#to say that u hate shippers and then put this in my inbox is so….

[tteokdoroki]

🌸 - I just want to establish the following isn’t an attack on all shippers of this ship because not all of you are toxic it’s just that some of y’all scare me;

So I have been having a few mental health issues this week and I have the bkdk tag blocked but I can’t figure out how to block tags on yt and instagram so I literally started crying when I was exposed to it. I experienced a lot of toxicity from them on twt so I can’t even look at the ship but kiribaku has been my comfort ship. Unfortunately because the canon material has been focused on deku and bakugo, which makes me deeply uncomfortable. I don’t have the context but the sheer idea of bakugo having feelings for the nerd, even in subtext makes me physically sick. It’s not that I don’t like deku, it’s just that the ship feels like pseudo incest because in my interpretation they act like brothers. Also the fact that kirishima isn’t really relevant as much anymore bothers me. He’s a good character on his own and I’ve accepted the fact that it won’t be canon because it’s shonen. But after kamijiro (which I also have blocked in tags but don’t mind at the moment) had that out of pocket scene that caused me a literal mental breakdown (long story), my mental health can’t handle the fact that bakugo literally sacrificed himself for deku without even a reference to his CANON BEST FRIEND kirishima. I deeply hope that we get a blatant confirmation that bakugo and deku have a BROTHERLY relationship even if we don’t get any on screen kiribaku crumbs. I want reassurance that bkdk would never happen and for the toxic shippers to stop posting bkdk content under the krbk tags and stop trying to force your ship onto others. I already had a crisis about accidentally falling in love with a fictional character (Denki) and feeling heartbroken but now I have to deal with possible subtextual evidence for bkdks and a lack of krbk content in canon. Please tell me I’m just the subtext wrong and that in context I don’t have to worry. I’m freaking out because I’ve seen krbk solos literally get doxxed on twitter and harassed by toxic bkdks.

listen, im only going to answer this ask/topic once im pretty sure i’ve addressed this with you personally already. this is not the first time I’ve warned you about trauma dumping here but im going to set some boundaries. please don’t do this in my inbox — i don’t know you personally and I’m literally just a girl on tumblr writing porn. i am not your best friend, you cannot dump issues on me like this out of the blue, especially without considering how they make me feel myself. you do not know me.

secondly as a person who regularly engages with both bkdk and krbk content i think this is extremely selfish and ridiculous for you to send this to me 😭 just because YOU had a bad experience with bkdk doesnt mean i should have this projected onto me. i am just a person on tumblr, im not a therapist — i can help with day to day issues but this just seems like something you need to figure out for yourself.

im sorry about the issues you have surrounding it and perhaps the toxic people on Twitter but it seems to me that you need to make the conscious decision to leave bnha Twitter or Twitter in general?? like idk what to tell you but the manga is literally about deku 😭 he’s the protagonist. you’re going to see him and bakugou interact. pseudo incest is literally ridiculous as well. they’re childhood friends ??? like what

im not going to reassure you about krbk this or bkdk that because quite frankly i don’t care. they’re lines on a page to me and its literally never that deep. shipping is meant to be for fun and not to be taken that seriously. i severely suggest that you take a break ?? from all thing bnha related because as you’ve stated it’s not been very good for you and im sorry for that.

i literally cannot even fathom how disrespectful this is 😭 coming to my inbox with no warning and venting like this. genuinely don’t mean to be rude but i have no idea what you expected me to respond with. it’s deeply concerning and literally never do this again. please.

#✧ ₊˚✉️੭ — new notification #tw: discourse #tw: shipping #to say that u hate shippers and then put this in my inbox is so…. #im so uncomfortable with this what the hell #this is so unhealthy literally never do this #like holy fuck i just woke up

[frobin]

it’s hilarious how frobin stans try and debunk every other robin ship. I found your debunking of lawbin post just by searching them up. Like your shit and stay in your lane. I recognise you too. You’re the try-to-be sanctimonious frobin stan on Twitter that says they always try to “check” toxic frobin stans but your likes consist of posts that trash other robin ships. I like frobin but the stans are worse than lunami shippers and have ruined frobin for me. It gives insecurity. The whole basis is “oh oda said they’re the mom and dad of the crew”. Yeah he also said Zoro is the dad and Usopp is the mother. So what then? All of u need to stop being so annoying

EVERYONE, I'm going to answer this ask because I want to educate. I have no idea if you return anon but hey... maybe you do and maybe you actually learn something from my post. But be aware I wrote it while being pissed off.

And sorry to all the LawBin fans who find this because of anon who did not censor the ship name. I don't control the anon.

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Mate... if I would try to seriously debunk La:wB:in I would put much more effort into it.

And what post do you mean? This one, that is two years old and posted because I tried to understand where you fans saw La:wB:in?

Or this one, with ONE (1) note, that I only answered because someone asked me? And sorry that I got a bit prissy in this one but I was annoyed by the fact that La:wB:in fans had spoiled me - while I was searching for FRobin on twitter - with something that turned out to be one of the thinnest anti-FRobin arguments that I've ever laid eyes on.

And I've seen quite a lot of anti-FRobin arguments. Honestly I have better anti-FRobin arguments than two people sitting beside each ohter!

"Like your shit and stay in your lane"

Yet, you are in my inbox.

"You’re the try-to-be sanctimonious frobin stan on Twitter that says they always try to “check” toxic frobin stans but your likes consist of posts that trash other robin ships."

True and even though it might seem insincere this ist the thought process: I hope that when I like their stuff - instead of retweeting it - they follow my twitter and see the many times I tweet "Please don't engage in fandom wank! Leave other shippers alone! Ship and let ship!"

And it is also true that I do sometimes tell peole "hey I'm sorry you had bad experiences with FRobin fans" because personally I mostly had positive ones. In my opinion FRobin fans are smart, calm, silent and love FRobin because it's healthy and wholesome. The exception from the rule? Most of the times Trolls.

I've told "FRobin fans" to stop to annoy others and they told me that they actually don't ship anything. Often enough people just want to stir shit up, making people hate "the shippers" and so "the ship".

Just like you. You fell for it and you also give a very bad image towards all of the La:wB:in shippers. But I know you're just a single warrior on your path of righteousness. Good luck finding the chill to not do that anymore, mate. Maybe read my pinned post?

Before anyone wonders why I made those screenshots: I sent them to a Zo:Ro:bin shipper to show them that maybe not every attack made by FRobin fans are actually FRobin fans. And the same goes for EVERY SHIP! EVERY SINGLE SHIP!

We different shippers and organiziers sometimes work together to bring shippers home, where they belong.

"I like frobin but the stans are worse than lunami shippers and have ruined frobin for me."

Here is a little fun fact: You can still enjoy FRobin without engaging with the fans. Just go read fanfiction on Ao3 without an account. Go on pixiv and deviantart and look at fanarts. Don't read tweets or tumblr posts. Curate your online expirence. It is really simple.

Also I don't know what LuNami has to do with anything... but you will find assholes for every ship and every fandom (yes, FRobin too). I tend to be quite the asshole sometimes. Luckily most of the time I calm down before I go full rage.

"It gives insecurity."

FRobin fans have nothing to be insecure about. We constantly make fun of our ship because of how safe we feel in our little vessel. It's a strong ship because we have a shipwright. ;)

"The whole basis is “oh oda said they’re the mom and dad of the crew”. Yeah he also said Zoro is the dad and Usopp is the mother. So what then? All of u need to stop being so annoying"

..... oh god I'm so tired. Please if you want to debunk FRobin just do your homework. If you want to know why people ship FRobin, here is some reading material. Go through it and then please give me something else to work with.

Why people ship FRobin:

Too much to read for you?

Take this:

"Franky and Robin are the mom and dad", mate that is not even accurate anymore. It's Jinbe now. Franky is a perverted Grandma.

God, imagine shipping FRobin only because of that... that is even a worse argument then "People only ship FRobin because of one non-canon scene in the anime". No dude...

The tag is "why I ship it" on this very blog. Educate yourself

#FRobin #not frobin #come on give me something to work with #I'm tired and bored #and I hope my RL friends don't learn that I answered this ask #because they said I should just delete it #but in case someone else finds this post #just do your homework before you come running into anyones inbox #and be aware of trolls #they are everywhere #they live for the wank #I hate that this is forgotten knowledge #kon

[jgnico]

to that anon who hate gojohim shippers because they think they "don't know" anything abt utahime and should just stop shipping her with gojo. did u think for a minute that since we barely know anything abt her but thats shes close with gojo to the point he trusts her to do this big favor for him, that shouldnt be a shipping material??? ive seen people ship gojo with miwa just because she idolizes him like wtf. people have shipped characters for far less.

so what if they make up headcannons about her character and make up fanfics abt her and gojo? is it a crime to do so? you justify that gojo should just be shipped with geto since they were close? bruh ship them for all you want but maybe stop policing people on what constitutes as a good ship based on the screen time the characters had. are u all just mad that we made up utahime's character like that could even influence the author's mind lmao we can make up whatever we want because thats literally what headcannons mean and people shouldnt be outright dismissive of other people ideas of a certain character when in the first place the character wasnt even given an in depth background.

Anon, I think maybe you have the wrong inbox. Or youre talking about an anon who sent an ask in the middle of last year, so I'll say what I said then: I'm not gonna have shipping discourse on my blog.

People can not like your preferred ship and you can not like theirs, it doesn't matter so long as you're not sharing your opinions in places where they don't belong.

Also, I'll say that even though Utahime's character doesnt have the development that others do, that doesn't make her a blank slate. She's still someone that cares deeply for her students and is willing to put herself in front of them when they're in danger, she's still someone that worked incredibly hard to get the job and ranking she has, she's still a woman working within a system thats incredibly misogynistic. She likes sports --specifically baseball. She's competative and loud when she's excited. She doesn't enjoy being put on the spot when she isn't prepared for it. She likes alcohol and doesn't like sweets. She's close to Shoko --most likely due to how Shoko doesn't make herself the center of attention and is relativity laid-back and calm in comparison to Geto and Gojo.

None of that is headcanon btw. If you really look, you can figure out a lot about what kind of person Utahime is from how she acts around others. Is it the same as knowing her back-story? No. But it's better than saying that we know nothing about her and making stuff up as we go.

#use your own blog for this ty #anon #answers

[aphrodict]

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[singofsolace]

Ik there’s a code of silence about saying anything negative about any wlw ship in this fandom or u get attacked but I don’t rly get Zarie. just not on a basic level like wanting the same things in life n having the same sense of humour. But also it doesn’t seem ‘brilliant’ that as u said, M is v presumptive & ignores/assumes Z’s boundaries. shippers either ignore that she treats her that way or say Z’s boundaries r the problem & should change rather than M’s lack of respect. Z deserves better :(

First, I hope you understand that this is exactly the kind of anonymous message I was hoping to avoid by giving such a thorough and balanced review of the Zarie relationship. If you had come to me with your name attached to your words, we could have a civil conversation about this, but I’m not feeling very civil this morning, and you’re hiding behind a little gray box. 

Let’s break this message down, shall we? This is going to be long, so it’s going under the cut.

1) “I don’t rly get Zarie. Just not on a basic level like wanting the same things in life n having the same sense of humor.”

at what point does Mambo Marie express that she doesn’t want the same things in life as Zelda? At what point is it made clear in canon that they don’t have the same sense of humor? On this specific argument, you’re pulling things out of thin air. Zelda wants her coven to be safe in Part Three. She wants to defeat the Pagans because they are a threat to her people. Marie wants that exact same thing. Where are you getting off that they somehow aren’t compatible based on a conversation they never had about “wanting the same things in life?” Where do you get off saying they don’t have the same sense of humor, when there was hardly opportunity for joke-making when a near apocalypse was upon them? Zelda has a dirty sense of humor, and from what we saw, Marie loves to use innuendo. I’d say there’s evidence that they do have the same sense of humor, but hey, I think you’re just pulling at straws to make me angry, and don’t actually have any evidence that they don’t laugh about the same things.

2)  “ But also it doesn’t seem ‘brilliant’ that as u said, M is v presumptive & ignores/assumes Z’s boundaries.”

Since you clearly did read my previous post already, you know that I’ve addressed this point thoroughly. Yes, Marie is presumptuous but so is Zelda. Y’all, did we even watch the same show if you don’t think Zelda crosses boundaries, too, sometimes? Zelda obsesses over her niece losing her virginity at Lupercalia, despite knowing it’s making her uncomfortable to talk about it. And, if you’re coming for me because you prefer Lilith, SHE IS NO BETTER ON THIS COUNT. 

Lilith fucking murdered a woman and then continued to wear her face even after she brought her back to life. Lilith seduced multiple teenage boys in order to sacrifice them. Lilith entered the Spellman’s dreams without their consent, and stole things from their home with nefarious intent. Lilith fucking lied to Zelda from day one, and tried to get her niece killed multiple times. If you’re being deliberately obtuse about the fact that Lilith is no better when it comes to boundaries, and still ship Madam Spellman while hating Zarie, I would have to ask you why you feel the need to come into my inbox to shit on a ship I like when I’ve already addressed the points you’re making.

Bottom line on this one: is it right for anyone to assume another person’s boundaries? No. But literally every other fucking character on the show doesn’t understand this concept, so why should you single out Mambo Marie for this behavior when Faustus literally put Zelda under a mind control spell, Mary Wardwell fucking SHOT Zelda in cold blood, and Lilith has been crossing boundaries since the beginning in order to get Sabrina where she needs to go? Unless you’re asking for a new love interest to be introduced, or no love interest at all (which, I’d be a fan of the “no love interest at all” because Zelda is traumatized) you can’t in good conscience argue that any other age-appropriate character on the show is right for Zelda if this is your deal breaker.

People aren’t perfect. Zelda certainly isn’t. So why should Marie be? Might it be racism, perhaps?

3) “ shippers either ignore that she treats her that way or say Z’s boundaries r the problem & should change rather than M’s lack of respect. Z deserves better :(”

This one is where you went from a discussion to an accusation, and this is why I’m all fired up. I have never, not once, heard it said that Zelda’s boundaries should change. But, while we’re on this subject, which boundaries are you talking about? The fact that Marie performed a dance of protection without Zelda’s permission? The fact that she turned a handshake into a “reading”? It’s unclear what specific instance you’re talking about, and this is important, because Zelda doesn't have a spotless past when it comes to boundaries. She has put a woman under a mind control spell, and you don’t see anyone crying Justice for Shirley Jackson when it comes to “boundaries” being crossed. We have to acknowledge that morality is subjective in CAOS. Morality in the Church of Night isn’t the same as morality in Christian-based codes of law.

There’s also a cultural element you’re ignoring, here, if you’re talking about how tactile Mambo Marie is compared to Zelda. You might see Zelda’s cultural boundaries as the default, but just because we’re still clinging to Puritanical culture in New England, doesn’t mean other cultures are wrong for being more tactile. We’re touch-starved in the Northeast, because we still hold onto these age-old traditions of touching = sex = the devil.

Have you ever seen Reaching for the Moon? Miranda Otto talks a lot about how she felt very “white” in Brazil, because the people there were so warm and loving and would just take you in their arms and hug you. She does a brilliant job in this interview discussing why it was so difficult for Bishop to trust that warmth and give/receive it herself. Bishop’s boundaries were constantly being crossed and challenged in a culture that doesn’t value introversion/aloofness as much as New England does.

This isn’t me saying Zelda should loosen up; that is absolutely not what I’m arguing here. I’m arguing that Mambo Marie is a bit like Lota, who is warm and tactile and will kiss you on both cheeks even if she’s never met you before, because that’s how it’s done. This isn’t an intentional breaking of a boundary; this is evidence that Marie and Lota come from backgrounds where it is much more accepted to embrace the people you just met, to touch them, to hold them close.

Is Marie still crossing a boundary? Yes. But to ignore that there is a cultural difference between them is to white-wash the encounter. My goal is not to say Marie is justified, or that Zelda just needs to accept Marie’s presumptuousness because she comes from a different culture, but rather that this needs to be a discussion between them. Zelda could’ve said, “We don’t turn a handshake into a psychic reading in my culture. Please don’t do it again,” but she doesn’t set that boundary. She allows the reading to happen, and doesn’t address that it wasn’t something she wanted. 

Can we also note that throughout this whole discussion, we’re assuming Zelda’s boundaries, because never once does Zelda actually state that Marie is crossing them, except when she performs the dance of protection? Besides that spell, Zelda never once verbally expresses that Marie is crossing a line with her. 

I’m so tired. We don’t have to ship the same thing, but I would never send anonymous messages to someone just because we don’t have the same ship. As I’ve addressed, half of your message was just repeating the points I made but twisting them to mean we therefore aren’t allowed to ship Zarie, and that Zelda deserves better. 

Zelda deserves better than these fucking fandom wars. If you don’t ship Zarie, that’s ok, but don’t come for us just because we’re excited that there’s a canon interracial sapphic ship on CAOS.

#zelda spellman #mambo marie #zarie

[enixamyram]

The anime gave u people a handholding scene and a hug scene?! U been satisfied by the bland breach crumbs from Kubo but act like those two scenes won’t satisfy you?! Lmfaooo. If you don’t like critisim don’t put ur ih shit in the tag for everyone to see, especially since 99% of the fandom hates ur shit. Just because something is canon doesn’t make it good, especially not ih lmfao

It's sad/funny that you think screaming in my inbox about a ship being terrible is somehow criticism (and not just harassment). Either way dude, I'm not gonna be answering any more of your asks. I have no interest in having any kind of conversation with someone as childish and immature as you (especially as I don't even know what you're trying to say half the time).

All I will say is that fans like you are the reason the IR shippers have such a bad name and also, I sincerely hope you learn that being an asshole to strangers online is pathetic. It won't make your point, it won't make you happy, it won't change canon. All it will do is make someone else uncomfortable, and if that's what you want... well, in that case I guess nothing I say will stop you from being a bully so I'll just say goodbye instead.

#Anti IchiRuki Shippers #Crazy Anon #I really have no interest in talking to you #you're full of so much whiney anger #it's just gonna waste my time #so go bug someone else.

[5eokjin]

Does shipping really cross everything good about a person to you?Isn’t it a little too radical?What if they still love and appreciate ot7 bonds equally but there is ‘some kind of bond in particular close to their heart that it just tended to grew into a ship’?What if it doesn’t have bad intentions?How is y/n different or saying sexual things in tags and why people never talk about how weird this may be?It’s the same with finctional or not otps it happens in imagination what’s so bad about it?

i never said shipping automatically makes you evil? i said being a shipper means you don’t respect bangtan and that’s facts. you can’t claim to “love” and “appreciate” them then still continue to ship after tae very explicitly says not to, that’s not how it works. shippers KNOW their behaviour makes bts uncomfortable, you can’t use the excuse that oh shippers don’t have “bad intentions” if they’re fully aware of the consequences. just look at how those “normal” shippers are always going “make sure you don’t post this on weverse, make sure you don’t tag them”, the fact that they know to censor themselves that way means they already know shipping would gross the boys out but they still do it anyway. i think that’s more than telling of just how much respect they have for them. it’s fine to like the dynamics between certain members more than others but shipping crosses the line. there’s a world of difference between enjoying their dynamics vs constantly insinuating two people you don’t even know are dating. when tae is so fed up with shipping to the point where he’s actually telling you outright not to do it, your response should be to do as he says: stop. the post he replied to was literally so mild, it only said “jungkookie who taehyung loves”, that shit is literally the mildest shippy content you will EVER see and tae still hated it. so why can’t shippers just stop instead of trying to justify it? especially since HE’S the one being shipped against his will for the shipper’s own enjoyment? that’s selfish as fuck, so don’t say shippers love and appreciate bts and have no bad intentions because that’s clearly a lie. is shipping really more important to them than tae’s feelings? or is it because they spent so long seeing bts as just characters for them to ship that they forgot they’re real people with feelings? 

and omg… look, i don’t exactly endorse y/n content either but you’re kidding right? y/n, fictional ships are exactly that: fiction. you don’t know bts and they don’t know you, an actual relationship doesn’t exist between them and us. there aren’t actual consequences to that sort of thing though i agree that it’s often very objectifying, but that’s a topic for another time. everything that exist in y/n shit is purely made up. shipping members on the other hand, involves inserting personal agendas and false narratives into a very real relationship between two people with dynamics we’re not privy to beyond what we see on camera. and when shippers analyse interactions and conceive “ship moments”, they manipulate the truth of real events, real feelings, real dynamics we don’t know about. it’s much harder for them to separate reality from fantasies because like i said, it’s a real relationship. which is why so many shippers are “delulu”, because they can so easily fuse their fantasies with reality through shipping. and unlike y/n shit, shipping have actual consequences! so many celebs have spoken up about how shipping ruined friendships and made things awkward and uncomfortable, how it made them reconsider and hold back the way they interact with others to avoid egging on the shippers. this fandom is always celebrating how bangtan’s love for each other is so strong and genuine, do you really wanna risk jeopardizing that just so you can continue to ship? the thing you said about sexual tags too like… i agree we shouldn’t oversexualise them but there’s nothing wrong with sexual attraction, just like how there’s nothing wrong with having a crush and occasionally having thoughts about them that border towards sexual as long as it doesn’t overstep boundaries. shipping, however, is an entirely different thing. you’re falsifying the relationship between two people and putting it on the internet for everyone to see like that’s so violating and perverse????

this reply was way too long bc i’ve been so annoyed at shipping within this fandom for so long (i can’t even imagine how bts must feel like wtf) but i don’t want to hear or talk about it anymore. if even tae himself telling yall to stop isn’t enough, then clearly nothing i say is gonna convince you. maybe you just phrased it wrong (in which case i apologise for misinterpreting your intentions) but i really didn’t appreciate being asked “does shipping really cross everything good about a person to you?”. i NEVER said that and it just feels like you came into my inbox with a victim mindset trying to bait for some twisted reassurance that maybe shipping isn’t that bad so you wouldn’t have to feel guilty idk. anyway i condemn shipping and this is the last time i’m gonna address it.

#moving on!!!! #asks #anon

[bubblesthemonsterartist]

I'm a Zenyuki shipper. Or at least I thought I am one of them. Your fics are confusing me. After reading them it feels like I was blind until now and I manage to ship only obiyuki now. So, thank you, I guess? Now I'm searching for other authors like you, do you have any recommendation? (Good fan art interests me too) Have a nice day!

hahahaha… Maybe you’re a multi-shipper, nonny. No harm in that!

In response to your request for recommendations, though… :3 :3 :3

OBIYUKI’S ASSEMBLE!! :D

I have a LIST, friend. A magnificent LIST of authors for you to choose from but is probably not all inclusive. I wrote this a couple of months ago when someone else asked me for recs and we have GROWN significantly since. Lemme give you a 4-author starter pack that’ll keep you busy reading for some time, and then there are many many more.

IF SOMEONE SEES THIS AND REALIZES I SKIPPED THEM/SOMEONE ELSE, PLEASE REBLOG/COMMENT FOR ME I HATE TO LEAVE PEOPLE OUT AND I KNOW I PROBABLY AM RIGHT NOW.

All of the following authors also have AO3 accounts:

@sabraeal, naturally. She is my writing buddy and I love her deeply. Plus, she knows EXACTLY how to murder me. (Pls start with Seven Suitors and then go harass her for more All Pain Will Turn to Medicine for me. ty ^_^ )

@infinitelystrangemachinex - Gorgeous prose, beautiful stories, breaks my heart every time (pls do it some more?)

@vivianwisteria - Just amazing writing. Wonderfully emotional and complex. She gets a visceral reaction out of me with every update.

@xaphrin - This woman. This woman destroys me ALL THE TIME with all the lovely goodness (She’s also one of my favorite readers! Because she gets SO MAD AT ME :D )

MORE AUTHORS In alphabetical order:

@akai-vampire - Has been putting out some amazing multi-shipper content since long before I joined this fandom, but of course I am partial to her obiyuki content. She’s a grab bag of sweet and “hey who’s cutting onions in here?”

@another-miracle - Has dared to put onto the screen the hurt/comfort follow up fic that we all wanted, we all craved. I have it saved in my inbox so I can have feelings about it regularly. Has written some fantastic shorts since!

@azalearhoden - Writes some amazing prose of short moments glued together into something gorgeous and beautiful that I would have never thought of!

@codango - Look. L O O K. You may think that you don’t need cowboy Obi, but trust me… you do. You so so do. (Also has an assemblance of shorts that range from OH MY HEART T_T to Oooohhh myyyyy :3 )

@claudeng80 - Has a million ideas and puts them to paper in record time! There’s too many stories for me to wrap her up into one sentence!

@glitter-and-golden - A obiyuki kids story that’ll break your heart and some fantasy fantasticness. 

@jaygirl987 - From short hot scenes to her first multi-chapter fic that is turning into something epic, I love her stuff!

@k-itsmaywriting - Freakin amazing woman who puts out the most beautiful AU’s. I love it when she can come to play and I hate to see her leave, but school is the most important, yo!

@kaedix - Writes the sweetest stories, from mama and papa Obiyuki to the Mall AU that I am still dying over almost a year later.

@krispy-kream - I don’t know how many times I have seen this one post and I have been LITERALLY TERRIFIED to click on the link because she DESTROYS ME WITH HALF A SENTENCE. (No, seriously, I still can’t get through this without tearing up)

@lalesath - Has written ONE GORGEOUS, FEELS INDUCING FIC for us, but there is more trapped away in her computer. I feelz it in my bones. Won’t you feed us? XD

@littleaverill - Puts out some amazing ficlets that have you begging for more! I wish I could write like her…

@maverae - Has written TWO fics to share with the class, BUT I KNOW SHE IS HIDING MORE FROM US. Give us your delicious prose! We are hungry!

@nebluus - Has STILL written my all time favorite Obiyuki fic, Blizzard. That story gives me all the feely feels in my little shipper heart.

@nonstopdoodle - Girl is filled with fantasy and writes the COOLEST AU’s. I love them all so much.

@obiisms - I lovelovelove her Meaning of Trust fic on AO3 you don’t even know how much. She takes hard subjects and just delivers.

@onoheiwa - Hnnnnnnggggggggg writes some of the most amazing short stories. I die over her arranged marriage fic (Did not know this was a thing of mine, BUT I GUESS IT IS A THING)

@owlsshadows - Oh man. Oooooh maaaannnnnn.. if you have not read her gender swap AU where Obi is the pharmacist and Shirayuki is the assassin, you have not lived.

@ruleofexception - I wanna say she is our FASTEST writer, throwing out some amazing fics within a day and cutting through ALL the BS!

@thelionshoarde - Oh myyyyy… how do I wrap this one up? You’ve gone some delicious canon-esque smut with feels and some fantastical AU’s to choose from. Please enjoy with my blessing :3

ARTISTS (also in alphabetical order and some of these will be repeats):

@goldenrose101 - My friend. You must. YOU MUST view their obiyuki comic. And then love it. IT IS A REQUIREMENT

@heartamplifier - Again. Some amazing. Amazing. AMAZING. edits and manips. I love her

@lalesath - F A N T A S T IC and G O R G E O U S edits! SO MANY OF THEM.

@miinah13 - Just adore their drawings BUT BE CAREFUL! SHE HAS A SERIES THAT MAKES ME CRY BIG FAT UGLY TEARS but you should totally check out anyway

@nebluus - You may notice that she is listed twice. THAT IS BECAUSE SHE IS AMAZING. Search her ansh tag for Akagami no Shirayukihime art.

@nonstopdoodle - YES. SHE ALSO DOES THE ART!

@stuffaeamade - My goodness gracious, she has the MOST impressive tag for AnS art. I HIGHLY recommend.

@thelionshoarde - YES YET ANOTHER AUTHOR THAT ALSO DOES THE ART!

@vfordii - Oh my… I absolutely love everything that she does, but my top two have GOT to be Obiyuki Kiss and Bellydancer Obi. (I’m sure she will convince me that there are more delicious arts waiting in her brain to be posted, BUT I LOVE THOSE THE MOST NOW

@youseimanami - One of our newest and (hands down) most prolific artist (she just completed Inktober and did 31 DAYS OF OBI/OBIYUKI CONTENT. GO LOOK AT THE MAGNIFICENCE. GO GO!) and is a very sweet and encouraging person.

@yumelinh - I absolutely adore the way she does her edits and colors our favorite characters. They are fantastic.

Special mention to @akagami-no-rae because, while she is not obiyuki, she likes hanging out with us and graces us with Hnnnng-worthy AMV’s, edits, and artwork! (occasionally a fic, too

#ask bubbles #akagami no shirayukihime #snow white with the red hair #obiyuki #...look #i know this may SEEM a bit excessive #but I am an excessive person #who's love knows no bounds XD #ENJOY NONNY #ENJOY THE ENDLESS READINGSSSS AND ARTSSSSSSSSSSS

[elizabethrobertajones]

if destiel became canon i hope no destiel fan go around saying 'I TOLD U SO' to other ships and telling other ships their ship is meaningless. :((((

Wow, thanks for blessing my inbox with such a fantastically awful leading statement. What, you want me to say Destiel shippers won’t do that? I mean, there’s a bazillionity of them and a lot of them think Destiel is going canon or should do or at least would take canon as utter vindication of everything they’ve read in the text, which is a quantifiable, serious amount of storytelling and tropes which all directly imply Destiel. If people throw a street party because it happened, that’s their street party, you know? 

I am not very well qualified to talk about wider shipping culture but Destiel fans who see it in canon have a certain axe to grind with the show because of the feeling that it’s textually present and many (myself included) would not have thought to ship it until something in the text flipped them and sheer incredulity about the depth of this story brought them to fandom and interacting with others to analyse and understand the story better. 

I don’t believe other ships including ones involving Cas and Dean elsewhere have anywhere near the same textual level of storytelling and tropes to give them a shadow of what Dean and Cas have. I posted last night about how early Destiel was ship teasing without storytelling intent, and other prominent ships never moved beyond ship teasing and one of them certainly never will and can’t. But for YEARS Destiel has been running on the rails of a narrative between and about the characters which can be taken romantically. If it went canon it would not be the show just randomly picking one of 12 out of a hat and giving it their blessing.

Like, yes I suppose it does make the shippers look entitled if you ship on different means, e.g. chemistry, blurred lines between actor and character, which ones are hot and you think would look good fucking each other, and all the reasons which are great for shipping characters (and I’m not judging - I like ships which are completely implausible, not implied in canon, or are otherwise deeply unsuitable for shipping like Destiel. 3 of my coda fics this season were Mary/Charlie, Mary/Ketch and Cas/Benjamin instead of Destiel, and of those only Mary/Ketch was actually based on canon, and Mary/Charlie was hauling out a dead character who I thought would be great to ship Mary with from the realms of implausibility. And I can understand if you have all or a main ship which is in these sort of brackets instead of rooting for the canon storyline and waiting for it to provide you with all your material, then it’s different and feels different.) 

But I don’t think Destiel shippers enjoying the idea of it going canon (because this is what’s upsetting you RIGHT NOW, not the idea that it POTENTIALLY goes canon and everyone’s a dick, you obviously feel like people enjoying it IN canon are being dicks RIGHT NOW) is offensive to other shippers, or that if you meet us on the grounds of fanon where all the shipping goes on, we’re anything more than more well-fed by canon than other shippers who don’t ship off of canon, because we get a lot of material for our ship from canon. 

But great transformative works always add to the experience, and there’s so many interpretations of the characters in fanon which have moved 1000 miles from canon, in every possible way, which really just end up on what people LIKE to read, if they like D/s or AUs where they’re socially awkward hipsters or tentacle porn or canonverse but huge drastic changes. EVERY ship in every fandom has variations and fanon lives of the characters and if the fandoms are large enough, sub-fandoms within them that specifically enjoy certain dynamics. Canon HELPS but it does not define Destiel shippers in what we write about and how we enjoy the ship, and some people enjoy it only in fanon because they think canon Dean is a dick or they hate what’s happened to Cas since whenever or they just like an old dynamic which is easier to wallow in in increasingly AU settings and end up just reading coffee shop romances where the mains happen to be called Dean and Cas, and some people can probably only get into it if it’s so gritty and canon they can still taste the last episode on their tongue when they read the coda fic. 

As a cumulative experience of what fandom is, Destiel going canon is ONLY vindication, because we can enjoy it in fanon as is, but the issues around the canon debate and representation and what have you are an entirely other thing and on THAT playing field canon is the only vindication.

But in that world, it’s not about other ships at all. I’m sorry, but something like Sastiel is just not part of the argument because in canon it’s not teased, not laid down in the depths of the show’s foundations as important, and it’s not part of the massive metatextual, media and fandom and show dance about the show sucking it up and making Dean bi and Destiel canon because that is only the MEDIUM in which the show needs to deal with the representation problem. If the thing had been swirling around Sam n Cas the entire time, then the debate would be about Sam and Cas. But it’s not. It’s about Dean and Cas. 

Like, I’m sorry if other shippers want in on the idea of ship going canon vindication but on this show there’s such an entrenched, weird battle about Destiel’s place in the narrative, it’s 9 years too late on this one for it to be any other ship in any other way on this show. 

I mean I’d say to other shippers, don’t go out and be a dick to people if it DOES go canon, just enjoy it and try not to be too horrible even if you do get involved in ship wars, like, just take the win and be the bigger person, but that comment isn’t exactly going to do much because I’m not the queen of this ship issuing decrees which seems to be the only positive outcome you’d ever think you could get out of asking me this ridiculous question. Like. What the heck were you expecting me to say? Oh no boo hoo we’re so nice, we’d never do that? It’s a gazillion shippers and a lot of them feel bitter and disenfranchised and they’re not going to consider that they are somehow being rude to other ships, because this is not the side of fandom where you ought to be respectful to people’s fanon practices, but essentially a conflict and we all walked into it where the battle lines were already drawn and it’s this ship and it’s inherently political to ship it if you do so from canon rather than politely excusing yourself to fanon.

If you feel threatened by the ship’s presence in canon because you can see as well as everyone else and are just pretending there’s an equivalence between Destiel and other fanon ships, as if the fanon stage and the canon battle are the same thing, then  you’re just being deliberately obtuse as a troll. I mean, I don’t even fucking fight the canon thing that hard, I am a chill shipper who enjoys watching it unfold in canon and don’t make strong demands of canon, but I still know my ship is politicised on this stage about being canon or not and we have to think abou that all the time and if I HAVE to I will wade in as fight hard that it has full right to go canon and should, and that is NOT disrespecting other ships, it’s working with what I already have in my hands immediately from the moment I went “shit, there really is something to all this lovelorn staring they do at each other, isn’t there?”

Anyway YOUR SHIPS, DESTIEL INCLUDED, ARE SUPER DUPER IMPORTANT IN FANON AS MUCH AS EACH OTHER AND BECAUSE THEY MEAN SO MUCH TO WHOEVER IS SHIPPING THEM. END OF. 

But fanon is fanon and you’re making a ridiculous argument equating “meaning” aka what fans draw from shipping and what makes them feel good about it into creating transformative works about their ship, to the idea of Destiel going canon as if it’s somehow going to do ANYTHING to the fanon.

Like, people with radically different from canon ideas ABOUT DESTIEL can cope with the show consistently not actually being what they really dig but use it just as a jumping off point to their personal interests in what they use fanon for - whether it’s kink or emotional healing or personal empowerment or just for writing and imagination like the fic writers who mostly just enjoy creating stories and like using fanworks rather than original works to hone their craft and feel confident and comfortable with what they’re doing. I mean, fan artists do the same. They might have the faces of the characters but they’re being depicted in a million different ways nothing LIKE the show.

Fanon is not threatened by canon. Even when canon trounces fanon, fanon rolls its eyes and carries on. And mostly fanon is so far beyond the realm of canon that it’s fairly untouchable anyway. The show can’t do much to fuck up my Cas works in a diner and Dean comes and hangs with him there AU because Cas does not work in a diner and Dean is not exactly up to flirting with a dude across a diner counter all day every day while Sam is literally sitting in the corner the entire time rolling his eyes. If Destiel still goes canon, I still hold the means of production here - I get to decide on my own terms if and when one of them snaps and asks the other to marry them. I would have the luxury to put off making them canon in my fanon even though in real canon they already were together. It’s a fearsome power :P 

And I mean, something like Sabriel has enough little connections to canon that its fans can at least show them in the same room interacting and draw from that, but 99.99999999% of that ship is built out of tropes and fun and reading each other’s works and building off of that and creating a ship pretty much out of nowhere for their own amusement and gratification. Canon Destiel’s going to have a hard job doing anything to upset that boat, you know? If you’re offended you WANT to be offended.

Anyway I have now finished my cup of tea so that’s enough grumbling from me but seriously what the heck did you even send me this for? It’s such a petty, miserable view about fandom. If you enjoy your ships you enjoy your fucking ships and nothing can upset that and everyone should leave each others’ fanon fun the hell alone. 

#Asks #wank for ts #AND the canon battle is NOT A SHIP BATTLE #it's between is it canon or is it not #no other ships is actually involved in that you know #it's just between people who think Destiel should be canon #and wishing the show would do something about it and that's it #fandom problems

[franeridart]

you saying baku's laugh is loud and explosive.... MY HEART IM WEAK TO MY KNEES

I can’t imagine him openly and genuinely laughing in any other way, anon! He’s a boy that demands attention in everything he does haha

Anon said:Do you think if Tamaki ate enough butterflies he could turn himself into a fairy basically?

You mean if he could grow butterfly wings, right? I think he’d only need to eat one tbh!

Anon said:what do you think bout the delinquent kirishima theory

Hmmmmmmmmmmm I like how it’s written out and the general idea behind it isn’t too baseless, and given how everyone who’s got a past in bnha has a sad past one way or another I wouldn’t be too surprised if it were true, but whether or not I think it’s true I still can’t say... might be, might not, I’d prefer it if it weren’t but who knows!

Anon said:what are ur thoughts/beliefs on who the traitor might be? student or teacher? also, ur art is hella cute. u have blessed my life. bless ur soul. the way u draw kirishima and his stupid face is killin me slowly, too precious.

Thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And I guess I still haven’t changed my mind about it being Tsukauchi  ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Anon said:Hello I just want to thank you for putting your adorable and amazing art everyday! You are the only blog I check daily because you upload stuff so frequently and I don't want to miss any of your gems! I just wanna say how much I appreciate it! Keep up the stellar work and I can't wait to see what you post next!

AAAHHHHHHHHHHH THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!! HOLY SMOKES!!!!!! *O*

Anon said:I hope Ashido knows I love her with my whole heart!!!!!!! Speaking of Ashido, d'you hc her being closer (like friends-wise) with Kiri or Kami (or about the same?) I love ur art btw keep up the amazing work!!!!!!

I’M SURE SHE KNOWS!!!!!!! And thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Anyway, it’s a personal headcanon I have that Mina and Kiri are childhood friends (they went to the same middle school!!), so her relationship with him out of the whole squad is gonna be a little bit different, but she loves all her boys equally! She has a lot in common with Kaminari so she especially enjoys his company, it’s like they’re on the exact same wavelenght on a lot of things.......... that said her best friend is still Hagakure, so! The special place is filled by her already haha

Anon said:The world needs more MiriTama. I love the art you did of them!

Don’t worry anon, more will come for sure!! :D

Anon said:Thank you for existing. 💗 Send this to 10 people who you think deserve a sweet and kind message in their inbox 💗💗💗 (really sorry if this is spam but it's genuine)

It’s not spam!!!! don’t worry!!!! Thank you so much for thinking about me!!!!!!

Anon said:Your blog is freaking magical and I live for all the Bakushimanari & Haikyuu you have here. ♡ Thank youuu for your continued existence to bring light into our tiny shipper hearts~☆!

Thank you!!!! Holy gods!!!!!!!!!!!!!! *O*

Anon said:Someone wrote a fic where tamaki gave mirio a bj and accidentally manifested his power you might like it

.................this isn’t a suggestion I ever thought I’d get but THANK YOU I’ll check it out asap (somehow it never occurred to me to go check their tag on ao3 before.... shameful)

Anon said:I know you don't take requests, so this obviously isn't one. But I headcanon Bakugou and Kiri brushing their teeth together and just like the rest of the squad being wtf at how many toothbrushes they both destroy (Bakugou bc he brushes so hard and Kiri bc shark teeth... their dentists must hate them both). If it's a suggestion you'd like to draw, yay!, but mostly I just thought you might get a laugh out of the thought lol

I love this???????????? So much????????????? holy shit???????????? I’m pretty sure Mina destroys her fair share of toothbrushes too when she isn’t careful I’m yelling one day they’ll share an apartment and one whole cabinet in theit bathroom is gonna be just spare toothbrushes it’s gonna be amazing I love this I’m keeping this headcanon forever

Anon said:Omg YES Aizawa is a way better role model for Bakugou. When All Might says they neglected Bakugou, Aizawa's face is just so "jfc no shit you moron." I want Bakugou to intern under Aizawa after he gets his provisional license because he can learn so much from him. I am 100% positive that when the kids all graduate, he's going to be the student who specifically gets an "I'm proud of you" from Aizawa and I will cry all the happy years I have.

If he gets an “I’m so proud of you” both I and Bakugou will die rip gone forever I’d love it so much............. anyway I don’t think he can intern under Aizawa, actually, and given that he’s his teacher it might maybe be a waste of an occasion to work with different people and learn from different voices? After all Deku didn’t intern under All Might haha

Anon said:Oh my gosh! I never even thought of the whole Aizawa becoming Bakugou's role model before, but I love that idea so much! You really are right! Out of all the adults, Aizawa is definitely the one who understands and pays the most attention to Bakugou! Thank you for bringing that up!!!

You’re!!!! Most welcome!!!!!!!!! I adore the relationship Aizawa has with Bakugou, honestly - he’s a good teacher and a great man so you can actually see him paying attention to all his students (it’s particularly blatant and obvious in Yaoyorozu’s case as well, once, and he does have an eye out specifically to stop any kind of bullshit Deku might get himself into lately), but with Bakugou it’s shown again and again, probably because no one else seems to show any in-depth interest for him at all? As far as adults go, at least, so you notice it more when someone does pay attention to him. Every time Aizawa defends him or takes note of his mood worsening or acts to make him grow and settle things and heal or whenever he believes in him and trusts him - and whenever Bakugou nods and apologizes and accepts his advices and critics and trusts him back, I die a lot, that’s so great orz

Anon said:I love Bakugou fans online because they're always like "aw his hair is all flicking upwards with the force of his rage, what a cutie"

Bakugou is super cute, after all! In the same way a big feline ready to attack is. Deadly cute. I love him.

Anon said:Fran! I had a dream that Bakugou died and it might have been the worst nightmare of my life Kiri was so sad and it was,, honestly terrible

Oh my god D: *holds you* that honestly sounds so terrible ;;;A;;;

#fran answers #starting the day procrastinating through answering asks #yaaay #this is gonna be one of those days #anonymous

[keiths-salt]

(1/6) as a kl shipper, i wanna say from the bottom of my heart: thank you thank you thank you. so many times i've wanted to shout stuff like "why do yall hate k/eith so much" and "you guys never cared abt s/hiro or a/llura, let alone s/hallura" and "why do you want so bad for this writer/artist to be a p/dophile godDAMN" like, holy shit. u beautiful salty jem of a pearl at the bottom of this tumultuous fandom ocean. -

- (2/6) even your blog title is golden, bc it feels like so many people are so deluded, trying to make a ship, something you’re supposed to sit back and enjoy, into a sort of spiteful activist bullshit-filled “movement” like what??? and telling folks to unfollow if they ship s/haladin bc they’re “cleaning out they’re blog”, like, fuck off??? sorry but here’s a salt-filled rant and i don’t know where else to put it so here! -

- (3/6) side note, i’m rly trying to get across to you that i’m NOT being sarcastic abt how much i want you to keep doing your thing, bc now they’re trying to tackle RACISM. in grosser and grosser ways every day! calling some of the only asian rep i see in media “white-passing” and saying that l/ance can’t have a last name that isn’t 1000% authentically cuban, whatever that means, buncha hypocritical racists. i have never been so angry and ashamed of a fandom. -

- (4/6) it’s gotten to the point where i, someone who ships kl and NOT sk (just my personal tastes), am rly happy to see any sk on my dash bc that poster must have been so brave! to post something as simple as sk hugging or smooching or whateverthefuck, i don’t care! you do you! fuck all these nasty haters, THEY’RE the toxic ones who just want someone to hate! yall deserve props! -

- (5/6) also, my compliments to the chef regarding that pining k/eith theory, it’s So Good, like i ghostwrote it somehow. the whole “projecting onto l/ance” thing (which is being done to a painful degree, i can testify) tries so hard to remove or overvalidate his flaws that it’s laughable. making lance into an insecure martyr angst-sponge hybrid with no agency and no room for personal growth, it’s sooo bad. -

- (6/6) and villainizing everyone else! reminds me of that jaden smith tweet: “when i die, then you will realize” shit he wrote when he was like 14. transparent af, like we get it, you’re insecure. and sometimes i WANT to hop aboard the black paladin lance train, but it’s always this idealized version of him that’s almost unrecognizable, and it’s at the expense of better black paladin candidates. goddamn ok, that was all my salt for the time being! much love, thank you and goodnight!

This is one of those asks that I’d love to keep in my inbox forever, but I’ve spent the last three days trying to come up with a response because you deserve one.

I think we’re all aware that tumblr is an explictly shitty place when it comes to “activism”. There’s this black-white-mentality that anything and anyone needs to be put in a box based on whether they agree with someone’s world views. Everything needs to conform to a specific label too, fiction is only allowed to be healthy, you condone what you enjoy etc., and the #1 argument by people on this site, also widely used by antis, is “Think about the children” but also “Expect everyone else to take care of you”.

People actively go into tags of pairings they hate and then yell about how triggered they are. Really? I’ve been repeatedly told to kill myself because I liked something they didn’t (and I’m talking about my 99.5% discourse-free main blog, not this one where I passively seek out conflict). You either conform to the popular way of thinking (shipping, in this case) or you’re irredeemable trash and a threat to the public. Any shit you get over having your own opinion will be justified because you deserve to be punished for thinking on your own. Tumblr mentality is the modern equivalent to medieval politics.

Fandom always has a terrible side - I know - but the Vo/tron fandom has become a place where people tear each other down rather than block the content they don’t want to see. Converting people to one’s own thinking has becume such an essential part of “activism” to the point where people forming their own opinions and learning about an issue on their own pose a threat.

In the Vo/tron fandom you see this toxic mentality with K/ance, rabid L/ance stans, anti Sha/adins and so on. You said everything I’ve been trying to say since I made this blog, and it saddens me that people can only safely voice their opinions and concerns when hidden behind the Anon feature.

Fandom isn’t always fun, but the Voltron fandom has become a place where people are too scared of posting their art or speaking up because they’ll legit receive death threats over liking a fictional ship. I don’t know if I’m doing a good job at pushing back against the anti side or if I’m just making it worse at this point. But salt, spite and messages like yours keep me going. 

#Anonymous

[huxblush]

Whatever you think of antis, this is the kind of messages they're getting: badships[.]tumblr[.]com/post/158482800260/so-u-were-born-a-girl-but-u-r-trans-and-feel-like. My friend is a trans man and a kylux shipper. He left the fandom because he got this same stuff in his inbox. I'm pan and cis and a woman, but I stay out of kylux because the casual homophobia makes me uncomfortable. I don't agree with the way antis throw words like Nazi around. But your fandom has some cleaning up to do.

That’s very sad, and I would like to say that if whoever has been sending stuff like that is reading this, can you please fucking stop it. But it has exactly zero to do with me. The entire kylux fandom is not my responsibility. I know I’m not homophobic or transphobic, and I know the people from this fandom I would call friends aren’t either. This fandom does has its problems, but I don’t think it warrants the over the top hate-mongering that the anti blogs engage in. 

I would be careful trusting anonymous messages at face value. I’m not saying b*dships isn’t being harassed, but I wouldn’t put it past them to send messages to themselves to make the fandom look bad, as antis have done that in the past. And that message looks like a parody of what you think of when you imagine a transphobe. Sorry if that makes me super duper problematic, but it’s just my genuine opinion. 

I’m not discounting what happened to your friend, because I know that stuff like that does go on, but I would trust b*dships as far as I could throw them. Which is not very far. 

#i don't have the patience for this today #i would love to know what casual homophobia you're on about #if you mean the top and bottom discourse #most people stay out of that and agree it's stupid #Anonymous

[rrandomtthings]

Idk where to put it but can i vent a little? It always bothers me when i am reading krbk fics but deku's and bakugo's relationship is just them hating each other. Like??? You don't have to do that to show the main pair only like each other that way. And i'm pretty sure we are wayyy past all of this canonically speaking. Krdk and bkdk fics can show the main pair wonderfully without devalueing kiri's and bakugo's friendship. Why is it so hard to the same for these two? We need more wingman deku in this house

No hate to any shipper just a pet peeve of mine k

Hi, yeah, it’s totally fine to fandom vent in my inbox!! I don’t mind c:

And hmm,, I think I get what u mean!! I honestly don’t have too much experience reading kr//bk fics just bc that’s not a ship that I completely ship romantically, but from the few that I have read I do see where ur coming from!! Keep in mind: this is not hate to the ship at all. People are totally valid to ship it and I have nothing against it!! I also think it’s really cute!! But I do think that when people write kr//bk, those who write bkdks relationship to be that toxic are:

1) bkdk antis

and/or

2) follow mha fanon concepts

Now, u might be thinking, “rran wtf obviously it’s fanon, ur dumb.” But, in my opinion, the fanon characters are so completely different from the canon. Bc in canon, bkdk do not hate each other. In canon there is no Dekusquad and Bakusquad, and etc. This is not to say that some bkdks don’t follow these troupes, bc I’m sure they do!! (Especially the baku/deku squads). But, once again in my opinion, bkdks follow more along canon than fanon and I think that’s bc Bkg and Deku are the two main characters of the series. They have much more content. We acknowledge the importance with the relationships they have with others in the series and how they all build each other up bc it’s important for their development as individuals and it’s something we need to pay attention to bc they are the main characters

Like I said, this is an observation based off of very little knowledge. The only knowledge I had are kr//bk fics I read almost a year ago and TikTok LMAO

#I hope this makes sense dhcjkskzskks #answered #anonymous