#externalvalidation

[zenwords]

Your Healing Elevates the Relationship If you allow the blocks within you to remain as they are and the wounds you carry to fester, then it will become easy to fall into a cycle where you are always looking for external validation. And that same lack of self-awareness will make it easy to constantly project the roughness that you feel onto others, especially those closest to you. Self-love is the missing piece in many relationships. This is why some of the most beautiful relationships develop over time and are spurred into evolution when both people realize that they have a lot to heal within themselves. — Yung Pueblo, from the book Lighter #healing #wounds #externalValidation #selfAwareness #selfLove #yungPueblo #lighter https://www.instagram.com/p/CjS26t5uMJw/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#healing #wounds #externalvalidation #selfawareness #selflove #yungpueblo #lighter

[daffodilrays]

Cracking The FEAR OF FAILURE Code

The fear of failure is a universal experience. That nagging voice in the back of our heads whispering doubts and anxieties whenever we face a new challenge or audacious goal. This fear can be a real roadblock, preventing us from taking risks, pushing boundaries, and reaching our full potential. But what if we could reframe this fear? What if we saw it not as a sign of weakness but as a natural…

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#embracechallenge #externalvalidation #fear of loss #fear of uncertainity #FearOfFailure #mindset #negative #selfawareness #unknown

[foodhealthandrelax]

Self-Belief: 11 Amazing Secrets to Unstoppable Confidence

Hey Tumblr Fam!

Guess what? I've dived deep into one of the most transformative topics: "Believe in Yourself: Unlocking Your Potential." This isn’t your run-of-the-mill pep talk. We're looking at the science, the psychology, and the real-world impact of self-belief. It's all about how our inner convictions influence our outer reality.

Understanding the power of belief has been such an eye-opener for me, and I can't wait for you all to embark on this journey of discovery too.

For those hungry for the full scoop, you can devour the entire article on

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Feeling inspired? Share it with your loved ones. Sometimes, a little nudge is all it takes to create a ripple of change.

Stay curious, and keep believing in your magic!

#selfbelief #confidence #personaldevelopment #selflove #mindfulness #goalsetting #selfimage #externalvalidation

[coachvee77]

Understanding Covert Narcissism: Fragile Self-Esteem, Blame Game, and Depression

Question from a reader: Why do covert narcissists who claim to love themselves get so depressed and blame everyone surrounding them for their misery? Covert narcissism refers to a subtype of narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) characterized by a more subtle and introverted expression of narcissistic traits. While it is true that covert narcissists may claim to love themselves, their…

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#BlameGame #Boundaries #CoachVee #CoachVee77Inc. #CopingMechanisms #Depression #EmotionalHealth #Entitlement #ExternalValidation #FragileSelfEsteem #Insecurity #LackOfEmpathy #MentalHealth #MentalHealthAwareness #NarcissisticAbuse #NarcissisticPersonalityDisorder #NarcissisticTraits #PersonalGrowth. Remember that hashtags are commonly used on social media platforms to categorize and discover content related to specific t #Projection #Psychology #SelfAcceptance #SelfAwareness #SelfCare #SelfDiscovery #SelfLove #SelfReflection #SelfWorth #Therapy #ToxicRelationships #Certainly! CovertNarcissism

[signaturreofsuccess]

External motivation comes from external rewards or pressures, while internal motivation arises from personal interests and values. External motivation relies on external validation, while internal motivation stems from intrinsic satisfaction. No need for external validation when you're fueled from within!

#motivation #values #satisfaction #externalvalidation #IntrinsicMotivation #PassionPowersMe #InnerStrength #businesscoach #coach #transformation

[pepperedwithstories]

Achieving Success: Redefining Having It All

It's easy to feel #Overwhelmed by #ExternalValidations. #AchievingSuccess is about being in the present, at peace with yourself! #Motivation #PersonalDevelopment #SelfAwareness #SelfGrowth #SelfImprovement #MentalHealth

Today achieving success is defined by “having it all“? Perfect career, supportive family and friends, bustling social life, and a well-curated Instagram feed. The whole world may perceive you as having it all when in reality you may be feeling like crap, breaking apart from within. It’s easy to get lost in the whirlwind of external validations. What Achieving Success Means to Me Growing up, I…

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#achieving success #dailyprompt #dailyprompt-1949 #everydayinspiration #inspiration #inspiration-2 #mental health #motivation #personal development #self awareness #self growth #self improvement

[yourgrowspace]

📢 External Validation 101 ⚠️ If you live to seek praise from others, you're handing them control over your life! 😵‍💫 This is a BIG one & especially in today's day and age. I have to check myself & catch myself slipping sometimes. Some forms of external validation are healthy. Especially when you're a child and you receive positive reinforcement from your parents. It becomes harmful when it's all you seek. ⚡ Here are some harmful examples: ➡️ You date someone based on what your family wants for you. ➡️ You pursue a career because society or your family will see you in a high regard. Not because you're passionate about it. ➡️ You overwork yourself to seek praise from your boss ➡️ You agree with everyone to be liked and considered a "good & nice" person ⭐ Ultimately, relying on external validations to define your self worth. ✅ If you resonate with this, you are not alone. Seeking praise can become a cycle easily. You may not even notice at first. Send me a DM if you'd like to start relying on yourself vs giving control to others. ----------------------------------------------------------------- #impostersyndrome #recoveringperfectionist #impostersyndromeisreal #socialanxietydisorder #socialanxietymemes #momlife #womenempowerement #bosswomenmindset #singlegirls #singlewomen #callherdaddy #selfhelpbook #selfhelpquotes #babyfoodrecipe #selfhelppodcast #confidenceiskey🔑 #confidencebuilding #selfconfidencequotes #peoplepleasers #insecurities #externalvalidation #plantlovercommunity #jayshettymeditation #brenébrown #callherdaddy #affirmationpositive #selfworthquotes (at Kitchener, Ontario) https://www.instagram.com/p/ClFVV8Asj-r/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#impostersyndrome #recoveringperfectionist #impostersyndromeisreal #socialanxietydisorder #socialanxietymemes #momlife #womenempowerement #bosswomenmindset #singlegirls #singlewomen #callherdaddy #selfhelpbook #selfhelpquotes #babyfoodrecipe #selfhelppodcast #confidenceiskey🔑 #confidencebuilding #selfconfidencequotes #peoplepleasers #insecurities #externalvalidation #plantlovercommunity #jayshettymeditation #brenébrown #affirmationpositive #selfworthquotes

[eric-sadahire]

I’m trying really hard to need less external validation.

How am I doing so far?

#moreorless #Imtrying #reallyhard #externalvalidation #goals #awkward #howamidoing #reciprocation #thirsty #progressreport #feedback #artoftheday #artist on tumblr #tumblarians #artwork #dailyartwork #outsiderart #lowbrowart #painting #acrylic #kunst #flomm #flommist #beercoaster #handpaintedbeercoaster #beermat #perspective

[asmit168]

External Validation: Our New Form of Currency

Love what this picture represents. Social media has caused us to place our worth in the external validation that we receive from our likes and followers.

#socialmedia #externalvalidation #followers

[egoxless]

To Be Dope #egoxless #newpost #linkinbio Also here 👇: https://www.egoxless.com/post/to-be-dope #dope #perspective #defineyourself #findyourmeaning #externalvalidation #irrelevant #egointegration #authenticity #multifaceted #bekind #staygoldenponyboy #loveadvocate #consciousblogger https://www.instagram.com/p/CKgkq9qhDJy/?igshid=f6hbv0vuz349

#egoxless #newpost #linkinbio #dope #perspective #defineyourself #findyourmeaning #externalvalidation #irrelevant #egointegration #authenticity #multifaceted #bekind #staygoldenponyboy #loveadvocate #consciousblogger

[justwords]

Darnet! So it looks like I don't qualify to apply for the National Endowment for the Arts (Creative Writing Fellowship) this year because I haven't been certified by enough publications (I think it's so weird that things work like that - you are only considered talented if certain other people say you are...) but I WILL NOT BE DETERRED!! I have a year to get published in "competitive literary publications" enough times for the government to risk backing me. But if that's what I have to do, then that is what I will do! I do not believe that art should be competitive or comparative, but I have been told by more than a few very smart and very talented people, that "I am one of the best in my generation." so it's time to put that shit to the test... #NeverGiveUp #NeverSurrender #ShowUpAndShowOut #StartTheClock #ShootAboveYourStation #FailAndFailFantastically #ExternalValidation Success is not a destination, but an ever evolving trust in yourself. #BetOnBlack

#betonblack #shootaboveyourstation #showupandshowout #neversurrender #nevergiveup #starttheclock #externalvalidation #failandfailfantastically

[ramyeonupdates]

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#selfworth #externalvalidation #favourites #updates #IG: join.a.groupchat

[somethingsabher]

Stop looking for external validation of love. You know love because you are love. You are the greatest love story ever written. ❤ . . . . . . #somethingsabouther #greatestlove #lovestories #externalvalidation #youarelove #youarethelovethatyouseek #Azblogger #blackbloggers #blacklove #lovestory❤️ #phxblogger #phoenixarizona #avondaleaz #blacklovestories #livingwithherpes #hallmarkchannel #bookstores #stahfamily (at Avondale, Arizona) https://www.instagram.com/p/Bx6YLfVnKiq/?igshid=9sllrt59fr0m

#somethingsabouther #greatestlove #lovestories #externalvalidation #youarelove #youarethelovethatyouseek #azblogger #blackbloggers #blacklove #lovestory❤️ #phxblogger #phoenixarizona #avondaleaz #blacklovestories #livingwithherpes #hallmarkchannel #bookstores #stahfamily

[pcrck]

Our noble hero reaches the oracle . #drawing #art #pinata #bobblehead #burro #pencildrawing #herosjourney #josephcampbell #externalvalidation #pleaselike #idontknowwhoiamanymore (at Silver Lake, Los Angeles) https://www.instagram.com/p/BscExFgBvlU/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=2iip8g5pz494

#drawing #art #pinata #bobblehead #burro #pencildrawing #herosjourney #josephcampbell #externalvalidation #pleaselike #idontknowwhoiamanymore

[tobidoyle]

#WTFWednesday #EchoLook The #Millennials BFF

#WTFWednesday #EchoLook The #Millennials BFF

Have you seen Amazon’s Echo Look now offers the ability to take selfies, video AND give you style recommendations? WTF? Have years of participation trophies now made it impossible for millennials to operate without external validation? I can see color blind people asking, Alexa, ‘what color is this?’ but honestly, I have never heard my color blind friend asking for help AFTER purchasing an item.…

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#Alexa #EchoLook #ExternalValidation #Millennials #ParticipationTrophy #Snowflakes #WTF #WTFWednesday

[drmarr]

The thing about big transitions... They make OTHER people uncomfortable. The countdown is on for some of the biggest, most exciting transitions in my life thus far (#75daysandcounting 😉) and what I’m being reminded of can be similar for anyone going through any major transformation in their life: Other people will judge you with the only filter they know how to - theirs. I can’t expect anyone to understand my perspective when I’m the only one who has had my experiences and wears my shoes (and has my heart... it dreams BIG!) And neither should you. Back to back posts as this relates to my previous post on knowing who you are, and not needing anyone else’s approval/external validation. #BeCinnamon #BeYou #Ownit Big moves often lead to big judgements. Remember this post. ☝🏼 ☝🏼 ☝🏼 #levelofperception #countdown #careerchange #professionchange #careertransition #75daystogo #75days #chiropractor #lifecoach #transitions #perspective #judgement #selfconfidence #confident #bigdreams #biggoals #bigchanges #change #externalvalidation #internalvalidation #bigthings #bigthingscoming #itshappening #successcoach #happinesscoach #internationallifecoach https://www.instagram.com/p/CTIzyycM0Dh/?utm_medium=tumblr

#75daysandcounting #becinnamon #beyou #ownit #levelofperception #countdown #careerchange #professionchange #careertransition #75daystogo #75days #chiropractor #lifecoach #transitions #perspective #judgement #selfconfidence #confident #bigdreams #biggoals #bigchanges #change #externalvalidation #internalvalidation #bigthings #bigthingscoming #itshappening #successcoach #happinesscoach #internationallifecoach