#during puberty

[prettyboyscollection]

gender critical people, especially women, will spend all their time tearing down the appearances of trans people, especially trans women, and then when trans people dare to retaliate and make a joke about their appearances, they act like they’ve just been shot

#classic case of not being able to take what you dish out to others #‘you don’t look like a real woman!!! you have disgusting man hands and bad skin and ugly hair and and and’ #‘trans people are way more attractive than transphobes’ #‘omg how could you be so misogynistic and cruel this is just proof that women are the most oppressed ever’ #if you spend all your time insulting peoples appearances and rights to exist and use public spaces and live openly as themselves #you can’t act like a victim when you get some of that hatred thrown back at you #play stupid games win stupid prizes #also related to this is how they always seek out the most ‘obvious’ looking trans women #ones that have stubble or no breasts or are wearing obvious wigs etc #and i think that it’s because they wouldn’t be able to recognize a trans woman who doesn’t have stereotypical masculine features showing #they say they can always tell but they probably cross paths with trans people all day #which explains why they’re so paranoid and obsessive over being able to clock people #to the point of swearing that cis women are trans because of some ‘masculine’ feature that yknow. also can develop on women #and just being straight up wrong about what features people can have #like they jabber a lot about looking for an adams apple and like. cis women can develop those too you know that right #it happens because of testosterone affecting your larynx #and it doesn’t have to be a lot either #like it literally just happens because of hormones. it’s a secondary sex characteristic just like body hair getting thicker/darker #during puberty #and there are tons of features like that #cis women can be just as broad shouldered as a man and they can be flat chested and have strong jaws and thick dark eyebrows #and an adams apple and big hands and big feet and deep voices and can be tall #all the things that they claim means someone is secretly a trans woman #and this gets people harassed #ive heard plenty of stories about cis butch women being told to leave womens bathrooms or even attacked for it #because instead of pulling their heads out of their ass and using their brain terfs would rather make things worse for other women #by narrowly defining what a woman can look like #they bounce around on what makes someone a woman but a lot of the time it lands on having a vagina and ovaries and a uterus etc #which is uhhhhh. what’s the word here. incredibly misogynistic #defining women by their ability to have babies but in a feminist girlboss way this time

[macksartblock]

no collective thoughts just drawings before i DM tonight

#dndads #dungeons and daddies #grant wilson #sparrow oak garcia #sparrow oak #nick close #nicky swift #hermie the unworthy #normal oak swallows garcia #normal oak #scary marlowe #terry jr stampler #someone reminded me scary had her hand cut off during the soccer game in hell so thank you random citizen #also saying it now i think album wise puberty 2 would hit normal like a ton of bricks #like i could make a list of all the songs that would kill him but i wont lol #i dont know if the grant/sparrow sketch is necessarily shippy nor do i know what their ship name is.... so thats up to you lmao #my artwork #return of the purgatory tatt lets go

[murderluv23]

Anyways on the topic of our sweet boy Fizz- here's a little headcanon/theory that came to mind during my watch yesterday. :)

#helluva boss #helluva boss spoilers #original fizzarolli helluva boss #fizzarolli helluva boss #tw body mutilation mention #tw physical trauma #of course I love the idea that his voice is entirely natural #and love the image of awkward teen fizz stumbling over himself at getting such a deep scratchy voice during puberty XD #it's adorable #but I also love the darker option of it being accidental and icing on the shit cake of losing his horns and limbs #because I'm a sick bastard

[maddisandy]

you dont find mitski songs mitski songs find u when the time is right

#currently looping my body is made of crushed little stars #like i know her whole discography but i always happen across a song during a specific time in my life #and it perfectly describes what im going through in that moment #mitski #lush #retired from sad new career in business #bury me at makeout creek #puberty 2 #be the cowboy #laurel hell

[gavidaily]

Gavi + FC Barcelona Kits

#gavi #pablo gavi #fc barcelona #gaviedit #gavigif #*misc #*kits #hi! #there's a lot more kits he played with but i cant find footage #the 4th one is missing cause it doesnt fit #so once we get the new one in action as well as the white one i'll update it #anyway 1st kit 22/23 and lilac supremacy #i like the 20/21 too #also please what happened with him during 2018???? #puberty hit him like a truck #like the 6th gif he's a baby he's 14 #and the 7th he's 15 just a year older and ??? #also from the 7th to the 8th gif - by the time he debuted with Barça B again a year later #just how fast the night changes #+gavi #hope you are okay <3 #stream speak now taylor's version out july 7th and vote for Balde for the next golden boy <3

[arcaneacolyte]

I know isn't Ghost but he is *a* ghost, so it counts right?? -nervous laughter-

But in all seriousness I'm just clawing at anything that sparks my creativity and I wanted to try a different shading method by only going left or right on the color wheel and not up or down to create shadows and highlights. Dan's got some good colors to do that with, so please have another 'portrait facing camera' from me because that's all I can draw and I was more focused on the coloring anyways!

#danny phantom #dark danny #dan phantom #danny phantom fanart #my art #when I tell you that the ONE episode with this character changed me irrevocably at age twelve?? #if they didn't want me to turn out queer they shouldnt have made villains so hot and have a great voice during puberty /j #12 year old me had no chance

[jawz]

why do people who transitioned as full-on adults continue to speak on what they believe the laws should be regarding child/adolescent medical transition? like how fucking dense do you have to be to think it’s the same situation? if you didn’t MEDICALLY transition in that specific age range, when your mind is more amenable to any number of ideas about identity or personal philosophy (as you are still a child figuring yourself out) then you do not know what it’s like to have doctors more or less gaslighting you into pseudoscientific concepts that adults can understand more like metaphors…

this is the same way religion harms vulnerable young people when their brain’s capacity for weighing what is and is not realistic is just not developed and the real life experience has not yet been gained… you don’t understand metaphors and gender roles and playing pretend and facades yet… it’s all REAL to you at that age… i was told i had a MALE SOUL… trapped inside my inferior female body which needed to be FIXED in some way.

the older i get the more i realize that what a lot of adult transitioners are describing amounts more to deliberate aesthetic changes, which do create a higher level of comfort in the body and self-expression, this is why there seems to be a lower rate of regret for these types… versus gnc children who have not yet gotten past the age stage of cross-sex identification (which seems to be a common experience during the development of sexual identity for a pretty sizable cohort of the current generation of homosexuals who transition)… i think adult transitioners without childhood dysphoria have a better big-picture view of the changes they’re seeking, and it’s extremely unfair for them to pretend that youth who are attempting to convert themselves from gay boys to straight women or from butch lesbians to straight men are in the same mindset. i know i was not. it was religious for me. it was totally all-consuming.

#detrans #detransition #like. they got to develop fully during puberty and adolesence and THEN decide that it didnt feel right… my growth was messed with #why is everyone so terrified of feminine males being physically masculinized during puberty and vice versa? #do we not deserve it because we didnt fit the gender roles right????? #they dont want people looking out of place… normalization of puberty blockers is NOT pro-trans it is actually in existence #SOLELY to facilitate the process of making a gnc child look LESS trans. #it’s clear that MANY adult gay men and lesbians who are considered ‘cis’ did in fact go thru periods of intense wishing to be the opposi #opposite sex. this is the result of living in a violent and rigidly heteropatriarchal society.

[schadenfreudich]

I don't trust people who say things like "afab experience" because in most cases they actually mean "white, perfectly perisex afab experience" and even then, it's too specific.

Because I'm not white, so I never got the "weak little girl" thing. I wasn't white feminine enough, even though I was quite feminine as a child.

And while I don't consider myself intersex, my body has produced more testosterone than would be the normal range for someone going through a "female" puberty ever since I was going through puberty. Definitely not enough for it to have strong masculinizing effects, it's just also quite androgynous in an additive way.

I do not feel represented by most things that people are talking about like it's "universal" for "afab" individuals, while both being "afab" and having gone through "female" puberty.

#i rarely use 'afab'. most of the time there is a more specific and more correct term for it #because the only thing 'afab' says is that a doctor looked at a baby's genitals and said it's a girl #nothing about their internal sex organs or how their body changes especially during puberty and after that #and especially not if the person had any surgeries or took hormones #if i hear 'afab chests' one more time. how do you just forget people who are 'amab' but went on estrogen? who can have breats? #absolutely ridiculous. do not refer to me as my 'agab' or i will assume you just think about people's supposed genitals and base their #entire person on that assumption. which is incredibly weird. don't do that. even if you're correct #-franz

[toxooz]

does kari have a hoard? also, if she did, what would it be?

thats her whole deal is she hoards anything PINK thats why she's the way she is the DNA ingrained Dragon Obsession that's considered a hoard lolol i like to think she even had a 'hating pink' phase before she realized that her Hoard was pink things and had a small ohno phase where she knew but still tried to deny it and even tried different things to hoard before she just accepted that her dragon brain simply Wants Pink it doesn't matter how redundant it is wrappers plastic anything that would usually be thrown away if its pink she simply must keep it

she tries to stick them in scrapbooks at least to keep them together but alas the books build up lmfao but at least they're organized by color hue, saturation, texture ect. however she can organize and have an excuse to ogle and touch pink things sksksk she'll dig through the scrapbooks and look at them over and over again for up to hours some days especially if shes struggling with things she will tinker with her collection a lot more 🌸 speaking of dragon hoards Mangule's hoard is skateboards (which reflects the fact that she may be Ollie's foil bc he has an absolute assload of boards as well) BUT the main way she finds herself collecting skateboards is by taking the skateboards of those she kills, so her 'hoard room' is just a big mass of ghost boards that she digs about in to look at and i feel like rarely if she really likes the way a skateboard looks she may solely kill someone JUST for their board bc at this point her mindset is the notion of having a board from someone she killed makes it all the more valuable so her hoard is pretty eerie if your in that room 🤫

#kari #mangule #but also ollie being able to pick up on her issues by how obsessive shes being with her scrapbooks #''sweetness youve looked through that book just to touch the same candy wrapper 18 times now whats wrong'' #i feel like the whole concept of dragons having that thing they hoard is like getting a cutie mark or some shit #like theres just A Thing no matter how vague that makes a dragons brain just click and thats what they hoard for the rest of their lives #and its typically discovered during puberty or even when theyre younger #mangules whole hoarding issue just opened up so many plot points within me im FEASTING

[flowercrowngods]

always so funky to be reminded that your parents might love you but they don’t actually like you very much

#wasn’t i supposed to leave that feeling behind with puberty? #anyway mama decided i have no christmas wish #the sad little guy who can’t get nice things for themself also doesn’t get to ask for them now during the ‘ask for things’ time of the year #it’s not about christmas it’s not about material things it’s about looking me in the glassy eyes and asserting ‘you have no wish’ #when wishing is all i ever do you just never create a space safe enough for me to voice them #blah #not st #i’m so so sorry that whining is all i ever do anymore and i shouldn’t be so sad about this over and over again #i’m just. so small. tiny. and insignificant. i might not have been there all day and 99% of the conversations would have happened the same #i wanna stop feeling this way but i think in order to stop feeling this way i need to stop wanting to be loved and seen and listened to #by my mom. and i don’t think it’s entirely human or possible to stop wanting that. so oh well #i don’t know if i give them reason to like me. maybe i don’t. this might all be on me actually. #if she knew i’m crying about this she’d roll her eyes and say ‘you know how i am. sorry you misunderstood me’ #why do the blows keep coming? when’s it my turn to rest?

[monikatouhou]

Poor Merry Hearn had to go through three separate puberties

#first puberty during her teenage years #second puberty from hrt #“third puberty” from becoming a youkai

[tr1ppykay]

anytime someone talks about the "uncomfortable" parts of testosterone puberty and how its normal to be annoyed about certain things because even cis boys were bothered by the "icky stuff" im like. wait yall aren't getting massive euphoria from smelling like a locker room, forehead breakouts and having a hairy ass ?

#trip talks #'the negative side effects of testosterone HRT' do not project onto me. there have been NO negatives. #could also be that im incredibly lucky with my skin genetics #during my first puberty i rarely got acne #and yeah i get more pimples now that im on T but it's really not bad #every single change has brought me nothing but joy #not even scared of balding #ill go jackson galaxy vibes and grow a beard and get even more piercings and make it work

[harlequinfrog]

My DnD group's DM is collaborating with the players on worldbuilding and I'm the only one playing a gnome so she gave me the go-ahead to make up whatever the hell I want as long as it doesn't affect gameplay too much. MY CITY NOW

#i decided all gnomes have tails and long sideburns (but not beards) #my character Meena shaves hers bc she's essentially nouveau riche and growing them out is considered old fashioned and provincial #and now i'm writing an essay about the cultural importance of sideburn styles in gnome communities #they start growing during puberty and having full sideburns is considered a sign of adulthood/maturity #nonbinary people traditionally had particular cultural niches and would style their facial hair according to their job/gender #but traditionally girls in her home region would wear them long and tied or braided in front #and when they got engaged they'd wear them pulled back with either end of a ribbon tied to each 'tail' #married gnome women have special jewelry for the same purpose but older women usually just tie theirs back like a ponytail #and the jewelry is just for show #men usually keep theirs fairly short #the tail thing is less interesting i just wanted Meena to have one bc i think it looks cool #i tried rearranging some of the tags to make it easier to read but they got scrambled even worse 😭 #tumblr mobile i hate you. one thousand laser sword attack

[aldoodles]

have some super sketchy and pixelly lighting studies because I literally cannot stop thinking about these three or the year they were separated during the war

#httyd #httyd books #book!hiccup #book!fishlegs #camicazi #GOSH OKAY JUST THE SUDDEN ‘it’s been a whole YEAR ‘ thing at the beginning of book ten #and then you’re hit w the gut punches of hiccup on his own hunted by literally everyone. fishlegs trapped in slavery??? camicazi has #frantically turned to searching for fishlegs and liberating slaves even though she thinks he’s dead #and she thinks she was too late for him #like they all feel SO. GUILTY. and they’re alone #hiccup for the whole ‘setting furious free’ thing and fishlegs for not leaving with his best friend and camicazi for not standing up with #the other two when it really mattered #and they all just have to like. live with it. #separated from the only people who understand them #as the world burns to cinders around them and hundreds die #also emo abt hiccup soeaking dragonese instead of Norse bc he’s only been by dragons and I’m emo about the fact that when he speaks Norse #again it’s in a voice that puberty has hit like a trUCK during his exile #ANYWAYS #also lol at the way I sketched eggingarde’s hands lol #no effort was given #super sketchy sketchy #al chatters #doodles #my art

[derpinette]

i have a weird relationship with weight because i hated eating more than anything the moment i was ready for solids ( i hate chewing with my entire life always have & will ) which made me underweight for most of my life ( to this day ) & during late primary-middle school this made me actively suicidal because i felt like something was wrong with my sex because i just was not developing whatsoever prompting me to have a years long phase of trying to gain weight in any way i could ( #EPICFAIL by the way ) & i was already insecure but i felt seriously so unforgivably ugly after bullying not just at school but by adults of my entourage. but then i did in my late 15s which prompted the pendulum to swing in the other direction & suddenly i FREAKED OUT & thought well being skinny is pretty much all i have & know myself to be & clearly it is not going to last forever so i Better preserve it i was delusional about how skinny i thought i was actually i look stumpy & weird i have to prove myself. But now i am normal again kind of

#also i used to get beaten to finish my food nearly daily & it would take me forever to do that like literally hours with no exaggeration #just made me hate eating even more. now my technique is eating as fast as possible before i even realize how overwhelming #the sensory experience is & i can just be done with it VS the pain&dread of eating slowly -> disgust of Everything+hyperawareness #eating tightens my muscles like i hate it so fucking much catching the food putting it in my mouth CHEWING swallowing #what a damn chore #so i always liked cheese it was my “safe food” pretty much the only thing i liked #i even hated the foods autists usually like like fries & fried chicken meatballs ETC. HATED. #i was/am more of a soup & turning all my food into varieties of Slop kind of girl nothing hard for me please... #i experienced middle school during the like ♯Thick era of the world which was honestly a good thing like for The Populace #but i felt like killing myself because i felt like an unforgivable fugly genetic failure & people did not hesitate to let me know #anyway either way i would be unhappy caus if i did gain weight during puberty i would have a meltdown about all the Changes #so i feel content for the time being about only losing the fat in my face & getting age appropriate wrinkles really #trying to enjoy the privilege of thinness while i have it because it will not last forever 0_0 but that should not matter anyway... #the privilege of thinness: being way uglier than others & constantly looking like a gibbon dying of disease + no energy or strength ever #JK people are much MUCH nicer to thin people & they do things for me on account of looking physically incapable so um yay i guess #light at the end of the tunnel that is very significant in the grand scheme of things socially. ♯CountingMyBlessings #also i was raised on ♯HAES tumblr from 2014-2018 i truly believed in that & was so damn envious i was not curvy & beautiful LOL #so i never hated overweight people really i think for the most part the SJW tumblr values stuck with me #but now i know it depends on your base frame & genetics & there is no guarantee to what you choose to do (naturally) acceptance is peace #sorry for the gigantic Arse post i just needed to get that off my chest for a long time. not on here specifically just in general #oh & i am a ♯Grignoteuse but grignoter (grazing) is different from eating in my mind&body #& my insecurity was not a result of wanting to fit in really but kind of in the sense that i wanted people to stop berating me for my looks #like body wise only & also not understanding why every other girl looked like a girl blossoming into a woman #& i looked like i was transitioning to Malnourished (unsexed) Ape made worse by bein GNC.& like the need for control later on & erthang ETC

[puppetsoftomorrow]

something i like to think abt is like... is the avalance kid invincible? could sara have passed down her invincibility gene? and beyond that, what if the kid has superpowers? they didn't exactly come into the world in a conventional way, maybe they have cool alien powers? maybe because ava and sara have spent a good long time travelling space and time, they have time travel powers? how wld ava and sara react to having a powered kid?? i think its cool yknow

#phoebe returns #avalance #i love time travel powers tbh #esp the xmen classic of it comingnin during puberty #hey someone could make a fic out of this