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I thought that I'd feel way more jealousy when I entered a poly relationship because of my fear of not being a major priority but god damn does my partner love their other partner so much. It's so beautiful that I feel like crying and making sacrifices in the name of their love. How can people be so cuuute? Maybe being a romance loving a-spec has something to do with it I don't know.

#polyamory #polyamorous #aspec #aroace #love

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the face of a woman who just realized her crush dragged her party through a bunch of dangerous bullshit just so he could have an excuse to talk with this other guy he is obsessed with, and he is not even gonna confront him about stealing their stuff because he wants the other guy to like him

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Crying and throwing up right now. Thank you😭

shoutout to acespec and/or arospec people who still feel some amount of sexual/romantic attraction btw. shoutout to everyone who isn't fully aro/ace and isn't fully allo. shoutout to the aspecs who feel like they don't fully fit in aro/ace communities or allo communities because of it. i love you all i am baking you cookies

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shitpost number 5 thousand

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sorry i cant hang out i forgot how to mimic human like behaviour

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"you do not owe friends instant responses to every social message, and anxiety over not receiving the same is something for the anxious person to work on, not your responsibility to totally change for"

AND

"you have to put some effort into friendships, which can include open communication with your friends about how to make both of you comfortable re: messaging. expecting other people to do ALL of the work ALL of the time, in terms of getting in touch and carrying on the conversation, may make them feel ignored and/or and leave"

are ideas that can and should coexist

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Autistic a-spec culture is treating a squish and a crush the exact same cuz you can't tell the fucking difference anyway might as well kick my feet and giggle for both.

#autism #aroace #aspec #alexithymia #squish #crush

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It's still kinda wild how Phineas and Ferb managed to completely hijack an idiom. Now whenever someone hears a sentence leading with "If I had a nickel for everytime [...]", odds are their brain auto fills with "I'd have two nickels. Which isn't a lot, but it's weird that it happened twice," rather than "I'd be rich," or "I could [action that requires purchasing something requiring an obscene amount of money]". Y'know, what the idiom originally was

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RESPECT ALL ASPEC IDENTITIES EVEN IF YOU DONT UNDERSTAND THEM

Get this message onto everyone’s dash rn

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I'm demi and aroflux but any who my fellow demis did not warm me that when the romantic part of the demi would happen I'd be an utter simp.

Like wtf is this behaviour even??😭

#aroace #aromantic spectrum #demiromantic #demisexual

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As someone with an adventure time special interest and a dungeon meshi hypertension. Yes.

#dungeon meshi #delicious in dungeon #chilchuk tims #marcille donato #laios touden #adventure time

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There's nothing quite like describing ao3 smut to wattpad reader😂

#ao3 #wattpad #fanfic #fanfiction