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anti-endo-haven · 2 days

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I do find it a little ironic that endos say they remember their trauma then when you ask if they'd like to share they get upset, or when you ask to meet an alter. I asked to meet one and the person blocked me

Never EVER ask someone for their trauma AT ALL. I do not care if they’re an endo or not, that is wrong on so many levels. They do not owe it to you and it doesn’t need to be shared. It is personal. You don’t need to know everything about a person.

You do not even ask systems to meet an alter, that isn’t how it works and accept the person who is in front for being there.

You cannot have behavior like this anywhere. At all.

Do not ask for trauma to be explained or talked about, do not ask to meet an alter. AT ALL.

Do not behave like this to anyone.

It is wrong to even endos, it is wrong to people that have trauma. You DO NOT have this behavior to people.

#anti endo #endos dni #did system #system #actually did #osddid #traumagenic system #endos not for you #did plural #actually traumagenic #did plurality #osdd plural #osdd plurality

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autopsycollective · 2 days

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rlly wish the body would change to match whoever fronts :(( ❦

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delphientropy · 2 days

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this term was created by an anti endo, and would prefer that NON-traumagenic systems and their supporters do not interact or use this term.

SIBTECTOR / SIBSHIELD

[pt. sibtector / sibshield. end pt]

an alter whose role is to protect or take care of the body's younger family, such as siblings or cousins!

term and flag both coined by me

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systemuserboxes · 3 days

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I, as a common introject, thank you so much for not boiling us down to 'doubles'. I really appreciate it. We are never our sources and acting like we are is so harmful. Thanks for making this a fully safe space.

No problem! We have a few introjects that really don't like being referred to as doubles of people, so we kinda get it! It's really harmful to act like someone is their source, whether their source is problematic or not! I also believe that the whole doubles thing just isn't true, because like, everyone processes sources different ways, so even if the introject was "exactly" like source they wouldn't be the same as an introject from a different system who was also "exactly" like source because they'd probably interpret the source differently! If that makes sense?

But yeah! We want this to be a safe space for everyone no matter what!

#anti nontraumagenic #did system #non traumagenic dni #system #anti endo #did #endos dni #system stuff #endos not for you #not a userbox

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wxrmeaterz · 13 days

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hey!

u didnt deserve it.

u didnt deserve ANY of it.

none of the abuse, neglect, or anything else that made u a system

u didnt deserve that pain

#endos dni #endos not for you #actually did #polyfrag did #did system #did alter #did osdd #osdd #cdd system #osddid #endos fuck off

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cccat-in-a-meat-sack · 3 months

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By the way, I've seen a lot of discourse on "endogenic" alters, so repeat after me

Your brain splits alters as you need them. That means you can have a completely trauma based alter, and you can also have an alter created to deal with homework, aka an "endogenic" alter. If your system formed from trauma, you are not "traumaendo". You are traumagenic. Full stop.

#endos dni #anti endo #endo neutral #anti endogenic #endo apathetic #endos not for you #this post is not for endos #traumagenic did #did alter #did system #traumagenic system #actually did #did osdd #syscourse?#syscourse #tw syscourse #calico has spots #calico side eyes

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pastel-kingdom · 14 days

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Happily 💜

- Roman B

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belablog134 · 14 days

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This post is for anti endos to ask doubts and questions about being an endo system

Feel free to ask anything, I usually don’t answer fast, you’ll have to wait.

#endos fuck off #anti endo #endos aren't real #endos dni #endos not for you #endo system #endogenic dni #endogenic system #endo safe #plural community #plural #endogenic #pro endo #plural system #syscourse

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zetasystem · 12 days

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More Sysboxes we made! Feel free to use. (Credit appreciated) (AGH SHIT WRONG BLOG! Eh it's fine lol)

#anti endo #endos dni #osdd system #traumagenic system #dissociative system #plural system #did system #zetasys #aussiemanzody 🇦🇺#sysboxes #endos not for you

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strawberryvideosystem · 23 days

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hello

were the strawberry video store system (just call us strawberry)! please use they/them and he/him for us

«────── « ⋅ʚ♡ɞ⋅ » ──────»

we are a system that is currently trying to get a diagnosis

we are diagnosed with: bipolar, anxiety, depression | and we are also working on getting a diagnosis for: autism, adhd

«────── « ⋅ʚ♡ɞ⋅ » ──────»

we currently have under 100 alters and switch fairly often. we are traumagenic and do not support endos or any other non-traumagenic "system"

«────── « ⋅ʚ♡ɞ⋅ » ──────»

the most commonly fronting alters are grey(🩶), max(🍂), stella(💉), bug(🐞), and blur(👤)

some alters may signoff their posts, but some may not

some alters are more hostile towards people than others, please be patient with them

«────── « ⋅ʚ♡ɞ⋅ » ──────»

we are collectively taken and have a few alters who are unhealthily obsessive over our partner system, please dont flirt romantically with any of us to keep everyone safe

«────── « ⋅ʚ♡ɞ⋅ » ──────»

dni

basic dni, any non-traumagenic systems and supporters, heavily religious(especially christians), heavily political, pro-israel/zionists, beliefs that all witchcraft is evil, beliefs that all introjects are exactly like source, beliefs that liking problematic medias means you support the creators

#traumagenic system #actually a system #actually traumagenic #plural system #blog intro #endos dni #endos do not interact #endos fuck off #endos aren't real #endos not for you #non traumagenic dni #traumagenic only #traumagenic safe

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seraphim-coinz · 2 days

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P.S. WE HATE ENDOS. DON'T FOLLOW US. GO FUCK YOURSELF

What the FUCK is "deligenic endogenic" JUST SAY YOU'RE A ROLEPLAYING SINGLET

#Endos DNI #endos do not interact #endos fuck off #endos aren't real #endos not for you #i hate endos #endo system #endogenic system #anti endo #Endos go fuck yourself #endogenics dni

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anti-endo-haven · 2 days

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to the "all endo neutrals are actually pro endo" anon - i used to say we're endo neutral bcuz i didn't want to get us booted out of some spaces for not feeding into their delusions. and to be a little silly rat that can get some giggles from their idiocy

we're more open on the topic now, firmly answering the question "what do you think about endos" with "they don't exist", but when not asked (and there's usually no need to) we won't say it. cuz honestly, in some spaces it's easier to ghost them until asked rather than actively fight them.

also, once saw an opposite take from someone claiming to be an endogenic system, saying "endo neutral equals anti endo" and compared it to being neutral to transgenderism and other lgbt+ stuff. to me it's funny as shit that they're still asking for pity and insist their tomfuckery should be taken seriously. repeat after me, multiplicity is a disorder, not an identity.

- 👁️»☠️

That’s a lot of fair points!

I don’t entirely know what to say to all of this because, again, good points and you’ve covered things that are amazingly said! :D

#☠️#anti endo #endos dni #did system #system #actually did #osddid #traumagenic system #endos not for you #did plural #actually traumagenic #did plurality #osdd plural #osdd plurality

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autopsycollective · 14 days

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systems don’t owe you anything.

not our headcount,

not our trauma,

not our medical records.

we can choose how much we share with others and we are entitled to our privacy.

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delphientropy · 22 days

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so dumb and frustrating to see all your labels with massive red text saying endos can't use them. God forbid my experiences align with the labels youve made despite our differences in opinion. get over yourself!!!

god forbid people have fucking boundries. get over YOURSELF.

im setting a boundry, know that YOU are the one who sounds like an asshole for not respecting them. I respect yours, you respect mine. got it?

#osdd #osddid #did osdd #did system #did #osdd system #actually did #pdid system #system #pdid #anti endo #endos not for you #dni endos #endos do not interact #endos fuck off #endos dni

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wxrmeaterz · 9 days

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shout out to programmed / ramcoa systems who...

- can never fully mentally mature

- were made to mature too young

- know and remember nothing or just snippets

- know and remember everything or most things

- can't currently access therapy for safety or personal reasons