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Congratulations! You are now a Magic-User!!

#pointy tongue pointy tongue #i want a long dragon-like tongue #might or might not make it harder to talk normally but ehhh

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Congratulations! You are now a Magic-User!!

#another one?? alright then #i’ll take the eyes twinkling like stars

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Congratulations! You are now a Magic-User!!

#damn there’s a lot of these polls #anyways. eyes like a fox

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Congratulations! You are now a Magic-User!!

#glowing eyes

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Congratulations! You are now a Magic-User!!

#color of my hair matches the color of the sky

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#currently on episode 165 #i’m making my way slowly through #i’ve been too distracted by tma and tmp recently to listen to it as quickly as i used to #welcome to night vale #wtnv #polls

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i drew young tamika flynn! it was just supposed to be a few simple sketches, but here we are.

#lovely!! #tamika flynn #welcome to night vale #wtnv

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Since the OP made their post unrebloggable (and blocked me. Both actions they are well in with their right to do)

I'm going to make my response it's own post because I think the point is important

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As someone who is autistic and has BPD and CPTSD and loads of trauma yes you sometimes need to change how you interact with others to keep people around

When I was 13 I hit the few friends I had when I was angry

I had to change that in order to keep those friendships

When I was in my early 20s if I was losing an disagreement with my husband I would threaten to kill myself. My husband told me it hurt him and was cruel and manipulative behaviour, because it was.

So I worked hard to change that to keep my relationship

It's easy to say "I shouldn't have to change for others" and that's true to an extent. You shouldn't change your interests or passions or dim your light. And you should have space to be imperfect and flawed and not have to pretend your ugly bits aren't real. But if something you are doing it causing other people harm you kinda need to change that.

That's called "living in a society"

People adapt to each other and make space for each other in their lives. You adapt to them and they adapt to you

You start being more diligent about throwing away the empty toilet roll because it really bothers them. They start warning you before they run the blender because you hate loud noises

I stopped threatening to kill myself because I was mad I was losing an argument and my husband stopped being so vocally judgemental amount media he personally dislikes

There is a certain type of person who heard the phrase "your emotions are valid" and took that to mean "my emotional reactions and my behaviour are always objectively correct because my emotions are valid and if you have an emotional response or react to what I'm doing negatively then you are wrong and you can't be hurt because my emotions are valid"

And that's a recipe for disaster

Your emotions are valid to feel. They are how you feel and there are reasons you feel the way you do

However, your reactions and behaviour are something you can learn to control and can be irrational

We live in a society and we as people change each other as we interact and that isn't necessarily a bad thing

#mental health #suicide #tw suicide #cw suicide

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human anatomy (neon scribble vent art my beloved)

#the VIBES on this thing are IMMACULATE #*how* does this not have more notes #eyestrain cw

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goretober 17 : hollow

#WOAHHH

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One gripe I have with the tma fandom is that they will not stop sexualizing Jon aka the ONE asexual character and then be like “Well asexuality is a spectrum! Asexual people can have sex!” Which yeah, true, but they say Jon doesn’t period. Literally the direct quote is like “Oh yeah Jon doesn’t at all.” AT ALL. Now stop writing/drawing that man having sex so fucking much

#asexual #jonathan sims #the magnus archives #tma

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jean valjean: can anyone help me get this cart off this guy

everyone in the area: sorry can't lift a cart on my own

jvj: no literally help me out i will pay you

javert: i can't believe you would expect people here to lift this cart all alone it's impossible only this one specific guy in all of france could possibly do that

jvj:

#sobbinggg #les miserables

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People have told me they like how I do poses so here's how I think about them

(just rediscovered this "tutorial" from 2021 which I didn't post here. these aren't rules, I try not to use absolute wording)

#drawing

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“Thinking about compression from a side view”

Source: Anime Private School on Twitter

#drawing

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it really is so uncomfortable being a trans man in cis centric conversations of feminism. I just wonder. do they know about people like me? do they care? if I brought it up to them, how would they react? Do they expect me to be their human shield?

#queer #important

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#ooh another one of these polls #high fantasy elf outfit

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found this art instillation on campus- reminds me of some certain guys who may or may not be stuck in a computer

#the magnus protocol #tmp #the magnus protocol spoilers #tmp spoilers