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avpd culture is internal anxieties becoming accepted certainties then eventually irritants. ('my friends may not like me very much?' eventually turns into 'my friends hate me.' which then turns into 'well can they stop pretending to like me. this is irritating. why are we dragging this out if you don't actually like being near me.') avpd culture is also, in that case, having to occasionally do a net reset where you remind yourself that you made literally all of that up, and no, your friends who like interacting with you are not demons sent to torment you. you just have friends. they like talking to you. it's pretty normal. hardly a hard concept to grasp, honestly.
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ceduralshinji · 11 months
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xp / [x]p
a catchall term for safe persons, equal persons, favorite persons, etc.
how do i use it?
ex: my xp went to the store today.
ex 2: today, my [x]p drew something!
who can use it?
everyone with a personality disorder! it was mostly made for anonymity purposes, beings with PDNOS, and beings with PD-TS, but it can be used for other purposes.
this is not a gender, do not tag as such.
don't repost <3 ask before adding to wikis
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astrangerthatlovesyou · 5 months
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“It’s okay to not be okay”
Unless it impacts your work performance…
Or your grades
Or how you act
Or if it causes you to say no
Or if you’re harder to be around
Or if you need time alone
Or if you talk about it
Or show symptoms
“It’s okay to not be okay”
Unless you have trauma
Unless you have one of those “scary” mental illnesses
Unless it inconveniences me
Unless you’re undiagnosed
Unless you cry or scream or make a scene
Unless you don’t keep that shit to yourself
Unless you make me uncomfortable
Unless I can’t infantilize or fetishize you
Unless you have hallucinations
Unless you have psychosis
Unless you get angry
Unless I think you’re cringe
Unless you can’t preform hygiene tasks
Unless you’re disabled, or trans, or gay, or not white, or fat, or AFAB, or intersex, or a man… so I guess anyone
“It’s okay to not be okay”
As long as nobody ever finds out.
Our society has a severe issue with performative activism, and mental health is a huge example of this. Every time someone considers reaching out, they run through this list mentally. This is why true activists and resources need to be loudly supportive of all the things on this list. Take the subtext out of your support.
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familiarplacedisc · 1 month
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dailydivergent · 1 month
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Neurodivergent reminder: Overstimulation feels a lot like anxiety, and understimulation feels a lot like depression.
More importantly, you don't need to know which it is to practice self-care.
Self-caring anxiety and overstimulation looks the same:
Recognize you're feeling big feelings
Take as many deep breaths as your need to slow your mind
Identify what’s causing the feeling, whether sensory, environmental, or situational
Minimize that cause as much as possible immediately
Self-caring depression and understimulation looks the same:
Recognize you’re in need of stimulation
Turn on an interesting long-form video of some kind
Do some quick exercise like a walk or jumping jacks
Call a friend that'll let you infodump
If you're neurodivergent and easily get stuck on labelling things — I see you.
I'm here to remind you that you don't need to know what it is to take care of it in the meantime.
You can — will — figure it out later.
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avpdpossum · 1 month
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me: i know they’re you’re friends and they’re really nice but that just makes them even scarier because i really want them to like me and would be genuinely devastated if they didn’t so it’s just easier to never engage with them and endlessly wish i was friends with them without ever risking being rejected by them even if that means i never actually get to be their friend. like sure, strangers are scary too, but they’re easier because i’m not super invested in whether they like me or not. the people i already like? those are the most terrifying people ever. you know what i mean?
my boyfriend, who doesn’t have avpd: no. no i do not know what you mean. that is literally the exact opposite of how my social anxiety works. i can’t even imagine how that would feel.
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saffigon · 9 months
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shoutout to aros wPDs
shoutout to cluster a aros. shoutout to aros wPPD. shoutout to aros wSTPD. shoutout to aros wSZPD
shoutout to cluster b aros. shoutout to aros wASPD. shoutout to aros wBPD. shoutout to aros wHPD. shoutout to aros wNPD
shoutout to cluster c aros. shoutout to aros wAVPD. shoutout to aros wDPD. shoutout to aros wOCPD
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solitaryschizoid · 9 days
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neurotypicals be like if you have a personality disorder you're either a Cluster Asshole, Cluster Bitch, or a Cluster Cunt
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jesterloverbastard · 3 months
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your f/os accept the fact that you have a personality disorder
your f/os are willing to give supply if you ever need it, even when you don't directly ask for it
your f/os are understanding and try to help u throught the recovery proccess
your f/os understand when u have a crash or breakdown, your f/os are willing to give u space, hear you or just whatever that makes ya feel the best
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npdemu · 3 months
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if you're self-destructive, i love you
if you're forced to hide yourself from the world, i love you
if you're considered off-putting, i love you
if you've been unintentionally harmful, i love you
if you're considered "crazy", i love you
if nobody believes you when you describe your experiences, i love you
if your thoughts scare you, i love you
if you've been turned down by professionals, i love you
if you've been called lazy for struggling, i love you
if you've wished to struggle more so that your pain would be seen as real, i love you
if you're made fun of or called "edgy" when you talk about your feelings, i love you
if people assume you'll hurt them when you tell them your diagnosis, i love you
and anyone else i missed; if you feel betrayed by the world, i love you
i see you, i support you, i love you
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k9emote · 21 days
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audience test
How many disorders do you match with me
NPD
ASPD
STPD
ADHD
AUTISM
SENSORY PROCESSING DISORDER
MAN LOVING MEN (the worst one)
C-DID
C-PTSD
DYSLEXIA
LIKES PICKLES
BIPOLAR / MANIC DEPRESSION
GENERALIZED ANXIETY DISORDER
SELECTIVE MUTISM (fluctuates)
HYPER MOBILITY DISORDER
RESTLESS LEG SYNDROME
INSOMNIA
HCD (huge cock disorder. contagious so I have to be quarantined)
(all medically recognized. don't come @ me because I'm a fucked up guy) ((huge cock disorder is self diagnosed but you have to believe me))
this was actually a very vulnerable post to make but I want ableists to block me and we should not be ashamed to be disordered
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avpd culture is trying to participate but then someone responds and then u just cant participate anymore
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ceduralshinji · 11 months
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[ID: a rectangular flag with 8 equally-sized horizontal lines. colors in this order from top to bottom: dark pinkish red, dull red, red, light red, light purple, purple, blue, and darkish blue. End ID]
NPD + AVPD Solidarity flag, inspired by the similarities between me and my friend (revenant-coining / cam) with AVPD.
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astrangerthatlovesyou · 9 months
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Having AvPD is like: I’m so open, everyone knows everything about me. That’s terrifying, everyone must hate how much I share. God I feel so exposed I feel sick. And the last time you opened up to someone was October of 2021 when you told your mom you were a little stressed.
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gay-jewish-bucky · 11 months
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cluster a and cluster c culture is constantly being left out of conversations about personality disorders while still facing intense stigma and social isolation for your symptoms :/
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cupboard-of-npd · 2 months
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Some of you think bpd is the only pd and it rly shows lmao
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