#Am I being cruel here???

[frigga13]

Why is nobody taking the opportunity to make fun of Zuckerberg's wardrobe at an Indian billionaire's son's 'pre-wedding' weekend??

The man only wears grey and today he showed up in this for a jungle themed event.

#Mark Zuckerberg #India #Ambani #funny #lol #lolz #Am I being cruel here??? #Meta #Facebook #Instagram #Zuckerberg

[bonefall]

wait, why can’t a decent amount of the members in proto-thunderclan not hunt?

A lot of them have serious physical disabilities! It's enough that it poses a logistical problem, which they are committed to overcoming together.

Thunder Storm's three legs makes him slower than his companions. He's ferociously powerful, but like a male lion, he has to rely on his "lionesses" to slow a large animal.

Bright Storm has asthma from her heroics trying to save SkyClan cats from a fire. She's taking that from Gray Wing, who is famously the first major death now. Like her son, she has a difficult time with chasing prey.

Bumble is dyspraxic. She's a terrible hunter and fighter and struggles with self-worth because OTHERS used it to dehumanize her, and continues to, even after an entire society forms out of love of her.

Sunlit Frost has permanent nerve damage in his arm from the fire, and ends up working so hard that it makes his disability worse. A bite on the good paw from Snake becomes infected after he refuses to sit out from digging graves after the First Battle; I am planning a chunky B-plot about Sunlit coming to terms with the fact he has to retire early.

That's FOUR major members of a small group with physical disabilities that make hunting hard or impossible. They have a lot of logistical problems that I will actually be exploring solutions to.

#One of the solutions will probably be a hog hunt which I'm excited for #As there's a bunch of things each person can do to help with that #It's really such a shame that canon is so hyperfixated on disabled cats feeling like they 'need to be useful' in a very well established-- #Society where they CAN just be comfortably cared for #It frustrates me that the series keeps portraying that as a Good Thing and not either a tragedy of self-worth OR an exploration of-- #SOCIAL ableism. #So for BB!DOTC I'm going to try and take aim at both #Ok then; let's TALK about a small underdog group who needs its members to contribute #And let's talk about how even THIS little group INNATELY values its members. How that is good and natural #And how there's NO excuse for the bigger group to be so cruel. It's not neccesity. It never was. It was spite. #Thunder Storm says 'The point of having a group at all is to care for each other. NOT to have it serve you.' #Man really comes out here like FROM EACH ACCORDING TO HIS ABILITY. TO EACH ACCORDING TO HIS NEED #And I am trying to think of how to stress how MUCH food SkyClan has. Like how I'll show that... #I'll definitely need to make sure to set up a lot during the time Thunder Storm is Clear Sky's acolyte. #Btw does that sound like a good word? Trying to figure out what Tribe cats call their apprentices #Because fuuuuck no I'm not calling them To-bes

[autistic-beshelar]

ah yes dungeon meshi, the manga where an autistic man gets repeatedly bullied by people he thinks are his friends and not a single person supports him

#dont get me wrong i am enjoying this manga #but i'm failing to see how this is some great amazing autistic rep #like yeah laios is obviously autistic #and the struggles he has due to his autism are VERY relatable #but it's deeply uncomfortable that even the people closest to him are routinely awful to him #specifically for his autistic traits #and their bullying is almost always a joke #not a single person defends him #literally senshi is the only character that's never been cruel to him #well and farlyn but lbr she's also autistic and also has been in like half a chapter that ive read so far #maybe ive just not read far enough or not seen enough posts #but im not understanding why the fandom are treating it like amazing autistic rep and how it understands us so well #you could argue that the narrative tends to support laios's methods and way of thinking #but nothing else does #the scene with shuro was fucking awful to read tbh #'you're so annoying because you're autistic. how dare you think im your friend when you should have just guessed that i hated you' #and not a single person defends laios #or calls shuro out on what a fucking horrific way of treating a party member that is #like i dont know MAYBE you could have just said 'hey i don't really want to be friends' #maybe you could COMMUNICATE. #but no it's the autistic man who's the problem. for the crime of.... being too nice. #i don't have a problem with the scene. #i have a problem with the fact that shuro is framed as reasonable here. instead of utterly fucking vile. #i have a problem with none of the other characters sticking up for laios. #dungeon meshi #maybe ppl will start treating him better #i would like to continue reading #but if he continues getting bullied in EVERY fucking chapter as a 'joke' then idk man

[ef-1]

girlhood

#i have to fly out to capetown to see mother and im literally debating if i could land in the morning and leave at night on the same day #like. anything longer than that is going to ruin my year. #when she called and did her “katherine. you have to be here on the 10th” i literally sobbed in my bed for the rest of the day 😍😍😍 #not dyeing my hair black for a year and its getting lighter and lighter everyday and i look like her again #and my therapist telling me “you need to do things for yourself.” but like can i? sorry that woman traumatised me and i actually cant :) #like everything i do is informed by her #I'm going to go and just like everytime the only way to keep my sanity is to mirror her. talk and sit and speak and read and eat like her #and its such a terrifying experience bc i remember that im capable of emulating her viciousness and maybe i am my mother's daugher 🤢🤢🤢 #and im going to come back and its going to take fucking months for me to feel like myself again #“oh you look so beautiful just like your mother” i hope you DIE lol !!! the fact that my conception of beauty was shaped by her #growing up with this cruel beautiful detached woman and realising that at the intersection of beauty and wickness is a lifetime of pain #and still being so desperate for her approval- for any metaphysical proximity to her that i felt elated when #people would tell me i look like her. that it meant i was also beautiful like her and maybe she'll love me a little for it #but now i know for a fact that i do look like her and it makes saliva swell under my tongue - that moment right before you throw up- #when people mention it 😍 #last time i was in capetown my optic neuritis flared up (and i know for a fact it was that it was ms-stress related from having to see her) #and i thought i hid it so well even though i had near constant headaches & lethargy until she said “katherine give me the red notebook” #and i knew that she knew all along. it was so acutely humiliating standing there and knowing she knows i cant see which one is the red one #and she tilted her head and said “whats the matter? do you not know what red looks like?” #im never going to have kids. my mother and i read eachother so well it can only mean im never too far removed from becoming her #lol!!!!!!!!!

[crabussy]

I want to take a bite out of someone's arm but I'm too shy

#it's ok to reblog this post and ignore the rant in the tags I don't mind at all /gen #hi guys #got another load of trauma from school #and I am not dealing with it well at all my legs have been shaking so badly for 4 hours now #had a panic attack so bad that my face went numb and the edges of my vision went black and my legs gave way #I hate my teacher she's horrible god I can't even go into it here there's so much #I'm tired of getting abused at school I've been to half a dozen schools and have not gotten traumatised at ONLY ONE OF THEM #I have no adults I can go to about this #whenever I try to talk with her and the head teacher about the situation and why I'm fucking terrified of her she acts so patient and kind #whenever I'm alone with her she will yell at me about everything I'm doing wrong and continue yelling even when I'm in tears #she will berate me and put me down and insult me directly #when she gives feedback she always puts effort into making it hurt #the language she uses for negative feedback is never what a teacher should say it's always personal and uses your weaknesses to hurt you #I get really bad intrusive thoughts about her hurting me physically because of how terrified I am of her #the worst part is she acts nice and sweet whenever she's not picking apart my weaknesses and being cruel about my disabilities #I felt so sick after that I haven't eaten since #vent tw #trauma tw #listen to my gibberish boy #ggod I hate this school

[bookwyrminspiration]

im getting she/girled (non-maliciously) and is it a big deal? no. but man am i Aware of it

#quil’s unholy underworld #grandpas here and he doesn’t get pronouns and gender things #not in a cruel way he’s just genuinely confused by it #and we’re not close emotionally or physically so. usually not. problem #and gender is whatever #but i am simply. very Aware that im not being perceived right #and my mom has slipped up once or twice too because he’s she/hering me #hers is also non-malicious #my parents ocasiónalo mess up every monthor so #it’s just. on top of being very girled rn #woof

[fluffs-n-stuffs]

"Do you not realize it? Do you... truly not see what this means?"

The next Destiny Bond update is in progress! ❄️✨ –> Check out the latest part here 🔷 –> New to the series? Follow from the start! 💜

#we back for the winter season bois :} ☃️ #got some Particularly Fun parts I wanna have done before the end of the year--that I'll hopefully have time to do over the term break !!! 💫 #it's actually so? insane? how we're nearing the end of the year already??????????????HUH #just a little over a week and some Ridiculous cramming I'll have to pull off (no thanks to past me sdskjfs) before I'm free for the holiday #I mean I'd--still have freelancing to do of course but without the looming dread of actively avoiding college responsibilities at least /lh #it's even more insane somehow looking back on when I actually started this whole comic that spiraled Wildly out of controlSKDJFNSDFS #to think that this all started from a prompt I had a few days after my birthday--into its own whole story I wanna see through is--- #honestly something I'm really proud of. something I'm really happy I got to do for myself since it's-above all a passion project if anythin #I'm a lot slower these days what with juggling my own mental crises here and there on top of work for sure #but I get to come back to working on this whenever I find myself feeling down or with some free time to unwind and it's--really nice 💖💕 #and we're still in the beginning I swear to god we're still so early I'm so sorry this is gonna take so longSDHFIUSHDNFKJSDHS #but it bears repeating how thankful I am to everyone who's joined along for this ride- who've been so wonderful and patient thus far #to know that even a handful of people out there tune in to this silly ol thing and are genuinely excited for its sporadic updates-- #--has been a definite highlight in what's been a- Ridiculously--almost comically cruel year (in ways I can't begin to express skjdfnsdfs) #and what with this holiday season being all about giving and gratitude---I want to emphasize on how thankful I am for all of y'all 💖💖💖 #I'll see what surprises I can sneak in to my schedule these coming weeks- the insanity of these following updates included hehee ✨ #Destiny Bond comicverse #mystery man eusine #eusine pokemon #pokemon #pokemon fancomic #pokemon gsc #pokemon hgss #comic wip

[specialagentartemis]

Reading Euripides’s “Hecuba” and it’s fascinating that he has Agamemnon, specifically, oppose sacrificing Hecuba’s daughter Polyxena after the war to appease/honor the demanding ghost of Achilles. The Athenian leaders, Neoptolemus, and, very prominently, Odysseus, convince the Greek forces to sacrifice Polyxena; Agamemnon seems to be the major voice opposing it.

Iphigenia’s name doesn’t come up, but Agamemnon’s resistance to sacrificing Polyxena even though Achilles demands it, Polyxena’s dignity in going to her sacrifice—it all evokes Iphigenia so strongly. A sacrifice of a noble daughter to begin and to end the war. Agamemnon’s sympathy and even kindness to Hecuba after Polyxena’s death makes me think he’s thinking of his own daughter sacrificed at the beginning of the war—and after ten years of this, ending right back where he started, in a way. His sympathy to Hecuba is extremely personal. He knows. He’s sorry.

#I mean he is still also explicitly named as going to Cassandra’s bed so he is also keeping Hecuba’s other daughter as a sex slave #So like. Agamemnon. He contains multitudes. #But one of those things is just Normal Stuff That Happens To Losers Of A War #And the other is a call for unnecessary blood spilled based on a ghost’s pride #I mean Euripides is also 100% sympathetic to Hecuba and Polyxena and casting the Greeks as being cruel here #whole passages about the cruelty of war-captive slavery as an institution #But. This was fascinating and striking to me! #I am an Agamemnon Hater™ and I think Clytemnestra was Valid but also. He’s thinking of his daughter too #The Trojan War is a tragedy for everybody. There’s a reason no one but Nestor had a happy and easy homecoming after everything they’d done #but it’s interesting to see Euripides clearly thinking that Agamemnon uniquely feels what Hecuba is feeling #And is kind to her in her grief #tagamemnon #Euripides

[feelslikegold]

ngl with the whole h****h tweet thing, i feel like some people are acting like it's 100% unprompted and missing a possible bit of context, so i am just gonna drop this here

obv i'm not trying to say she's exempt from criticism bc she's said and done some very icky things (including getting with a man in a long-term relationship like girl? saying that bc it's more relevant to this than the other stuff), but i will say some of the hate does feel slightly misogynistic. like that tweet was unprompted and just gonna do more damage than good. the whole idea of "sleeping ur way to the top" is just icky, and if that tweet is gonna do anything, it's just gonna fuel a victim complex and let misogynistic ideas stay in circulation so genuinely can people just ignore her instead of making the whole situation worse if the only thing they can say will just make the situation worse?

oh no absolutely like it’s just a mix of. I think logging off would benefit her SO much bc her tweets are only gonna spawn more weirdos like that person bc that person is clearly unhinged and unwell to speak to ANYONE like that, especially to someone who the person they idolize clearly loves…..stan twitter as a whole is disgusting tbh 😭

#I do not like hannah as a person even though I think you can grow from dumb shit once said at a young age #I just don’t really agree with many things #BUT the fans that stalk her twitter and send nasty ass replies like that clearly hate her for being sam’s gf 😭 it’s just so obvious that’s #the only reason #bc all of us on here may post tweets on our blogs to talk about with our small group of friends but i’d NEVER reply to one of her tweets #it’s cruel and also pointless…??? ignore her?????? it’s so easy to ignore her #she’s also not wrong about misogyny bc every single fandom hates every woman linked to their faves no matter who it is #I literally am already seeing people talk down about/criticize jenny and not only do we not know her we don’t even know if danny’s dating #her or not…..like??? it’s just such clown behavior and really gross #I do think hannah makes a lot of things worse but worse for her own self 🧍🏻‍♀️ #thanks for context though! I only saw her tweet on my fyp and was like 😐 #a lot of fans bitch about hannah blocking them but I absolutely would block every freak who talked to me like that

[userchappell]

#am i playing favoritism here? yes ofc why wouldn't I? #i also like being cruel (in a fun way. not a mean way obviously) #stalia #stelena #brucas #jeyton #scira #samcedes #jarley #jesstin #polls

[malikselfindulgence]

Morshid and Marek have a symbiotic relationship except instead of either of them gaining anything useful they r actively pouring toxic chemicals through the other's bloodstream

#they wouldn't survive without each other morshid's entire existence is a paradox #im here to take care of him but I have nothing but claws I can do nothing but hurt him #morshid has to convince himself this is for the best and he's fulfilling his purpose #marek loves morshid too much to call out his hypocrisy so they r just stuck in this loop #at least until morshid thinks critically about swk in terms of his own preception of himself and is like ohhhh my god #what the fuck am i doing #rudely awoken #they work on it ♡ wholesome family shenanigans [they almost tear each other apart] #thing about marek is he keeps saying he doesnt trust morshid and he hates him #he keeps saying morshid is being cruel and this isnt helping any of them #but she doesnt move from her spot . she doesn't try to stop any of it. she hopes and hopes and hopes against all odds #that this time will be different. she hopes that this wretched creature stuck in the past will change for her will grow soft for her #IM SO normal u guys ♡ morshid and marek my horrible terrible children #malik's rambles #ohidk why im not tagging these ocs i should actually wait #oc: Marek lmk #oc: Morshid lmk #shepherd duo

[princekirijo]

2024 might not be my year but it is gonna be the year I start treating myself with even a little bit of respect

#mark my words boy i WILL start self respecting #brought to you by some bullshit happened last weekend and ive been doing some thinking #self isolating convincing myself everyone secretly hates me it WILL stop i cant keep doing this to myself #and i will set boundaries as well!! even if im terrified of doing so!! fuck!! #on a serious note i am so so tired of being so cruel to myself i really can't keep living like this huh #ive been real quiet on here lmao (i think i actually have no idea if people perceive me as being quiet/chatty/whatever) heres why #this is all based on irl stuff btw i always feel i need to say that idk why #but yeah anyways i dont want to jinx anything but like for me personally the only way is up. right #i dont really have anywhere i can say this irl so i will tell the gay people on my laptop (affectionate) as usual lmao

[thursdayg1rl]

hate this DAMN household i will never excape

#on god i will kms if tomorrow goes bad bc i dontcare anymore actually #like idk i think maybe im a person who just isnt cut out for living sorry i just cant do it #everything makes me tired everything hurts i hate everyone everyone hates me lets just cut our losses. #will i really kms over the worst person in the world calling me 'very selfish and intentionally numb and cruel human being'. to be seen #of course i am intentionally fucking numb bc feeling anything here is a death sentence.. #yeah genuine posibility. like i know 'life gets better' or whatever but i dont think for me actually 👍🏼 #i think i will go from being sad and alone here to sad and alone somewhere else and i cannot actually live like this #ok need to stop crying so i can tell her im not going to school tomorrow

[starlooove]

It really pisses me off when y’all like. Meme-ify and defang hate groups to the point that y’all don’t take them seriously and then get confused when real shit starts happening. Like the way y’all’ve started talking about trump on this app makes my ass itch

#and Im not being holier than thou or whatever I fully admit I’ve joked about it too #but at some point we need to stop and reflect and realize these are real problems #like when u call desantis an idiot ur trying to prove u have some kinda power bc at least you’re not stupid #but then when he turns around and does shit that will get us KILLED here everyone’s confused and calling him stupid #like no this man is sinister #he is CRUEL #we need to start speaking accordingly #there are fucking Nazis marching here and everyone’s just calling them goofy #no this is a PROBLEM #you should be WORRIED #like fuck man #all this ‘taking them seriously gives them power’ rhetoric is cute and all but what does it do for the ppl going through it now #it’s easy for u to laugh and joke from Texas #and again I’m not gonna lie or pretend I’m a saint or whatever I do it too #I am making an active effort to change that #like whatever the ron desanctimonious shit was funny haha #but then remember that The people laughing along with you also want you dead #and they will Vote the man who said that into power to make sure you’re dead #like can we please get serious

[chipped-chimera]

I'm about to choke my entire country's government with my bare fucking hands.

#kerytalk #auspol #good news! I qualified for medicinal cannabis #bad news - I have to pay out of pocket for it and even though it's discounted through the study it's fucking expensive #thought I should apply for the disability payment since I currently qualify #but the fact is I have no clue if this will improve my condition enough to work a little in the next two years which now disqualifies me #I AM NOT PSYCHIC I DON'T KNOW #also that doesn't change the fact I have to pay #out of pocket #an insane amount for medication to just make my life /liveable/ #ok great if I can work #well what if working is only enough to PAY FOR MY MEDS AND NOT LIVABLE #WHAT FUCKING THEN #I'm sick of being under the boot of everyone else I just want to live my goddamn fucking life #without having to constantly bribe myself to stay alive because that's the reality here #the fact this is all because of damage that has been dealt to me by cruel people over the years fucking kills me inside #this has been a tag rant

[daisies-on-a-cup]

actually you know what if you make will's dad an abusive parent i cant say i trust you much

#maybe this is controversial maybe its not #but i am TIRED of this interpretation of will's dad being some crazy abusive alcoholic who made will's childhood miserable #it doesnt make much sense and its that same thing i have with ppls interpretation of certain dc characters and their skin color #like. tell me WHY you think will's dad was/is abusive toward him. tell me about how you imagine will's childhood #and WHY you imagine it that way #is it bc will grew up poor? is it bc of some 'white-trash' southern stereotype you have in your head? #like tell me honestly and frankly bc otherwise i cant understand the choice to make his dad that way #i will fight tooth and nail to defend the good-will-dad hc bc the inverse of that makes me mad #giving will some 'tragic' backstory that involves parental abuse is in no way the compelling narrative you think it is #it actually detracts so much from will's character bc the POINT of his becoming is that he has ALWAYS been this way #nothing MADE will the way he is and the show literally follows will slow acceptance of that part of him #he's not 'dark' bc of some abusive childhood. that's not the connection we need to be making here and inserting this #cruel disparaging narrative that will's dad abused him with the only subtext being they were POOR is so fucked up #will graham