#the way she discussed that man

[fagsex]

when i was younger i was so toxic aka i didnt think cheating as a celebrity was That Bad like i really could not wrap my 7yo mind around caring. so when i heard my family suddenly shun tiger woods and everything related to him (my great grandfather was a professional golfer and really pushed that into his family) they wouldnt tell me why and all i heard was something to do with his wife from the copious amounts of family guy my parents put on. so instead of scarring my young ears to extramarital affairs, i naturally went to the conclusion he mustve murdered her which struck me as odd because he seemed so mild mannered and even odder because he wasnt in prison but i drew the answer that well, hes a celebrity they dont go to prison for murdering people, taken from other cases i knew of such as matthew broderick. and i legit thought this until like. 15 when i was watching something and they referenced it and i was like ...... that makes more sense. sorry tiger woods also i just googled you and wow you are young sorry buddy. see youre still unmarried we can fix that baby

#emergency broadcast system #this wasnt tiger woods exclusive. my mom REALLY hated celebs who were unloyal but she wouldn't tell me about it so i thought a lot of #celebs had murdered people based on the way she would talk about them. like the guy from coldplay i assumed he had gone a killing spree #the way she discussed that man #dont get me started on when daft punk quote unquote snubbed jimmy kimmel or whatever

[himejoshiangels]

cass cain is so emotive and I hate that so many of yall fall straight into the stoic asian woman stereotype thing because like, the only reason cass wouldn't vocalize a feeling is when she would struggle to find the word for it because she literally wasn't taught how to speak. that's so fucking upsetting. She has such big beautiful emotions, she feels so deeply about the littlest things but everytime she has trouble putting it into words she's reminded that she was conceived not to. her abuser did not have her feelings or her pain in mind, only how well she could end a life. can you fucking imagine

#cass giggles and screams over her favorite tv show #she throws herself around the room with passion bcs shes so happy about a character arc #she goes to discuss it with babs and finds herself frustrated and furious head in her hands bcs she wants to express the complexities of her #favorite character but she does not have the words yet #u guys take sm fun outta her character when u portray her as stoic and maybe a little sassy sometimes to pretend u do care abt her #shes witty shes sarcastic shes immovable in her ideals shes emotional shes irrational and immature she leaves messes everywhere and #i dunno man just treat her the way youd treat ur white male fave like shes actually a character instead of an overpowered cardboard box #batgirl #cassandra cain #thought bubbles

[mxtxfanatic]

Fandom Gripe #23: I know that fandom is in some deep denial about its treatment of female characters that are canonically involved with fan favorite m/m ships, but do y’all realize that when you disappear female characters from the narrative wholesale to push the idea that your canonically straight fav was “secretly gay all along!” you’re making several bad implications? That 1) bi men don’t exist, 2) bi men do exist, but those who have genuinely loved a woman before cannot genuinely love a man after that (therefore bi men don’t exist in practice), 3) women cannot inspire genuine love and devotion in men, therefore any relationship with a woman is “lesser” than the one they later have a man (see previous parenthesis), or 4) to acknowledge the existence of a lovable woman who isn’t a terrible person, where if a relationship previously existed, it did not end because of “incompatibility,” is enough to destabilize the present relationship between two queer men?

Because why is the tgcf fandom allergic to acknowledging that He Xuan had a whole ass fiancée that he loved? Why does no one ever seem to remember that the kidnappings and murders of He Xuan’s sister and fiancée were the final straws that sent him on his rampage, and he still keeps a shrine to them in the present-day of the story? Why is her entire existence and significance to He Xuan as a man, character, and to his character arc disappeared in favor of pushing Shi Qingxuan—the brother of the man responsible for his fiancée’s death—into that same role, as if to say that her impact on He Xuan is significant... just not when it's from her? Why does He Xuan’s life in fandom essentially begin not just after her death but because of it?

#tgcf #human gripes at fandom #anyways these are rhetorical questions because I already know the answer #i just absolutely hate it #why do y’all hate female characters so badly 😭 #especially when they ‘get in the way’ of m/m ships? #mxtx shows that woman more respect in the book than fandom does outside of it #and she didn’t even give that character a name! #simply embarrassing #i could have also talked about jgy here #but let’s be real: that man never loved qin su (or anyone) #so i did not want to include him when discussing people who are *actually* capable of unconditionally loving others #but anyways #mdzs fandom sure loves to either disappear qin su #or act as if she’s the one responsible for why their precious ‘meng yao’ can’t just hop into bed with his bros #you know? the one he killed and the one he used as an accomplice in his murder? those bros? that he so obviously loved with sincerity? #at least moreso than he could ever love a *woman* amiright? #(for legal purposes that last tag was a joke) #i also really hate the implication that he xuan had no life before shi wudu ruined it #that in fact shi wudu made his life 'better' by tying him to shi qingxuan #the romanticization of shi wudu's actions to make way for a ship is... a Choice

[stewyhosseini-bf]

what does it all mean

#kenrava #kenstewy #parallels #kendall roy #rava roy #stewy hosseini #something about a stewyrava parallel that i can't resist. also the way the scenes are like total opposites in terms of like. the lighting #the setting. like kenrava in the family home. chatting awkwardly and then kenstewy outside at night just like by the side of the road #discussing impactful deals. idk #also the fact that she's like yeah actually that would have been more logical and stewy's like nah this was perfect i love seeing you make #insane choices. idk idk i just feel like they do kinda encapsulate these two sides of ken - the 'i'm a normal family man' sober good guy #and the. kinda out of control coked up guy who tries to kill his dad every chance he gets it

[musical-chick-13]

So I guess ultimately my question is why are we assuming that Nayuta specifically meant “Denji belongs to me definitively, and you are trying to take his attention away from me?”

Aside from the fact that narrative misdirection is a thing and that I think it would completely contradict all the themes of the story thus far to just have her be Makima 2.0 and inherently evil...

We don’t actually know if she and Yoru recognize each other or not? Even on a subconscious level. If she does recognize Yoru (and, reasonably, knows how her powers work) calling Yoru a thief could have meant that “You are trying to steal Denji’s spinal cord to make a weapon” or even “You have stolen this random girl’s body to use for yourself.” (Even if she doesn’t know specifically that Yoru is sharing Asa’s body, she might still be able to tell that something weird is going on?)

She’s still a child, she might have just impulsively said the smallest amount of words that would sort-of convey what she was feeling.

I’m not worried yet.

Yet.

#I know people are pointing to the 'don't kiss me in front of her' as evidence of her posessiveness over denji but. she's also a child? #lots of children just don't like seeing kissing in general. especially involving family members. it's also possible that...idk they were #watching a movie once with a kiss scene and she made a disgusted face or something and denji just interpreted that the wrong way #I mean. I know creators like to troll people especially ones who are essentially human cryptids like fujimoto but...he did say that part 2 #would be different from part 1. idk he's not a stupid writer I don't think he would go this hard on Themes™ of love and connection and how #they enrich our lives and then backtrack on that? I don't think he would highlight how Things Will Be Different if it didn't mean anything? #MANY THOUGHTS HEAD FULL #I'm still sad we didn't get a discussion between yoru and nayuta about eating crayons I'm thinking too much about that one comic #nayuta #yoru #chainsaw man #chainsaw man spoilers #chainsaw man manga spoilers #csm spoilers #csm manga spoilers #csm chapter 119 #(I think that's all of the tags people might have reasonably blocked if they don't want manga spoilers???)

[metanarrates]

lee sookyung giving up 20 years of her life and trapping kim dokja in a way she knows he will hate her for is such a good parallel for the defining choice she made in the past. years in prison. an essay that will follow kim dokja wherever he goes. a bond permanently damaged. she'll always hurt him in the same ways, because it's the only way she knows how to protect him

#nic's great orv reread #AND HE WILL HURT OTHERS IN SIMILAR WAYS! FUCK! #also im really normal about her doing all this for his survival and he still couldn't figure our how to live. #he talked about the novel because it was the only thing he knew how to discuss with her. because it kept him alive when she couldn't #AND SHE REMEMBERED IT SO WELL IT KEPT HER ALIVE TOO!!!!!! man. #im really like. im rambling now (weed) but im so fascinated by her reaction to tswa #she says to his face that it's not a good book and she doesn't understand why he cares for it #but she named him 'reader.' she taught him to love books. and she listened to him when he loved this book #i do wonder if she does understand more than she thinks. #anyway im real normal about this woman

[catoscloves]

so i agree that taylor is extremely white and privileged and there are problems with her far beyond this blanket, general statement that i just made. but the way you all take "you wouldn't last a day in the asylum that they raised me" at face value/extremely literally is.... odd!! it's like listening to "no body no crime" and saying "why would she write that song she didn't actually murder her friend's husband what a liar" as if you've never heard of an artist/singer using extended metaphor/hyperbole in their songs and maybe... making things up? for what they perceive as artistic value in their songs?

#this woman is the most famous person in the world i think she knows that anyone can google her and realize she wasn't raised in an asylum #if you want to criticise the casual way people discuss mental illness like it isn't a big deal that's one thing!!! #but idk man i don't think yelling at taylor over a single lyric that clearly wasn't meant to be taken literally is the way to do that #anyone that wants to engage with this post will do so respectfully!! #taylor swift #ttpd #the tortured poets department #who's afraid of little old me?

[anglerflsh]

Context: So there's this owl house tournament going on and Belos got knocked out the first round

He's such an interesting villain do people really hate him that much

I'd say that it's a good sign that your villain is hated by the fandom, actually - with its exceptions, the fact that people really and truly despise the character that they were supposed to despise shows good writing.

Of course, I would disagree with that loathing, but that's just because my tastes are different. Perhaps if it was a "best character concept," he'd go up higher lol

#and people judge characters by how likeable they are usually - not necessary by how good the concept behind them is #I say concept because some of the writing for Belos /is/ unsatisfactory. But that's because Dana herself dislikes writing him methinks #she said so once and I cannot even fathom someone not liking writing their Main Antagonist. The guy you Have to write a lot. #man. I don't know that bit leaves me pretty baffled. If you don't like writing him then change the way you write the guy? #toh discussion #[.asks] #anonymous #of course Hunter will sweep that poll. Disappointing honestly

[elendsessor]

i exist to spite everyone who thinks demifiend is straight

in what world do you look at him for one second and think “yeah that’s a dude only into women”

#bi at least #bro whenever i come across certain discussions people act as if he only could possibly like pixie #nah man chiaki existed before he realized she sucks #and dammit he chills way too much around twinks for him to be totally 100% not into them #shantien rambles #smt #megaten

[derpinette]

i miss going to school because i always knew everybody's business but nobody knew mine due to being a huge loser. & it ruled

#now i am still a loser ( well actually this cool bubbly normie girl likes to pull me along with her but it makes me feel bad ) #( also i hate going outside & barely do now because i am having an androphobia flare RN which is to say agoraphobia like i vomit... gay AF #but anyway i also went to small private schools with declining enrollment numbers all my life Well only two one for 13 years #& then i switched to a cheaper one on my senior year. i would lurk & people would be like No worries you can say it it's only nyumie here #or they would tell me directly when nobody would want to talk to them due to drama & then leave & forget me as soon as they could #nobody would ever ask about my business it was so effingg awesome. altho there were rumors i was gay ( completely true ) #the fact that both schools were small made it so that it was easier to know what was happening in most grades #but now IDK ANYTHING EVER even if i were to eavesdrop my faculty is just way too big & i barely even attend anyway +i hate that dump ETC ET #this is so detrimental to my QOL & need to Observe &Lurk my life is so EMPTY & boring i want to know somebody's petty drama #& i KNOW it happens you just have to be in a circle & attend everyday which I CBAAAA. when people pull me aside to hang out i know then #but i want NO INVOLVEMENT !!!! i just want to be in the background leave me alone i already have a girl i can relate & be loyal to #& she dropped out i never thought i actually would but here we are. i just want to acquire information from a distance on a regular basis-_ #the reason why i never hated going to school despite bullying up until like my last year is because well i grew up in my original school #so i was familiar with everyone & everyday there would be something new & funny to discuss with my bestie who lives far away now -_- #i meanwe only really saw eachother at school anyway Man i wish i could GO BACK but not really vut yes but no...

[captain-amadeus]

The Floating Palace conflict would've never happened if it weren't for Cedric kidnapping Oona

#let that sink in (pun intended) #/ref sjhdhdjdj #like man cedric has indirectly caused her problems and had caused a situation where she was #for the most part #helpless #like cannot deny cedric has done some stuff #and although he's redeemed later on he was actively causing problems while finding ways to take over the kingdom #the whole thing of people not believing sofia is a different discussion #but man #I still love cedric he just wasn't the best person because people hurt him #stf #sofia the first #sofia the fandom #cedric the sorcerer #the floating palace

[oh2e]

Not to add to discourse but does the OP of this sentence not think the two things are related?

stupid children on this website blog about how she was killed for being 'asexual.' a blatant lie. she was killed for being a young woman who rejected a man's sexual advances.

Pretty sure ace people are more likely than allo people to reject sexual advances, so therefore her asexuality was most likely related, no?

#this is about a teenager who was murdered a few years ago by a man she rejected #she has publicly posted under the ‘this is what asexual looks like’ hashtag which is pretty conclusive proof she was ace #I don’t think anyone is saying her murder isn’t misogynistic but her being ace was probably ALSO related #my own post #I’m not actually looking for a discussion I just cannot get over the ways some people will try to #‘prove’ ace people aren’t discriminated against or harmed because of their asexuality #despite many many asexual people giving examples from small to big to the contrary. (this being an extreme example)

[toastsnaffler]

the hr person from the last interview has asked to call me on TEAMS........ im so scared

#not until 2pm so i have like 3.5 hours to be anxious abt it 🥰 but Girl. #I wish she'd said straight up in the email why she wanted to call bc it seems like a lot for a rejection call. but also surely if- #it was a possible offer to discuss she would mention that in the email.....Man #also if its a rejection id rather just have an email or a phone call w feedback bc it feels kind of mean for them to watch me react #not that i would react on call i think id be pretty neutral abt it but like. auuurghhh #also she didnt contact me until 6:30pm yesterday i think if it was an offer i wouldve heard abt it earlier in the day #what is going ooooonnn............ #im not getting my hopes up either way. maybe she wants to put me forward elsewhere again or theyre offering voluntary experience or smth #no point thinking abt it too much we'll see what happens.. #.diaries