love.

Now don't get me wrong I'm not saying any of these (love, sex, or romance) is objectively any less or more valid than the other. Whatever the individual prioritizes or desires is perfectly acceptable. If you want a sexual relationship with no love or romance, go for it. If you want romance without sex or love, knock yourself out. Any combination or lack is valid if that's what is best for you, none of them are inherently better or worse.

But to me they are all very different, and as an aroace that can be kind of alienating and lonely given that society tends to lump them all together, and there aren't a lot of aroaces voices out there talking about it.

So this is for all the lil aroaces out there that can relate. I see you, and you're not alone.

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crystalsandbubbletea · 1 month

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*Slams fists on a desk three times*

What's the point of planning the takeover of Europe for the AroAce Spec Empire if I don't live in Europe?

How am I gonna know the layout? When to strike? The defenses?

Fortunately, I am eyeing a European country to move to that I think will be a tactical advantage for the AroAce Spec Empire...

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crystalsandbubbletea · 1 month

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Me: *Posts a suggestion for a new acespec tag because bots made the main tag unusable*

The realization that I should have thought about anon hate:

#Fellas I am literally disappointed in myself for not thinking about it #asexual #acespec #acespec mafia #ace spectrum #asexual spectrum #asexual spec #asexualspec #ace spec #asexualspectrum #acespectrum #crystalsandbubbletea #crystals guilt #crystal guilt #bubble tea guilt #bubble guilt #tea guilt #rian guilt #Screw that anon... I hope their car gets a flat tire and they wake up an hour late to everything

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crystalsandbubbletea · 1 month

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Well fellas, I gotta say this:

So yesterday I made a post about how bots made the asexual tag unusable, so I suggested a new tag called "acespec mafia".

This tag was meant to be like the "alphabet mafia" label, and it was also the only thing I could come up with at the time.

I had no intention of that post getting so many notes, or for people to actually start using it, as it was merely just a suggestion.

So when I woke up and checked my Tumblr, I was surprised to find out that acespec mafia was now a tag, and that my post about it got a lot of notes, and that people were even promoting the tag.

However, I did not think about this one thing, and that would be anon hate. I did not even think about it until I got an ask about how a user received an anon hate message for using the tag.

I feel entirely responsible for the thing, as it is entirely my fault for suggesting the acespec mafia tag. If I hadn't made that post, the anon hate message probably wouldn't have happened.

I sincerely apologize to the user who got the anon hate, and to everyone else.

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crystalsandbubbletea · 1 month

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You mean to tell me that there are people that want to be in a romantic relationship with someone and want to do the devil's tango with someone before developing a close emotional bond? 👁️👄👁️

This post is just me being a baffled Demisexual and Demiromantic, lol-

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