#we’ve known this for years

[pwurrz]

wait wdym we all didn’t learn years ago that you don’t need dysphoria to be trans and that what a lot of people think is dysphoria is actually incongruence?? wdym people still hold this belief in 2023????

#anti transmed #chat. chat we’ve been saying this for years #we’ve known this for years

[jomeimei421]

Felt a bit nostalgic watching RT shut down…Here are the og faves again for old times sake 💙

#rvb #agent washington #agent Carolina #lavernius tucker #michael j caboose #epsilon #my art rvb #ahhh a lot of feelings…of course I stepped away from rt as a company a long time ago #but RvB is special to me!! it was my first fandom experience ever #and the community here on tumblr specifically was so instrumental to me growing up #I really could not have asked for a better community of artists and writers to grow up in. I know it sounds like platitudes when I say #that everyone was super nice and talented but REALLY. People were so kind to me and somehow I became well known despite #my art and writing and me in general still being immature and hashtag cringe #I found my creative legs and #people would respond to my stuff with walls and walls of support in the tags and we would do exchanges and events every year #I made my first lyric comic and it’s still doing extremely well on YouTube even today!! my dad who passed away recently always loved it #and my favorite RvB writer came out of hibernation to write me a bunch of text wall asks about it #I’ve never had another fandom experience quite like RvB #I still keep in touch with many of my friends from that time period even though we’ve all moved on the other things #these guys will always always have a place in my heart #so long reds and blues….

[gravesaint]

unfollowing and blocking left right and center because y’all can’t do something as simple as boycotting and leaving your shitty shows at the door

#this is about our flag means death and hazbin hotel to be clear #and percy jackson #and the same will go if I see anything about eurovision in the coming months #also we’ve known for YEARS that the creator of HH is racist and continues to act as such #my stuff #it’s so frustrating like not watching something is literally a nonaction #pirate it if you’re that fucking spineless and keep it to yourself #I know I’m not saying anything new here but I’ve been unfollowing longtime mutuals on the daily it seems like

[leonardalphachurch]

happy 21 years to all our favorite popular web series, blue vs red

#4/1 #can’t believe we’ve known these beloved characters such as: temple. buckey. surge. #for 21 whole years

[felitomkinson]

not to sound like a normie but i told my friend i was feeling off and sad and she immediately offered to drive me and order take-out and if i could sculpt her a monument to put in the middle of my yard i would

#we’ve known each other for 16 years so she deserves it

[awek-s]

MY REVIEW WENT SO WELLLL 😁😁😁 the head of dept loved my writing !!! he picked out lots of certain quotes he really likes and said he loves the narrative voice & he was smiling so big 🤭

#+ a lot of boring stuff y’all don’t care abt that’s the main thing tho 🤭🤭🤭 #my supervisor winked at me while the head of dept was getting his notes together to ask me questions. I just realised he would’ve told him #he liked my writing before telling me so he was tryna reassure me 😖😖😖 #(my supervisor is early 30s it’s ok it’s not creepy djdjdn we’ve known each other 7 years) #mrow.org

[littlespoonevan]

for what it’s worth re canon and ages, the only confirmation of ages we’ve ever got are buck, hen, athena, abby and the kids

buck tells us in s1 he’s 26 and in s4 he’s 29 when he finds out about daniel but that’s messed up now bc in 6x11 they tell the hospital he’s 30 a whole 2 and a half years later after 4x04/4x05 lol

hen tells us in s4 she joined med school at 40

athena makes a comment about getting into a relationship again at 50 in either s1 or 2

abby tells us in s1 she’s 40

we know chris is 7 in s2 and may, harry and denny can all be worked out too by grades or mentions of ages throughout the show

maddie can also be figured out bc we find out in s4 she’s 9 years older than buck which would’ve made her 38 at the time

i’m currently up to s4 in my rewatch and can’t recall any mention of bobby or chimney’s ages but if there’s one thing I know for certain: we have never, ever been given an indication of eddie’s age. And actually the idea of him only being 19 or 20 when chris is born and when he goes off to war makes that whole story even more tragic than I ever could’ve thought possible quite frankly 😭😭😭

#ppl have always put him as Ryan’s age but we’ve never known that for sure #also it low-key makes sense given he says in s3 he was working with his dad before the army #a job I can only have seen him doing like maybe just out of school bc he didn’t know what he wanted to do #ALSO buck and eddie being the same age but having such vastly different experiences is making me sob #like I already can’t cope with that post that compares the begins years and what was happening to Buck vs Eddie #ALSO this works for my fic so I like it lmao #911 related #911 spoilers

[hailperseusjackson]

evan buckley has been a canonical bisexual for one slutty slutty week <3

#i will never be over canon bi buck 🩷💜💙 #like how has it ONLY been a week?????? #i mean. i think we’ve all known in our hearts it’s true so it feels like much longer #but good lord what a year this pst week has been #evan buckley #911 abc

[quins-makeshift-menagerie]

Wait you have a husband? This is the first I’ve heard of it…

Is he hot? /j

Yeah I do lmao I typically refer to him as “The Other Q” or just “Q”

#we’ve been married for a year and been together for almost as long as I’ve known him #we have two cats that are babies #also yes he’s adorable and I am not afraid to say that #ask

[cherrysnax]

havin the weirdest crisis of my life

#this is like. did related so im gonna sound completely uh #what’s the word. odd and shit for a sec okay? okay #so I’ve been here. hi im cheri silver yknow me for about 20 years total but jay used to front for years when we were in middle school #im not the. original host I guess but I’ve been around since #we were in the early single digits and never left #so im the host right? I existed to go thru the Trauma #but. it’s been my life for so long. my parents don’t know Her #they’ve only known me #but like. we’re finally starting to let go of that trauma #errr not let go but make peace with it. and we’ve been holding onto it for so long. I’ve been holding on to it for so long #but.. who am I without it? like yes that’s my trauma but also. is my purpose over?? is that why we haven’t been able to draw? #I’ve been the host for 20 years this is my life #my friends my gf my life my hobbies it’s mine not anyone else’s #I let others take the wheel when I can’t (or they forcibly do it for me) and jays been gone for like 3 years he only came back because I’ve #been being traumatized everyday recently. but like. will I have to go too?? #reintergration is not really our goal. never has been but like #if we do. will I be here or will She come back? we’ve had false alarms before but it’s mostly been decided that it’s my front my life #maybe im just triggered all the time and that’s why I feel extra out of it #less myself #New Traumas are happening to us everyday #but yeah. I dont talk abt this aspect of my life much but it’s so scary to think about #I’ll talk to Chevy when they get off of work tomorrow abt it if it’s still like. freaking me out #I am me. we are a bunch of niggas but I am me. #did niggas when the identity disorder makes them dissociate smh #😫

[needylittlegirl]

might go to monterey bay aquarium this summer . feeling Insane

#me nd my bestest friend in fhe whole world are finally planning a trip to meet up!! #and shes from cali and has always wanted to take me everywhere #AND her family would pay for a lot of travel expenses just cause its her coming home #ohh i feel so insane im so in love with her i want to meet her finally and going there would be SO fun #we want to meet in the middle then go to ca together #im so crazy nervous cause like what if things dont translate well from online to irl but but #ive known her for four years we’ve talked about living together i think we can make it work #tbd

[loveshotzz]

I think the world is actually ending? I just received a phone call from a boy, a phone call, asking me to hang out during the day at the end of the week.

#…. #it’s the boy i hang with to make out from time to time #we’ve known each other for like four years #he’s never done this lol

[userastarion]

lol remember when i sent that breakup letter to my friend?

i sent it to tell her how hurt i’ve been by some of the ways she’s treated me, how i haven’t felt important to her for a year, how i wanted to push through it bc we have fun together, and how much it hurt that a) i haven’t met the man who’s her forever and b) she got married and i found out via instagram username change when we’ve been good friends for 18 years. i ended it saying i will never ghost you, i love you, i just don’t think there space for me in your life anymore. all the nutrients for my friendship plant went elsewhere and it can’t survive like that anymore.

her response was to remove me from her socials and have her sister do the same. so i guess i now understand where ive fucking stood with her.

#she’s known his guy for max 18 months #when we’ve been friends if not bffs for 18 years #not to mention the way the guy she chose over me follows 45 and j*e r*gan #and is happily a marine (i hate the military) #i was devastated at first bc while my letter was a goodbye in a sense i was hoping it was leaving the door cracked behind me #but she fucking kicked it closed #and probably turned her family against me #i typed the letter so i still have it. anyone who thinks im shitty can read it and decide for themselves. #bc god knows she didn’t let anyone read the evidence of her shit. #can’t believe how fast she said get the fuck out of my life. #btw this is a friend i tried to talk through this stuff with before and things didn’t get fixed #there are other issues with her too but. WOW. #like in theory good riddance but im practice im hurt and sad and angry #b:personal #text post

[faewaren]

Almost no one who follows me is gonna know what this is about so ignore me but. Just. God I hope Marcel is okay. Still hurts.

#still hurts!! still miss them. been like two years. #miss Luke miss Sam miss Luna miss Wit miss Trick etc etc etc #sucks real bad still that after seven years of knowing each other and all the times I went out of my way to care for them #that it was such a swift thing no trying to solve it no working to go forward nothing #just ‘we’ve been communicating badly for the first time in the seven years we’ve known each other and are all in active crisis’ #‘now you’ve stood by someone else’s right to a boundary I don’t think is reasonable and I’m gonna send you a letter that seems #specially designed to tear your heart out using all the things I’ve known about you and I’m never gonna talk to you again’ #‘bye forever’ #but also it’s been two years rafi get over it I guess #I wasn’t the only person they stopped talking to suddenly around then #I dunno if they ever figured out what had changed. I don’t think it’s that all their friends and loved ones secretly sucked. #I hope they’re all okay. #hope they’re doing better. #hope they’re safe.

[terrainofheartfelt]

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#i need to be childish and rant some more about this thing #i talked to a mutual friend — the poet of our group— and she advised me to repair things with this friend i had a Thing with last week #and the adult intellectual side of me who has a modicum of emotional intelligence knows she’s right #i know it #but GOD. does anyone else feel like their well of grace is running dry? #the thing about being The Good Kid is that I am always reaching first #it always falls to me #and like god I can’t remember the last time someone has reached for me. because I am worth the effort of repair #and I am TIRED. and I just want to be wanted as a friend for a goddamn second #going to be litigious on my own tumblr blog for a minute #because I am the wronged party here. she was the one who leapt at me #and honestly made me feel like she thought so little of me. after all the years we’ve known each other #i was open and vulnerable with her through a really hard fucking time for me #and I didn’t think she would ever use it as ammo against me but she DID #so why does the repair have to fall to ME #and I know — I know that sitting and waiting for her to talk first is childish and I could be waiting for a long long time #i know that is ultimately unproductive and doesn’t get anyone anywhere #(just like i know this friend is working through some deep deep shit) #(and my shit is lesser) #i know all this AND YET #I want to be petulant and pathetic because I never get to let the line down ever and I’m exhausted is everyone else exhausted #but it’s also like. this friendship this group is for fucking life and i really mean that #i am just—— UGH #anyway this is the anguish occupying my brain this wed evening #also i am afraid to reach out because what if i inadvertently hurt her and what if #what if reaching out only gives her an opening to hurt me again?

[clarabowmp3]

omg also I have so much tea (?) to spill online cuz I can’t do it irl 😭😭😭

#okay SO #i have this long time friend from sec school #Like we’ve known each other 6+ years now and she’s rlly nice and fun #We were much closer abt 4-5 years back when we were in the same class #But other than that we were still kind of close cuz we stay like a block from each other + we shared a class all 4 years of sec school #So now that we’ve graduated from jc we went out etc and and it’s been so fun BUT #she met this guy on discord thru a server and they had/are still having some weird situationship thing #And at first I didn’t mind her telling me abt it etc but I mighttt be a lil tired of hearing abt it #I FEEL SO BAD she’s literally done nothing wrong but idk how to express how im feeling w/out seeming like im NOT 100% supportive of her yk #Like she also had a pick me phase (we were 14 when ELSE were we going to have that phase) and has always struggled a lil w emptions/affecti #Part of which has to do w her parents so also understandable #But I find myself feeling soooo annoyed now #Like recently she texted me that she texted him that she was taking a sm break which was true but now she misses him #And she was like omg I want to turn off my feelings 😭😭😭 #It makes me feel JSNXKLDLS girllll what r u doing #grow a backbone?? #Maybe it’s also cuz I totally don’t understand what she sees in that guy #Omg I could make a whole other post abt how MEDIOCRE he is jkskdn #but atp im starting to miss her pick me era 😭😭😭 and I feel SO BAD it’s smth I’ve had all my life #I will dislike ppl who I find annoying even when they literally did nothing and are living their best life #KILL ME #it’s okay I’m so normal abt this hehe