Hey. Wouldn't it have been better to order another one after finishing one? Must you order them together?
Park Tae-yang + her two bowls of soupy dishes
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Tae Yang is so incredibly self-destructive that it makes me so sad for her. She has so much shame that she’s internalized that she’s a bad person and doesn’t deserve happiness. Because Tae Yang thinks that about herself, she purposely (and by purposely, it’s definitely on an unconscious level) puts herself into situations where she will be treated in a way to reinforce that shame and narrative about herself.
Tae Yang didn’t have to go to the national team party for Joon Young, but she chose to do so. She knew that Joon Young would get upset, say some harsh words to Tae Yang, and then probably leave. So, knowing those things, why would Tae Yang decide to go? I’m sure that Tae Yang thinks that if Joon Young gets everything out, then things might get better, but I definitely think it runs a whole lot deeper than that. By going to that party and getting chewed out by Joon Young, Tae Yang’s narrative that she’s a bad person and doesn’t deserve happiness gets reinforced. As much of a bully Young Sim was in earlier episodes, she was right in that Tae Yang can’t force someone to listen to an apology if they’re not ready, which I’m sure Tae Yang would be able to tell someone else, but it doesn’t apply to her because she wants to get punished.
The thing about Tae Yang’s self-destructive shame is that it prevents her from being able to see a life beyond that shame and that drive to be punished for being a bad person by other people. Whenever she starts to feel happy, like she did when she won that international match, she can’t let herself experience that happiness because how could a bad person be happy, so she self-sabotages or runs away.
In order for Tae Yang to heal, she’s going to need to let go of that shame and her narrative that she’s a bad person. While she does have a big role in what happened to Joon Young, she’s not the only person at fault. Joon Young made choices that day/night that helped contribute to what happened and Tae Yang should only be taking on responsibility for her role in what happened. Tae Yang will need to realize that she deserves to be happy, that she deserves to be loved, and that she deserves to have people to lean on instead of doing things alone.
We are definitely seeing Tae Yang take some baby steps in this area because of her relationship with Tae Joon. She is making the effort to be in a relationship with him, even though she obviously doesn’t feel like she deserves to be happy with him. While she doesn’t know yet that Tae Joon is Joon Young’s younger brother, I do think having someone who doesn’t idolize Joon Young will be helpful for Tae Yang. Tae Yang sees Joon Young as someone who is perfect, but she has her faults and flaws like everyone else. Tae Joon has a much different perspective on his sister than Tae Yang does, so that will help her realize that Joon Young isn’t some perfect person.
The dad also needs to stop making Tae Yang feel like she’s only worthy when she’s good at badminton, but that’s a whole other topic for another time.
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taejun's mum can fuck right off. your son is in pain (both emotionally and physically) and all you can say is 'thank you'? what kind of a heartless monster.... food isn't going to make this any better you wench.
i can't say that i like junyoung, but she's growing on me a little, there might be hope for her yet it seems. at least she seems to give a shit about taejun, even if it's just a little. it's more than he gets from his parents anyways...
how shitty are the coaches though that they couldn't catch this injury but his sister who's been away from the sports world for 3 years took one look at him trying to play and was like 'you better get your ass to the hospital because that just looks wrong'????!
and i just love the 'boys be ambitous' bromance. was rooting for that from the start haha
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OMO OMO OMO, it's not just Tae-joon, Tae-yang is also an unofficial record holder (323 km, is it?), and she responds accordingly to his speed! Good for you, girl!
Gosh, I'm loving this couple so much.
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┄┈▻ ،⿴: 𝐈𝖼𝗈𝗇𝗌: 𝗣𝖺𝗋𝗄 𝗧𝖺𝖾𝗒𝖺𝗇𝗀 ᥏
⏝፝֯֟⏝፝֯֟⏝፝֯֟⏝፝֯֟⏝፝֯֟
🌧͟͟͞͞➳: 𝖿𝖺𝗏 𝗈𝗋 𝗋𝖾𝖻𝗅𝗈𝗀 𝗂𝖿 𝗎 𝗌𝖺𝗏𝖾 ➢
🎬͟͞➳: 𝖫𝗈𝗏𝖾 𝖠𝗅𝗅 𝖯𝗅𝖺𝗒 ➢
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Just finished Love all Play and it took me right back to all the feels I got from Weightlifting Fairy . K drama fans, please suggest some sports romance k dramas for me- I’ve found my new fixation
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"Sevgi almış bir insan olduğunu bir saniye bile unutma..Çünkü seni bir saniye bile dinlenmeden seveceğim."
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ive said it before and ill say it again PARK TAEYANG = BEST BOI
genuinely haven't been this in love wiht a ML since our golden boy myung hee tae (lee do hyun <3 ) on youth of may
our potato boy is just so grown up and mature and funny but please show stop hitting him with so much angst, his fake smile with sad eyes is heart-breaking
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