#school and social life balance

[shalashbisht]

#working and going to school #school and social life balance #life balance #ecole globale international girls school #ecole globale #girls schools in india #girls boarding schools in India #girls boarding schools in dehradun #boarding schools in dehradun #tips for college students #tips for college #tips for students #schools in dehradun #work life balance

[ind1c0lite]

Also my friend and I are preparing a backrooms campaign and Im devastated to report that he will not let me put the backshrooms as an item

#Im so sorry I will never recover from this #this is also why i haven't been super active I have been balancing school work a social life and this campaign #Alas tumblr had to be cut :pensive: #still love yall <3 #luna lrambles

[torchickentacos]

Okay, this is far above tumblr's paygrade but I genuinely need help on this and wanted to cast a wide net for people with different experiences to answer. tw for mentions of abuse (I'm fine, it's not for me) but I keep it very clinical and as light (wrong word but just. you know. as undisturbing) as this topic possibly can be. just a cut and dry kind of thing, no specifics for privacy, no specific descriptions of abusive actions or any of that. I almost went to reddit for this but ultimately reddit tends to front-page things with no input from op and tumblr has more of an anonymity and privacy that I want for this question.

I have a friend, 22ish, who has a bad family situation, we've been friends since high school. They regularly go months without answering in our 4 person HS group chat. This is normal, but concerning because they used to not be like this. It's been going on for a couple years now though. We'll hear from her once every couple months but it's gotten less and less frequent. We've discussed a wellness check, but can't guarantee her mother will not get mad at her for us sending it even though we have not been in contact at all and it was not requested. It's getting to be really concerning, though, as for a couple of minutes yesterday, friend flashed another friend in the chat her location. this is after MONTHS of no contact with us. no context was provided, and checking news reports in the area provided no news of anything. We haven't heard from her since and are thinking it was an accidental butt dial kind of thing, but it's still weighing on me. I know rationally there is nothing I can do. I could take her into my house but she won't answer texts or tell us anything. Our hands are tied, as getting law enforcement involved is a serious step to take (yes, acab, but this is a really specific situation and for her safety we're considering every option available, even the pigpen- she's very white passing and we did take that into consideration since wellness checks for racial minorities tend to go far more poorly due to systemic racism) and I cannot guarantee her safety afterwards if her mother was to take the wellness check out on her. I cannot text and ask anything specific because she won't answer and we never want her mom to be suspicious.

Ultimately, I think there's nothing I can do. She refuses to text us if she even has access to her phone, I have no idea if she's going back to another state miles and miles away for school in the fall, if she's still working or in college or ANYTHING, I have had no contact or context for such a long time now that there's no way to make an educated decision. I think I have to just wait until we hear from her, which could be months and months and months. But if anyone here has been in a similar situation, please tell me what you did. I hate coming to fucking TUMBLR for such a pressing issue but again, I want a wide net of opinions and experiences for this, as I'm entirely lost.

#one of the many reasons i've been out a lot lately. #just... a lot going on. kind of everyone in my life has a crisis of some sort right now #and it's all a bit on my shoulders #i'm kind of balancing everyone's stuff and trying to be there for a lot of people and i'm neglecting my own stuff rn #and neglecting some friendships. that includes a few of you and i hope this kind of contextualizes that #namely neglecting my social life but once i get. you know. the Issues under control i'll try to be less absent. #but right now it's just. family friends acquaintances school EVERYTHING AND EVERYONE #and i have to find a way to be okay through all of it which is taking a lot out of me right now #it's the dog in the house on fire meme. this is fine :)))))))) i'm fine :))))))))))))))

[bethiewhimsy]

dazais a closet caffeine addict. you dont ever see him drinking it but its the only reason he gets through the day. he gets horse sleep (2-3 hours in intervals). yosanos busy as a med student but even shes worried hes gonna drop dead one day

YESSSSSS he’s also definitely the guy that’s asleep in class (when he’s not very awake and asking very annoying questions the entire time)

#yosano is definitely the most steady person in the group #she’s getting a nice degree and she has a good future ahead of her. she has a good balanced work school and social life. #and everyone else is very jealous #bungo college dogs

[redheadarcher]

“you know what ? i just decided that i'ma let go of things i can't control.”

spotify wrapped meme // accepting ! 52 | let it go - khaled @spideymn

#so she doesn't show much #on the surface but she worries #a lot about everything #and this is her trying to convince herself #that she won't worry about things #she can't control #BUT IT'S A LIE #she's also probably talking about #balancing school + social life + heroe life so #let’s see where this goes ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ #spideymn

[goldiecastelia]

I NEED TO FINISH WRITING THE THIRD CHAPTER OF THE FANFIC!! I NEED!!! But I have no inspiration, oh Heavens, what will become of me (going to write something at the same time

#I'M IN TEST WEEK AND I'M EXHAUSTED #I literally took a math test today #and I managed to ask just one question #I want to cry but at the same time I want to write #How do the Alfea fairies balance social life and school life? #I mean they have a lot more problems than us #I'm going to take some colic medicine #Thinking about what I could write #fate the winx saga #ftws fanfic #ftws #original writing #stellatrix #fanfiction #beatrix of eraklyon #stella of solaria #creative writing #oc child

[thedarklyblue]

ughhhh

#.txt #wish i could be confident in my opinions!! #currently stressed because i'm using one name at school and another at home and havent had that conversation with my parents #(which makes it tough bc like. if they come see a show i worked on. there's that one in the program and i didn't tell them.) #((out to them as nonbinary but they went :/ are you sure so i have not been pushing the issue)) #and i get a nyt subscription as a student and my evening update just sent me an article about parents whose kids are socially transitioning #and the schools aren't telling them #and i GET it you feel betrayed. you feel not trusted as a parent. #and i fully understand being unsure and hesitant. but something about this is rubbing #me the wrong way. it's still so important to give kids room to experiment and explore! #if you're going to look at your kid figuring out their identity and go 'oh well you're clearly not sure so i don't believe you' then they'll #work on it by themselves. #and then when they come to you and say this is who i am you'll go 'oh it's so sudden!! how could you not tell me i think this is a fad' #and this is such a weird balancing game and i really hate how the article covered it and now i'm fucking ANXIOUS #i just want to live!! also when you're like oh how can you be sure. how the FUCK are we supposed to figure it out without trying things????? #not everything is a fucking life-changing decision sometimes you just have to do shit #wish i hadn't read that article but uh nothing i can do about it now #i hate realizing that everything i have figured out here (how to explain myself to people #how to talk to profs about who i am) #doesn't do shit for me in the other contexts i live in #also living the 'do i come out to grandparents or do i for sure inherit money for top surgery' which feels gross but idkkkkk #anyway. Bad Brain Evening. thanks

[guatemami]

I’ve been so nervous about starting school again and been psyching myself out. But the smile I had when my professor referred to us as class of 2024!!! 🥺🥺🥺

#im so glad my friend is in the program w me #plus im proud af that im a first gen grad school student #hoping I have a good balance of social life and school work #me to me bitch u got this

[proteuus]

what if I just get a B in stats. did anyone think of that. they don't know I know this hack

#no I'll do it properly this is soo fucked up though <- consequences of managing my time very poorly #turns out balancing school work clubs & social life actually will come back to bite you if you arent paying attention #also wildest dreams is playing at work rn it's such a good song. tbh. #i havent listened to midnights yet but i will... #no but yeah if the opportunity to manage my time poorly later tonight presents itself im taking it bc im stupid. #so i have to finish all my work before then. and if i end up not having night plans then i can do more work and get ahead win-win

[astrxealis]

it's only 2:30 ish but it feels likeejfjewbwijfowbddn

#⋯ ꒰ა starry thoughts ໒꒱ *·˚ #TIRED ... school is tiring . tmrw is online tho >_< and tbh it's all just p fun hehe #i have yet to make new friends in class but i am!! doing well!!! ?!?!!?? slowly talking more #i think i cld make friends w . 2 classmates ... one is an old acquaintance and another is an old friend i don't talk w as much anymore #there's another! new student! maybe! and then another new student maybe. and then uhm ... 2/3 other old students/acquaintances #all in my class >_< KDBSKDJS I FEEL LIKE THERE'S PPL IN OTHER SECTIONS I MIGHT GET ALONG WELL W BUT THAT'S HARD. and idk for sure #so i'll hopefully make connections thru my orgs too ! and join one or two from outside my school >_< also be more socially active in ffxiv #and i will balance that all w my social media life <3 HOORAY so much but i believe in myself & will try my best to balance

[priestfrommidnightmass]

shit i’ve submitted for school is so funny… once i wrote a short story abt a mouse who could kill people instantly and how there was like a fight club esque underground scene where people would go to see this mouse kill people without doing anything. another time i wrote a short script based on a tomgreg one shot in my notes (names changed) abt two men having an affair. another time i wrote a persuasive essay abt why moonlight is one of the best movies of all time. another time i deeply analyzed the song reptilia by the strokes. thank god i’m a good writer and english teachers are notorious for dealing with gay people because what the fuck is Wrong with me

#nick thoughts #can’t wait for school to start again and see what new insane shit i submit #my poor english teachers #i’m so funny. i’m so funny #i once wrote the most flowery essay possible abt social media Bad #and god i remember i hated this one teacher i had so i’d write abt capitalism being bad every time i could for some reason #once i called her a centrist and she had to google it on the meeting and was like #That’s a good word it means you’re balanced so thank you for calling me that #jesus christ #my life is so funny #also bless my current english teacher #once she gave me a pronoun pin and was like I got these in and was like hey he would love this!! #when you’re a good writer surrounded by people who don’t do their work. you can do anything #could ponder the state of things on a page for 10 pages and teachers would be like Wow. Deep #i remember on my affair one my teacher commented Wow very mature or something. and said nothing else #what teenager writes abt gay businessman affairs. me that’s who

[discreetmusic]

starting a new job today on a Big Name podcast... wish me luck

#im just proofing for now so it should be pretty simple and only once every few weeks but after a bit i'll start doing actual editing too #im so burnt out you guys i got 8 hours sleep last night and im still exhausted #i could barely keep my eyes open at work yesterday #but i guess this is all good #its just balancing several jobs and school assignments and exams and parties and social life and heavy drinking is destroying me slightly #anyway lol wish me luck at yet ANOTHER job im starting #personal

[eatsless]

my fall semester classes start tomorrow and the course work is way bigger than i expected and im ready to start crying. in one class i have 21 assignments due by next friday, so 11 days. im taking 4 classes and working and i managed to do it last semester and get good grades but now im really stressing. trying to get my core curriculum out of the way before i transfer out of my community college to a better college to pursue my degree, and trying to keep my GPA high, all while trying not to go broke and burn out. my mental health is awful and has been getting worse, and im just really hoping that this semester doesn't absolutely plummet it.

#im really stressing #its my dream to get an archaeology degree and be able to get a good job and pursue what im passionate about #but im totally going to go into debt and struggle to balance work and school and a social life

[tg-pilled]

Pookies I'm sorry I'm not reblogging much tg content...ofc I still love and adore it very very much but my mind is being rotted by so many different medias rn + the amnt of uni work I have is so 😿😿😿

#pilledtalks #probably going to be a hermit this quarter #shoutout to not being able to balance a social life with school

[s3plan]

the weekend should be 3 days its not fairrrrrr

#i sleep one night at my bfs house every weekend and itll usually be on a saturday #and even tho i love it and its such a routine thing at this point i will be absolutely exhausted the day after #so i end up not rlly having a lot of time to just be by myself and do stuff at home #when the. school/rest/social life balance is impossible to achieve :/