bdsmess

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sorry about the blood loss. do you uh. want it back *holds out my red dripping hands awkwardly*

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not to be disgusting on the porn blog but i hope someday someone loves me enough to hold me and keep me warm

#i would maybe even give up a relationship with bloody noses and knuckles for this #and asking for both seems downright delusional #just … someone to sleep close to who really cares about me #i would never wait up for romantic love and fail to live #but it would be nice to share this life #nsft #nblw #nblm #nblnb #lgbt #queer #mine #queer nsft

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someone should be cumming in me just so you guys know. someone should be gripping my hips, fucking into me until they go still, twitching and jerking and dumping their warm load inside. i should be able to feel it. they should stay there as long as possible just to keep it in and when they pull out there should be a trail running down my leg, inside my ass and my thighs. and then they should be getting ready to push back in and do it again.

#breeding #br33ding #fr33 use #fr33 us3 #impregnation #mpreg #nsft #nblnb #mlm #nblm #nblw #gender neutral nsft #breed1ng #cumdrunk #c*md*mp #c*m

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anyway i just think we should talk more about how pushy subs can get and how we collectively need to be more mindful of doms’ boundaries. personally i’m a switch and i almost always end up domming bc of how thoroughly bottom-y so much of the queer/t4t dating scene is. like once someone finds out i can dom it’s just expected of me and i’m fucking tired of it, i shouldn’t have to work so hard to make room for the concept that i might wanna sub sometimes too (which pretty much never gets followed up on), but that’s not even the part that bothers me the most

it bothers me that people don’t seem to realize it’s not only on the dom to assert their boundaries, it’s also on the sub to check in sometimes, to read body language, to read tone, to make an effort to cognitively empathize with the dom and what they’re going through bc domming can be really intense, psychologically and physically. i know so many people/posts romanticize the idea of being so deep in subspace that you can’t even think or talk and only the dom has to worry about anything and sure, that can happen w a lot of trust and consent and communication and be a good experience for both parties, but it’s so sinister to me that it seems to be the starting expectation so much of the time. it’s good in fantasy but in reality that is way too fucking much responsibility if you don’t already have well negotiated boundaries and deep trust. imo that expectation should never be the starting point

like sex and kink (can be) deeply intimate and intense things to share with other people and you should give a shit if you’re making someone uncomfortable!! subspace does not free you from the responsibility of how you’re treating the people you’re sharing those intimate dynamic/actions with!! subs should care about their doms’ boundaries and consent!! consent to be put in a dom position should never be assumed!! domming, just like subbing, should be something earned through trust!! i am so fucking tired

[bdsmess]

Suehiro Maruo’s depiction of Saint Sebastian

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I’m just very into being bros who fuck. Like guys who are just friends with no particular romantic connection we can discern, and maybe one or both of us still believes we are heterosexual, but we have passionate sex with each other as an outlet. Bite me hard while you cum inside me man I don’t mind. You know you want to, you’re my best friend. This is what best friends do. Don’t you want to fall asleep afterwards in my bed with your softened cock in my ass? And then I can wake up in the middle of the night to you making little noises and rocking in and out of me while I’m only half awake until you fill me up again and then you pat me on the shoulder to signify your appreciation and go back to sleep and we do it again in the morning? And I put my boxers and my jeans on with your spend still deep inside me, dripping out steadily throughout the day when I can’t clench down hard enough to hold it in? Yeah that sounds normal and kind of comforting dude. Of course this is platonic. I crave you inside me because we’re such close friends and I really appreciate you.

#bonus points for uh like breeding? #i just really want to knock you up bro sorry #i can’t help it it’s just in my brain #hold still hold still ill be done in a second #we’re best friends we don’t need condoms #wwwwhhh sighhh #mlm #nblm #mlm nsft #nblm nsft #nblnb #nblnb nsft #freeuse #fr33 use #fr33 us3 #somno #s0mno #s0mn0 #straight to gay #nsft writing #marking #mine #mdni

[bdsmess]

If youre being tortured you might as well get turned on by it

#this is literally my mindset #like how are they going to react if i just start moaning #why dont more people do that #jokes on you im into that shit fuckhead #what now

[bdsmess]

i wouldve thrived as a monk who masturbated to the image of jesus' side wound

#hierophilia

[bdsmess]

the way dicks twitch when theyre cumming? is the hottest possible tbing im a huge slut for that

[bdsmess]

REBLOG IF YOURE A FAN!!

iwhipmen @g mail.com

#marks #impact #corporal punishment

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#marks #blood #corporal punishment

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Good Girl

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#fight #blood

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When I say “breed me” I don’t mean a cream-pie. I mean I want to be fucked so rough neither of us can think straight. Animalistic, pure instinct. I want you to bury yourself as deep as you can when you come. Then I want you to stay there, plug me up, until you’re ready to go again. And I want you to fuck me with your cum still deep inside again and again and again and

#breeding #q