#this isnt strictly an ace problem but im gonna tag it anyways

[im-a-goddamn-cat]

really odd how ppl will advocate for sexual freedom and the ability to determine your own sexuality but then turn around and make fun of and/or insult ppl who don't have sex, ppl who don't have sex often, and ppl who don't have until sex later in life. you can't pick and choose whose sexuality is more valid. ik that sex and having a lot of sex is demonized to hell and back but the solution to that is not to demonize ppl who abstain from sex, ppl who don't have much sex, and ppl who stay virgins into adulthood for whatever reasons. ppl who don't have sex/a lot of sex or haven't had sex are already stigmatized as is. if you're gonna claim to be all-for sexual freedom but then look down on ppl who don't fit your criteria for how much a person should have sex then you're not truly for sexual freedom bc sexual freedom isn't just about letting ppl have as much sex as they want and how they want, it's also about letting ppl decide for themselves what their boundries are and if or when they want to have sex or not

#sorry idk if this makes sense #but damn im so sick of this shit man #its so shitty to many ppl #ace ppl and allo ppl who dont want to have sex or havent had sex yet get shit on so much and for what??? #fucking hate it #this isnt strictly an ace problem but im gonna tag it anyways #meowing #ace #asexual #asexuality #aspec #acespec #queer #lgbt #lgbtqia #lgbtqia+ #lgbt+ #mogai