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mogaiballs · 3 years
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Some of my old drawings I thought I'd post
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Avarumgender/varumgender doodles, about how many stripes they have. I seemed a bit passive-agressive in this but I really think the stripes look good.
Cuinwic doodle with a lighter.
(some of the) Xenogender orientation/relationship terms
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Rosgenere doodle with a thorny rose.
Revluvgender (sorry for making fun of kpop stans)
Lepidere doodle.
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Intensiflux, intensigender (intensigirl?)
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Grasserin art
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Draconix looking into a mirror and seeing a dragon. Based off the otherkin images where someone sees their kintype in a mirror or something like that, but instead they're surprised to see their kintype in the mirror
Feel free to repost these in a separate post or something, I don't really care about people using my art ^^
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xeno-aligned · 3 years
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hi, are there any xeno/neurogenders related to overthinking/being indecisive about your gender so you can't quite pin it down? maybe influenced by adhd/anxiety? i've always liked the term foggender but i'm not sure if it 100% fits
quite a few!
Pendogender: “Never being satisfied with your gender no matter how well it fits due to self-doubt, causing one to compulsively search and seek out something that fits even better. Gender perfectionism. This term is exclusive to neurodivergent people only, specifically coined with people with anxiety disorders, OCD, and OCPD in mind.
Xumgender: Never being satisfied with your gender due to constant self-doubt or identity issues, causing one to compulsively search and seek out something that fits as perfect as possible–to find “the gender” or “the one truth”–though one will never be found due to one’s neurotype, because words will never be able to describe it, and/or its own properties paradox itself. This frequent anxiety and doubt even causes this gender to feel imperfect to the individual.
Kynigender: A gender which is not able to be pinpointed due to the stress of the questioning process causing anxiety.
Genderinimicus: A sentiogender which describes a gender experience that cannot be fully felt/comprehended/understood because each time one attempts to mediate on their gender and determine what it does or does not entail/encompass, they feel a great sense of unease or anxiety, they begin to panic, or they become greatly distressed/distraught (including feelings of anger/frustration/despair) over not being able to make the determination. Note that this is not a distress that comes solely from uncertainty, but is a gender experience that necessarily involves an anxious/panicked/distressed sense of one’s own gender. The experiencer is therefore at odds with their gender, and this is the only thing they can know for certain, even if they can approximate what else their gender encompasses. This is dissimilar to questioning or quoigender because it necessarily entails a dissatisfaction with one’s inability to fully grasp their gender. It is NOT just “IDK my gender” or “my gender is IDK”; it’s “I’m disappointed that I don’t know my gender because some emotional barrier is in the way, but I’d still like a term that describes that experience.”
Varumgender / Avarumgender: A gender for a person who feels that, while many terms may be used to describe their gender, they don’t feel like identifying with them may be right for them–due to uncertainty, anxiety, or just neurodivergency in general. Alternatively, a term for use where many labels may fit, and one’s gender may fit all the criteria for these labels, but the traits are all static and never seem to overwhelm each other.
Nesciogender: A gender one is not completely sure of due to one’s neurotype disallowing a clear understanding of the concept, but has a vague sense of what it could be; i.e. nescioboy, nescioagender, etc.
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pride-color-schemes · 7 years
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Varumgender or Avarumgender
Varumgender or Avarumgender: A gender for a person who feels that, while many terms may be used to describe their gender, they don’t feel like identifying with them may be right for them–due to uncertainty, anxiety, or just neurodivergency in general. Alternatively, a term for use where many labels may fit, and one’s gender may fit all the criteria for these labels, but the traits are all static and never seem to overwhelm each other. “Varum” is the nominative, accusative, and vocative neuter case for the word that means “real” or “true.” One can add “a-” at the beginning (possibly) to mean “unreal” or “untrue” if they so wish, because varumgender/avurmgender can sometimes feel “fake” due to technically fitting so many labels. One can do with that as they wish.
Term coined by: @the-devious-faery
Avarumgender:
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[Image: 11 stripes, starting from dark pinkey-purple fading to white, then fading from light purpley-blue to dark purpley-blue]
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Avarumnonbinary:
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[Image: 11 stripes, starting from dark purple, to white, back to dark purple].
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Avarumgirl:
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[Image: 11 stripes, starting from dark pinkey-purple, to white, back to dark pinkey-purple].
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Avarumboy:
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[Image: 11 stripes, starting from dark purpley-blue, to white, back to dark purpley-blue].
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Designed by: @the-devious-faery
Color meanings: Unknown
Full pride gallery HERE! FAQ and “dictionary” of genders, orientations, and other related terms HERE. Send any questions to Ask-Pride-Color-Schemes!
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neurogender · 5 years
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I’m not sure if this would be a neurogender, but is there a term for someone who can’t quite figure out what their gender is due to always becoming panicky or distressed whenever they try to “look” at it? Thanks!
Here's some terms that might help! And yes, if the anxiety is part of an anxiety disorder, then it's a neurogender!
Xumgender: Never being satisfied with your gender due to constant self-doubt or identity issues, causing one to compulsively search and seek out something that fits as perfect as possible--to find "the gender" or "the one truth"--though one will never be found due to one's neurotype, because words will never be able to describe it, and/or its own properties paradox itself. This frequent anxiety and doubt even causes this gender to feel imperfect to the individual.
Pendogender: "Never being satisfied with your gender no matter how well it fits due to self-doubt, causing one to compulsively search and seek out something that fits even better. Gender perfectionism. This term is exclusive to neurodivergent people only, specifically coined with people with anxiety disorders, OCD, and OCPD in mind.
Varumgender or Avarumgender: A gender for a person who feels that, while many terms may be used to describe their gender, they don’t feel like identifying with them may be right for them–due to uncertainty, anxiety, or just neurodivergency in general. Alternatively, a term for use where many labels may fit, and one’s gender may fit all the criteria for these labels, but the traits are all static and never seem to overwhelm each other.
“Varum” is the nominative, accusative, and vocative neuter case for the word that means “real” or “true.” One can add “a-” at the beginning (possibly) to mean “unreal” or “untrue” if they so wish, because varumgender/avurmgender can sometimes feel “fake” due to technically fitting so many labels. One can do with that as they wish.
Anxiegender: A gender affected by anxiety.
Genderbruised / Bruisegender: A gender that is sensitive and hurts like a bruise whenever you explore the gender. This can be caused by trauma, anxiety, PTSD, OCD, or other related neurodivergencies. Over time the “bruise” feeling can heal but it doesn’t always heal.
Imnigender: A gender defined by anxiety. Not “your gender makes you anxious” so much as “anxiety is your gender”. Only to be used by people with anxiety disorders.
Kynigender: A gender which is not able to be pinpointed due to the stress of the questioning process causing anxiety.
Genderanxious: A gender that is undefined because the act of finding a label, or of having a gender, is a trigger for anxiety.
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gendersanciau · 5 years
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Arkasfluid: fluid between regisgenders Musicafluid: fluid between dodransgenders Monsfluid: fluid between volcanogenders Bellatrixfluid: fluid between erotogenders Coalafluid: fluid between terasgenders (named for the darkest known exoplanet) Algolfluid: fluid between maverique-type genders (anler, tragmat, etc) Gilesefluid: fluid between avarumgenders Carinafluid: fluid between temporagenders Oysterfluid: fluid between mnioct genders Rosettefluid: fluid between obligenders
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so i have no clue what my gender is, but im not really questioning in the normal sense. i just dont know if what im calling my gender is my gender, like i could be mixing up "what gender id like to present as" or something with my acctual gender. i cant really explain it. the closest match i could find to how i feel was a joke (Sng12ender: When you don't want to put labels on yourself because you're not sure what you actually feel like) sorry if it sounds like im joking im not i promise
Don’t sweat it, I definitely believe you. :) I’ll try and throw some labels that sound kinda like that and hopefully one will fit!
Pomogender: A gender where one denies or does not fit any labels for any particular gender. 
Arigender or Ariesgender: A complicated gender identity that you cannot explain or is very hard to explain. A gender that does not fit under any labels. An unfathomable gender.
Varumgender or Avarumgender: A gender for a person who feels that, while many terms may be used to describe their gender, they don’t feel like identifying with them may be right for them–due to uncertainty, anxiety, or just neurodivergency in general. Alternatively, a term for use where many labels may fit, and one’s gender may fit all the criteria for these labels, but the traits are all static and never seem to overwhelm each other.
Genderfree or Gender-free: A gender identity which is generally ambiguous, but definitely queer in nature. The owner will tend to pursue expressions, presentations and such without concern for gender associations associated with them. Can also embrace days presenting as very femme, very masc, etc. A blurry, cloudy, whimsical, free sense of gender. Can/often does co-exist with other gender identity labels: Dysphoria can, but does not have to, motivate the sense of gender and/or gender expression of this person on any given day. More of an exploration of different aspects of the same identity. 
Scorpigender: A gender that is a mystery, and very difficult to understand. lots of labels vaguely fit it, but almost none can fully describe it.
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chubby-aphrodite · 7 years
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@galaxystroker AH I’m so glad other people are finding this term helpful!! I tried to cover my bases with the flags and terms described in the post itself, and I’m glad people are changing it to fit exactly what they feel suits them!!
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mogaicore · 5 years
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What's avarumgenderfluid?
Avarumgender: A gender for a person who feels that, while many terms may be used to describe their gender, they don’t feel like identifying with them may be right for them–due to uncertainty, anxiety, or just neurodivergency in general. Alternatively, a term for use where many labels may fit, and one’s gender may fit all the criteria for these labels, but the traits are all static and never seem to overwhelm each other.
So basically (in this case, I know the person), Avarumgenderfluid would be someone who feels like genderfluid can be used to describe their gender, but they don’t feel like identifying as such may be right for them–due to uncertainty, anxiety, or just neurodivergency in general.
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Genders I Can Make Edits For (A-M)
Hello everyone! In case anyone happens to be wondering what labels/identities you can request for me to use in edits (moodboards, flag and name edits, etc.), I’m posting lists of which ones that I’m able to make edits for.
The list will be under the cut.
Genders (A-M) | Genders (N-Z) | Alignments | Intersex Terms | Orientations (A-M) | Orientations (N-Z) | Non-Mono Terms
(The links to the other posts will be added later)
A
a-nonbinary/anonbinary
abimegender
abimeboy
abimefluid
abimegirl
abimenonbinary
absorbgender/absorgender
adamasgender/admasgender
aerogender
aesigender
aesthetgender/aesthetigender/videgender
aethergender
affectugender
affigogender
agender
agender boy
agender girl
agenderfluid/cancegender
agenderflux/librafluid
aisthesisgender/synesgender
alexigender
aliagender/aliusgender
altegender
alteboy
altefluid
altegirl
altequeer
altexirl
altexoy
amaregender
ambigender
ambonec/AN
amicagender
amigender
amiboy
amifluid
amigirl
amivac
amogender/flirtgender/genderamas
amorgender/erogender/filkogender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)
amorboy/eroboy/filkoboy
amorgirl/erogirl/filkogirl
amorneutral/eroneutral/filkoneutral
anagender/anogender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)
anaboy/anoboy
anagirl/anogirl
ananonbinary/anononbinary
androfluid
androgyne
androgynos
anesigender/ansigender
angeligender
angender/hategender
anintensigender
anler
anongender
antigender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)
antiboy
antigirl
anvisgender/apagender/inersgender
anxiegender
apogender
apollogender
aporagender
aptugender
aquarigender/genderflow
archaicgender/eldrigender/historiagender
archaigender
argogender/arogenderfluid
ariesgender
arithmagender
astergender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)
asterboy
astergirl
asternonbinary
astralgender
atergender
atmosgender
autigender
avarumgender/varumgender
avarumboy/varumboy
avarumgirl/varumgirl
avarumnonbinary/varumnonbinary
axigender/axisgender
axiboy/axisboy
axigirl/axisgirl
B
batgender/moongender/nocturnalgender/owlgender
bigender
man-leaning bigender
neutrois + man bigender
neutrois + woman bigender
woman-leaning bigender
bigenderfluid
bijougender/jewelgender
biogender
bissu
blizzgender
blurgender/genderfuzz
boggender/crocgender/gatorgender/swampgender
boi
borderfluid/bordergender
boy-proximal/boyprox
boyflux/manflux
brevigender
buckgender
burrnesha/sworn virgin
burstgender/spikegender
bxy
C
cadensgender
caedgender/caedogender
caedboy/caedoboy
caedgirl/caedogirl
caelgender
canidaegender/canigender/canisgender
caprigender
carmigender
cassflux
cassgender
catusgender/felidaegender/feligender/felisgender/nekogender
causticgender/caustigender
caveagender
caveaboy
caveafluid
caveagirl
caveanonbinary
cavegender
cavusgender
cendegender/cendgender
cendboy/cendeboy
cendegirl/cendgirl
cengender/resgender
cennedgender/pareogender
cervusgender
ceterogender
ceteroboy
ceterogirl
chaosgender
charagender/egogender
charaboy/egoboy
charagirl/egogirl
charanonbinary/egononbinary
charmgender
charmboy
charmgirl
cheiragender
circegender/circgender
cloudgender
cocoongender
cocoonboy
cocoongirl
cogitogender/cognogender/existigender/filogender/opinogender/pensgender
cogitoboy/cognoboy/existiboy/filoboy/opinoboy/pensboy
cogitogirl/cognogirl/existigirl/filogirl/opinogirl/pensgirl
coigender
collgender
colorgender
greengender
comgender
commogender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)
commoboy
commogirl
commoneutral
commononbinary
compassfluid
compassgender
condigender
condiagender
condiboy
condigirl
contigender
corugender/flashgender
coruboy/flashboy
corugirl/flashgirl
cosmicgender
cryptogender/gendercryptic
crystagender
cutegender/gendercute
cyclogender
D
daegender
daimogender
daingender/delicagender/elegender/ethegender/ethereagender
deaboy/deamasculine
deergender/fawngender
delphigender/mystigender
demigender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)
demi-offboy
demi-offgirl
demiagender
demialia
demiandrogyne
demibigender
demiboy
demifluid/demigenderfluid
demiflux/demigenderflux
demigenderqueer
demigirl
deminonbinary
demitransgender
deogirl/deofeminine
digigender
diurnalgender/flowergender
dodransgender
dodransandrogyne
dodransboy
dodransnonbinary
dodransgirl
dodransneutrois
doegender
domgender/plerugender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)
domboy/pleruboy
domnonbinary/plerunonbinary
domgirl/plerugirl
dragongender
drakefluid
dreamgender
dryagender
dulcigender
duragender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)
duraboy
duragirl
duranonbinary
E
eafluid/enbyfluid/nobifluid
earthgender
eastgender
echogender
echoboy
echogirl
echononbinary
ectogender
effluide
effreu
effrille
effron
egender/exgender
ekragender
ekraboy
ekragirl
elementgender
elissogender
emotugender/motusgender/sensumgender/sentigender
endogender
endoboy
endogirl
energender
entheogender
entrogender
entroboy
entrogirl
equigender
equinogender
erotogender
erotoagender
erotoandrogyne
erotoboy
erotogenderqueer/erotoqueer
erotogirl
erotomaverique
erotoneutrois
erotononbinary
espigender
evainsgender/evaisgender/locugender
exiccogender
expecgender/pivotgender
explorgender/explorogender
F
fa’afafine
faegender
familiargender
fascigender
fatugender
faunagender
femfluid/femmefluid/venufluid
femfluidflux
femgender/femmegender
femminiello
fengender
feugender
fingender
firegender
firmagender
fissgender
fluidflux/fluxfluid
foggender
fogboy
fogfluid
foggirl
freezegender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)
freezeboy
freezefluid
freezegirl
freezenonbinary
frostgender
fuzzgender/fuzzygender
fuzzboy/fuzzyboy
fuzzfluid/fuzzyfluid
fuzzgirl/fuzzygirl
G
gemelgender
gemigender
geminigender
gender creative
gender neutral/genderneutral/neutral gender
gender nonconforming
gender questioning
gender variant/gendervariant
genderale
genderblank
gendercollector/genderhoarder/hoardgender
gendercosm
genderdormant
gendereaux
genderfae
genderf*ck/genderfuck
genderfleur/gendfleur
genderflight
genderflora
genderfluid
genderflux
genderglitch/genderglitched
genderhu
genderless
gendermaverick
gendermeh/mehgender
gendernegative
gendernull/nullgender
genderpansy
genderplasma
genderpositive
genderpunk
genderqueer
gendersea
genderslider
genderstrange
gendersuperfluid/shifterfluid/superfluidgender
gendervague/vaguegender
vagueboy
vaguefluid
vagueflux
vaguegirl
gendervex/gyaragender/gyragender
gyaraboy/gyraboy/vexboy
gyaragirl/gyragirl/vexgirl
gendervoid/voidgender
genderweird
genderwitched
girl-proximal/girlprox
girlflux/womanflux
glarogender
glassgender
glimragender
gossagender
gravgender/gravigender
graygender
greygender
gxrl
gynefluid
H
heagender
healegender
heliogender
hemigender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)
hemiboy
hemigirl
heminonbinary
hijra
homgender/worlgender
horogender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)
horoboy
horogirl
horononbinary
horrorgender
hydrogender
hypogender
hypoboy
hypogirl
hypononbinary
I
illusogender
illusoboy
illusogirl
impediogender
implagender/inexgender
intensiflux
intensigender
intergender
inturgender
invisigender
ipsogender
ipsogender man
ipsogender woman
J
jouine
jupitergender
juxera
K
kingender
kinggender
L
lamingender
laogender
lavagender/magmagender/volcanogender
lavaboy/magmaboy/volcanoboy
lavagirl/magmagirl/volcanogirl
lavanonbinary/magmanonbinary/volcanononbinary
leogender/reigngender
lettragender
leukogender
libergender/liberique
libragender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)
librafeminine
libramasculine
librandrogyne
libranonbinary
lichtgender
lilapsogender
lilapsoboy
lilapsogirl
lovegender
luagender
ludogender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)
ludoboy
ludogirl
ludononbinary
lunagender/monagender/monegender/selenogender
lysigender
M
macrogender
magegender/magusgender/venefigender/witchgender
magigender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)
magiboy
magifluid
magigirl
maginonbinary
magiogender
māhū
malagender
malatransgender
marfluid/mascfluid/mascufluid
margender/marigender/maringender/nubilagender
marsgender
mascfluidflux
mascgender/mascugender
maverique
mazeplexgender
medeigender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)
medeiboy
medeifluid
medeigirl
medeinonbinary
melauche
mercurygender
microgender
midgender
mingender
minumegender/subgender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)
minumeboy/subboy
minumefluid/subfluid
minumegirl/subgirl
minumenonbinary/subnonbinary
mirrorgender
mnioct
mniobainin
mniodrach
mniofirin
mollgender/molligender
moll-agender/molli-agender
mollboy/molliboy
mollfluid/mollifluid
mollgirl/molligirl
mosaigender/portiogender
multigender
multigender otherkin
musicgender/musigender
genderalto
genderbass
genderbeat
genderclef
genderdynamics
genderflat
genderforte
genderfortissimo
gendermajor
genderminor
gendernatural
genderpianissimo/genderpp
genderpitch
gendersharp
gendertreble
mutare/mutaregender
mutogender
muxe/muxhe
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Today’s Cringe™ Character Of The Day Is:  J.D.!
J.D uses different pronouns, mainly fae/faer and cor/corpself. Fae’s an achillean, uniattracted, borderattractional, sexualforced dependromantic cavusfluid (between cyclogender, romantogender, caedoboy, avarumgender, and cadensgender.) Fae is autistic, has dpd, bpd, bipolar disorder, and psychosis, and is a phytantrope and a netfur!
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mogaiballs · 3 years
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Doodles of (a)varumgender, (a)varumenby, (a)varumgirl, and (a)varumboy) (archive).
The 4 flags have 11 stripes: they fade from dark pink-purple to white to dark purple-blue, dark purple to white to dark purple, dark pink-purple to white to dark-pink purple, and dark blue-purple to white to dark blue-purple, respectively.
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How do I figure out what my gender is? I'm autistic and possibly have a personality disorder so my sense of identity of blurry at best but I really hate not knowing what to call myself. I have some terms that I use for a while and then I start to hate them. There are terms that I find interesting and WISH I had bc I like the idea of them but I don't know if I identify that way.
I know a few that might fit! I included some BPD specific ones, though I’m not sure which personality disorder you may have.
Avarumgender - A gender for a person who feels that, while many terms may be used to describe their gender, they don’t feel like identifying with them may be right for them–due to uncertainty, anxiety, or just neurodivergency in general. Alternatively, a term for use where many labels may fit, and one’s gender may fit all the criteria for these labels, but the traits are all static and never seem to overwhelm each other.
Pendogender - Never being satisfied with your gender no matter how well it fits due to self-doubt, causing one to compulsively search and seek out something that fits even better. Gender perfectionism.
Xumgender - Never being satisfied with your gender due to constant self-doubt or identity issues, causing one to compulsively search and seek out something that fits as perfect as possible--to find "the gender" or "the one truth"--though one will never be found due to one's neurotype, because words will never be able to describe it, and/or its own properties paradox itself.
Bordergender - A fluctuating gender experienced exclusively by people with BPD. A gender identity lacking a firm grasp on one’s identity, while still experiencing gender, to varying degrees, but having trouble pinning it down to just one label or identity. Having the sense of grasping at labels as much as possible to describe a gender one keeps questioning because one keeps second guessing one’s sense of self and, consequently, one’s sense of gender.
Rencgender - A gender that confuses and infuriates the person whose gender it is because of their BPD, causing the person to impulsively collect labels trying to find one that fits.
Alexigender - A term for when you are unable to describe your gender due to neurodivergency - you cannot put it into words.
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mogaicore · 5 years
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Which genders/gender alignments/gender elements/orientations associate with seafood, coconut-apricot-date fruit bar, coconut milk, lemons, lavender coffee and pizza with herbs, vegetables and cheese?
im kinda tired rn but:
Seafood: Juxera, Marsic, Uomo(sexual/romantic), Noninflexible, pangenderfaun, Varunian, Seraphaeic, Neuvir
Lemons: Schrodigender, Estrialgender, Antigirl, Hadogender, Vibragender, Avarumgender, Caligosexual
Pizza with that: Straytflexible, Daegenderfluid, Ventusgender, Abrosexual, Quadgender, Vexengender
I never had coconout milk, lavender coffee or the fruit bars you mention in my life so i don’t have a single idea how it tastes like oof ;w; im sorry
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chubby-aphrodite · 7 years
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Is avarumgender just for neurodivergent people or can anyone use it? Because it seems rather similar to my own experiences with gender but I'm not neurodivergent
yeah idk im still on the fence about it
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