#they don’t know I’m asexual

[khytal]

I dreamed that I was playing mariokart and there was a track that took 3 days to complete and when I somehow managed to get 1st place a popup came onscreen that had a pic of koopa troopa and text that read “congratulations!! you’re gonna have so much sex” and I started laughing so hard I woke up

#khytal.ks #o(-< #they don’t know I’m asexual #(edit: they do now but a lot of people rb’d this without knowing lol)

[legendoftherisingtide]

did other aroaces ask their friends constantly what crushes and love were? or was that the autism.

#I annoyed my friends all the time by taking every opportunity to try to understand what emotions were. especially love #and I’m looking back on that and realizing that was probably a sign of somethimg #I just wanted to understand what the difference between platonic and romantic. and love and crushes and friendship #(honestly still don’t know the line tbh) #the rare og text post #aromantic #asexual #aroace #autism #arospec #aspec

[voidoffline]

Every song and ship can be platonic if you’re not a coward

#asexual #asexuel #how’s it spelled?? #aroace #aromantic #what are all the words for this I don’t remember #I’m apart of the a in the lgbtq+ community and I yet I still dont know all the labels lmao #it’s just so much to remember man #ace #ace pride

[fawndlyvenus]

You know what’s funny? How I can say that I headcanon a character as somewhere on the ace spectrum and/or aro spectrum, and within minutes I am being treated as if I am somehow very unintelligent and know nothing of the world.

#venus speaks #ace #acespec #asexuality #aro #arospec #aromantic #asexuel #Seriously tho let me live in peace #and bonus points for people trying to tell me – someone on the ace spectrum – that I don’t know what those really are #I’m just so damn tired of not being allowed to talk about and/or bring my own headcanons to the table anymore #And it’s also not just me. I see it everywhere and it’s honestly making me upset and uncomfortable as hell

[yourlocaltiredartist]

happy ace week!!

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#this is SO LATE #literally posting this on the last day lmao #i’m supposed to be taking a break but i had to do smth for ace week #so i just did one of those half-sketch-half-not pieces #ace week #asexuality #asexual #ace awareness week #i actually don’t know the tags for any of this stuff #art #digital art #crow does art

[spiralatic]

#SUGGESTIVE #suggestive warning #AHHHH SUGGESTIEVWNANRIING #AHHHHH #hi guys how are you #i’m normal about them #i would let him do unspeakable things to me #him like Michael or Jon?! why not both #okay sorry #I’m asexual I don’t know what is wrong with me today #tma #the magnus pod #the magnus archive fanart #the magnus archives #michael distortion #michael shelley #the magnus institute #doodle art #jonathan sims #jonmichael #digital art #digital artist

[betapopish]

new pfp i made bc i’ve lost control of my life (clay terran my beloved)

#ace attorney #artists on tumblr #aroace #asexual #aromantic #clay terran #dual destinies #the cosmic turnabout #fanart #ace attorney fanart #ace attorney fandom #artwork #art #also the aroace flag is for me #but also for him bc he’s just like me fr #(i’m projecting) #i still don’t know how to tag

[devilbimboy]

omg guys!!! aroace culture is when your mom asks you if you love her. She doesn’t ask this a lot but frequently enough to make you question everything. She doesn’t say “I love you”, but instead asks you if YOU love HER. She stares at you, oh god she’s staring, and expects you to say yes.

But you say nothing. You search so hard within yourself to know what love is.

“You don’t love me?” She asks with her heartbreak apparent in her voice.

So you lie and say yes.

But you keep searching in yourself a little more, a little harder. You’ve been staring at the floor for about 15 minutes now but you can’t muster up a good description of what love is.

Is love warm? Is love cold? Is love fluttery? Is love still? Is love everything? Is love nothing?

You don’t know, and you will never know. Maybe, you’re broken. Maybe, you didn’t come out right. Maybe, you aren’t human and instead a heartless monster.

There MUST be something fundamentally wrong with you because everyone else experiences love.

But you.

#aroace #loveless aroace #loveless #aromantic #asexual #queer #I’m not human enough to exist anywhere #sorry mom #I don’t love you #I don’t know what love is #I won’t ask for forgiveness #all I ask is if I’m still human to you #am I heartless? #am I a monster? #please tell me you still see me as your child

[badolmen]

Saw a post making fun of Asexuals in the year of our Good Vibes 2022 so a reminder:

The A stands for the Asexual community and spectrum (it also represents the Aromantic and Agender communities but I’m Asexual so I’ll be talking about that specifically in this post)

Celibacy is a choice to abstain from sex. Asexuality is a sexuality defined by a lack of sexual attraction to anyone, not by the choice to abstain from sex.

Every asexual person has different feelings on sex (an activity, not an attraction) - some are sex repulsed, some are sex neutral, and some are sex favorable. A physically pleasurable experience is not equal to an attraction to parties involved.

The Asexual community has been around since the dawn of the Queer liberation movement, and Asexual individuals have always existed.

Aphobia is real and has done tangible harm to Asexual people. Listen to and learn from their experiences.

If you make fun of Asexuals and their community jokes (dragons/cakes/cards) you are Aphobic. If you’re Asexual and you make fun of these aspects of your own community or consider them ‘cringe’ you have internalized Aphobia.

Sometimes teenagers and young people will identify as Asexual and change their label later in life. This does not mean that all young people who identify as Asexual will change their minds, nor does it mean that all people who identify as Asexual are young.

Seriously what do you people have against the dragons and cake jokes those are classic and hilarious please deconstruct why you have so much rage for harmless jokes that’s not a healthy response to silliness.

Anyways reblog this post if you’re Asexual, support Asexuals, or really want a dragon.

#edir:​that last point is not at other aces it’s at the aphobic post I saw #please don’t tag this as ace discourse it stresses me out those were dark times. we’re here to celebrate aces on this post <3 #yes I know it’s supposed to be sex favorable not positive I corrected the post hours after I made it. not my fault popular blog reblogged #the version w the typo #stop being weird and aggressive towards me in your tags I’m sorry my poorly worded 5 AM rage post got reblogged to your dash ig #ra speaks #asexual #asexuality #queer #lgbt #violence killing maiming biting etc. #i did not watch people who would evolve into modern t*rfs and g*nder critical blogs harass and suicide bait hundreds of blogs off this site #just to see it happen again #i am buff as hell I’ll kneecap you if I meet you irl #edit: #please be gentle in the notes I have the emotional constitution of a dog in an ASPCA commercial and also I don’t read tone well

[yusakiiiii]

The Crossovwr really was something. Here’s one of my favourite interactions. What’s yours?

Scott: I hate the gays!

*Joe Hills begins shooting Scott*

Scott: Joe I can say that! Joe I am gay!

Joe Hills: Okay, so not everybody has that context. My viewers don’t know that. I don’t know that.

Scott: I am very gay which is why I’ve said that Joe.

Joe Hills: That is a valuable bit of context to provide

Scott: I’m aggressively homosexual. I’m very aggressively homosexual Joe I thought everyone knew. It’s kinda my brand.

Joe Hills: There’s a lot of inter-audience cross pollination right now.

Scott: I did appreciate the aggressive nature you took right away though, that was a good ally.

Joe Hills: I do what I can.

Scott: I thought Joe when I said I’m gonna say the one slur I can you’d have picked up.

Oli: Did you say a slur?

Scott: No I didn’t. I said when Jimmy was copying me I was tempted to do it and then I said “I hate the gays” and then Joe decided to shoot me cos he didn’t realise I was gay. Even though I’m aggressively homosexual.

Joe Hills: I don’t have time to know every gay person!

If you want to watch this properly. Go to the 2:40:00 mark in this video: https://www.youtube.com/live/2heYeEOTqrw?si=a1urB22nQZZPq_tk

#mcyt #hermitcraft #minecraft #hermitblr #joe hills #joehills #joehillssays #scott smajor #i know empires season 2 ended 8 months ago but people still talk about 3rd life and that ended 3 years ago. i’m not obsessed trust me. #that previous tag was suggested to me when I typed in Empires so it has been used before. #dangthatsalongname #smajor1995 #smajor #aggressively homosexual #ally #hermitcraft crossover #empires crossover #hermitcraft 9 #Hermitcraft season 9 #hermitcraftseason9 #hermitcraft9 #Livestream quotes #“I don’t have time to know every gay person is precisely the reason that the most gay people are immortals who do have the time. #I mean look at Captain Jack and The Doctor. gay af #also Undead Unluck with Juiz and Victor existing before sex existed definitely being agender panromantic asexuals #Juiz and Victor know all the gays #go check out undead Unluck #oli orionsound #what other gay immortals are there? @ me your favourite queer immortals

[cloud-based-and-rainpilled]

Michael Sheen playing Aziraphale as cockhungry as possible VS the Good Omens fandom and Neil Gaiman and the Lord himself screaming for Aziraphale to be asexual

#aziraphale is asexual? oh. fucking watch me #u know aziraphale wouldn’t be this gay had it not been for him #‘cause he ships it for. 30 years #and is also physically incapable of not constantly shooting fuck me eyes at david tennant #my man put a kiss scene in his contract sksksksksk #good omens #good omens 2 #aziraphale #crowley #ineffable husbands #michael sheen #david tennant #i’m sorry ace enjoyers but he made his choice. interpretation and all that but. he chose gay and will fight to the death for it #the same man who has a haha just kidding unless blood oath with david tennant to work with each other #also he/him/his for the Lord because i think it sounds funnier #i think Himself should be capitalized but idc #also obvs it’s not the whole fandom who wants him asexual (i don’t lmao) #he really said ‘i fell in love with dr. who for the bit’

[highabovethecloudssomewhere]

I just read “Loveless” by Alice Oseman as someone who’s aroace and I am. Struggling.

I was expecting to love the book and I’m so, so happy to see aromanticism/asexuality in the public eye, but as far as the story/characters went I was really struggling. Maybe I’m too old for it but I found it… very lackluster. The characters felt deeply one-dimensional and I did not like the protagonist at all.

If any of you have read this book and really enjoyed the characters, I would love to hear more about it. Maybe I’m just missing something. But also if any of you have recommendations for LGBTQA+ media with engaging characters and an engaging story I would love some recommendations.

I also just watched Nimona for the first time and I absolutely adored it. Would absolutely recommend it to anyone.

#cloud rambles #book review #ish? I’ve been reading more lately #I really really really wanted to love this book #and I know a lot of people found it incredibly relatable #and there were a lot of times that I found it relatable too and the relatability of it isn’t really what I’m criticizing #I just didn’t like the characters #outside of being very very happy to see aromanticism and asexuality in the public eye acknowledged as a real identity #I don’t have anything positive to say about this book #and I really really really wish I did #negative review #I have no idea how to tag this #my thoughts line up well with the one-star goodreads reviews written by asexuals/aromanticists

[liquid-queer]

You know when you think for a really long time about how romantic and sexual attraction are a spectrum

And then you realize you’re like- romantically in love with your s/o?

Because, aroace is defined as “little to no” and I think I just realized I’m the little-

Anyways I had thirty minutes of pure adrenaline cleaning yesterday lol

#lgbt #aromantic #aroace #asexual #lgbtq #lgbtqia community #lgbtqia #actually aromantic #actually aroace #like I’m just referring to the romantic part of the aroace definition #and I know I’m still aroace #but no bc I was texting a friend of mine so panicked because I’m scared to tell my s/o #is this how allo people feel?!?!!!????? #dude it’s so weird #like I don’t this it’s platonic love bc it’s just DIFFERENT #I CANT EVEN EXPLAIN IT

[solangelofantotheextreme]

My (nonexistent) friends: “So are you gay or straight?”

Me an aro/ace: “…yes?”

#asexual #ace #Ace Memes #Asexual Memes #Memes #I’m sorry if I offended you #I just never know what to say when people ask me straight or gay #Like #I’m part of the community #But don’t like the opposite gender #aroace #aro/ace #Aromatic #aroace memes #aro/ace memes #Aromatic memes #Is this what bi people feel? #Confusion

[mad-raptorzzz]

Sometimes someone says something to me about sex or romance and I legitimately have to take a step back and remember that the majority of the world doesn’t think like me. And it seems so stressful always looking for a partner and then having to keep them happy. Then you’re with them for the rest of your life maybe? And there’s always that stress.

Then I go right back to my Legos, dragons, art work, hobbies, and cats without a care in the world.

#Asexual #aromantic #aroace #aroace pride #I know I’m not every asexual person #But this is just my experience #Like talking to someone about how they just really like sex but don’t have anyone to have sex with now and they’re all sad #Or how one of my coworkers has been at work a lot and his partner that does the same type of job is blaming him for not being home #Like girl you work at the same place you know where he is!!

[friendlycursedspaceotter]

Flagged an ad today in the ace tag

🎶doing my part🎶

Don’t really know what I’m doing but feel free to give tips and tell me what to look for?

yeah

fellow tag cleaners let’s go

#asexual #the great bot war of 2024 #I’m fighting the war on tumblr users on the side of tumblr users #also please help #i don’t know what i’m doing