#he talks like a sociopath!

[gothic-clownz]

>puts proship dni in bio

>still ships a 12 year old with a grown adult lol

my brother in christ theyre both children

#ask box #zadr isnt proship #please dont send me asks like this i dont like them 👍 #keep that shit away from me idc if you think it is proship just dont assume i am cause i ship two CHILDREN #also to clarify my zim and dib are highskool age...14-17 #so im never gonna depict them more intimately than kissing #also i dont follow the creator or anything so isk what he has to say #but if it LOOKS like a child and TALKS and ACTS like a child (no matter how sociopathic) its uhhhhh its a child. dude

[soo-won]

Il like yeah I don't like Suwon because of his vibes and because his 8 years old ass won't put my daughter above the country my grown ass is unable to rule decently :/ But what I find curious is how no one ever ask why Il didn't, just maybe, prioritized his nephew, that he's the only adult relative of now(because of who i ask you!!) just a bit more ? like you know. He's supposed to be his uncle. God forbid this child have other priorities than his cousin in life but the adult in his 40/50s has a free pass to not be a responsible adult with his orphaned nephew.

If Il had lingering resentment over how Yuhon planned to kill Yona and felt like it was only fair he wouldn't treat his brother's son as family either, that could have been something interesting to explore. but it doesn't. And instead of being honest about the reasons why he "just can't do" with Suwon, he blames it all on Suwon himself. Who again is a child that just lost his two parents and is holding a faction of people that would very much commit a regicide immediatly if he wasn't holding them by the scruff of the neck.

#il not liking how two faced suwon is w him like pls first look urself in a mirror and second how the fuck do you want him to behave exactly. #like maybe if you had told him directly you would be a shit king for kouka that wont even try he would have been honest sooner yeah #sorry for bringing this up i got reminded of il without my consent and was plagued with ch197 flashbacks #it's funny to me that kusa def wrote it with the intent of making the readers sympathize and feel for il but every page made me angrier #and i didnt even think it was possible bc i already despised him a lot #even if suwon was really an evil 'sociopath' you would have to brainwash me first for me to stop taking the side of the 9 yo child. #who happens to be my fave so yes im biased but like i would genuinely feel this way even if he wasnt #i just wouldnt still be talking about it 3 years later(wdym 3 years!!!!) #im a changed person today im actually calm and not upset writing this #akayona thoughts

[neverendingford]

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#tag talk #watching/listening to criminal minds while patching a pair of jeans. #and idk. I really hate sounding like a quirky special not like other girls snowflake lock tumbler #but like. idk when you've learned to hide all the weird things about you that unsettle other people it's weird to see them called out #learning what parts of yourself to hide to appear normal. learning how to create your mask to blend in with society. #idk. having a not-unintelligent someone tell me recently I sound like a sociopath and that they're a little worried about being around me? #that kind of fucks me up. having my roommate tell me he locks his door at night because he's afraid of me at night. #idk. I'm on new mood stabilizers and I do feel the chemical restraint part of it. the suppression of a part of myself. #it's just that the part it's suppressing is a part I've tried to kill for a very long time. #the harm isn't about pain it's about suppressing energy. it's about shutting down the uncontrollable part #idk we'll see how the meds pan out long term. Hopefully I feel more normal on it. #I don't feel like the suppression is shutting down something that is myself. I feel like it's shutting down an intrusive parasite. #this isn't a part of me I've ever wanted to be. I hate being the clown. I hate being the goof. the quirky idiot #I feel better when I'm more calm. I'm more controlled. I can control the part of me that feels compelled to do weird shit. #idk. I don't like being a freak. I don't like being a nutjob. I can handle having a part of me being cold as long as it's controlled. #we'll see.

[dennisboobs]

jesus christ are the commentaries with dr drew ever fucking painful

#he starts talking about dee and i am just. cringing. shut the fuck up buddy #mf said charlie mac and dennis are sociopaths but dee MUST have bpd because. shes a woman. #and then when charlie challenged it and said she does the same shit the guys do he was like #well shes got some 'male stuff going on with her. you sort of expect that of a man. and that's her sociopathic stuff' #💀💀💀💀💀💀 #could not have gotten a guy who knows less about whatever the fuck hes talking about. #charlie and rob challenging his analysis the entire time and being like Its Not That Deep Mac And Dennis Are Just Gay #ada speaks #yikes yikes yikes #frank's intervention ep was WAY worse than mac and den break up but both are so cursed they make me violent

[gloriousmonsters]

when technically you and other fans agree on a character's mental health in general premise but they only ever get written with the more sympathetic traits of whatever diagnosis... not hate and hell but like. mild dislike and faintly irritating purgatory on the planet earth

#vic talks #there's also the thing of 'I decided this character has x mental illness so i'm going to write them like they're undertaking a personal #challenge to carefully check off the symptoms in the dsm' #which isn't the same but is also irritating as hell wait no purgatory #BONUS ROUND when a character actually gets diagnosed in fic and the author clearly read a psychology today article and took it as gospel #there's a fic where a character gets diagnosed w/ASPD #(which was so stupid i looked up the dsm to confirm that yeah even if you go off the dsm He Does Not Fucking Have That PD) #and they're like. going 'it's so hard to live with a sociopath you two should get counseling too :(' to his besties #WHO ARE BOTH MURDERERS... WITH GLARING UNLOVELY TRAUMA ISSUES... #and assigned-aspd-bc-he-likes-to-fight boy is literally like. the Cute/Annoying Little Brother of the group #this is possibly the silliest time to apply your 'surviving a cluster b loved one oh god it's so horrible' bullshit #that you found by reading an article entitled 'can a sociopath improve through therapy?' or smth #anyway. this has been bitchin' and complainin' hour with vic i'll see you next week

[hirakiyois]

i really thought vegas would win the "most misunderstood character" award this year but somehow han jiwoo has stolen his position which is infinitely more funny

#kinnporsche #to my star #to my star 2 #vegas is a big bad torturous sociopath who kidnapped and tortured his own love interest #meanwhile han jiwoo is just some guy #he cooks and cleans and likes children #and has mommy issues but we don't talk about it enough #and yet you'll NEVER guess which one has people out for his blood

[the-acid-pear]

I love assholes in horror movies. Characters who are not bad people but simply want to survive and are willing to ignore what's right in order to achieve this goal. I think they are some of the most human characters ever.

#luly talks #that said fuck scotty for wanting to leave linda behind /j #SORRY for all these comparisons im drawing between evil dead 1 and the ruins i just. evil Dead 1 is such A movie... #and i just watched this other one so i need something to compare it to #like jeff and scotty are just so this very thing im talking about #they aren't bad people they are good and you can see it but they are cold and outright mean #but mostly because the situation has pushed them so far #jeff is more justified he was studying medicine my boy scotty chopped up his gf and was like 🤷 #but that's because everyone in evil dead 1 is a sociopath or something 💀💀💀 #but its just so ough i just love these characters sm like yeasss... #im sure saw has a few of characters like this i simply cant remember rn

[kil9]

yknow im just gona start saying i have a professional autism diagnosis because one of those doctor bitches was like "well if we still diagnosed aspergers i would say you're that, but we dont, so" & when im like "yeah but the reason you dont diagnose it anymore is because it's now included in autism which would just mean i have autism right?" and he changed the subject lmao 🤨

#99.txt #i dont even want a professional diagnosis anymore i feel like itll just make shit more difficult id rather just manage how i already am #this guy + my therapist who said she thought i was (whose the one who told me to talk to this guy in the first place) #he wasnt even an autism specialist so tbh i think he just didnt feel like going to the effort #i can not understate how many half ass mental health doctors ive had...... #the one who misgendered me even when i pushed back 💀 #& then they got me on a ''gender specialist'' who was like ''lets talk about ur gender dysphoria'' #im like ''i dont rly need to talk about that im good can we like talk about how i feel ??'' #& hes like ''idk its not my area'' gsjkhsgd ??????????? #the only 2 good therapists i had i had to stop seeing beyond my control -_- #one when i turned 18 cos she was only for minors & one when my dad decided he didnt wanna pay for it anymore #(prob because she clued me in that he was abusive & sociopath lmaooo 😁😁😁) #anywaye this ends todays overshare thanks 4 playing

[algolagniaa]

yknow what else is fucked up is my dad ON PURPOSE perpetuated the cycle of abuse on me bc he was apparently a sensitive crybaby kid and his dad super abused him until he “toughened up” and turned his empathy off and got fucked up and evil. and when I was growing up he often singled me out to take the worst of his abuse and he has since told me it was because out of the three of us I reminded him the most of himself, because I was detached and intelligent but also bc I was really sensitive so he deliberately wanted to toughen me up and make me “prepared for the world” aka more like him. and it worked

#I spent Christmas with him and when I was going through my whole woe is me I’m a sociopath thing I talked to him about it #and I opened up to him about a lot of stuff and he Got it #and had good and useful advice about how to live with it without treating everyone around you like shit which I do appreciate but god #the fact that he in particular was the one guy to get it was a punch to the gut

[kiilonova]

never look at the tvtropes page for a character you like 20 dead 35 injured

#cro zone #how are you going to give him 'narcissist' and 'sociopath' tags and then list 5+ times he went out of his way to help people for no reward #not that irl you cant be/do both but this is tvtropes we're talking about #why does a character that lies confuse people so much. freaking out and diagnosing them meanwhile they just arent being honest #why cant we address the very real mental issues he has instead of assigning him ones that you can demonize without repercussion #JUST ADMIT YOU DONT LIKE HIM!!!! ITS NOT THAT DEEP!!!!!!

[bo0zey]

boys be mad asl when i don’t giggle n tehe n show cute emotions like bitch my wounded inner child just got done drunk sniveling begging for daddy not to yell n hate her while her intoxicated narcissistic father screamed n gaslit her until she dissociated to euthymic plane 🙄🙄🙄

#‘trauma dumping’ eat my shorts loser assholss #so funny he said if my narcissistic sociopathic insane brother killed himself then it’s ‘goodbye to the rest of y’all too’ #like ohhhhh so ur eldest daughter n youngest son don’t mean jack fuckjn shit to u right??? lmfao lolll #yeah just go rot with that selfish egotistic psycho while ur 15yr old son who lost his mom at 7yrs old #i want to strangle my fuckjgnf dad sometimes he’s so cruel n said so many mean things to me #he always has to defend my middle brother ‘he’s depressed what if he kms’ like??? #my middle brother literally manipulates tf out of my dumbass emotionally unintelligent father he’s tearing this family apart #meanwhile i never planned on seeing 18 nor living past 22 n now i have to go exist n find a job when i never thought i’d have to do this sh #shit ever b. i was supposed to #be dead 4 years ago lololllll #god forbid i tell him that or my plan to kms at 27 lollll #so worried abt a fucking LOST SOCIOPATH SEFISH NARCISSITIC CAUSE ur gonna make me and my baby brother suffer?? as orphans ?? #my dad n i used to get breakfast every sunday in middle school n talk abt life n drive around after n those days meant the world to me #i never realized how much i missed them. how much i looked forward to him saying he’d call me while i’m away at college #but my middle brother egosticizl fuck is like ‘lolyh i just nod n say what dad wants me to hear’ when my dad is trying so hard to save him f #my dad admitted to neglecting my lil bro lol it makes me so fkcing angry he doesn’t give af abt us #says ‘im worth more im the ground than i am alive’ n my inner teen bursts into tears bc she experienced that already #yeah moms life insurance money was so fun!! until it ran out bc of college n impulsive manic spending n the materialistic thrill never laste #i want to hate him but i can’t even deny i love him so much he hurts me and everyone i love and disappoints us all n we still care for him #he’s letting my brother fuckjgn kill him literlaly my dad is physically sick bc of my sociopath narcissistic bros drama #he blames me for not going to him n telling him abt my ‘’mental issues’ as if i didn’t have to grow up n become mom the day after my 16th #i am my mothers child he didn’t know anything abt our childhoods until she died and he had to step up n parent us himself #he doesn’t know what it means to be a parent he shouldn’t be a parent but oh fuckjgn well oh my god WE ARE YOUR KIDSMWE NEED YOU WH #WHY CANT YOU SHOW US YOU CARE WHEN WE ALL HAD TO LEARN ALL WE HAVE IS OURSELVES #i am so angry he tried to throw me under the bus abt not having a job as a new grad nurse instead of my brother for dropping out everything #ur son wants to drop his ap classes bc he procrastinated n doesn’t wNna do the work so now he’s manipulating u to let him quit #i am just not exiting the identity crisis coming to terms w the fact that i’m 22yrs old n alive n need to start living n working #tonight was a shitshow but the ending calmed down but i couldn’t stop crying sniveling whimpering when dad yelled #yelled n accused n attacked me n chose to defend my middle bro over me like..he’s trying to kill u n i freaked out bc stepmom said u cut #ramblings

[starsweetiie]

Since I do post about Sorrel sometimes here, this is my fun disclaimer that he is a terrible bastard. Like no joke he's the worst.

I'm still playing through MSQ on him tho and he will get better as I go through!! His storyline is literally about him learning to be truer to himself and learning to like other people!!

#/ rant i guess #i probably dont even need to post this but i get anxiety talking about him sometimes #bc people were mad that he was literally a sociopathic asshole #and sent hate to me for him lolllll #sorry!!! I just like making evil little guys!!!! #and I like when fucked up lil dudes need to learn how to have emotions!!!!! #anyway sry i love him i just get worried about ppl hating him sdjhdjkfs #starri.txt #tbd

[dennisboobs]

i was a different person in march

#i was like. resistant to it bc i felt like i was projecting but theres wwwwwway too much that starts to make sense #if you look at dennis' behaviour and stuff through this lens #even the way glenn talks abt dennis is like. hm. yeah. sounding familiar actually. i too have been called an emotionless sociopath #but in reality it's just other people misunderstanding me (i am aware this sounds insane but) #dennis unaware as to how his words and behaviour comes off to other ppl? #has extremely deep feelings but struggles w showing emotions?? #he was fucked over by his mom being absent and not being properly socially conditioned so he doesnt know how to be a person <333 #he just like me fr #ada speaks #untagged

[littlepetbee]

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#people keep going on about how ~generous it is that my BIL lets me and my sister live in the house with him and his wife aka my other sister #and it's so hard not to be like 'UM IT'S MY DAMN HOUSE' #because um it's my damn house #me and my sisters have been planning to move out together for years...we just had to wait until we could swing it financially #and my sister is the one that bought the house and specifically got one with rooms for us #BECAUSE UM. IT'S MY DAMN HOUSE #IT'S NOT GENEROUS TO ALLOW ME TO LIVE IN MY OWN DAMN HOUSE JUST BC HE'S IN A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP WITH MY SISTER #they've been married for a month. romantically involved for a few more than that. have known each other just a year+ in total. #whereas we've all been sisters for 25 years HELLO #what...was he just supposed to kick us out??? ARE YOU INSANE??? is that truly how people view marriage and ~romantic shit?? #THAT ALL OF A SUDDEN YOU'RE THE ONLY PEOPLE THAT MATTER AND IT'S GENEROUS TO NOT SEND YOUR WIFE'S SISTERS BACK TO AN ABUSIVE HOUSEHOLD??? #sorry i know i'm yelling a lot i just hate people's view of marriage/commitment/romantic relationships with the burning passion of 1000 sun #i cannot BELIEVE that my aro ass is considered the abnormal one when everyone else is apparently sociopaths smdh #...ftr there are zero issues with my BIL...he's really great and wants us to be live-in aunties for the baby #and whenever they talk about moving in the future he's automatically factoring in space for us bc we're welcome until death do us part #if that's what we want #so yeah no problem with him just EVERYONE FUCKING ELSE #personal

[underthestringlights]

When you're trying to share some fun fact knowledge about some true crime thing you learned to your mom but she just keeps going on about her ex boyfriend [Who said he could see himself committing a mass shooting just cuz] that she was in love with and lowkey hasn't gotten over despite that she's been married to your father for almost 25 years

#all I said was “yeah this guy had sociopathic tendencies #and then suddenly its all about her ex #like bestie I know he said hed be okay with shooting a large group of people once #but we're not talking about him #I literally had to listen to her talk about how she wished they wouldve stayed together despite him SA-ing her and how much she loved him #its red flag after red flag but nooo #anyways I just wanted to talk about true crime stuff

[convoloutedinjoke]

This is maybe a bit of projection that is telling in all the least flattering ways but fuck it w/e, I think a breakthrough moment in postcanon Kim/Harry relationship functionality would be Harry having an epiphany like "ohhhhh. I don't HAVE to strategically manipulate him into accommodating my needs I can just TALK to him." after spending a couple months jumping through hoops and lying up a storm in order to like. not mention that some kinds of sex are scary and his joints start to hurt if they cuddle in the wrong position for too long. lol lmao etc.

#once again not tagging this because I am in the twee characterisation zone #but if uuuuh if I may be crunge for one moment #if you can but spare me another moment of your time #harriers be masking #for a variety of reasons #(note: the expression the copotypes the skills themselves especially drama and suggestion and savour fare) #(sidebar within a sidebar: not to autism all over this guy but others have noted the style of pretty much all prose happening in his head #is very self-critical and unforgiving. and in light of that I would like to direct attention to two of those being referred to and being #“good for” psychopaths and sociopaths #in light of everything else this really feels like just another facet of his feeling divorced from/unworthy of “normal” people! #like. thinking of yourself as a sociopath for having to manually interpret and react to social signals is!!! anyway) #the mask is on good and hard and its there for a reason but its also pretty indiscriminate about who it gets deployed on #(thinks about Harrys brain dora saying he cant “talk like a normal person” #did they ever fight about that? or is this more internalised self-hatred filtered through an attempt to understand what made her leave?) #anyway hes in the habit of Manipulating his way into getting what he needs from people #because being honest hasn't worked out so hot for him #like its been talked about a lot already but he calls the people who are supposed to be his backup and they take the piss out of him for #almost dying. how do you think they'd react to him asking for disability accommodations? #(not well. that was rhetorical.) #but hes alive and not as unwell as you might expect given literally everything he has going on #so he's finding a way to be accomedated somehow #and he is canonically prone to manipulation #im not saying that as a dunk! he just is and it doesnt have to be read as an unforgivable flaw #most of what he does with it is like. Fine. #but its there #ok idk where im going with this anymore im. very dehydrated #post over ogoodninght