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no multi option, agonize and choose, no results option, pick one to find out or scroll onward

#i read miracle of inconvenience and i was really confused 💀 #anyway that brush would be a lifesaver omg can you imagine never having to wash your hair 😭

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So we all know that Tumblr is US-centric. But to what degree? (and can we skew the results of this poll by posting it at a time where they should be asleep?)

Reblog to increase sample size!

#no <3

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#prev that's how i just pronounced it 😭

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Hello! I saw your post from a whole ago about noise sensitivity but can't leave a comment so thought I'd send an ask instead. I totally relate to how you feel - I also find mouth/throat sounds unbearable to the point I have to leave a room or will end up crying.

Have you heard of misophonia before?

It's not technically a recognised condition but it definitely describes our intense reactions to certain sounds. You're definitely not alone and I know first-hand how upsetting it is to be triggered by such innocuous noises and have people think you're overreacting and not understand.

In terms of suggestions on how to help, I mostly use loop earplugs but have also found noise cancelling headphones helpful (ones with an ANC feature). If things get really bad, I often double them up 😅

Another suggestion is playing white noise through headphones or even out loud. I like brown noise as it's a lower frequency, but I find any repetitive noise like that can help make other sounds less noticeable and drown them out a bit. It also means you can still speak to people without being distracted or not hearing them, but other noises just aren't as intense.

Sorry for the very long message but thought I'd share my experiences just on the chance it could help you 💖

anon dear, it is SO sweet of you to take the time to message me about this, thank you!! 🫶

i completely feel you, sometimes it gets so intense that i do end up crying.. which i'm really ashamed of so it's like twice as bad :( it's really nice knowing that i'm at least not alone <3

i have heard about misophonia yes! i think i actually discovered it through loop (which i also have been using for a few months!) so yeah, i do know a little bit about this condition! as far as i know there aren't a lot of things that can help us, that's why i asked for some advice :/ i thought maybe someone knows something that i don't and i was right! 😊

the earplugs have been a huge help but the thing is, sometimes i simply forget to put them in and if someone starts talking to me while they are eating the damage is done. and wearing them all day can be uncomfortable.

i mostly want to try refocusing my attention when i start hearing those triggering sounds (i think that would be the most helpful in the long run) so i'm definitely gonna try listening to white/brown noise! i find that listening to repetitive sounds can help soothe my anxiety so i think this could actually help a lot!

thank you so much for your advice and for sharing your experience i truly appreciate it!! 🥰💕

#i hope you have a lovely day!! <33 and thank you for letting me know that you couldn't reply to my post i was not aware 😅 #anonymous #answered

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Absolutely AMAZING response by Watcher imo.

They acknowledged that they made a mistake, made the wider context more clear, and addressed basically all of the criticisms brought forward by the community as far as I know.

Anyone who already subscribed to the streaming service who no longer wants it gets a refund.

Patrons get a free subscription to the streaming service.

The service now only offers early, ad-free episodes that will still be released on YouTube.

They acknowledged the insensitivity of the original pitch and how the price is not something that everyone can afford.

THIS is how you respond to backlash, especially this widespread. Take time to collect your thoughts, take the criticism into account, and change your actions going forward.

Great job Watcher 👏

#nice! so can you guys stop being parasocial freaks now or

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#the fact that i almost always get s/uicidal when im getting my period should be.. concerning. ig. #lol. lmao even #🥴🤪✌️😐 #anyway im just not feeling the best these days #and i know that i wouldnt feel much better if i had a job but. id at least have a job u know? well #whatever #personal

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Ugh sorry I need to be pathetic for a moment lol. No matter where I am in life I always feel completely alone and excluded. No matter how hard I try to make friends, get to know people or even just.. make acquaintances. Even on this godforsaken site which is ridiculous but true nonetheless. I try to reach out, I try to talk to people or even just tag mutuals in my gifsets and idk if this is just my overthinking (it probably is tbf) but it doesn't feel enough and it certainly doesn't get me anywhere. I truly feel unwanted and unwelcome in every space I find myself in. I'm not good enough anywhere for anyone. And you could say that everyone has their own thing going on and it's not my fault but I've been feeling this way for years. And I do really try!! Yet I see so many people being popular without trying. Actually it's not even that I want to be popular. But the way I try to interact with people to only get disinterest in response is really disheartening. So it must be my fault right? Yeah anyway. Idk. I'm afraid I'm always gonna feel like that little girl in school completely alienated from the group of popular girls. Even if they aren't necessarily mocking her. She just doesn't belong there. She doesn't belong anywhere.

#idk idk idk im just in my head rn #that web weaving about loneliess? yeah thats the vibe today #with that said. i'm logging off again. bye <3

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watcher leaving youtube... for a streaming service????

#i think it's safe to say that the majority of their fanbase are from unsolved #so ghost/mystery files are the most popular shows #how can they expect people to pay monthly for two or three shows.. #also im pretty sure that a huge chunk of their audience are broke students (or just broke in general lol) and basically just. really young #either way this is truly gonna bite them in the ass imo #and yall can talk about us not wanting to support artists.. there are better ways for that!! this is not it #watcher

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Apparently they are gonna leave their old content up and upload the first few episodes of all future seasons to YouTube:

watcher deciding to make all their content behind a paywall and no longer accessible through Youtube is insane considering 80% of their audience are tumblr users. we are not fans of streaming services at all

#but yeah i dont really know how i feel about this #on one hand i get why they are doing this on the other im not sure how many people are gonna pay for an other streaming service #so yeah idk but this feels a bit icky #watcher #not me coming back here because of this lmao

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Someone's feeling great 🥰😸

#cats #animals #personal

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reblog to bonk prev with yr forehead like a cat

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🤍❄️⛄️🪞

#photography #q

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“It’s a dangerous business, Frodo, going out your door. You step onto the road, and if you don’t keep your feet, there’s no knowing where you might be swept off to.”

#lord of the rings #movies #q

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AVATAR: THE LAST AIRBENDER 3x13 ➢ The Firebending Masters

#atla #q

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Another prophecy fulfilled…

#art #🥺 #q

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Analogues I took at Versailles last Summer

#photography #q