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Sara Teasdale, from The Collected Poems of Sara Teasdale; "Song,"

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Stop allowing people who are not as smart or wise as you to control your life - this quote I heard from the WizardLiz shook me to the core because it is so true. Have you noticed how the majority of people in society cannot think for themselves? How they need to get their information from infographics on IG pages and celebrity stories? How they don't know hwo to properly read a study and understand the nuances of complex subjects? How they go along with whatever the culture and social media deem as important at the time, and how they never dare to go outside of the narratives of their communities think?

Most people are indeed really dumb, and this touches upon my previous post on prioritizing relationships with people who are intellectually similar to you or who are better educated. When you keep immature and intellectually deficient people around you you allow them to influence you and steer you in the wrong way. As Liz said, why would we allow people who are limited in their understanding of the world to dictate how we approach life, how we think, what things we do, etc.? You do this when you take advice, emulate their habits and behaviors, and force relationships with these people.

You will release so much stress in life when you understand why so many people think and behave the way they do and why it's not up to you to relate to them or be a part of their crowd. You realize the expectations of them cannot be the same as yours when they are not on the same level mentally. It's freeing.

#truth #things ive learned #musings

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The relation between nature and human being: Agnieszka Lepka

#skin #photography #agnieszka lepka #parallels #the relation between nature and human being

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when kosinski wrote “i’m sure there are aspects of my personality buried within me that will surface as soon as i know i am completely loved.”

#joseph kosinski #writing #beautiful #words #typography

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Shinichiro Saka

#nature #aesthetic #insp #landscape #japan

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Ladies the trick to success is to make it quite literally impossible to fail. Make it so that failure requires effort & success is the matter of natural course. I'll say this until you get it- success isn't a question of milestones, it's a question of systems. You are where you are because your current systems support that, change it and see if nothing changes.

So if you want to look elegant and classy donate all the clothes & shoes you have that don't look elegant & classy- then how will you look dusty? Even if you wanted to look dusty, how would you do that??? When the option isn't there?? Take away the option for failure so that you must work hard to fail. If you have no sugars or processed foods in your house then you literally have to leave and pay to be unhealthy. If you only listen to calming, positive music genuinely where will constant anxiety come from. If you don't even have social media how will you get addicted to it? You have to exert effort to be. Girl if you don't even have his number how will you call him? If you focus during class how will you fail? Literally how will you fail. How will that happen? If you have no alcohol in your house how will you get drunk? You must leave and pay for it, right? If you're eating right and getting your vitamin balance in check how high are the chances for diseases? Acne? Hormonal imbalances? Weight issues? Automimmune diseases? Mood swings? Like yes it can happen but let's talk statistics, how high are the chances?

The easiest path to success is to not even give failure a chance. Like, instead of working so hard to succeed you must work hard to fail. Success, love, is a consequence of systems- a matter of natural course- you're eating right so you look and feel great- a natural consequence. A matter of rather obvious course. You're studying so you pass. Matter of course. You buy the right clothes so you just always look put together, like always. Obviously. What other choice do you have? All your friends are girlbosses so obviously you're a girlboss? Duh. Literally what other choice is there? Even if you wanted to fail the choice to isn't there, and although the chance is never zero it can be beautifully close to zero, that's the goal.

Success is a matter of systems, love. Not milestones. You set in place systems whose consequences are what you want. Like if your study system is great genuinely how will you fail?

Take away the option to easily fail, that's the goal. Set systems that have literally no choice but to get you where you want, as a natural consequence rather than goals you're trying to superficially impose. Its not milestones, it's systems. Its- habits. Routines. Systems. Make some that make failure hard to get.

Success is seamless, love. Let it be.

#success is a matter of systems #success #reminder

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i made this blog in like 2019. crazy

#musings

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every day i get up and get hit by a car and get isekaied to work. then eight hours later i get hit by a car and get isekaied back home again. it sucks but my commute is really short

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Another book recommendation. Read this if you want to stop caring what people think, put yourself first and create the life you want. Once you stop putting other people before you by worrying about their criticism or approval, it opens you up to a lot of possibilities. It opens you up to you living your true life as your actual self. It takes courage to be your self, to choose happiness and it’s probably what you are missing that could change your whole life 🤍

#reading list

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How I sleep knowing I am not responsible for the version of me in people’s heads

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you actually don't have to go on dating apps to find girlfriends. many beautiful women are waiting for you on rocks out at sea

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Images that you would probably not see again @thoughtstherapy

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